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SHINING WITH ADHD 

EPISODE #127: Competition to Cooperation: Siblings and ADHD with Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart

The Childhood Collective

9/20/2023

SUMMARY

“I want to pick the show!” 

“I want to sit by Mom!” 

“Leave me alone!”

The sibling struggle is real and can be exhausting for parents and caregivers. Trying to operate as a mediator between your kids gets old very quickly. We know that having a child or two in the home with ADHD only intensifies the inevitable conflict. In this episode, we interview Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart, a standout in pediatric psychology, about navigating developmental sibling conflict. We hope to help your kids move from competition to cooperation. 

MEET DR. ANN-LOUISE

Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart is a business owner of A New Day Pediatric Psychology in San Antonio, TX. She is a pediatric psychologist, parent coach, wife of 24 years, a mom of 11 and 13-year-olds, and has over 17 years of experience in her field.

She serves as a parent coach for parents who have kids and teens with behavioral and emotional regulation concerns, those diagnosed with ADHD and anxiety, as well as kids who are highly sensitive. She focuses on helping parents adjust their mindset about parenting. Dr. Lockhart helps overwhelmed parents get on the same page and better understand their kids and teens. 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk A LOT about executive function and what it takes for our kids with ADHD to plan and execute important tasks in their lives. But what about us? The mental load of parenting is real, and there is SO MUCH we have to use our executive functions for. One of those things is meal planning. What does everyone like? What will my kids eat? Which family member can have dairy, and which one can’t have gluten? The list goes on and on. We know nutrition is important, but balanced meals take a backseat between school, therapy appointments, activities, and more. That is why we are loving Hungryroot. They offer “good-for-you groceries and simple recipes.” We have loved having one less thing to worry about. As always, we want to help you, so we’ve got a code for 40% off your first box.  Just click the link and use CHILDHOODCOLLECTIVE40 in all caps to get the discount. Happy eating! 

LINKS + RESOURCES

Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart's Site

Courses from Dr. Ann-Louise

Hungry Root - Use code CHILDHOODCOLLECTIVE40

The Childhood Collective Youtube  *Closed Captioning Available

The Childhood Collective Instagram

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #126: Say Less (no, really!) and Other Tips to Support Your Child’s Listening. 

The Childhood Collective

9/13/2023

SUMMARY

We can hear ourselves now trying to yell upstairs or get our kid's attention over the TV or tablet. We are all guilty of the “drive-by directions” trap when we want our kids to listen. None of these seem to work, and we just get louder and louder. Our tone gets angrier and angrier. Obvious ending? It doesn’t work. Getting kids to listen is tough; getting kids with ADHD to listen is even more challenging. Remember, your kids want to do well, so they aren’t playing a game of who can make mom the most mad. Their unique wiring requires a different communication strategy to get cooperation. In this episode, we share four tips to get your child with ADHD to listen without yelling. 

These take practice, but we know you will notice a more calm environment as you incorporate them into your home! 

MEET OUR TEAM

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. Most importantly, we are moms, just like you.

After working with families over a combined total of 40 years, we saw a need to provide ongoing support and education to parents raising children with ADHD. 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk A LOT about executive function and what it takes for our kids with ADHD to plan and execute important tasks in their lives. But what about us? The mental load of parenting is real, and there is SO MUCH we have to use our executive functions for. One of those things is meal planning. What does everyone like? What will my kids eat? Which family member can have dairy, and which one can’t have gluten? The list goes on and on. We know nutrition is important, but balanced meals take a backseat between school, therapy appointments, activities, and more. That is why we are loving Hungryroot. They offer “good-for-you groceries and simple recipes.” We have loved having one less thing to worry about. As always, we want to help you, so we’ve got a code for 40% off your first box.  Just click the link and use CHILDHOODCOLLECTIVE40 in all caps to get the discount. Happy eating! 

LINKS + RESOURCES

Free ADHD Parenting Guide- 6 Keys

Creating Calm ADHD Course

Hungry Root - Use code CHILDHOODCOLLECTIVE40

The Childhood Collective Youtube  *Closed Captioning Available

The Childhood Collective Instagram

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #125: Finding Joy in the Journey of Parenting ADHD with Therapist Allison Puryear

The Childhood Collective

9/06/2023

SUMMARY

What does it look like to trade the feeling of powerlessness for acceptance, and frustration for admiration? In this vulnerable episode, we share an amazing story from therapist Allison Puryear, who was integral to launching our work and community at The Childhood Collective. Allison is an inspiration as she openly shares about her parenting journey and discovering medical conditions and ADHD in her child.

