reactivity

Small dogs get easily overwhelmed by handling as well as putting on a harness.
When these daily chores become just too much and running away is no longer working, aggression can happen.
In this episode, you will meet a little dog, who was really fearful of the harness and having her nails trimmed and a possible way out of the situation.

 Are you ready to transform your relationship with your dog and help him/her become the nature companion you always dreamed of having? 
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Click here for a free guide on leash reactivity: https://www.bravedogtrainingonline.com/courses/leash-reactivity-beginners-guide/ 

What are your thoughts? 
Do you have any questions? 
I'd love to hear from you 

Anita Dog 
trainer - behavior consultant 
www.bravedogtrainingonline.com 
https://www.facebook.com/Brave-Dog-Training-Online-109497017854724 

Ever wondered about the magical connection between your mind and body? Or how embracing both pleasure and discomfort can unlock your body's healing potential? Meet the brilliant mind behind Body Church™, Dr. Liz Letchford. On today's episode, she takes us on a journey, seamlessly weaving together the threads of physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and sensual health to tap into a profound source of wellness and vitality. Join us as we demystify the body and unlock all the wisdom it holds – no more secrets, just pure celebration, or BODY CHURCH as Liz calls it.

We're chatting:

• Bliss Capacity
• "The Tension Field"
• The Fascial System
• Tuning into Your Inner Artist
• Mind Body Connection
• Embodied Power
• Disempowerment
• Exploring Reactivity
• Sensuality as Medicine
• Harmonic Resonance

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Episode Highlights With Suneel Gupta

• His experience with being clinically obese for most of his teen years
• What dharma is and the equation for it
• Dharma = essence + expression
• Finding your dharma isn’t so much of a transformation but more of a revelation of realizing what is already there
• A simple question: what are the bright spots of your current day?
• What rhythmic renewal is and how to use it to your advantage 
• The most overrated skill in the modern world: reactivity… and how to combat it
• The world is going to break your heart until one day, if you allow it, your heart will crack open. From that cracked-open heart, we start to find love
• A few practical exercises to begin to uncover your dharma
• One common denominator in people who seem to achieve a lot of success and have inner success (happiness, gratitude, fulfillment)
• Ways we can help our kids nurture their dharma from a young age
• Essence mindset vs occupation mindset 

Resources We Mention

• Everyday Dharma: 8 Essential Practices for Finding Success and Joy in Everything You Do by Suneel Gupta
• Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
• The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

A dog that bites without warning is very hard to live with.
That's why we cannot punish growling, avoidance or even snarling.
In this episode, I'll share a case with you that shows how important those communication behaviors are.

 Are you ready to transform your relationship with your dog and help him/her become the nature companion you always dreamed of having? 
🥳Click here for a free discovery call:  https://calendly.com/anita-bravedogtrainingonline/30min  

🆓 Check out this free Facebook group with lovely people to share this journey with: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542845953429695/ 

🆓 You wanna dive right in for free? Check out our courses: https://www.bravedogtrainingonline.com/online-dog-training-courses/ 

 Click here for a free guide on leash reactivity:
https://www.bravedogtrainingonline.com/courses/leash-reactivity-beginners-guide/

  what are your thoughts?
have you got any questions?

 I'd love to hear from you

 Love
Anita
Dog trainer - behavior consultant

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Guest host, Jacki O from Chicago, pulls up today to chat about reactivity in the DMs. the triggers that lead to it and the rampant "but me too" mindset that on social media.

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129  We almost all get triggered (upset, reactive, bothered, suddenly overcome with emotion) at times in our intimate relationship, especially as highly sensitive people. Although so common, it’s also a big contributing factor in marital unhappiness.

To put an end to the yucky feelings and damaging effects that being triggered can have on your marriage, you’ve got to learn what’s going on when you get triggered, why it happens (it might not be what you think it is), who’s causing you to be triggered, and how to calm and even outgrow your triggers.

Listen in for all of that, and to hear about the 3 things that cause certain words, tones of voice, expressions on your partner's face, things they do, or events to be triggering trigger to you, and what it will take to ease or eliminate those triggers altogether (and what won't work!). 

With personal and client stories woven throughout, this episode gets you started on the path of working through what upsets you and your sensitive system compassionately, so you can put an end to being triggered and have the light, connected, supportive relationship you were born for as a sensitive woman.

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Show notes:

The journey into his masculine, and how he holds space for the feminine.

