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    Explore " dogs and kids" with insightful episodes like "4. How to Prevent Your Dog from Growling at Your Kids", "2. I'm Overwhelmed Raising Kids and Dogs Together - Is this Normal?", "What Essential Things Kids Should Know Before Getting a Puppy: Insights from Shaylyn Matthews", "73. Pets and Children" and "64. How to Make Halloween Less Scary for Your Dog" from podcasts like ""Parenting Kids and Dogs 101", "Parenting Kids and Dogs 101", "That's Good Parenting", "The Pet Parenting Reset" and "Pooch Parenting"" and more!

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    4. How to Prevent Your Dog from Growling at Your Kids

    4. How to Prevent Your Dog from Growling at Your Kids

    Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.

    I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/

    Growling - What it means and how to prevent it

    1. Growling is scary. But the good news is that it's communication
    2. Growling can be compared to the yellow light of a traffic signal - it's a warning that something major is about to happen. Imagine how many accidents there would be if lights went straight from green to red.
    3. Don't punish the growl - thank your dog for telling you they are uncomfortable
    4. Look for the trigger - Get Curious
    5. Why is your dog growling? Look around and see if you can spot what's troubling him.
    6. Look for patterns and intervene before the growl
    7. Remove the trigger, not your dog
    8. By responding to your dog's body language and offering relief, your dog will trust that you will meet his needs
    9. If your dog's behavior has changed suddenly, it's time to book an appointment with your veterinarian to rule out pain, a common cause of growling. 
    10. Management is your best friend - use gates, pens and other barriers to give your dog space to avoid triggers that cause discomfort and growling

    It's only natural for questions about our kids and dogs to arise from time to time, especially as our babies grow up and our dogs mature. And if I'm being honest, it's not really worth asking for free advice from friends or online because you can't rely on the accuracy of the feedback you are getting. If you'd like to learn more about The Pooch Parenting Society, where I offer practical life and science-based tips and strategies, ongoing support and a safe place to share, head on over to www.safekidsanddogs.com. From one parent to another, I see you and I promise, you're not alone.

    If you have questions about your kids and dogs or would like to book an appointment, participate in a group coaching program or take an online class, visit my website: www.poochparenting.net

    2. I'm Overwhelmed Raising Kids and Dogs Together - Is this Normal?

    2. I'm Overwhelmed Raising Kids and Dogs Together - Is this Normal?

    Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I'm your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I'm not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I'm a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you'll feel like I'm chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.

    I hope you'll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don't forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/

    In Episode 2, I talk about parenting overwhelm when raising kids and dogs at the same time.

    Common concerns parents with dogs have include:

    1. I can't get anything done. How am I supposed to do daily tasks like cooking, laundry and playing with my kids, while I keep an eye on my kids and dogs.
    2. it's hard enough to just parent kids or dogs alone, let alone together - this is a normal experience that nobody talks about
    3. management, such as baby gates, pens and doors are the best strategy to provide safe spaces for both your kids and your dogs and to allow you to take a break.
    4. Like we talked about in Episode 1 of the series, being in the same room isn't enough to keep everyone safe - bites can happen right in front of you if you don't know what to look for
    5. parents also wonder if they made a mistake by raising kids and dogs together or if they should not have added another dog to the mix
    6. social media often makes us doubt our parenting skills or our dog training skills because everyone's lives look so much easier and safer than ours.
    7. parents with new babies often feel guilty because their dog is getting the short end of the stick or they wonder if the dog would be better off living elsewhere


    It's only natural for questions about our kids and dogs to arise from time to time, especially as our babies grow up and our dogs mature. And if I'm being honest, it's not really worth asking for free advice from friends or online because you can't rely on the accuracy of the feedback you are getting. If you'd like to learn more about The Pooch Parenting Society, where I offer practical life and science-based tips and strategies, ongoing support and a safe place to share, head on over to www.safekidsanddogs.com. From one parent to another, I see you and I promise, you're not alone.