MEET ALLISON

Allison Puryear (rhymes with “career”) is a therapist who burned out on agency work & then built successful private practices in 3 wildly different markets. Allison started Abundance Practice Building to help other therapists build their own full & happy private practices - because a happy therapist is a better therapist! In addition to being a successful entrepreneur, Allison is also the parent of a neurodivergent child. 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids, and sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for EACH of our kids (really, we do!). It’s amazing for kids who are anxious or need help calming their busy bodies before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Allison's Practice Building Site

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount!                

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #124: Homework Success Starts With The Space

The Childhood Collective

8/16/2023

SUMMARY

For children with ADHD, homework is often the *last* thing they want to do after school! This is likely due to differences in their executive functioning, and parents are often left to deal with the consequences. This is a recipe for fighting, distraction, and all-over discouragement... the struggle is real for our families when it comes to homework. Kids with ADHD need a special measure of support to accomplish what is expected of them. In this episode, we discuss how homework success starts with the space you curate, and we provide some of our favorite tips! 

CONNECT WITH US

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. If you’re not engaging with us on social, click the links below. We share ADHD parenting tools, tips, empathy (and a little humor!). 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids; sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for EACH of our kids (really, we do!). It’s amazing for kids who are anxious or need help calming their busy body before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Products mentioned in the episode (may contain affiliate links) 

FREE School Accommodations Guide

Shining At School

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount!                 

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

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EPISODE #123: ADHD and the Benefits of A Faster Brain with Peter Shankman

The Childhood Collective

8/23/2023

SUMMARY

Raising a child with ADHD is often complicated, and being a child with ADHD is also REALLY hard. The constant redirections, the social struggles, and the low self-esteem can have the ADHD child feeling like they're broken. “What’s wrong with me?” Is the recurring question in their mind? But what if we flip the script? As parents and caregivers, we have the opportunity to show kids that their brain is not broken; it's BRILLIANT. They have a faster brain and just have to learn how to drive it. Today, we talk with author Peter Shankman about his journey to engage his faster brain and help parents teach their kids how to use what he calls “an amazing gift.”

MEET PETER

Peter is a 5x best-selling author, entrepreneur, and corporate keynote speaker. With three successful startup launches and exits under his belt, Peter is recognized worldwide for radically new ways of thinking about customer experience, social media, PR, marketing, advertising, and ADHD with the new neurodiverse and remote economies. He’s currently the Futurist in Residence at Price Benowitz and BluShark Digital. Peter’s podcast, Faster than Normal - is the #1 podcast on ADHD, focusing on the superpowers and gifts of having a "faster than normal brain,” which has helped thousands of people all around the world realize that having a neurodiverse brain is actually a gift, not a curse. Finally, Peter is a father, a 2x Ironman triathlete, a Class B licensed skydiver, and has a pretty serious Peloton addiction. When he’s not traveling around the world speaking to companies big and small, he's based in NYC with his nine-year-old daughter and two-year-old dog, both of whom consistently refuse him access to his couch.

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer!  Bonus: Use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount. 

LINKS+RESOURCES

Peter's Book "The Boy with the Faster Brain"

Time Timer Site  Code: TCC for a discount!                 

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective Youtube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #122: ADHD Evaluations: More Prep, Less Stress!

The Childhood Collective

8/16/2023

SUMMARY

Before any family vacation or road trip with kids, we know that a little prep can make the trip a lot more manageable with a lot less stress and frustration. Whether it’s leveraging their favorite snack or having enough downloaded episodes of Bluey, kids need tools for the experience. The journey of the ADHD evaluation process is no different. In this episode, we share how a little preparation will ease any stress you or your child might have about the process AND give you confidence in the results that you get. 

We are answering your burning questions we hear all the time. From, "Should I give my child their ADHD medication on the day of the evaluation?" to, "How do I explain an evaluation to my child?" we have got you covered! 

