how to be more decisive

Our stream-of-consciousness series, The Serendipity Sessions, returns again! Listen in as we have a real-time and fully unplanned conversation that leads us to some significant topics we have on our minds. We land on some thought-provoking conclusions as we discuss various subjects including the debilitating effects of overthinking, to the influence and wisdom of affirmations, to the power of learning how to let go with love. 

By nature of The Serendipity Sessions, we invite you to hit play and explore these topics with us as we uncover them for ourselves. But if you'd like some additional hints at what we cover in this episode, see this purposefully abstract list below:

• What do you do when you can't rely on your thoughts OR feelings?
• How to shift energies that feel unshiftable
• The role of detaching and observing 
• Language is crazyyyy
• What does "promise" mean?
• We each picked a 'word of the year' for 2024
• (Un)healthy defense mechanisms when life feels chaotic
• 2024 cannot and will not be another 2023
• What does love have to do with liberation?
• The problem with Oprah

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About The Serendipity Sessions:
We began The Serendipity Sessions as a series in the Clairannoyance podcast so we could have real-time unscripted conversations. Unlike our subject-specific deep dives and guest interview episodes, The Serendipity Sessions is a raw reflection of the genuine bond we share. We have no rules and no episode notes in advance, just a free-flowing exchange of thoughts and emotions. It's an exploration of the outer banks of consciousness where untamed treasures are hidden away. We believe one sudden insight can hold immense value, far beyond most meticulously planned discussions. Each session is a unique encounter with chance as we defy routine and enjoy a spontaneous dance with spirituality. We aim to keep these episodes as evergreen as possible, so you can find your way here whenever you need to. And hopefully, you'll encounter pieces of yourself every time you join us.

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Placed for a purpose: discerning God’s will when your heart wants to move. 
With the summer months especially, many of us can find ourselves in a place of wanting to travel, change jobs, or mix up something in our lives. However, when we have a continuous desire for change, how do we know if that is from God? How can we discern His will vs. our own wants and desires?

In this episode, we invite Hannah Bidne, our college ministry intern, on to discuss discerning God's will versus our own wants and desires.

If you’ve been listening to the show, you know Dustin and I have a lot going on. Our move to Colorado has been moved from originally February 2022 to October 2021, just a few weeks from when this episode airs. Amid all the normal business of business and the typical moving stresses, we have a big decision to make. This is a decision that has really been affecting me lately and I think even hurting other decisions and to-do lists in my life. 

Yesterday, my body just told me to stop. I pushed the pause button on everything we have going on and relaxed, napped, and rested. I am feeling the effects of that today because I have been the most productive I have in a while; I’ve finished my lists and more. So if you're feeling overwhelmed and tired, listen to your body, take that rest because it is usually what we need to be our best self and show up. 

Even though I’m rested and I’m feeling better, that big decision is still hanging over my head. Dustin and I are really struggling with what to do with our California house. We bought a house in Colorado, and we don’t know if we should sell, rent, or VRBO our house in Oceanside. We are thinking each option out and there are just so many variables and outcomes; I am at a standstill. Regardless, I need to decide, we need to decide. I am hoping that this can help some of my listeners make some of their big decisions too.

Through my search on how to cure indecisiveness; here are some of the top tips on how to be more decisive: 

• Eliminate all options.
• Embrace uncertainty wholeheartedly.
• Get clarity on priorities.
• Overcome perfectionism.
• Let go of your need for control.
• Stop asking for reassurance.
• Tackle decision fatigue.

Going through all of these tips has helped me see the barriers holding me back from making our decision. Some of the tips I have really been able to put into action and narrow down our choices, and others I now know what I need to do to get closer to that final decision. In my research, I read that inaction causes more damage, and you increase your chances of failing by not deciding. I know I'll be ready to decide soon and if you are working on making a big decision too, hopefully, these tips can give you direction as well. If you have some special tips or secrets on how you make your decisions, send me a DM or email. I can’t wait to hear from you!

What’s Inside:

• How to be more decisive.
• What to do when you're indecisive.
• Life advise for making choices.
• Knowing when to trust yourself and trust your choices.

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Ever wondered about the real reasons why you procrastinate? 

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Cassandra lives in North Queensland, married to the man of her dreams, has for amazing kids and is still left unfulfilled. She is looking for help and advice with starting her own business to support children through Q foundation. 

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