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BONUS EPISODE ALERT!  We know you're probably out in these streets getting your shop on or in a food-coma from whatever good eatin's you had yesterday, but we wanted to gift you with something special.  The Bougie Crew + 1 decided to hop on the mic to discuss some of the latest news in black celebrity culture, from the allegations from Cassie about Diddy, to the allegations from Keke Palmer about her baby-daddy, her mom and her allegations about Usher, and the alleged assault claims that took place at a Tamar Braxton concert.  Yes, we know, its a whole lot of allegations so its gonna be a whole lot of this word thrown around in this episode... "ALLEGEDLY"!  We give you our take on these topics, and are joined by former guest Sweet Tooth, and we also each give thanks for specific things we are grateful for in our lives.  Enjoy this treat for your ears, and Happy Holidays!

Your Bougie Bartender
~Kev

We've made it through 4 seasons, and 100 episodes guys!  We've gotta celebrate this one BIG!  We reminisce on some of the funniest, hardest, and our most favorite episodes from all the way back at episode 1 back in 2020, to now. You're gonna get some tea on behind the scenes and what we've learned throughout this process.  Please enjoy as the Bougie Crew goes down memory lane, and feel free to go back and re-listen to some of those episodes that blazed our way to this point.  As always, we are incredibly grateful to our Bougie Babes for listening and engaging!  Sip ya drank, do yo thang; and we'll see you next season, which may be sooner than you think! 

Your Bougie Bartender
~Kev

Alright ladies and gents!  As we round out this sizzlin' season 4, and prep for our 100th episode, we're giving you a little Story-Time.  This one's in the spirit of the homecoming season!  Do you know which of our hosts were considered BULLIES in undergrad?  Take a wild guess!  Grab yourself some Doritos, some Fritos,  and a Four Loko as we go down memory lane! 

Your Bougie Bartender,
~Kev

What's up Bougie Babes & Bro's? Okay, so now that you've heard our thoughts on the Jada & Will situation right after the slap, here's our thoughts TODAY after finding out that the Black Community's idolized wedded couple has actually been living their lives separated for years, even through the midst of the Red Table talk series, the August Alsina entanglement revelation, and the Chris Rock assault on live television.  Were any of you guys surprised to hear the news?  Is it genuine or just fodder to sell books?  True, at one time, we looked up to the Smith's as "couple goals", but does that still ring true?  We also discuss the Jeezy and Jeannie Mai split a little more in detail, and Miss E's definition of the strangest couple of modern times (Caresha and Diddy).    Sip some tea on this one, while we give you some of our own!

Your Bougie Bartender,
~Kev

Bougie Babes!  We takin' it back this week!  We've got our new episode (which will be dropping later this evening) but since we are discussing someone we've talked about at length before, we decided to bring it back around.  Jada Pinkett-Smith has been making her rounds this week, and we of course are gonna give you our 2 cents, hell, our whole dollar on that, but what were we saying about her the last time we discussed her?  Welp, we did a live event right after the infamous slap heard around the world at the 2022 Academy Awards, and boy were our thoughts different then opposed to what they are now.  Here's our conversation from then, and come back because later tonight we will post our latest thoughts on the matter!   Until then, we are sure you will get some laughs with this heated convo!

Bougie Bartender
~Kev

Bougie Babes!  What's good!?!  So now it seems like the culture is sort of in this 'relationship recession' in a sense because so many couples are splitting.  Every other day we get the tea on another couple calling it quits.  But there are always a few random exes that may spin dat block and give the relationship another try.  This week, we're talking about whether or not WE would, or HAVE spun dat block before.  We also give our take on some of the latest couples to throw in the towel, and our thoughts on which former couples should or shouldn't ever try to get that ol' thang back again.  Which of us do you think is the most, and the least open to the idea of giving an ex a second try?  Which couples in the media do you believe should spin da block or never spin it back again?  Get you some Avion, some snacks, and listen up, cuz this one's good!

Your Bougie Bartender,
~Kev

Greetings and Salutations Bougie Babes!  So, you remember when we talked about our upcoming 20-year High School Class reunions and other reunions past back on episode 94?  Well this week, we continued the conversation but we've got another fresh perspective. Benita keeps it candid with us about how she was able to attend both of the separate events back at the 10-year reunion, and how she feels about it happening again this year at the 20-year.  She spoke her peace, and as usual, we ventured into all territories reminiscing about our school days.  Some of us have since attended our reunions or are even attending them this weekend and we decided to chat with an integral part of the story that Miss Erica, and classmates relayed about the shocking discovery of another reunion for the white members of their class of '03.     Sit back, sip some cognac, and relax as you get into this one.  Its pure entertainment!

