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    Sh*t They Never Told You Podcast

    It's the Shit They Never Told You podcast! Sometimes the best teacher isn't reddit or an advice column: it's just life itself. Faith James and Anthony Le are two millennials on the struggle to find new passions, independence, love, mental health and all the other things that #adulting covers. We interview people who've had some of life's most confusing, challenging, exciting and hilarious experiences, and lived to tell all.
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    Episodes (23)

    Episode 23: Corona Engagements, Marriage, House Hunting

    Episode 23: Corona Engagements, Marriage, House Hunting

    After a long break, Faith and Anthony are joined by their partners Ashley Jaye Williams (Anth's wife) and Keith Doyle (Faith's fiancé) for a fun recap of the many life changes they've experienced during the pandemic including engagements, marriage, house buying, wedding planning, moving states, plans for having children, and their creative outlets plus mental health approaches. They leave no stone unturned, including ultimately convincing Faith to get a dog and Anthony and Ashley to move to PGH (hehe).

    You can also listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Stitcher or iHeartRadio too.

    Episode 22 - First Dates with Lauren West-Livingston, Ph.D., M.S.L.

    Episode 22 - First Dates with Lauren West-Livingston, Ph.D., M.S.L.

    In early May, Faith and Anthony chatted with Faith's childhood friend Lauren West-Livingston about first dates. Specifically, Lauren shares her rather "bad" first date with her now partner and co-parent Donovan, and how they went from almost never speaking again to growing their family nearly a decade later. The group talks ways to determine if a bad date = game over, suggestions for first dates, experiences with their partners after their first few dates, and quarantine dating advice.

    Episode 21 - First Performance

    Episode 21 - First Performance

    Faith and Anthony interview Joey Bailey and return guest Ashley Blue for their first Zoom episode during quar (self isolation/stay at home). Anthony, Ashley and Joey are members of the band Ice Cream Quarantine, and they discuss their first performances, including Faith's first time doing stand up. The group shares lessons learned, performance prep, and their plans for the future. The Dew Drop Inn open mic in early March was most of their first performances, and it holds a special place in their hearts <3.

    Episode 20 - Photography

    Episode 20 - Photography

    Faith and Anthony sit down with their friends and photographers, Ashley Blue and Crystal Borde. They answer questions about their experiences, technical elements, important societal elements involved with being a photographer, the subjectivity of photos, and lessons learned along the way. The gang closes out with their general "shit they never told you", including Faith divulging her experiences on the Adam Carolla Show - a mortifying first call and advice from the hosts that she refers to for inspiration.

    Episode 19 - Moving in With Your Significant Other

    Episode 19 - Moving in With Your Significant Other

    Faith and Anthony go guest-less for a fun conversation about moving in with your significant other. They discuss when and why they decided to take that "next step" in their relationships, the apartment search process, how they stay sane living with their partner, pet peeves, mutual interests, and more. They also share advice from friends of the pod Anna, Larissa, and Phoebe (#thefarttest). Laughing harder than they have in a while, you'll have as much fun listening as they did recording!

    Episode 18 - Access to Abortion with Sofija Jovik

    Episode 18 - Access to Abortion with Sofija Jovik

    Faith and Anthony interview the delightful Sofija Jovik, volunteer with the DC Abortion Fund, a nonprofit that makes grants to pregnant people in the DC area who cannot afford the full cost of an abortion. We discuss the cost of abortion, how the fund functions and works with clinics and other funds like the National Abortion Federation, and why Sofija became involved. The group touches on state-specific legislation designed to deny access to abortion care and the new Supreme Court order, undue burden, pregnancy timelines, Romania and China's reproductive restrictions, our country’s failure to set up women to excel when it comes to reproduction, and the correlation between access to sex education and contraceptives and the lowering abortion rates. Faith and Sofija have a great time interviewing Anthony on his “male perspective” then the group closes out with their latest “shit they were never told.”

    Episode 17 - Gay and Lesbian Online Dating

    Episode 17 - Gay and Lesbian Online Dating

    Anthony and Faith sit down with Mary and Shelly from the Latter Day Lesbian Podcast, and the awesome Kevin Belanger, to discuss their experiences online dating as members of the lesbian and gay communities. From Shelly's journey as an ex-Mormon coming out of the closet and meeting Mary on Match.com, to Kevin's experiences online dating after his mom's success with eHarmony in 2005, the group laughs and chats about first dates, platform pros and cons, online dating as a safe space, advice for dating online, their "shit they never told you", general life advice, and much more!

    Episode 16 - Digital Influencers with Ashley Jaye Williams

    Episode 16 - Digital Influencers with Ashley Jaye Williams

    Faith and Anthony sit down with friend of the pod and DC-based artist Ashley Jaye Williams to chat about the wild wild west of "digital influencers" and people of "influence". From preteens faking sponsorships to the disastrous Fyre Festival, the group leaves no stone unturned. They discuss influencers they follow and why, trends of "faking it" from our childhoods, Jameela Jamil vs. the Kardashians, Miley Cyrus on Black Mirror, Lindsay Lohan's attempted kidnapping, Britney Spears and the #FreeBritney movement, plus recent shit the group learned this summer.

