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    What It's Really Like to be a Creator | Part 1

    en-usAugust 22, 2022
    What are the goals of the community discussed?
    What topics will the curriculum cover for creators?
    How often and for how long will meetings be held?
    What values does the group encourage among participants?
    What is the purpose of open communication in the group?

    Podcast Summary

    • A supportive community for content creatorsJoin a 8-week program to learn about burnout, toxicity, and the realities of content creation with weekly meetings, personal sharing, and group discussions.

      This community aims to provide a space for creators to discuss their experiences and the unique challenges they face, while also educating the audience and aspiring creators about the realities of content creation. The goal is to create a supportive environment where everyone can learn from each other and apply that knowledge in practical ways. The curriculum, developed by a background in education and clinical work, will touch on various topics relevant to content creators, such as burnout, toxicity, and the never-ending nature of content creation. Through sharing personal experiences, the community hopes to foster a sense of understanding and growth for all involved. Meetings will take place weekly for 90 minutes over the course of 8 weeks, with opportunities for interviews, group discussions, and personal sharing.

    • A supportive community for psychiatry professionalsParticipants value compassion, authenticity, and presence in a safe space for work-related discussions on mental health and illness.

      This group is a safe space for discussing work-related topics related to psychiatry, mental health, and mental illness, but it's not a place for personal therapeutic discussions or diagnoses. Participants are encouraged to protect each other's comfort and privacy, and everyone is responsible for their own change and the change of others in the group. The group values compassion, authenticity, and presence, and participants are asked to be authentic and compassionate, but not necessarily polite. The group will provide resources for clinical help if needed, but cannot guarantee finding a referral or treatment. It's important to remember that this is a group for professional growth and learning, and not a therapeutic session.

    • Challenging ourselves and each other with compassion and kindnessBe open to constructive feedback, create a judgement-free environment, encourage active participation, and welcome growth opportunities

      Being polite can sometimes hinder authentic communication and personal growth. It's essential to challenge ourselves and each other with compassion and kindness, even if it means looking inward and addressing our own blind spots. Groups can be valuable in facilitating this shared experience and learning, including conflict resolution skills. As the group facilitator, I acknowledge my imperfections and welcome constructive feedback. I entered this group with no preconceived notions and aim to create an inclusive and judgement-free environment where everyone feels safe to express themselves and learn together. I encourage questions and active participation, as they open doors for growth and understanding.

    • Importance of respectful communication and participation in a group settingOpen communication and respect for boundaries in a group setting can foster positive dynamics, provide valuable insights, and help individuals share their concerns.

      Participation and open communication in a group setting can make it easier for individuals to share their concerns and boundaries. In the given conversation, MetricSeconds was less likely to share a concern about going first if not prompted by Ruby's question. Both MetricSeconds and Allok demonstrated strong communication skills by asking questions and respecting each other's boundaries. During introductions, they shared their names, pronouns, streaming platforms, and reasons for becoming content creators, as well as the challenges they face. This open communication not only fostered a positive group dynamic but also provided valuable insights for viewers. Overall, the importance of respectful communication and participation in a group setting cannot be overstated.

    • Starting out as a content creator: Stories of Ruby and JoshBoth Ruby and Josh, despite facing challenges like anxiety, depression, and assumptions, emphasized the importance of staying true to oneself and continually learning and growing as content creators.

      Creating content, whether it be streaming on platforms like Twitch or producing videos, can be both rewarding and challenging. Ruby, a content creator with a background in meditation and wellness, shared her experience of starting out streaming games and later transitioning to meditation and yoga content. She mentioned how getting focused on metrics and growth led to anxiety and depression. Similarly, Josh, a content creator known for his time with OfflineTV and Riot Games, shared how giving up his engineering degree to pursue content creation led to various struggles, including dealing with people's assumptions that he was always fine. Both Ruby and Josh emphasized the importance of staying true to oneself and continually learning and growing, even when facing challenges. It's essential to remember that being a content creator comes with its unique set of struggles, such as dealing with metrics and assumptions, but it can also be a fulfilling and meaningful journey.

    • Pressure to meet expectations and fear of not living up to past successesContent creators, like Metric and Zelle, experience the pressure to meet their own and others' expectations and the fear of not living up to past successes, even after finding a community and building a name for themselves.

      Content creators, like Metric and Zelle, face the constant challenge of living up to their own and others' expectations, especially after experiencing success. Metric shared his journey into streaming due to social isolation and finding a community in gaming. He built a name for himself through deathless runs in Darkest Dungeon but struggled with what to do next and questioned his worth after the numbers dropped. Zelle shared her long-term dedication to StarCraft streaming and the sense of accomplishment she feels when she succeeds, but also the self-doubt and feelings of failure that come with it. Both creators grapple with the pressure to meet their own and others' expectations and the fear of not living up to past successes.

    • Learning effective communication and balanced participation for group successDuring the 8-week program, participants will learn communication skills to encourage balanced participation, ensuring everyone's input is valued. It's important to ask for contributions from quieter members and create a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing.