-- reactivity

-- anchor -- regulated nervous system

-- breath work

-- shibari and space holding and communication



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You are the Placebo - Dr Joe Dispenza


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All this week we’ve been looking at Paul Tripp’s new book, Reactivity: How The Gospel Transforms our Actions and Reactions, and what it means to respect the dignity of others, especially as we and our children learn how to best glorify God on social media. Tripp asks, what does it mean to treat people with dignity? Tripp reminds us that when we find ourselves in disagreements with others, we must see them as human beings. This means that when we are tempted to see or treat them as less, we must remind ourselves that they are divine image bearers. In addition, Tripp says that we must think of others as never too lost to be beyond redemption. Nobody is beyond the reach of God’s grace. No one is lost a cause. He writes, there is no sin so great, no darkness so deep, and no rebellion so strong that it lives beyond the rescuing, convicting, forgiving, transforming, and delivering power of God’s grace. Parents, teach your kids to show the same measure of grace to others, that God has shown to them.

All this week we are looking at Paul Tripp’s new book, Reactivity: How The Gospel Transforms our Actions and Reactions, and what it means to respect the dignity of others, remembering that all human beings are divine image bearers, especially as we and our children learn how to best glorify God on social media. Tripp asks, what does it mean to treat people with dignity? In world where we tend to attack others over our differences, Paul Tripp tells us that we need to resolve to respond to differences with appreciation and grace. Scripture calls us to unity and not uniformity. God has made us different from one another in many ways. We need to approach each other with humility, kindness, graciousness, appreciation, patience, and grace. Can you imagine how the social media landscape and all of our personal interactions would be transformed if we approached each other in this way? Your kids will be living with social media and technology for the rest of their lives. Now is the time to train them well.

All this week we are looking at Paul Tripp’s new book, Reactivity: How The Gospel Transforms our Actions and Reactions, and what it means to respect the dignity of others, as all human beings are divine image bearers, especially as we and our children learn how to best glorify God on social media. Tripp asks, what does it mean to treat people with dignity? He says that we need to resolve to intentionally do no harm to anyone. Tripp writes, “Scripture clearly forbids that we would act in any way to harm our neighbor. The Bible prohibits murder, forbids any act of vengeance, calls us to be angry without sinning, and commands us not to gossip. Scripture is clear that all of our responses to one another are to be shaped and directed by love, even if that person is your enemy.” This guidance from Paul Tripp is so timely as we work to navigate a social media world that seems to celebrate anger and gossip. Parents, model well these good social media habits, teaching your children to do the same.

All this week we are looking at Paul Tripp’s new book, Reactivity: How The Gospel Transforms our Actions and Reactions, and what it means to respect the dignity of others, as all human beings are divine image bearers, especially as we and our children learn how to best glorify God on social media. Tripp asks, what does it mean to treat people with dignity? He says that we must resolve to treat every person with respect, no matter what. This is a kind of respect that doesn’t have to be earned, but rather it is an honor given simply because you bear the image of God. Tripp tells us that we must be careful not to give ourselves permission to be disrespectful and cruel to others just because they are the enemy of what we think is good, true, and beautiful. We are called to resolve to respect others not because of what we think of them, but because of who God has created and declared them to be. Tomorrow, we’ll continue to look at Tripp’s guidance for us and for our kids. 

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"Basic gun dog training is just good general dog training, really. It’s outside, in a natural environment, in a sort of rural environment where you have all the distractions or environmental reinforcers that every dog is exposed to.”

Discover the world of gun dog training and its incredible benefits for both dogs and dog trainers in this engaging conversation with Jo Laurens, author, instructor, podcaster, and gun dog trainer. Not only will you learn about the foundations of gun dog training, but you'll also see how it’s beneficial to your dog’s overall behavior and obedience.

Our hosts Robin Greubel and Crystal Wing chat with Jo about the essential skills for gun dog training and how they can be translated into general dog training for any breed. You'll learn how understanding the environment as a potential reinforcer can help build a reliable recall and well-trained dog, as well as the benefits of breaking up the chain of behaviors to keep the dog guessing and learning. They also emphasize how these techniques can be used in force-free methods, leading to happier and more successful dogs and trainers.

Stay tuned as they explore Jo's online gun dog training academy, her book Force-Free Gundog Training: The Fundamentals for Success, and the accompanying Workbook. Jo shares her experiences working with different gun dog breeds and the importance of really knowing the breed you're working with.

Key Topics:

• Basics of Gun Dog Training (0:05:31)
• “Environmental Reinforcers” (0:07:42)
• Chain of Behaviors (0:08:57)
• Foundational Behaviors of Gun Dogs (0:11:36)
• Classes Jo is Currently Offering (0:18:54)
• Jo’s Writing Process and Her Books (0:21:04)
• Jo’s Variety of Breeds She’s Had (0:27:03)
• “Working with the Dog in Front of Me” (0:36:44)
• Clicker Retrieve (0:40:36)
• Jo’s Plan for Her Next Book (0:53:35)
• Takeaways (0:57:55)

Resources:

• Force-Free Gundog Training: The Fundamentals for Success (book)
• Force Free Gundog Website (discount code for courses: welcome101)
• Hold The Line (podcast)

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So you like dogs and want to add one, should you?  Let me tell you about two very similar conversations I had this week about two families wanting to add a plus one.  The results are not the same, but the conversations are of the same flavor.   If anything, I hope you learn a little bit about what to consider when adding a dog into the home.  When is it the right time? Who should you add? We are trying to build a happy home and adopting a dog, even a puppy, isn't always the answer.  

