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    This New Year - Slow Down, It Doesn't Mean You're Lazy

    en-usDecember 31, 2021

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    • Embrace doing nothing and self-acceptanceAllow yourself to relax and be lovable, reframe thinking towards self-acceptance, and broaden perspectives through stories like Dump Truck the chinchilla

      We should embrace the importance of doing nothing and allow ourselves to exist without the need to constantly produce or earn our worth, just like we do for animals. The BBC encourages us to broaden our perspectives through their stories, while Equinix helps businesses bring their digital dreams to life. Devon Price, a social psychologist, challenges the notion of laziness and encourages us to reframe our thinking towards self-acceptance. So, take a cue from Dump Truck, the unproductive chinchilla, and give yourself permission to relax and be lovable just as you are.

    • Rethinking Laziness: Embracing Rest for Better Well-beingEmbrace rest and self-care, recognizing that worth isn't tied to productivity. Listen to your body's signals for rest and advocate for reasonable workloads.

      Viewing laziness as a deficit and equating our worth with productivity can be harmful. Instead, laziness can be seen as a sign that we need a break. Our bodies and minds give us signals when they need rest, but we often ignore them due to societal pressure to be productive. Devin, from the LIFE KIT podcast, encourages us to listen to these signals and prioritize self-care. It's essential to recognize that everyone is worthy and valid just as a living, breathing human animal, regardless of productivity levels. Additionally, not everyone has control over their work hours or pace, making it crucial to advocate for reasonable workloads and prioritize self-care whenever possible. In essence, rethinking laziness and embracing the importance of rest can lead to improved overall well-being.

    • Perception of laziness rooted in societal structures, not individual failingsRecognize that the perception of laziness often stems from systemic issues, not individual shortcomings, and advocate for change through collective action.

      The perception of laziness is often used to blame individuals for their circumstances, particularly those facing mental health struggles or marginalized communities. However, the root cause of this issue lies in coercive work environments and societal structures that don't provide freedom, autonomy, or respect. Historically, the fear of laziness has been exploited to justify oppression and exploitation, but it also serves as an aspirational ideal. To address this issue, collective and community advocacy, such as unionizing and documenting problems, can be effective ways to bring about change. People labeled as lazy are often just responding to unfair situations and conserving energy. It's essential to recognize the systemic causes of this issue and work towards creating more equitable and supportive work environments.

    • The dangers of workaholism and isolationWorkaholism and isolation can lead to a self-defeating mindset, preventing us from asking for help or offering it to others. Recognizing and honoring emotions, including feelings of laziness, can help us identify misaligned values and create a more positive work environment.

      The relentless pursuit of hard work and productivity, while often praised, can lead to a self-defeating mindset of isolation and judgment towards others. This mindset can create a downward spiral of workaholism and can prevent us from asking for help or offering it to others. Instead, recognizing and honoring our emotions, including feelings of laziness, can help us identify when our values are out of alignment with our lives and allow us to make adjustments. By reframing laziness as a helpful signal, we can create a more positive work environment and build stronger connections with our colleagues. It's important to remember that our worth is not determined by our ability to work non-stop and that taking breaks and seeking support are essential for overall well-being.

    • Listen to your inner voice and clarify prioritiesReflect on values, set healthy boundaries, and question societal expectations to build authentic relationships and reclaim time and energy.

      It's essential to listen to our inner voice and prioritize what truly matters to us in life, rather than constantly striving to meet external expectations and social standards. This concept applies not only to professional overwork but also to emotional exertion in our relationships. Both situations can lead to a loss of boundaries and an unwinnable cycle of overcommitting and resentment. To clarify our values and fight the "laziness lie," we can try an exercise of reflecting on our priorities and setting healthy boundaries. By doing so, we can build more authentic relationships and reclaim our time and energy for what truly brings us pleasure and fulfillment. Remember, it's important to question societal standards that promote perfectionism and self-sacrifice, as they can be oppressive and unfair to everyone involved.

    • Reflecting on our values for fulfillmentIdentifying and focusing on core values can lead to greater motivation, joy, and satisfaction in life. Values Clarification exercise helps pinpoint what truly matters and guides decisions.

      Identifying and focusing on our core values can help us feel more motivated and fulfilled in life, rather than pushing ourselves towards accomplishments out of a sense of obligation or guilt. The Values Clarification exercise, which involves ranking and reflecting on different values, can help us pinpoint what truly matters most to us and guide our decisions. By trusting ourselves and focusing on activities that bring us joy and satisfaction, we can make time for what truly matters and live more authentic, rewarding lives. Remember, human nature tends to pull us towards things that engage and fulfill us, rather than requiring constant self-motivation or pushing against our natural inclinations. So, take some time to reflect on your own values and what brings you joy, and strive to prioritize those things in your daily life.

    • Insights from Journalism and BusinessNPR's digital editors discuss perspectives while BlackRock's CEO, Larry Fink, shares thoughts on market trends and solutions for challenges through The Bid podcast

      Our digital editors, Beck Harlan and Wynn Davis, bring insightful perspectives to NPR. Meanwhile, in the business world, BlackRock's CEO, Larry Fink, discusses the challenges investors face, including retirement, and how global capital markets can provide solutions. EasyCater, a sponsor of this podcast, offers food solutions for businesses, making it easier for companies to order food for meetings and events online with 24/7 live support. On The Bid, a BlackRock podcast, Fink shares his thoughts on market trends and the role of global capital markets in addressing various challenges. Listeners can gain valuable insights from BlackRock's thought leaders by tuning in and subscribing to The Bid. Overall, this podcast episode highlights the importance of informed perspectives in both journalism and business, and the role technology plays in facilitating access to valuable information.

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