      Effective communication and balanced participation are crucial elements for a successful and inclusive group. During the 8-week program, participants will learn specific communication skills to help each other learn about themselves and bring information out. It's important for everyone to notice and encourage participation from all members, ensuring that everyone gets a fair share. If someone isn't contributing, ask them to participate and encourage them to contribute objectively. The group is collectively responsible for ensuring balanced participation. Additionally, participants shared various themes that resonated with them, such as finding a balance between corporate work and content creation, and the importance of creating content that brings happiness rather than just focusing on what brings numbers. Many people have felt the pressure to choose between following their passion and pursuing a traditional career. Overall, the group aims to provide a space for everyone to learn, grow, and share their experiences while ensuring that everyone has the opportunity to contribute and be heard.

    • The Power of Self-Affirmations and Questioning AmbiguityBe aware of self-affirmations that don't align with our beliefs and question ambiguous statements to expand our understanding, while respecting others' boundaries.

      The words we continually tell ourselves shape our beliefs, but sometimes we may not fully believe them and continue to affirm them out of desire. This can create a vicious cycle, especially in areas where we seek improvement, such as gaming. It's essential to be aware of this pattern and question why we're continually telling ourselves certain things. Another insight from the discussion was the importance of digging into ambiguity. When people make ambiguous statements, there's an opportunity to expand our understanding by asking questions. Politeness can sometimes hinder us from doing so, but it's crucial to respect people's boundaries while also being mindful of the group dynamics. Moreover, Ruby's experience as a healer shone through as she emphasized the importance of respecting people's boundaries and being sensitive to their emotions. The group acknowledged the challenges of balancing respect for others' boundaries with the desire to learn more. In summary, the discussion highlighted the power of self-affirmations, the importance of questioning ambiguous statements, and the delicate balance between respecting others' boundaries and seeking knowledge.

    • Addressing ambiguity and uncomfortable topicsImportance of creating inclusive spaces for sharing experiences and promoting diversity and inclusion in communities.

      The group recognized the importance of addressing ambiguity and exploring topics that may be uncomfortable, such as issues of representation and diversity in streaming communities. Metrc shared his personal experience of feeling like an outsider due to underrepresentation, which sparked a conversation about the need for greater inclusion and representation. Zelle's thoughtful questioning helped bring the issue to the surface, and the group acknowledged the importance of creating spaces where people feel comfortable sharing their experiences and perspectives. The conversation highlighted the need for ongoing dialogue and action to address issues of representation and promote diversity and inclusion in various communities.

    • Representation and inclusion in media and entertainmentLack of representation can lead to feelings of isolation, otherness, and impact self-esteem and sense of belonging. Recognize and challenge limiting stereotypes and biases to create space for authentic representation and inclusion.

      Representation and inclusion, especially in media and entertainment industries, are crucial for individuals to feel seen, understood, and valued. The lack of representation, particularly for people of color and minorities, can lead to feelings of isolation, otherness, and constant comparison to stereotypes or inaccurate portrayals. This can impact individuals' self-esteem and sense of belonging, and limit opportunities for authentic representation and expression. The discussion highlighted the experiences of Asian individuals, particularly men, who have faced these challenges in various aspects of life, including entertainment and beauty standards. It's essential to recognize and challenge the limiting stereotypes and biases that perpetuate exclusion and create space for authentic representation and inclusion.

    • Feeling Isolated as a Twitch Streamer: Dealing with Stereotypes and TrollsRespect each creator's uniqueness, don't make assumptions, and focus on content and community instead of engaging with trolls.

      Despite the large community on Twitch, it can still feel isolating for some individuals, especially those who are neurodivergent or face assumptions based on their identity. Ruby, a streamer, shared her experiences of feeling like an outsider due to being written off as an "e-girl" and dealing with unwanted sexualization of her content. She emphasized the importance of respecting each creator's uniqueness and not making assumptions about their intentions or content. Additionally, Ruby discussed the challenges of dealing with trolls and negative comments in her chat, and her approach of not engaging with them and focusing on her content and community instead. Overall, the conversation highlighted the complexities and challenges of being a streamer on Twitch, and the importance of creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for all creators and viewers.

    • Feeling Isolated in Niche CommunitiesStreamers in niche communities can feel lonely and disconnected, but the human connection found within these communities is valuable and essential.

      Feeling isolated or unsaturated in a specific community, whether it's a niche game like StarCraft or Toontown, can be a challenging experience for content creators. Ziragirl and others shared their feelings of loneliness and difficulty connecting with others who truly understand their passion. Despite the age and size of the communities, they all expressed the desire to meet and engage with like-minded individuals. The conversation between Zelle, Metrc, Ruby, and Ziragirl revealed a sense of empathy and understanding, highlighting the multifaceted nature of being a streamer and the tension between niche interests and broader appeal. The discussion also touched upon the importance of maintaining and fostering smaller communities, even as larger trends emerge. Ultimately, the conversation underscored the human connection that can be found in even the most specific and seemingly isolated communities.