Your Bougie Bartender
~Kev

Bougie Babes! Whew chile...ever had a boss who you felt was setting you up for failure?! Nonetheless fire you for trying to do your job?! Well baybeee this is the episode for you! We had the pleasure of bringing our new friend of the show, Jasmyne Flowers, to the show and she told us about her job and the mess that it brought to her professional career. She left us confused, hurt and ready to damn fight because how could her boss play in her face like that?! The door was opened to addressing the qualms we as black people deal with in working for black women in leadership. Yes baybee...we went THERE! Grab your likka, your human resources specialists phone number and your edges because baybeee  you will need it. 

xoxo, 
Erica Patrice 

What's Good Bougie Babes and Bro's!  We're keepin' it real this week with the age-old question, "Can you turn a hoe into a housewife"?  Society has a "Housewife Goals" culture currently that many in our generation are either involved in, or currently seeking.  Many consider marriage the ultimate level-up.  So we decided to tackle how its possible for men and women who have been in these streets to be transformed with the coveted ring on it!  Does a checkered sexual or dating past matter when selecting your lifemate?    Is it possible for someone to suddenly go from promiscuity to eternal monogamy?  Get into it with us!  We even touched on whether cosmetic surgery impacts your decision to date or pursue someone.  Grab your earl grey tea or some grey goose, and a snack and enjoy the debate ahead!

Your Bougie Bartender,
~Kev

What's Poppin' Bougie Ladies and Gents!?!  This week we decided to tackle the "hot seat" that is being the so-called Villain.  Now we all know that for entertainment purposes, the films and television that we watch will always have villains as a necessary part of the plot-line; but our discussion in the Bougie Den this week centered around times in our real lives where we have been portrayed as the "villain" and how these times shaped us and lead to growth.  Does being the villain necessarily mean that you are in the wrong or have evil intent?  What motivates others to portray us at the villain?  Are villains' misunderstood?  How important is it to control the narrative that exists about your character? Listen, these stories get pretty deep and as always, there's some laughs in here.  Grab some wine and sip from your favorite goblet, and gon' and let out a spine-tingling cackle as you listen to this one.  You know you'll want to!

Your Bougie Bartender
~Kev

What's Good Bougie Ladies & Gents?  If you caught last week's episode, you already know to come on back for the rest of the festivities.  We continue the rest of our chat with expert-Boyfriend #2 , our guest Mark, about the in's and outs of playing the supporting role in a situationship.  Is this a permanent position one should aspire to have?  Can you ever truly be satisfied as a glorified place-holder?  Get your cognac, a snack, and sit back and relax as we further unpack the impacts of being a side piece to others and further relationships.

~Bougie Bartender, 
    Kev

What's good Bougie Babes and Bougie Bros?  C'mon into the Bougie Den this week as we get into the mind of a self-professed side-piece.  We had a chance to chop it up with a special guest, Mark, who came to us by way of a virtual-dating match with our very own Erica P.  Though their initial conversations bred the topic of this episode, we gave Mark the floor to be completely candid and enlighten us on how being a successful side-dude works.  Is this really a position you want to be in?  How is this type of arrangement set up? Is there an appeal to being the saucy side and not the main?  What are the rules of this game?  You've gotta get into this convo!  Of course, we all had our distinct and differing opinions, and trust, we couldn't even fit it all into one episode.  This is just the first half.  Sip your bouj-bar crafted libations and grab some bomb-ass sides to snack on while listening, and let us know what you think as well! 

~The Bougie Bartender, Kev

Hey Bougie Babes. are ya'll starting to feel old?  Step into the Bougie Den as your favorite aunties and uncles talk about knocking on 40's door!! The Bougie Crew discussed specific moments when we began noticing that we're getting older.   At a certain age, do you get past your prime?  What things can you NOT do the older that you get?  Partying, drinking, eating...  none of it is the same the older you get.  From the physical, to the mental of it all, we break down whether or not it truly gets greater later, and whether we are all aging gracefully like fine wine or rottin' like raisins!   Even though we're getting older we realized that we are still lit and living our best lives!!! Tune in for some great conversation as Kevin asks Erica to go half on a baby!!! Grab your Bengay and Icy Hot and join us in this geriatric discussion as we come to terms with our new normal.

