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    The Sunday Read: ‘The Emily Ratajkowski You’ll Never See’

    enDecember 05, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Exploring the complexities of Emily Ratajkowski's career as a model and writerRatajkowski challenges societal perceptions of beauty and intelligence as a successful model and writer, reflecting on her experiences and relationship with her body in her book 'My Body'.

      Learning from Andrea Long Chu's profile of Emily Ratajkowski is that the model and influencer's career, which includes being a writer, challenges societal perceptions of beauty and intelligence. Despite being famous for her physical appearance and having millions of followers on Instagram, Ratajkowski is also a thoughtful and introspective person. Chu's profile explores the complexities of Ratajkowski's experiences as a model and writer, and the challenges she faces in being taken seriously as an intellectual. Ratajkowski's book, "My Body," reflects on her relationship with her body and the images of herself that have defined her life and career. The profile also touches on the issue of consent, as Ratajkowski discusses her experiences with sexual assault and how her book was published without her initial plans. Overall, the profile challenges the notion that attractive women cannot be intelligent and thoughtful individuals.

    • Radikowski's memoir as a means to regain controlRadikowski's memoir explores her complex journey in the modeling industry, seeking authentic recognition and respect, while acknowledging the challenges of overexposure and loss of privacy.

      Radikowski's memoir, "My Body," serves as a means for her to regain control of her image and narrative in the modeling industry. However, publishing the book means releasing another piece of herself to the world, which comes with the constant fear of overexposure and loss of privacy. Radikowski is not a victim or a collaborator, but rather a complex individual navigating the male-dominated industry and societal expectations. She is simply a girl, asking for authentic recognition and respect from her followers. Despite the challenges, Radikowski finds solace in the desire for self-reflection and the mysteries of the natural world, reminding us of the limitations of photography and the importance of introspection. Ultimately, the memoir is a testament to Radikowski's resilience and her quest for authentic self-expression.

    • Exploring privacy and self-worth through unique experiencesPrivacy, self-worth, and control over one's image are crucial elements of individual identity, as explored in the relationship between Radakowski and the author through their Polaroid exercise and Radakowski's personal experiences and career in modeling and music.

      The concept of privacy and self-worth through unique experiences is explored in the relationship between Radakowski and the author. They engage in an exercise of taking Polaroids of themselves without sharing them, focusing on the experience and emotions. Radakowski's upbringing in an artistically eccentric household, filled with intrusions of privacy and pressure to be beautiful, shaped her understanding of her body and self-worth. Her modeling career further blurred the lines between privacy and public image. The controversy surrounding the music video for "Blurred Lines" catapulted her into international fame, making her body and the politics surrounding it a topic of global discussion. Through this exploration, it is clear that privacy, self-worth, and the ability to control one's own image are essential components of individual identity.

    • The complexities of objectification for women in entertainmentWomen in entertainment face the challenge of balancing objectification with empowerment, and recognizing the importance of agency and self-empowerment is key to overcoming it.

      The objectification of women, whether it leads to financial gain or not, can be a complex and problematic experience. Emily Radakowski's career as a model and actress has been shaped by male attention, but she also recognizes that the expectation for famous women to justify their beauty and sexuality politically can be exhausting. The blurred lines between empowerment and objectification can be hard to define, and the experience of becoming an object for pay is not unique to women in the entertainment industry. Radakowski's experiences of sexual violence and harassment, which she details in her book, highlight the ways in which women's bodies can be exploited and violated. Ultimately, Radakowski's realization that focusing on something other than the male gaze is the best way to overcome it, speaks to the importance of agency and self-empowerment in the face of objectification.

    • Reclaiming control over her own imageEmily Ratajkowski refuses to be a victim, instead using her platform to challenge societal norms and reappropriate her image, selling an NFT of herself as an act of empowerment.

      Emily Ratajkowski rejects the label of victim and instead focuses on creating and reclaiming control over her own image. She has faced traumatic experiences, but refuses to take legal action against those who have hurt her. Instead, she uses her platform to challenge societal norms and sells an NFT of herself to reappropriate her image. Radakowski also criticizes the competitive nature of feminism and the obsession with conventional beauty standards. She imagines a beauty that transcends male taste and desires, and recalls her admiration for a cool girl named Sadie when she was 15. Overall, Ratajkowski's memoir, "My Body," showcases her resilience and determination to redefine her own identity beyond the male gaze.

    • The complex dynamics of power and desire in 'Blow Up'Michelangelo Antonioni's 'Blow Up' explores the blurred lines between admiration, attraction, and exploitation in the film industry through the experiences of a model and the ambiguities of female desire and homoeroticism.

      The dynamics of power and desire in the film industry, as depicted in Michelangelo Antonioni's "Blow Up," are complex and multifaceted. Radakowski's experience as a model and her reflections on the film reveal the blurred lines between admiration, attraction, and exploitation. The male gaze, while a dominant force, does not have complete control over what it sees, and the roles of women in the industry are not always clearly defined. Radakowski's friendship with Sadie also challenges the notion of homoeroticism and the boundaries of female desire. Ultimately, the complexities of these relationships and the ambiguities of the images they create are a reminder that photographs, like life, are full of mysteries waiting to be unraveled.

    • Women using male desire as a tool for connectionIn 'The Unbearable Lightness of Being', women use male gaze to connect, exploring power dynamics, jealousy, and role-playing. Women can use male attention to understand desires and relationships with each other, highlighting the importance of female bonds.

      Heterosexual male desire can serve as a tool for women to connect with each other. This concept is explored in the film "The Unbearable Lightness of Being," where two women, Teresa and Sabina, use a camera to experiment with the male gaze and challenge each other. Radakowski, the author, draws parallels between this scene and her own experiences, suggesting that women can use male attention as a means to explore their own desires and relationships with one another. The scene between Teresa and Sabina is characterized by power dynamics, jealousy, and role-playing, ultimately resulting in a shared understanding and laughter. In the author's own experience, she plans to destroy the Polaroids taken for this article, highlighting the private and personal nature of these images. The concept of women using male desire as a tool for connection is a complex and nuanced one, but it underscores the importance of female relationships and the various ways they can manifest.

    • Intimate Moments in a Public WorldUnique moments of vulnerability and connection create authenticity and intimacy in a world dominated by public perception

      Key takeaway from this story is the value of unique and intimate moments in an increasingly public world. Emily Ratajkowski and Radakowski share a moment of vulnerability and connection through taking each other's photographs with a vintage Polaroid camera. The resulting images, which are different from the thousands of public images of Ratajkowski, hold a special significance for both women. These moments, like a handshake or a hug, create a sense of intimacy and authenticity that can get lost in the sea of public perception. Despite the importance of these moments, Ratajkowski acknowledges that the real her may get lost in the public discourse, but the private moments shared with others, like the Polaroids, remain real and meaningful.

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