In today's episode, I'm diving into the fascinating topic of how trauma bonds impact not only our psychological well-being but also our genetic coding and physical health. So let's start by understanding that our DNA, our very genetic makeup, is significantly affected by the bonds formed through traumatic experiences. While we often focus on the emotional and mental aspects of trauma, it's vital to recognize that trauma leaves a trace in our brains and bodies.
Trauma bonds, especially those formed in relationships, have a profound influence on our limbic system. This part of our brain creates a blueprint of the trauma, which then manifests in our subconscious as an ongoing quest to resolve it. However, our limbic system lacks timestamps, creating an endless loop of unresolved trauma.
The brain and body can't distinguish past from present, leading to emotional pain and turmoil experienced long after a relationship ends. Whether the trauma bond was with a romantic partner, family member, or friend, the brain's genetic coding remembers and stores it. This is crucial because our subconscious mind governs 95% of our behaviors, constantly striving to address historical trauma, even if it doesn't know how or when.
Chronic stress, triggered by trauma bonds, leads to imbalances in our nervous system, high levels of stress hormones, and physical symptoms like disrupted sleep and weakened immunity. The impact of stress isn't limited to psychological distress; it affects our overall health. The body remains in a perpetual fight-or-flight mode, which can lead to various health issues, including gastrointestinal problems, heart conditions, and even cognitive impairment.
Furthermore, trauma bonds influence our genetic coding through epigenetics, altering our gene expression. DNA methylation adds methyl groups to specific genes, making them less active, especially in areas related to emotional regulation and stress response. Histone modification affects the accessibility of genes for transcription, making it difficult for us to regulate emotions, think clearly, and problem-solve during stressful situations.
Additionally, trauma bonds may be transmitted across generations, impacting not only our lives but those of our descendants. Inherited genetic coding can predispose future generations to similar emotional struggles and relationship dynamics.
The key to breaking free from the grip of trauma bonds is a holistic approach that combines psychological and physical healing. Somatic-based techniques, mindfulness, meditation, and self-compassion can help activate dormant genes, rewire our brains, and regulate our nervous systems.
Remember, understanding the deeper meaning of your emotions and addressing the roots of your trauma bonds can pave the way for healing and breaking the cycle. If you have any questions or thoughts about this episode, please reach out to me. Your journey to resolution and healing begins with self-awareness and self-compassion.
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