CONNECT WITH US

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. If you’re not engaging with us on social, click the links below. We share ADHD parenting tools and tips along with empathy (and a little humor!). 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids, and sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for EACH of our kids (really, we do!). It’s amazing for kids who are feeling anxious or need a little help calming their busy body before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Who Can Diagnose ADHD

Does My Child With ADHD Need a 504-Plan At School?

7 Things Parents Need To Know

FREE School Accommodations Guide

Executive Functions At School

Shining At School

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount!                 

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

SHINING WITH ADHD

EPISODE #121: De-Mystifying the School Evaluation Process with Special Education Expert Wendy Taylor

The Childhood Collective

8/09/2023

SUMMARY

Trying to navigate school support for kids with ADHD or suspected ADHD can sometimes feel like you have found yourself in a new country…and you don’t know the language. Between federal laws, state guidelines, and school board policies, it is easy to feel lost. We are here to help! In this episode, we sit down with Wendy Taylor, a special education expert, to begin de-mystifying the school evaluation process. 

MEET WENDY

Wendy Taylor is passionate and obsessed with supporting families to bridge learning gaps, access special educational resources, and create killer IEPs. Wendy is a qualified Structured Reading and Orton-Gillingham practitioner, certified Educational Therapist, Educational Diagnostician, and IEP Coach. She is also the executive director of Learning Essentials and the Special Ed Strategist podcast host. Learning Essentials provides educational therapy, academic coaching, and IEP support.

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids, and sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for EACH of our kids (really, we do!). It’s fantastic for kids who are feeling anxious or need a little help calming their busy body before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Wendy's Learning Quiz!

Wendy's Instagram

COURSE?

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount! 

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #120: Ready, Set, School! Tips for A  Stress-free Back-to-school Transition

The Childhood Collective

8/02/2023

SUMMARY

It seems like just yesterday, the sidewalk chalk was fresh, and the bubble wands were full, and here we are prepping the crisp notebooks and buying bigger shoes for our kiddos that.just.keep.growing.  Whether you’re ready for a fresh start or want to cling to summer just a little longer, we have some tips to help your whole family transition to the school year. We know these shifts can be a little more challenging for our kids with ADHD, so in this episode, we share how to (insert episode title for SEO)

MEET OUR TEAM

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. Most importantly, we are moms, just like you.

After working with families over a combined total of 40 years, we saw a need to provide ongoing support and education to parents raising children with ADHD. 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro tip; it’s a game-changer! Bonus: Use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Episode 110 - Wrapping Up The School Year

Shining at School Guide

The Childhood Collective Youtube  *Closed Captioning Available

The Childhood Collective Instagram

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #119: We’ve All Been There! Mindset Shifts For The Hard Days

The Childhood Collective

6/28/2023

SUMMARY

As parents, our mindsets and expectations majorly impact our children. When parenting a child with ADHD, having realistic expectations and appropriate mindsets is key. We believe that every child is special and that all kids do well if they can! When we reframe our children's struggles, this allows us the freedom to get curious and figure out the best ways to support them. In this episode, we discuss five mindset shifts for the hard days. This episode is not about taking on more mom guilt but empowering you with grace in your parenting journey.

We will be taking a break from podcasting over the next month so we can spend more time with our families. Be sure to follow us on social media to stay in touch, and we will be right back here in August to get you ready for the new school year! 

CONNECT WITH US

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. If you’re not engaging with us on social, click the links below. We share ADHD parenting tools and tips along with empathy (and a little humor!). 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids, and sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for EACH of our kids (really, we do!). It’s amazing for kids who are feeling anxious or need a little help calming their busy body before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Creating Calm Parenting Course 

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount!                 

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #118: Independent Play: The Secret Ingredient for Easier Parenting With Lizzie Assa 

The Childhood Collective

6/21/2023

SUMMARY

As an ADHD parent, you are doing allll the things… from evaluations to therapies, to advocating for your child at school, to managing the big emotions at home. You’re stretched really thin, and it's no wonder you're tired! Developing independent play skills in ADHD children is a game-changer.  This is why we are sooo excited to have an independent play expert, Lizzie Assa, sharing her knowledge with us today. Lizzie's strategies will help your child develop play skills that will help your entire family! 

