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    Valentines, Vibrators & Vulvas

    enFebruary 05, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Enhance your summer pleasure with Promescent's productsPromescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel can help men and women last longer and add excitement during summer, while the Magic Wand offers powerful vibrations for solo or partnered play.

      Summer is the season of passion and pleasure, and Promescent's line of pleasure-enhancing products can help make the most of it. Their legendary delay spray helps men last longer, while their warming arousal gel for women adds an extra layer of excitement. The Magic Wand, an iconic sex toy, offers powerful vibrations for both solo and partnered play. Prioritizing pleasure, whether alone or with a partner, is essential, and Valentine's Day is an excellent opportunity to create romantic moments. To make the most of these tips, visit promescent.com/emily for a discount and sexwithemily.com/magicwand for more information on the Magic Wand.

    • Celebrating Self-Love and Self-Care on Valentine's DayValentine's Day is about more than romantic love, it's also about self-love and self-care. Whether single or in a relationship, focus on your own pleasure and well-being, deepen connections, and prioritize joy.

      Valentine's Day is not just about romantic love or being in a relationship, but also about self-love and self-care. Whether you're single or in a relationship, it's a day to focus on your own pleasure and well-being. If you're in a relationship, it's a chance to try new things together and deepen your connection. The pressure to make it perfect can be taken off by planning a shared experience and communicating openly with your partner. And if you're single, it's an opportunity to prioritize self-care and indulge in activities that bring you joy. Overall, Valentine's Day is a reminder to make time for love, whether it's for yourself or for someone else.

    • Create a romantic night inSet the mood, use sensory elements, try new things, communicate, plan for a memorable date night experience

      Planning a pleasurable and romantic experience for yourself or with a partner doesn't have to be complicated or expensive. You can create a special night in the comfort of your own home by setting the mood, using sensory elements like candles, food, and music, and trying new things together. Consider incorporating sex toys, massage, or bondage tape into your evening for an added element of excitement. Make it a night where you both share intimate experiences and enjoy each other's company. Remember, communication and planning are key to creating a memorable and pleasurable experience. Check out our gift guide for inspiration and ideas on how to make your next date night one to remember.

    • Explore sex toys for enhanced intimacy and pleasureIncorporating sex toys into your relationship can bring you closer together and enhance pleasure for both partners. Try shared experiences like the Jeju couple's kit or individual toys for personal growth and relaxation.

      Incorporating sex toys into your relationship can enhance intimacy and pleasure for both partners. Toys like Jeju's couple's kit, which includes a G spot vibe and cock ring, or the Arc Wave, designed for penis stimulation, can be shared experiences that bring you closer together. Other options like the Yarlap, which strengthens pelvic floor muscles, or the Playboy CBD bath bomb, which promotes relaxation, can be used individually for personal growth and pleasure. Remember, prioritizing pleasure and connection in your relationship is important, not just on Valentine's Day. Consider exploring these and other toys and experiences together throughout the year.

    • Balancing Enjoyment and HealthChoose healthier options when indulging, and prioritize personal growth and well-being in relationships.

      It's important to prioritize your health and well-being, even when it comes to enjoying your favorite foods. Hero bread offers a solution for those who love bread but want to minimize their carb intake, with net carb-free options that still deliver on taste and texture. Meanwhile, in a different context, a relationship expert advised that staying in a toxic and unfaithful relationship can be detrimental to one's mental and emotional health. It's crucial to focus on personal growth and seek support when dealing with difficult situations. In the case presented, the expert suggested that the woman consider prioritizing her own well-being and potentially ending the relationship.

    • Jessica's Toxic Relationship: Signs and ConsequencesRecognize manipulation, abuse, and deceit in relationships. Prioritize self-care and seek help when needed to break free from toxic relationships and attract healthier ones.