    If you have questions about your kids and dogs or would like to book an appointment, participate in a group coaching program or take an online class, visit my website: www.poochparenting.net

    What Essential Things Kids Should Know Before Getting a Puppy: Insights from Shaylyn Matthews

    What Essential Things Kids Should Know Before Getting a Puppy: Insights from Shaylyn Matthews

    SPECIAL EDITION: KID-SIZE YOUR EXPERTISE
    Experts and parents... what do you wish kids knew about your expertise?

    Listen to today's episode, "What Essential Things Kids Should Know Before Getting a Puppy: Insights from Shaylyn Matthews"  as Pyrenees & Pyre-doodle Breeder and Home School Mama  Shaylyn Matthews joins Dori Durbin.  Shaylyn shares:

    • Why She Got a Pyrenees and Into Dog Breeding 
    • The Pyrenees vs Pyredoodle Personalities
    • What Is Pup Temperament Testing
    • How You Can  Establish Pup Behaviors
    • How You Can Establish Routines and Rules
    • How Involved Should Kids Be In Pup's Care
    • Kids' Lessons From Pup Rearing
    • What Should Kids Know Before They See Pups
    • How a Family Knows If They Are Really Ready for a Pup 
    • How To Contact Shaylyn and See Her Pups

    Did you love this episode? Discover more here:
     https://thepowerofkidsbooks.buzzsprout.com

    More about Shaylyn:
    She's a homeschooling Mom of 6. 

    She lives on a 62 acre remodeled Amish Farm house in a small town of 300. Her husband owns two automobile repair businesses, so entrepreneurship is a passion! 

    She is raising her kids to think business minded and taking her passions and making money doing it! 

    She's extremely passionate about breeding the best great Pyrenees and Pyredoodles and raising them in a safe, clean environment with early neurological stimulation and daily curriculum, plenty of exposure to environmental changes and temperment testing to place them in the perfect home .

    Visit her website:
    http://www.oakroadpyrenees.com

    Follow Shaylyn:
    http://facebook.com/OakRoadFarmandPyrenees
    http://instagram.com/OakRoadFarmandPyrenees

    Email: pinkladies4@gmail.com

    More about Dori Durbin:
    Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and a kids’ book coach who after experiencing a life-changing illness, quickly switched gears to follow her dream. She creates kids’ books to provide a fun and safe passageway for kids and parents to dig deeper and experience empowered lives. Dori also coaches non-fiction authors and aspiring authors to “kid-size” their content into informational and engaging kids’ books!
     
     Buy Dori's Kids' Books:
    https://www.amazon.com/stores/Dori-Durbin/author/B087BFC2KZ

    Follow Dori
    http://instagram.com/dori_durbin
    http://www.doridurbin.com
    http://www.facebook.com/dori_durbin
    email: hello@doridurbin.com

    Welcome to the Power of Kids' Books podcast hosted by Dori Durbin... where we believe kids' books are a catalyst for empowering and inspiring change!

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    73. Pets and Children

    73. Pets and Children

    I have had many people contacting me lately about dog training for dogs that have small children in the home. For some reason, people seem to think that dogs should allow children to do whatever they want to them. 

    If you can't already tell, this has me quite upset and it has been heavy on my heart so I needed to get it off of my chest. 

    In this episode, I give the honest truth of the matter, regardless of how people may take it. I also give you a list of appropriate interactions to teach your children that apply to both cats and dogs. 

    While I don't intend to offend anyone, as they say if the shoe fits..... So here we go!

    🐕 Sign up for the FREE Beginner Dog Training Series at https://www.thepetparentingreset.com/

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    64. How to Make Halloween Less Scary for Your Dog

    64. How to Make Halloween Less Scary for Your Dog

    This week's podcast episode is an excerpt from a live conversation that I had with a panel of Licensed Family Dog Mediators and Family Dog Specialists. This lively discussion includes Justine, founder of The Family Dog, Jennifer, founder of Family Paws, and Debby, founder of KAD, Kids Around Dogs. We talk about different strategies about how to make Halloween less spooky for your family dog.