MEET LIZZIE

Lizzie Assa is the founder of The Workspace for Children, a parenting strategist, play expert, and mother of three. With a background in early childhood education and experience working with families and children, Lizzie helps parents and caregivers avoid burnout by teaching their children independent play. She is a firm believer in the power of simplicity and consistency in play and is dedicated to promoting these values. Prior to starting The Workspace for Children, Assa received a MsED from the Bank Street College of Education in New York City and taught nursery school in Manhattan. She has been featured in various publications such as Parent's Magazine, NY Times Parenting, Time, and The WSJ.

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer! Bonus: Use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount. 

LINKS + RESOURCES

Lizzie's Site

Workspace Instagram

Lizzie's Independent Play Course

Time Timer Site  Code: TCC for a discount!

The Childhood Collective                  

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #117: ADHD is so misunderstood! Here is what you need to know! 

The Childhood Collective

6/14/2023

SUMMARY

When it comes to understanding neurological differences, a question we often hear is, “What is ADHD?” Maybe you are new to the ADHD world, or maybe you haven’t even gotten a diagnosis yet! Or, maybe your child has had an ADHD diagnosis for a long time now. Wherever you are coming from, there is something for you in this episode. With a deeper understanding of ADHD, you can be empowered to help your child with ADHD shine! 

CONNECT WITH US

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. We exist to provide tools to parents and leaders who are asking questions like, “What is ADHD?” If you’re not engaging with us on social, click the links below. We share ADHD parenting tools and tips along with empathy (and a little humor!). 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids, and sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for EACH of our kids (really, we do!). It’s amazing for kids who are feeling anxious or need a little help calming their busy body before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS

Episode #115: Who Can Diagnose ADHD?

Episode #105: Is It ADHD Or Something Else?

Creating Calm Parenting Course 

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount!                 

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #116: Confused to Confident: School Advocacy with ADHD Parent (and real-life superhero!), Devon Pickens

The Childhood Collective

6/7/2023

SUMMARY

It starts with first sneaking suspicion about your child's big emotions and impulsivity. They grow through those wild (but sweet!) preschool years, and then in Pre-K or Kindergarten, you start getting letters from the school or emails from the teacher. Confusion and embarrassment creep in, and everything starts to feel heavy. Thankfully, you are not alone. There is hope! It is possible to find joy as you advocate for your child to get evaluated and set up the best supports for them at school. In this episode, we hear from ADHD parent Devon Pickens as she shares her journey from confusion to confidence as she navigates school for her child with ADHD. 

MEET DEVON

Devon Pickens is a social worker from Texas. She is a content creator with a special focus on parents of children with ADHD. Her vision is to help parents feel more empowered and informed about ADHD and how it shows up in their everyday life. To connect with her, search @adhdparent on Instagram or Facebook.

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer! Bonus: Use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount. 

LINKS + RESOURCES

The IEP from A to Z

Devon's ADHD Parent Support Group

Time Timer Site  Code: TCC for a discount!

The Childhood Collective                  

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #115: Who Can Diagnose ADHD? Things To Consider When Choosing the Best Professional

The Childhood Collective

5/31/2023

SUMMARY

Maybe it’s an email from the teacher, or you notice your child is struggling to follow directions during little league practice. Homework and routines are often a battle, and you know in your gut that something is going on. You decide to schedule an evaluation for ADHD... but you quickly realize how overwhelming it can be. One google search will tell you that there are SO many options. Don’t stress! On today's episode, we explain who can diagnose ADHD and things to consider when choosing the best professional. Wherever you are on your journey, we are here to help you navigate the diagnostic process! 

MEET OUR TEAM

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are Child Psychologists, and Katie is a speech-language pathologist. Most importantly, we are busy moms, just like you.

After working with families over a combined total of 40 years, we saw a need to provide ongoing support and education to parents raising children with ADHD. 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer!  Bonus: Use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount. 

LINKS+RESOURCES

Free Parenting Guide - 6 Keys

Diagnosing ADHD Blog Post

Time Timer Site  Code: TCC for a discount!          

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #114: Connection is Still the Key: Tweens, Teens, and ADHD with Dr. Carrie Jackson

The Childhood Collective

5/24/2023

SUMMARY

We share a lot about raising kids with ADHD, but how does parenting change as our children grow up? Parenting ADHD tweens and teens presents new challenges. From supporting your child as they strive for independence, to helping them discover their own solutions when they encounter problems, navigating each new season takes time. In reality, we think the strategy takes a big shift but connection is still the key! In this episode, Dr. Carrie Jackson shares her top tips for parenting tweens and teens with ADHD. 