      Relationships based on manipulation, abuse, and deceit are not healthy or sustainable. Jessica's story is a classic example of a manipulative partner who used various tactics to control her, including cheating, limiting her social connections, and making her feel responsible for his actions. Despite these red flags, Jessica kept making excuses for him, but eventually realized that he would not change. It's essential for individuals, especially young ones, to recognize the signs of toxic relationships and take steps to remove themselves from such situations. The sooner one can distance themselves from an unhealthy relationship, the better they can focus on healing and attracting healthier partners in the future. Jessica's story serves as a reminder that it's okay to prioritize one's well-being and seek support from friends, family, or professionals when needed.

    • Exploring Self-Care and Personal Growth After Unhealthy RelationshipsJessica and Rich shared their experiences of prioritizing self-care and personal growth after unhealthy relationships. They emphasized the importance of learning from past experiences, making choices for emotional and physical well-being, and avoiding toxic patterns.

      It's important to prioritize personal growth and self-love, especially after experiencing unhealthy relationships. Jessica, who has been without a partner for three years, shared her desire to start fresh and become the woman she wants to be. Rich, on the other hand, discussed his exploration of new ways to enhance his pleasure through masturbation, discovering techniques like prostate stimulation and using more lube. Both conversations underscored the importance of self-care and making choices that promote physical and emotional well-being. Furthermore, the discussions highlighted the significance of learning from past experiences and not repeating toxic patterns. Jessica acknowledged that she didn't want her son to learn unhealthy behaviors from her relationships and was determined to make better choices moving forward. Similarly, Rich reflected on the importance of leaving a toxic ex-partner and embracing new experiences. Overall, the conversations emphasized the importance of self-love, personal growth, and making choices that promote healthy relationships and overall well-being.

    • Exploring sexuality through mindful masturbation and communicationMindful masturbation and open communication with your partner can lead to new discoveries and improved sexual experiences. Experiment with different techniques, use sex toys, and seek therapy for self-confidence and past relationship issues.

      Exploring your body and sexuality through mindful masturbation and open communication with your partner can lead to new discoveries and improved sexual experiences. The speaker praised a listener for his curiosity and willingness to try new things, and emphasized the importance of being mindful of our erogenous zones and experimenting with different techniques. She also recommended using sex toys like butt plugs and plenty of lubricant for anal sex. For those struggling with self-confidence and past relationship issues, she suggested seeking therapy to address limiting beliefs and working on personal growth before entering a new relationship. The speaker received a heartfelt email from a listener named Nicole, who shared her experience of a sexless marriage and the emotional toll it took on her self-confidence. She expressed her desire to overcome these issues and be in a healthy, happy relationship. The speaker offered her support and encouragement, emphasizing the importance of reflection, personal growth, and seeking professional help if needed.

    • Embracing vulnerability and self-confidencePractice self-affirmation, dating, and communication to build confidence, recognize individual desirability, and enjoy satisfying sexual encounters.

      Building self-confidence and putting oneself out there, even if it means facing insecurities and potential rejection, is essential for experiencing desirability and forming healthy relationships. The speaker encourages practicing self-affirmation and dating, as well as recognizing that everyone finds different things attractive and desirable. Furthermore, it's important to understand that wetness during sexual arousal is not always an indicator of readiness or arousal, and societal pressure to always be wet can cause unnecessary stress and embarrassment. Instead, focusing on enjoying the experience and communicating openly with partners can lead to more satisfying sexual encounters.

    • Understanding women's wetness levels and using lubricantEffective communication and education about women's changing wetness levels and the benefits of using lubricant can lead to more comfortable and enjoyable sex experiences.

      Women's wetness levels can change throughout their lives and menstrual cycles. This means that some times may require the use of lubricant for comfortable and enjoyable sex. Educating partners about this natural process and the benefits of using lubricant, such as reduced tearing and increased orgasms, can lead to better sexual experiences. Brands like Pure Lube and Muse Lube offer various types of lubricants for different occasions. Using lubricant is not a sign of a problem, but rather a tool to enhance pleasure and comfort. Remember, communication and education are key to a satisfying sex life.

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