Secrets with Kate McGwire

Helping him realize that he can't live without you doesn't work. You can't create light bulb moments for him, no matter how hard you try. 

Dating can be easier to navigate if your eyes are open. I choose to date with my eyes shut and my head in the sand for way too long! 

Our married friends constantly ask, "Why can't you just meet someone?" I would if you can tell me where he is! Are they hiding? Is there a secret stash of available men somewhere? Tell me! 

This is not a podcast about abstinence so let's get it out there. It's time to have the sex talk! Is it like a fine wine and only gets better with age or does it only complicate the already complicated world of dating over 35? 

Dating in your 30s and 40s can feel scarce. So what's the harm with filling in the meantime with a warm body? 

I wanted to date a tiger. I kept dating cubs. Then I learned when to be the boss and when to be the babe!

He didn't lose your number. He didn't lose his phone. He's not on a rocket to Mars with no cell service. You got ghosted! And so did I!

Play it cool. Show no emotion. Don't create a scene. Have zero expectations... that is bad dating advice that I, unfortunately, listened to. 

Being single and feeling like your window to have a baby is closing is painful! I dedicate this episode to you. Kristen Burris aka The Baby Maker works miracles all over the country. She helps couples who are struggling to conceive AND she also helps single people increase their fertility and keep that window open longer. Knowledge is power, find yours here. Plus learn about at-home tests to give you all the answers you need! 

The first 2 months of a new relationship are magical. So spellbinding that I was blind to the rest of the story. 

I finally caved in after 20 years of existence and created an online dating profile. Then I went on an online speed dating mission that was just plain comical! 

It took me 25 years of dating before I finally met my person. And now I understand why it took so long! Let me introduce to you the man of my dreams who is now my reality. 

Dating is a game. I was horrible at this game. I was playing the hokey pokey without any direction!

Moving on from Mr. Toxic was tough but it got easier for me when I found a new distraction.

There's the one that got away...and then there's the one that makes you cringe. 

One of my many heartbreaks came from not listening and ignoring the red flags. It's a painful way to learn a lesson but the message was loud and clear once I chose to hear it!

The story behind the story of what literally moved me to Boise, Idaho. It wasn't by choice but it was a life-changing move that I'm so grateful for!

My journey to love started with me falling for the bad boy and one unforgettable high school romance!

I didn't just wake up one day as a 40-something engaged woman with a baby. This was 25 years in the making! Listen and learn why I decided to bring my past dating life out of the vault.  

After dating for 25 years, I have lots of secrets to share! The good, the bad and the ugly all got me to the man of my dreams. Don't give up on love! In the meantime, laugh at all the crazy things that happened in my dating life.