    • Exploring experiences and emotions through effective communication and group dynamicsEffective communication and group dynamics foster understanding, empathy, and growth during discussions about adapting to changing circumstances in streaming.

      Effective communication and group dynamics are crucial for productive and engaging discussions. The speakers in this conversation demonstrated this through their open-ended questioning and active listening, allowing for a deep exploration of their shared experiences and emotions. The topic of adapting to changing circumstances in streaming was a common thread, with speakers sharing their personal experiences of dealing with the death of a game or the release of a half-finished sequel. Despite the awkwardness and fear of silence, they acknowledged its importance in giving space for others to contribute and in learning to be fully present. As content creators, they recognized the challenge of balancing the need to engage their audience with the value of embracing silence and uncertainty. Overall, this conversation highlights the power of group discussions in fostering understanding, empathy, and growth.

    • Embracing awkwardness in streamingStreaming can shape our behavior and impact relationships, but embracing awkward moments leads to growth. Stay true to authentic self while acknowledging trends and metrics for success.

      Streaming, as a profession, can condition individuals to behave in certain ways and impact various aspects of their lives, including interpersonal relationships and self-identity. This conditioning can lead to awkwardness and discomfort, but it's essential to embrace these moments as opportunities for growth. Another key theme that emerged from the discussion is the balance between staying true to one's authentic creative self and the metrics and numbers that come with content creation. The best content often stems from an authentic desire to create, but it's also crucial to acknowledge and engage with trends and metrics to be successful. The challenge lies in finding a balance between these two aspects. Ultimately, the discussion highlighted the importance of embracing awkwardness, staying true to oneself, and finding balance in the streaming world.

    • Authenticity sets content apartCreating authentic content resonates with viewers, but understanding metrics helps in growth. Balance passion and love with a professional approach.

      Authenticity is key in content creation. The reason content creation is growing is due to the appetite for genuine, unprocessed expressions. Authenticity sets it apart from other forms of entertainment which are often crafted, edited, and inflated. Content creators struggle with balancing authenticity and metrics, as the most authentic content often resonates with viewers, but understanding and catering to metrics helps in growth. The community's energy and engagement play a significant role in fostering authenticity and presence in content creation. Ultimately, the challenge lies in striking a balance between creating content for passion and love versus making it a 9-to-5 job.

    • Exploring the balance between authenticity and metricsThe group acknowledges the importance of authenticity but also recognizes the need for metrics to support growth. They discussed the group's dynamic and the lack of a clear objective, with some members finding it challenging. Zell shared his feedback, and the group considered different learning styles and the idea of uncovering deeper issues.

      Authenticity and following metrics each come with their own costs, and the group is open to exploring both perspectives. The group discussed the importance of authenticity but also acknowledged the need to consider metrics for growth. They also touched upon the group's dynamic and the lack of a clear objective, which some members found challenging. Zell shared his feedback, expressing confusion about the group's direction. The group acknowledged that different people have different learning styles, and the open format may be more comfortable for some than a structured curriculum. Additionally, they discussed the idea that people might come to the group with one problem, but the real issue could be something else, which is rooted in the unconscious or the "shadow" in psychology. Overall, the group is open to exploring these ideas further and figuring out how to make the most of their group coaching experience.

    • Exploring hidden challenges and understanding ourselvesEffective discussions help us identify and address hidden challenges, allowing for personal growth and authentic content creation. Understanding ourselves is crucial for making the right choices.

      Many of our problems stem from areas we're not aware of, which is why it's crucial to explore and understand ourselves before trying to solve issues. The open format of discussions, like the one we've had, is effective because it allows us to identify and address these hidden challenges. As content creators, we must learn about ourselves and grow as individuals to produce authentic and meaningful content. The process might be unconventional and uncomfortable, but it has proven to be highly effective. In medicine, a good diagnosis precedes good treatment, and the same principle applies here. By understanding who we are and what holds us back, we can make the right choices for ourselves. To help clarify identities, it may be beneficial to add labels or indicators during future streams. Additionally, feel free to share your streams' links and a brief description for those who may have missed the beginning.

    • Streamers from various backgrounds and interests share their experiences on TwitchTwitch is a diverse platform where streamers from different backgrounds and niches connect with their audiences, creating an authentic and welcoming community.

      Twitch is a vibrant and diverse community where streamers from various backgrounds and interests come together to engage with their audiences. Smurky, a LGBTQIA plus variety streamer, shared his experiences in ToonTowns and other activities, emphasizing the positive and authentic community on Twitch. Kathy, a StarCraft streamer, works full-time but still manages to stream occasionally. Xel, an anime and Magic the Gathering enthusiast, is gearing up for hardcore raiding in Final Fantasy 14 and talks about anime and Magic the Gathering on her channel. Ruby True creates sound baths, meditation, and mindfulness content using ASMR to help people relax and de-stress. The community is welcoming to neurodivergent individuals and those dealing with anxiety and depression. Ruby's channel is a place to chill out and fall asleep. The streamers expressed their gratitude for their audiences and looked forward to continuing their streams in the coming week.

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