    Halloween topics we discuss include:

    • preventing the dog from escaping through the front door
    • how to read our dog's body language to identify stress
    • should we dress dogs up in Halloween costumes
    • if dogs should go trick or treating with the family
    • dangerous ingredients for dogs
    • how to manage excited and overly friendly dogs
    • family appropriate activities for dogs during Halloween

    Thank you for listening!

    62. Is My Dog a Racist - a Listener Question

    62. Is My Dog a Racist - a Listener Question

    In today's interview, I read an email from a listener. She asked, "Is my dog racist?"

    Topics we cover include:

    • what is racism
    • can a dog be racist
    • factors that contribute to dog behavior
    • cultural differences that might impact how dogs feel
    • should you leave your dog home sometimes
    • how to expose your dog to new stimuli

    Thank you for listening!

    Tips When Expecting a Baby to be Prepared for a Busy Life!

    Tips When Expecting a Baby to be Prepared for a Busy Life!

    Welcome!

    This episode is for those who have a dog,  and are bringing a little human into the family. I provide simple suggestions of things to do BEFORE the arrival of the baby that will make your busy life easier. These exercises can be adapted to suit your lifestyle and the personality of your dog.

    As always, please share, and feel free to provide questions and feedback.

    Recordings of my presentations at the Animal Behavior Society Conference 2022 will be posted on my LI (Billie Groom), and on my YouTube - Dog Training, Behavior and Cognition.

    For more links to social media, interviews, and press releases, pls visit my websites.
    Upward Dogology
    Dog Dog Trainer | DogLogic Behavioural Rehabilitation | Regina (doglogicregina.com)

    Here is the link to the recent article in Psychology Today Mag by Marc Bekoff on Canine CBT
    Dog Training: Perception, Cognition, and Emotions | Psychology Today

    Buy My Book! Winner of the 2019 American Best Book Fest Award (pets/narrative/non-fiction)
    The Art of Urban People With Adopted and Rescued Dogs Methodology: Rescued Dogs: The Misunderstood Breed: Groom, Billie: 9781525547287: Books - Amazon.ca

    Thanks again to the musicians
    Jeff Mertick | Facebook
    Danielle Bourjeaurd | Facebook
    Open Strum | Facebook
    Brian John Harwood | Facebook


    Find all the episodes on Feedspot, where Dog Training DisrUPted is rated in the top 5 shows in the dog category in Canada: https://blog.feedspot.com/canadian_dog_podcasts/

    For more info on Billie Groom and Canine CBT, and links to social media:

    Dog Training, Canine Behavior and Cognition (upwarddogology.com)

    My Linktree with all my media, presentations, shows, articles

    Billie Groom - UPWARD Dogology | Instagram, Facebook | Linktree

    Here is the link to the recent article in Psychology Today Mag by Marc Bekoff on Canine CBT
    Dog Training: Perception, Cognition, and Emotions | Psychology Today

    Buy My Book! Winner of the 2019 American Best Book Fest Award (pets/narrative/non-fiction)
    The Art of Urban People With Adopted and Rescued Dogs Methodology: Rescued Dogs: The Misunderstood Breed: Groom, Billie: 9781525547287: Books - Amazon.ca


    57. Save Time and Money with a Subject Specific Dog Specialist

    57. Save Time and Money with a Subject Specific Dog Specialist

    In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast, I talk about the importance of working with a specialist who will save time and money as you try to solve your dog related challenges. I'm currently raising a pair of orphaned dobermans and have been so grateful for the support I am getting from Puppy Culture. Similarly, when I needed to learn about aggressive behavior, I felt fortunate to be able to take a focused class from Michael Shikashio. 