MEET CARRIE

Dr. Carrie is a licensed child psychologist based in San Diego, California, working with parents of teens with ADHD. She enjoys working with families, children, and teens with ADHD in her private practice and sharing evidence-based information online for families to access. In her free time, she enjoys staying active and trying new restaurants.

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids, and sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for all our kids (really, we do!). It’s fantastic for kids who are feeling anxious or need a little help calming their busy body before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

FREE Guide for Parenting Tweens and Teens with ADHD

Raising Independent ADHD Teens Course

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount!                

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #113: Building Confidence in Kids with ADHD

The Childhood Collective

5/17/2023

SUMMARY

The truth is, kids with ADHD get SO many more corrections and instructions than kids who don’t have ADHD. This can really impact how they see themselves, and research tells us that kids with ADHD tend to have lower self-esteem than their peers. As parents, we want to help our kids build confidence! Empowering our children to understand their gifts and talents goes a long way toward developing emotional health. In this episode, our team discusses three simple strategies for building healthy self-esteem in children with ADHD. We share personal stories about our own families and some of the struggles (and solutions!) we have faced in supporting confidence in our own kids. 

CONNECT WITH US

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. If you’re not engaging with us on social, click the links below. We share ADHD parenting tools and tips along with empathy (and a little humor!). 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We talk a lot about emotionally healthy kids, and sleep is a huge part of that! That is why we LOVE Zenimal. When bedtime rolls around, we use this screen-free meditation tool for EACH of our kids (really, we do!). It’s amazing for kids who are feeling anxious or need a little help calming their busy body before bed. The best part? Each meditation ends with the most beautiful message: “You’re a good kid!” Use our code: TCC for a discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Free Parenting Guide - 6 Keys

Creating Calm Parenting Course 

Zenimals Website: use code: TCC for a discount! 

The Childhood Collective                  

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

 Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #112: Jan Stewart

The Childhood Collective

5/10/2023

SUMMARY

Parenting a child with special needs can be lonely and frustrating while at the same time, amazing, funny, and wild! As mommas, we know how helpful it is to hear from someone who has walked this path for a little longer. In this episode, we sit down with Jan Stewart (an ADHD sage) to discuss insights from her personal and professional experience. Mothers need mentors, and Jan is a wealth of wisdom!

MEET JAN

Jan Stewart is a highly regarded mental health and neurodiversity governance expert and advocate. Her brutally honest memoir Hold on Tight: A Parent’s Journey Raising Children with Mental Illness describes her emotional roller coaster story of parenting two children with multiple mental health and neurodevelopmental disorders. Her mission is to inspire parents to persevere, as well as to better educate their families, friends, healthcare professionals, educators, and employers. Jan chairs the Board of Directors at Kerry’s Place Autism Services, Canada’s largest autism services provider, and was previously Vice Chair at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health, Canada’s leading psychiatric hospital. She also served on the Parent Advisory Council of Massachusetts General Hospital’s Department of Neuropsychopharmacology. She spent most of her career as a senior Partner with the global executive search firm Egon Zehnder. Jan is a Diamond Life Master in Bridge and enjoys fitness, genealogy, and dance. You can find her online at www.janstewartauthor.com or on Instagram as @janstewartauthor

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer! Bonus: Use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount. 

LINKS + RESOURCES

Jan's Book: Hold On Tight 

Jan's Website

Shining at School Course

Time Timer Site  Code: TCC for a discount!

The Childhood Collective                  

The Childhood Collective Instagram

The Childhood Collective YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

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EPISODE #111: Tools To Help Your Child Get Started

The Childhood Collective

4/19/2023

SUMMARY

When it comes to big projects at work or home, we are used to phrases like, “How do you eat an elephant?” or “analysis paralysis.” In corporate America, there are whole careers devoted to managing projects. The truth is, getting started on tasks can be difficult for anyone… but it’s incredibly challenging for kids with ADHD. Because of their delayed executive functioning skills, getting started (even on simple tasks!) can feel totally overwhelming for them. In this episode, we provide five tips to help your child with ADHD get started, whatever the task. 

CONNECT WITH US

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. Our mission is to equip you with the tools to create calm in your home and find joy in parenting ADHD!! We love hearing what is working for you. If you try a tip or two, we would love to hear how it went! Connect with us on social or shoot us an email. You can do this!  