~Mrs. Johnise

Lets get to the nitty-gritty!  Step into the Bougie Den as we discuss the best questions to ask someone when you're going on a date.  Is there a such thing as asking too complex questions?  It's been observed that at our big age, folks will ask about what you do and where you work before asking about YOU!  What are some non-negotiables or things that would make you no longer desire to date someone?  If the current topic of the Supreme Court rulings on affirmative action and/or student loans came up and they were negatively addressed at your date, how would that make you feel as a person of color?  Do you think minorities have made advances because of affirmative action in education?  Why does the black community seem to be attached by these rulings?  Do you think affirmative action is necessary today?  Plus, we discuss higher education, the importance of HBCUs, how expensive college can be, and how student loans have been forgiven for some but not all.

Lets sit back, relax and unpack.  Grab your Henny, because we have plenty!

- B, The Rich Uncle

Step into the Bougie Den as we discuss the positive and negative effects of social media.  We have our friend of the show, Laz, who opens up to discuss his issues with social media, and how it can negatively impact different relationships or your mindset.  Do you feel that looking at certain images and following certain people impact your mental state? Are some folks braggadocious on social media?  When you're having a bad day or going through it - do you run to social media?  Do you think its necessary to take breaks from social media?  How many hours do you spend on social media?

Lets sit back, relax, and unpack what social media really means to you.  Grab your Henny, because we have plenty.

-B, The Rich Uncle

What's up Bougie Baybees! Ya'll know its the summertime right?  Its officially the summer of '23, and with the warmth of the weather comes a LOT of trippin!  By trippin' we do mean all things related to traveling and going on trips!  So what kind of traveler are you?  Do you pack all your wardrobe and then some for a 3-day excursion?  Do you plan ahead of time or do you take trips on a whim?  Do you prefer a group trip or to travel solo?  And for the luvers, what is your ultimate BAE-cation fantasy?  We get into it all on this extra-long road of an episode!  Grab your travel canteen and some good hood snacks for the road, buckle up, and enjoy this one!  

~Bougie Bartender
Kev

Que Pasa Bougie Babes? Hoping your year has been fabulous thus far! Now we know it's been a minute since we've given you an episode, and don't worry; Our fantastic season four is right around the corner.  As we're gearing up for it, we wanted to ease back into things.  So our Bougie Bartender Kev took a trip down memory lane with one of our fav guests (whom you may remember from an episode or two) and also allowed her give a quick update on life.  Get into this convo and special giveaway (you'll have to listen to find out)! Stay tuned because before you know it we'll be bizzzaaccckkk!

In this episode, Jamal and Magan Battle, a real estate expert that is among the TOP 5 agents (out of 400) in her brokerage, talked about her expertise in real estate investing and how we can leverage creative financing strategies to become a homeowner, even if we don't have any cash upfront! She also shared the most important factors which are 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃𝐒𝐄𝐓 and 𝐇𝐀𝐁𝐈𝐓𝐒 of successful real estate investors and shows you how to apply them to your own life.

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What's up Bougie Babes?!?!?!  Although we've been away on hiatus, we had to check in and give our take on this past weekend's Superbowl halftime performance since it seemed to have social media in an uproar.  The masses are giving very mixed review; some believe that Barbadian Bad Girl Riri' gave a solid performance; some were left underwhelmed; others are perplexed by the revelation of her second pregnancy.  Now what do you think the Bougie Broads, Kev, and B had to say?  Here we gave our fresh unfiltered take on what we saw this Sunday.  Enjoy and feel free to hit us up on social media to give your thoughts.... Season 4 is coming soon!

Bougie Babes! We couldn’t end season 3 without a BANG! Baybee we brought back one of our faves to completely close us out & this is one for the books! We brought back our boo Lorna to rant about her recent dealings with a man of larger stature. Her and Erica had a lot to say about dating the “teddy bears” and it was real!!! Between the low self esteem and jealousy, this episode was full of tremendous fire works! Johnise said she likes her man on the slim side so she never had these issues however Erica could relate because she has had slim to thick! Brandon and Kevin were flabbergasted at the whole conversation but they were laughing their asses off! Grab your damn Slim Fast with a shot of Henney because you will need it. Xoxo