    I'd love to be that kind of support for you - a dog and child specialist. Stop wasting time trying to get specialized help from a general practitioner - get the help you need from someone who can help you to make progress with your dogs and kids fast.

    Resources mentioned in the episode
    Dogwood Animal Rescue Project

    Puppy Culture

    Michael Shikashio

    The Pooch Parenting Society - a supportive membership for parents with dogs

    The Pooch Parenting Coach Collective - a membership for dog professionals who want to build their confidence so they can take on more clients who have children

    To see a video of my puppies playing and an irresistible photo, please visit the show notes page: www.poochparenting.net/episode57

    Thank you for listening!

    54. When Dogs Bite Kids

    54. When Dogs Bite Kids

    This podcast episode was inspired by a Facebook post written by a mother who was in distress because her dog had bitten two of her children, resulting in visits to the emergency room. I discuss what happens when dogs bite kids, including:

    • who to ask for advice
    • parenting challenges when living with kids and dogs
    • factors about dogs to consider
    • factors about kids to consider

    Dog Advice

    Who should you ask for advice about your dogs and children? Consider these factors:

    • Your Budget - you will need to pay for professional help. This might include getting the help of a veterinary behaviorist, dog trainer and/or behavior consultant...and maybe a combination of all of these. If you can not afford to get adequate support, you may not be able to safely keep this dog as a member of your family and there is NO shame there. 
    • Expertise - don't ask for advice from people who are not qualified to give it. Other parents or dog owners have likely not spent years of their lives studying dog behavior. Just as FB is not a place to ask for medical advice, it's not the place to ask how to prevent dog bites to your children. It's 100% worth the investment to get help from a positive reinforcement professional. Your child and dog's lives are at stake. Dogs who bite kids don't usually have a very long lifespan, so don't mess around hoping for the best. This won't resolve itself.
    • Asking for help on social media will likely lead to painful, shaming comments that will make you feel worse about yourself than you already do. Find someone compassionate to get support from instead.

    Parenting Kids and Dogs

    As a mom and teacher with 16 years of experience, I tend to truly understand what many families are going through, and love to offer them solutions that will make their lives easier. People who have not lived with young children don't understand how chaotic and stressful it can be. 

    It's important to be honest with yourself about your bandwidth and what you can actually implement with your dog. Perhaps all you can do right now is to use a baby gate to give your dog or children a safe space. If that is adequate to solve your problem, great. If not, you may need to make some hard decisions about your family's future with this dog. To make REAL change, you may need to commit to spending time, money and other resources on improving the dynamics at home between your dog and children.

    Children

    Kids can be hard to live with. And that's not an insult. It's just how it is. They are like puppies - curious about exploring the world and testing boundaries. This is all normal. But it can be a difficult combination with your dog. Not all dogs love living with kids, so it's important that you choose one who does. If your dog came first, you will have to put in some extra effort to help them adjust to life with kids. And for some dogs, that may not be possible. 

    The most common advice parents hear and trainers give parents is to "never leave your kids and dogs unsupervised." This is oversimplified and discounts how thinly parents are spread. You can use gates, pens, crates, and doors to separate kids and dogs when yo

    Thank you for listening!

    53. Free Online Summit - Sanity Savers for Parents with Dogs

    53. Free Online Summit - Sanity Savers for Parents with Dogs

    It’s National Dog Bite Prevention Week - and I believe that when we know better, we do better.

    That’s why I’m so excited to be sharing the Sanity Savers for Parents with Dogs Online Summit with you!

    In just 40(ish) minutes, you'll get actionable ideas you can use to make living with kids and dogs safer, easier and less stressful

    You’ll hear tips from Parenting and Dog Experts on...

    • Helping your dog to enjoy being around your kids (and vice versa!)
    • Preventing jumping, chasing and nibbling
    • Easing your own temper - and that of your kids
    • …and so much more

    The best part?

    It’s entirely FREE.