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer! 

Bonus: Head to https://www.timetimer.com/discount/TCC and use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount. 

LINKS+RESOURCES

Free Parenting Guide - 6 Keys

Creating Calm Parenting Course 

Time Timer Site  Code: TCC for a discount!

The Childhood Collective                  

The Childhood Collective Instagram

TCC YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

SHINING WITH ADHD 

EPISODE #110: 5 Tips for Wrapping Up the School Year

The Childhood Collective

4/26/2023

SUMMARY

At the beginning of a new school year, do you feel like you are always starting from scratch on getting support for your child? By the time you feel like you have a solid plan in place, a new school year starts, and you are back to square one. Many of you experience stress at the beginning of the new school year. Will the teacher take the time to read your child’s 504 plan or IEP so they know how to support them in class best? Today on the podcast, we will share five tips for wrapping up the school year so you can set your child up for success when transitioning to a new grade and new teacher in the fall. 

MEET OUR TEAM

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. Most importantly, we are moms, just like you.

After working with families over a combined total of 40 years, we saw a need to provide ongoing support and education to parents raising children with ADHD. 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer! Bonus: Use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Grade Retention Blog Post

Shining at School Guide

FREE ADHD School Accommodations Guide

The Childhood Collective Youtube  *Closed Captioning Available

The Childhood Collective                  

The Childhood Collective Instagram

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

SHINING WITH ADHD

EPISODE #109: A School Psychologist’s Guide To Preparing For School Meetings with Monique Hayes, NCSP.

The Childhood Collective

4/19/2023

SUMMARY

When you have a child with ADHD, navigating school accommodations and understanding the educational team can be overwhelming! Whether it’s a question of the evaluation process or eligibility, it can be confusing, and finding accurate information is key. We’re here to help! In this episode, we speak with school psychologist Monique Hayes, NCSP, to discuss how to prepare for school meetings, what to expect, and possible outcomes. 

MEET MONIQUE

Monique is a wife, a mother of three young kids, and school psychologist practitioner. Monique has her education specialist degree in school psychology, and she is a nationally certified school psychologist. Monique shares that she struggles to sit still, enjoys starting (starting) DIY projects around the house, and loves traveling… she has even braved international travel with her three young kids! And we know many of you can relate… Monique has ADHD herself and is raising a child with ADHD. If you’ve taken our online course Creating Calm, you may recognize Monique because she is one of our parent models!

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention Time Timer. As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer! Bonus: Head to Time Timer and use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount. 

LINKS+RESOURCES

FREE ADHD School Accommodations Guide

Creating Calm Parenting Course

Time Timer Site  Code: TCC for a discount!

The Childhood Collective                  

The Childhood Collective Instagram

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com

Time TimerSHINING WITH ADHD 

EPISODE #108: Managing Screens and ADHD

The Childhood Collective

4/12/2023

SUMMARY

We’ve all been there. You give a “five-minute warning,” but no matter how many times you say it, they look at you in surprise when it’s time to turn off the iPad or stop playing video games. The argument quickly escalates, right? It starts with negotiation, which spirals into a meltdown, and you wonder if you should just take away screens for the next 100 years. As parents, we can create an environment where we are proactive AS A FAMILY regarding screen time. In this episode, we will give you some tips we use in our homes to manage screens in a healthy way. 

MEET OUR TEAM

We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are Child Psychologists, and Katie is a speech-language pathologist. Most importantly, we are moms, just like you.

After working with families over a combined total of 40 years, we saw a need to provide ongoing support and education to parents raising children with ADHD. 

AFFILIATE INFORMATION

We can’t have your attention and not mention  Time Timer As parents, we are looking for anything that will support our kids and make our lives easier. The original Time Timer does just that. In our homes, it allows us to teach our kids how to visualize time. This helps with activity transitions, independence, and building executive function skills. Trust our pro-tip; it’s a game changer! Bonus: Head to Time Timer and use the code TCC to get a site-wide discount.

LINKS + RESOURCES

Free Parenting Guide - 6 Keys

Creating Calm - Online Parenting Course 

Time Timer

CONNECT WITH US

TCC Website                  

TCC Instagram

TCC YouTube *Closed Captioning Available

Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com