In this episode of Flourish or Fold, I am positively delighted to host Quinton Aaron, star of the Academy Award winning film "The Blind Side." Quinton joins me to discuss his life experiences, including his health challenges and personal struggles. He emphasizes the importance of resilience, self-love, and leading with love and also shares his belief in a higher power and the importance of taking control of one's destiny.
Here are some key takeaways from our conversation:
Moving Forward, Not Dwelling on the Past
Quinton emphasized the importance of moving forward and not dwelling on the past. He acknowledged that mistakes are inevitable, but it's crucial not to let these setbacks break us. Instead, we should view them as stepping stones towards a better future.
Quinton and "The Blind Side"
Our conversation naturally veered towards Quinton's role in "The Blind Side." Many people have misconceptions about his life being similar to the character he portrayed. He clarified that while they may look similar, their upbringings were different. He grew up with a loving mother, while the character he played was raised in the foster system. However, both Quinton and his character shared a dream of achieving greatness and worked hard to make it a reality.
Resilience and Overcoming Challenges
When asked about a significant challenge that has shaped him into the person he is today, Quinton reflected on his health issues, including a heart condition and diabetes. He sees these challenges as opportunities for growth and learning, and he strives to use his experiences to help others going through similar struggles.
Quinton's Faith and Beliefs
Quinton shared a series of remarkable experiences that have shaped his beliefs and strengthened his faith. He recounted a moment when he and his friends were dining at a restaurant and noticed a storm approaching. As they watched in awe, the storm suddenly dissipated, leaving the surroundings untouched. It was only later, when they encountered a police officer that they learned a tornado had passed through the area just minutes before.
Taking Control of One's Destiny
Quinton emphasized the importance of taking control of one's own destiny and not succumbing to the belief that certain conditions or illnesses are predetermined by family history. He believes that by making conscious choices and breaking unhealthy patterns, individuals can create a different outcome for themselves.
The Power of Believing in Oneself
Quinton shared a pivotal moment in his life when he received a call from his manager informing him that he had been cast as the lead role in the movie "The Blind Side." This news came at a time when Quinton was facing eviction and feeling uncertain about his future. The excitement and disbelief he felt upon receiving the news were overwhelming, and he immediately shared the news with his brother, who had been emotionally distant since their mother's passing.
Quinton's Struggles with Depression and Self-Worth
Quinton opened up about his personal struggles with depression and self-worth. He shared that while he never felt like he wanted to end his life, he did experience feelings of loneliness and a belief that he didn't deserve the things he desired. However, he learned an important lesson from someone who told him to find happiness within himself, rather than relying on others.
Quinton's Future Roles and Projects
When asked about his future roles as an actor, Quinton expressed that, while he is open to various genres, he is leaning towards love stories and playing the guy who gets the girl in romantic comedies. Quinton also discussed his upcoming projects and his mission to spread love and positivity through his music. He mentioned a song called "Find a New Way" that he will be performing with his brother, who is also a rapper.
We were truly honored and delighted to have Quinton as a guest. His ability to face challenges and continue to make a positive impact in the world is truly inspiring. Quinton's positive outlook and ability to find meaning in difficult situations are uplifting and inspiring. His ability to face challenges and continue to make a positive impact in the world is truly inspiring. We admire his resilience and determination to reinvent himself. Thank you so much to Quinton for joining us
To learn more about Quinton and his latest acting and musical endeavors please visit him at the following locations:
Official Site: https://www.iamquintonaaron.com/
Instagram: @officialquintonaaron
Facebook: @iamquintonaaron
TikTok: @iamquintonaaron
Here are some highlights of the episode to look forward to:
The call that changed Quinton's life (00:01:34): Quinton Aaron discusses the life-changing moment when he received the call for his role in "The Blind Side" and the similarities between himself and the character he portrayed.
Facing challenges and finding purpose (00:06:01): Quinton reflects on the challenges he has faced, including health issues, and how he uses them to grow, help others, and find his purpose.
Encounter with a tornado (00:11:25): Quinton recounts a personal experience during COVID-19 where he witnessed a tornado and the mix of fear and calmness he felt in that moment.
The Tornado Encounter (00:13:24): Quinton recounts his experience with a tornado and how it led to a realization about fear and faith.
Facing a Scary Diagnosis (00:16:40): Quinton discusses his diagnosis of congestive heart failure and how he chose to approach it with faith and determination.
Creating a Different Prognosis (00:20:14): Quinton talks about the importance of making lifestyle changes to overcome hereditary health conditions and create a different outcome.
The Blind Side is Underway (00:27:35): Quinton's manager calls to inform him that he has booked the lead role in "The Blind Side" movie.
First Smile Since His Mom's Passing (00:29:37): Quinton's brother reacts with joy and laughter upon hearing the news of Quinton booking the lead role.
Challenges and Flourishing in Life (00:35:41): Quinton discusses the importance of facing challenges, learning from them, and continuing to flourish in life.
Depression and self-worth (00:41:03): Quinton discusses his experience with depression, feeling lonely and unworthy, and the importance of finding happiness within oneself.
Practicing self-love: (00:43:18): The conversation focuses on the importance of practicing self-love and how it impacts one's ability to love others.
Acting aspirations (00:45:24): Quinton shares his desire to play the lead in romantic comedies and action films, discussing his dreams of being an action star and his love for comedy.
The Resilience of Quinton Aaron (00:55:59): Quinton shares his wisdom and knowledge on cultivating resilience and finding meaning in challenges.
Quinton Aaron's Slogan (00:56:45): Quinton discusses his slogan and the importance of thinking and doing something good.