    I can almost guarantee you’ll come away with at least one idea! And who knows where that one idea might lead! At the very least, it should give you some pointers that will make living with kids and dogs easier, safer and less chaotic.

    Register, and get instant access to the Sanity Savers for Parents with dogs online summit.

    Dog Rescue Organizations

    Please reach out to get a super duper discount code for my Kid and Dog Relationships online workshop. It's the perfect resource for all of your adopters who have children. We want to help your adoptions be successful - and this workshop will help to set parents, kids and dogs up to succeed.

    Dog Pros

    If kids aren't your jam, please consider referring these clients out - to me or another dog and child specialist. As a mom and teacher with 16 years of experience, I tend to truly understand what many families are going through, and love to offer them solutions that will make their lives easier. I can help them prepare dog for new baby, cope with the chaos that comes with toddlerhood, and can help kids do lots of activities that strengthen their relationship with the family dog. 

    ps. If you want to discuss some of your cases and be sure you are on the right track, I also offer 30-minute coaching sessions to other trainers and behavior consultants.

    Additional resources:

    Thank you for listening!

    49. Should Kids Be Allowed To Walk the Dog Alone?

    49. Should Kids Be Allowed To Walk the Dog Alone?

    In today's episode of The Pooch Parenting Podcast, I answer a question that I hear quite often: should kids be allowed to walk the dog alone? And if so, how old should kids be before they can walk the dog by themselves?

    We consider:

    • Safety concerns for the child and dog
    • Outcomes of the walk
    • Developmental stage of child and dog

    Thank you for listening!

    46. Can working with a dog trainer save your marriage?

    46. Can working with a dog trainer save your marriage?

    While working with families who have kids and dogs, I have noticed that couples commonly experience strain, stress, and pressure on their relationship or marriage. Partners often disagree on the best strategy to raise their kids and their dogs, which can lead to resentment and lots of arguments. 

    But by bringing in a compassionate dog trainer who is not on "anyone's side", couples can often work through challenges that are deeply straining their marriage. In some cases, a marriage can be saved when couples implement advice given by a non biased dog training professional.

    Need some support? I'd be honored to help. www.poochparenting.net

    Thank you for listening!

    45. Should You Give Unsolicited Advice about Dogs and Kids?

    45. Should You Give Unsolicited Advice about Dogs and Kids?

    People often ask me how they should respond when people send them photos of their "cute" dogs and babies having unsafe interactions together. Or maybe they see a dangerous interaction on social media and aren't sure if they should say something. Many people resent unsolicited advice and become defensive (or block you for trying to help them). 

    In this episode, we discuss the pros and cons of offering unsolicited advice. I also share some tips for how to give advice that people are actually willing to hear. 

    Thank you for listening!

    42. Dog Crates are NOT for Kids

    42. Dog Crates are NOT for Kids

    Clients call me to help them feel more confident as they parent their kids and dogs. Parenting is the hardest thing most of us have done, and when you throw a puppy into the mix, it can feel even more chaotic than you could have imagined. When safety is a concern, parents feel an urgent need to get support. And sometimes, I get called to solve a family debate. In today's episode, I share how I helped a couple to understand that their child should not go into the dog crate.

    Dog crates need to represent a safe space. If a child violates that trust, it can not only be dangerous in the moment, but it can damage the trust between that dog and child moving forward. 

    Thank you for listening!

    39. Better Dog Behavior with Baby Steps

    39. Better Dog Behavior with Baby Steps

    It can be overwhelming to parent kids and dogs at the same time. There are so many decisions to make that it can be easy to feel paralyzed and not take any action at all.  Unfortunately, when kids and dogs live together, you can't afford not to step in and try to help your dog to behave better.  The good news is that if you take baby steps, you will see more improvement than if you just wait and hope things will improve on their own.

