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    Why You Need to Remove “I Wish” From Your Vocabulary

    enJune 08, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • Building for the long term and practicing self-awarenessGary Vaynerchuk emphasized the importance of patience, focusing on what makes us happy, and enjoying the process of growth and self-discovery, rather than rushing to acquire things or please everyone.

      Learning from this episode of the London Real Show featuring Gary Vaynerchuk from 2016 is the importance of building for the long term and practicing self-awareness. Gary emphasized that there's no rush to acquire things or please everyone, and encouraged young people to be patient and focus on what makes them happy. He also shared his own struggles with self-doubt and the desire to be a complex, paradoxical figure. Gary's advice may not be the most glamorous or get-rich-quick, but it's practical, tried-and-true wisdom that can benefit anyone at any age. He reminded listeners that when we're younger, we often underestimate what life will be like as we get older, and that it's important to enjoy the process of growth and self-discovery. Overall, this interview highlights Gary's unique perspective and his ability to provide valuable insights that go beyond the surface.

    • Focus on personal growth and making a differenceLearn your craft, be patient, and pursue passions for success, not material possessions or fleeting trends

      Success is not about keeping up with the bling and materialistic culture promoted by media, but rather about learning your craft, being patient, and focusing on your goals. The speaker emphasized the importance of historical accuracy and growing a legendary status, inspiring others with real advice and making a positive impact on the world. He shared his personal experience of realizing that material possessions are not necessary for happiness or success, and encouraged individuals to identify their passions and pursue them, regardless of financial resources. Ultimately, the speaker's message encourages individuals to focus on their personal growth and making a difference in the world, rather than chasing after fleeting trends and material wealth.

    • Learning from older people's regretsUnderstanding oneself and living authentically is crucial for happiness, not financial gains. Self-awareness is important but hard to teach. Greatness may be innate, and being a great employee can be financially wiser than entrepreneurship.

      Understanding oneself and living authentically is key to avoiding regret and finding happiness. The speaker shares his experience of learning from older people, who often express regret over missed opportunities rather than financial gains. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, although he admits he hasn't figured out how to teach it. The speaker also believes that greatness, such as entrepreneurship, is often innate and that being a great employee for a successful company can be a better financial decision than trying to go it alone. He references Gary Vaynerchuk and suggests that predicting his future greatness may be difficult. Overall, the speaker encourages people to be true to themselves and consider their unique strengths and talents when making life decisions.

    • Prioritize Family and Personal LifeSuccess in business should not come at the expense of family and personal well-being. Gary Vaynerchuk reminds us of the importance of prioritizing personal life even when things are going well in business.

      Gary Vaynerchuk, in his discussions, emphasizes the importance of prioritizing family and personal life over business. He acknowledges that he has been fortunate enough to have things go well for him in his career, but reminds us that life can be unpredictable and tragic events may require him to put his personal life first. He encourages listeners to remember that while business success is important, it should not come at the expense of family and personal well-being. He also reminded us of his recent venture, Empathy Wines, which is important to him.

    • Asking for Community SupportBuilding a strong community and offering value to its members can help overcome challenges and make a meaningful impact.

      Even in the face of a daunting project, it's important to reach out to the community for support. The speaker, who is embarking on a major project, acknowledges that it's a big undertaking and that they need help selling a large quantity of wine. They ask for the audience's assistance by encouraging them to visit empathywines.com and sign up for various offerings, including a 3-pack or the Club Empathy membership. The Club Empathy membership not only provides a case of wine each month but also offers additional perks like wine recommendations and assistance with planning wine trips. The speaker emphasizes the significance of the community's support in helping them succeed in their project. By asking for help and offering valuable benefits in return, the speaker effectively engages their audience and creates a sense of connection and shared purpose. In essence, the takeaway is that no one achieves great things alone, and by building a strong community and offering value to its members, one can overcome challenges and make a meaningful impact.

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