On this episode, I am reacting to how a certain person was helping a rescue pup overcome her reactivity.  I TRY to stay in my own lane, but I just couldn't any longer seeing this poor pup get harmed in the attempt to "cure" the reactivity.  No worries, this is not a bashing episode.  I will explain the why and what I would do instead as a teacher to help my fearful pup.  I want my pup to feel safe and comforted.  I want to use up to date research in my approach.  Prong collars have GOT TO GO! Take a listen! 

111  Anger is not a bad emotion. It can be a useful fuel for positive change in our relationships. But in our modern relationships, it most often isn't…

That’s because we tend to over-indulge in it, and react out of it. So it ends up doing more harm than good in our marriages.

If you find yourself annoyed, frustrated, resentful, or angry somewhat often at your partner–and you think you may show it (even if only subtly), please know that you are not a bad partner and this is quite normal. Yet, it is most likely not only pushing you and your partner apart, but also diluting any power your anger may have to make things better between you.

If so, it’s time to take a different approach. This doesn't mean eliminating anger, but rather evolving the way you handle it so it can serve you effectively, the way it was meant to. 

Dive in to learn about:

• How our unconscious defense mechanisms can lead to over-relying on anger in an attempt to improve things
• Why, if you're feeling anger often, it's likely because you're in a very normal stage in your relationship–one that you can move beyond, so you can have the love and connection you want. 
• The 2 kinds of anger–one that hurts and one that heals. 
• How the way I handled anger really hurt my first marriage—and how the way I handle it now has been a healing force in my own marriage.
• How you, too, can begin shifting from the harmful to the helpful type of anger
• What ”strategic anger” can do for you and your relationship when you learn to use it.
• What you can do instead of getting really angry at your significant other to make positive changes between you.
  
  

Tune in to this episode to start building a whole new relationship with your very human emotion of anger–one that will help you have the relationship you really want with your husband.

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Episodes mentioned: 

• Grievance: The Biggest Barrier To A Loving Marriage
• Calming Emotional Reactivity For HSPs
• How To Feel Safe To Feel Any Feeling

Feel prouder of your doodle's behavior on walks and start enjoying walks in your neighborhood again! Find out if your dog is a frustrated greeter on leash and what to do!

In part 3 of our discussion of leash reactivity and barking and lunging on walks, guest trainer Victoria Baker explains why dogs who aren't fearful or anxious are pulling and barking when they see another dog.   Learn how to better meet their needs and how to stop their pulling and barking on walks. 

This episode answers questions including:
- Why does my dog bark when seeing other dogs but seems happy once we reach them?
- Should I let my dog meet other dogs on walks?
- What is a frustrated greeter?
- Is my dog a frustrated greeter?
- How to deal with a frustrated greeter dog?
- Is a frustrated greeter reactivity?

Read full show notes at https://thedoodlepro.com/26-how-to-train-frustrated-greeter-not-to-bark-on-walks/

Catch part 1 of my interview where we discuss WHY dogs bark and lunge on leashes at https://thedoodlepro.com/24.

Listen to part 2 of our interview where Victoria explains HOW to help dogs who are barking on walks due to fear or anxiety at https://thedoodlepro.com/25.

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Join me for the second part of my interview with trainer Victoria Baker as we dive into her specialty- leash reactivity!  She shares her proven training methods to stop your dog from barking, lunging, hiding, or growling on walks.

Is your dog barking at leash at other dogs?

Last week was the WHY of leash reactivity.  This week is the HOW to fix it!

On this second of my interview with certified dog trainer Victoria Baker, we address HOW to train your dog to calmly walk on a leash with answers to questions like:

• Why does my dog bark on leash but not off?
• How to stop dog from pulling and barking on leash?
• Why do dogs bark at other dogs or does my dog bark on leash?
• How to stop leash reactivity?
• How to deal with leash reactivity?

Victoria brings her expertise as a reactive dog trainer in Denver, Colorado to help doodle parents around the world understand why your dog barks on a leash but not off and that reactive dogs can get better. Understanding how to build trust and a feeling of safety can cure this issue for your dog!

Catch part three of our conversation where she explains to fix the issue of "Frustrated Greeters" on Episode 26 of the Doodle Pro Podcast (released 12/20/22). On that episode, she'll guide you on how to stop your doodle from pulling and walking on walks because they are desperate to play with who is ahead!

Find full show notes at https://thedoodlepro.com/25

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