    Between the hundreds of dog training videos you can find on YouTube, blog articles and dog trainers online, it can feel overwhelming when you don't know who you can trust. Fortunately, as a parent, family dog mediator, and certified professional dog trainer, you can trust me. I get it. I raised two kids alongside dogs and I know what it's like to live in your shoes.  

    In this episode, we discuss 3 examples of how I used baby steps to help different dogs to make progress. Sometimes it feels messy, but remember - imperfect action can still help you and your dog to make progress.

    If you'd like ongoing support as your kids and dogs grow up together, or even for just a few months to help you to get through a rough patch, please get on the waitlist for The Pooch Parenting Society (safekidsanddogs.com). You'll enjoy the practical advice and fun family activities that will help your dog family live together in harmony.

    Thank you for listening!

    37. Should Kids Live in Homes with Dogs Who Have an Aggression History?

    37. Should Kids Live in Homes with Dogs Who Have an Aggression History?

    In this episode, I talk with Matt Beisner, the host of the television show Dog: Impossible on NatGeo Wild. Matt has two toddlers and lives with several dogs who displayed aggression in their younger days. We discuss whether or not kids can safely live in homes with dogs who have displayed aggressive behaviors in the past.


    In this episode…

    • There are no bad dogs, only bad matches
    • Flexibility is KEY in managing multiple dog households and in creating & implementing management plans between kids and dogs.
    • When considering your dog or child’s behavior, don’t assume that because they haven’t done something, that they won’t ever do it. Add the word “yet” to any behavior concept so that you are not in denial and to avoid surprises.
    • Sleep deprivation is going to happen. Consider the types of baby gates you can easily use when exhausted. How else can you make your life easier when exhausted?
    • Love is not enough – you need multiple management plans
    • You are not alone. Help is available.
    • 90% of aggressive behavior in dogs is FEAR based. Be patient, give space, and have empathy. Punishment does not work.

    Thank you for listening!

    34. Resource Guarding in Dog Families with Kids

    34. Resource Guarding in Dog Families with Kids

    In this episode, I talk with Eileen Koval about different resource guarding scenarios in family dogs - and what to do about them. We discuss what resource guarding is, some of the underlying causes, and both training and management strategies to deal with it. 

    Thank you for listening!

    33. Preparing Dog for New Baby and the Transition to Toddlerhood

    33. Preparing Dog for New Baby and the Transition to Toddlerhood

    In this episode, I talk with Stevie Moss, a mom of two kids under the age of 3 and a professional dog trainer in the UK. We discuss how Stevie prepared her anxious dog for the arrival of each of her children and how she helped to ease her dog's transition when her first baby became mobile and turned into an unpredictable toddler. 

    If you are a dog mom and are planning on expanding your family, if you have a dog and baby or if you have a dog and toddler, this episode is for you.

    Thank you for listening!

    25. Reactive Rescue Dogs in Families with Kids

    25. Reactive Rescue Dogs in Families with Kids

    In this episode of the Pooch Parenting Podcast with Miranda Wimbush Bourque, we talk about rescue dogs who are reactive and how to make this a safer experience for families. We talk about how to set up everyone for success - from playdates to walks. Some of what we say might surprise you.

    We discuss:

    • dog rescue
    • reactive dogs
    • parenting kids and dogs
    • kids living safely with a reactive dog
    • dog and child safety
    • management strategies to help parents, kids and dogs
    • parent overwhelm 

    Thank you for listening!

    9. Kids Walking Dogs & Loose Leash Walking - Listener questions

    9. Kids Walking Dogs & Loose Leash Walking - Listener questions

    In this episode, we hear two questions from listeners about walking dogs on leash. In the first question, Karen asks for tips to share with her two children who are helping to walk a small dog belonging to their elderly neighbor. In the second question, Ryan asks for loose leash walking tips for his adolescent dog who is nearing 100 pounds.

    If you have a question about dogs and kids that you would like me to address in a future episode, please visit: www.speakpipe.com/poochparenting and leave me a voice recording of your question. 

    Thank you for listening!

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