    Episode 15 - Wedding Planning with Elaine de Leon and Joe LaCroix

    Episode 15 - Wedding Planning with Elaine de Leon and Joe LaCroix

    Faith and Anthony sit down with Elaine de Leon and Joe LaCroix to discuss all things wedding planning. Elaine and Joe answer MANY questions including their spousal roles in the planning process, their wedding goals, the costliest element, their take on the wedding industrial complex, their favorite part of their wedding, and of course, shit they were never told but learned on their own. The group also discusses wedding guest etiquette, so no worries if marriage isn't in your future - this episode will still be enjoyable ;) 

    Episode 14 - Brewing Beer with Rob Fink Part 2

    Episode 14 - Brewing Beer with Rob Fink Part 2

    In Part 2 of our discussion with Jailbreak Brewing Co.'s Rob Fink, the group tastes his new beer while they chat about the evolution of beer styles and flavors, the power of marketing, the process for creating descriptions and label art, "thinking" vs. "drinking" beers, minority representation in the industry and proactive ways to make it more inclusive, and awesome podcasts to follow. After a couple hours of sipping, Rob share his "shit they never told him" about being a brewer.

    Episode 13 - Brewing Beer with Rob Fink Part 1

    Episode 13 - Brewing Beer with Rob Fink Part 1

    Faith and Anthony sit down with local DMV brewer Rob Fink to talk about all things beer. Rob's wife and our friend of the pod Kate Fink (you'll remember her from Episode 3 - Rob is her internet man!) joins us and shares some insights as a brewer's wife and fellow beer lover. We have fun quizzing Rob on the history of beer and the brewing process, then we dive into the positives and negatives of craft breweries "selling out". Our conversation was so wonderful that we had enough content for 2 episodes, so enjoy Part 1 and stay tuned for Part 2! Oh and we enjoy a tasting throughout, so we're a little tipsy.

    Episode 12 - Being a First-Time Dog Parent with Angela Rizzi

    Episode 12 - Being a First-Time Dog Parent with Angela Rizzi

    Faith sits down with her bff Angela Rizzi + a box of wine to talk about being a first-time dog mom. Angela did NOT want a dog so she shares how she ended up becoming one as well as tales of training her "son" Bandit (who decides to be pretty reckless throughout the episode - she and I felt the instances were too funny to cut). After sharing some stories about her journey including when Bandit hopped their fence, Angela offers some advice to prospective dog moms. If you want to adopt a dog or just need a laugh, this episode is for you!

    Episode 10 - Being a Broadcast Journalist with Stephanie Dukes and Sangeetha Sarma

    Episode 10 - Being a Broadcast Journalist with Stephanie Dukes and Sangeetha Sarma

    Faith and Anthony chat with Stephanie Dukes and Sangeetha Sarma about their prior lives as broadcast journalists. Stephanie and Sangeetha share why they went into the field and the reasons they ultimately changed paths, as well as things to consider if you're aiming to have a career in journalism. The group also discusses the current state of broadcast news and how they hope it evolves both nationally and locally. We also hear about a stalker situation (v upsetting!), and working with Olivia Munn! (when she was Lisa Munn, the intern).

    Episode 9 - Getting Out the Vote with Sarah Sonies

    Episode 9 - Getting Out the Vote with Sarah Sonies

    Faith and Anthony chat with their friend Sarah Sonies about her efforts to get out the vote. Sarah answers their questions about why the midterms are important and her experiences canvassing, including how she got involved, what she's learned overtime, and how you can find volunteer opportunities to get people to the polls.

    This weekend is #TheLAstWeekend to help get out the vote on November 6 - visit www.mobilizeamerica.io to find ways to get involved!

    Episode 8 - Being an Artist: Live from Petworth Arts Collaborative's First Friday

    Episode 8 - Being an Artist: Live from Petworth Arts Collaborative's First Friday

    Faith and Anthony sit down with local DC artists during Petworth Art Collaborative's September First Friday. Faith interviews Anthony alongside fellow creatives Ashley Jay Williams, Sara Herrera, Maria Mandle, and Christopher Stevens. The group dives into inspirations behind their art and creativity, golden rules to live by, and of course, shit they were never told along their journeys as artists. We also take a question from the crowd - live recordings rock!

    Thank you to Ashley Blue, Petworth Arts Collaborative, and Four Brothers LLC for hosting us, and to everyone who supported this episode!

    Episode 7 - Starting Your Own Business with Sarah Anderson

    Episode 7 - Starting Your Own Business with Sarah Anderson

    Faith and Anthony chat with Sarah Anderson about starting her own business, Lillie Leaf Solutions. Sarah shares all she's learned along her journey, including developing an entrepreneurial mindset, pinpointing your value, and maintaining your "ball of light". 

    Visit Lillie Leaf's website to learn more about Sarah's work to help national urban greening stakeholders develop new ways of addressing equity, access, inclusion, and justice.

    Episode 5 - First Job Part Two with Avery Share

    Episode 5 - First Job Part Two with Avery Share

    Faith and Anthony chat with new STNTY team member, Avery Share! The gang discusses their first full-time jobs, including their experiences starting out as "real adults". Avery also shares what she's learned in hopes of helping people who find themselves in difficult job situations. The show ends with additional work tips they've found helpful overtime.

    Special thanks to Chris Ford for his audio engineering skills!