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    140 - Your personal evolution and micro moments Ft. Raed Khawaja

    en-usJanuary 17, 2024

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    • Kroger's Affordable Mealtime Options and Integrating Business and WellnessKroger provides 30,000+ affordable meal options and promotes wellness through digital coupons and fuel rewards. Ryaid Khawaja stresses the importance of balancing business and wellness for a fulfilling life.

      Kroger offers an extensive selection of over 30,000 delicious options for mealtime inspiration, all while ensuring affordable prices and additional savings through digital coupons and fuel rewards. Ryaid Khawaja, co-founder and CEO of The Open App, emphasized the importance of integrating business and wellness, rather than viewing them as opposing forces. During their conversation on The Open House Podcast, they discussed the benefits of mindfulness, self-care, and taking breaks from the constant hustle to find harmony and balance. By prioritizing mental health and well-being, both in personal life and business endeavors, individuals can create a more fulfilling and harmonious experience.

    • Embracing Playfulness and Self-ExpressionIncorporate play and self-expression into daily life for personal growth and strong relationships. Find time for laughter and connection, overcome cultural challenges to express ourselves, and surround ourselves with supportive people.

      Incorporating play and self-expression into our daily lives is essential for personal growth and maintaining strong relationships. The speaker emphasizes the importance of setting aside time for play, even in professional settings, and finding opportunities to laugh and connect with others. She also discusses the challenges of expressing ourselves freely in today's culture, and the importance of surrounding ourselves with people who understand and support us. The speaker shares a personal exercise called "I love you because" as a way to build self-love and strengthen connections with others. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of embracing playfulness, self-expression, and authentic connections in our lives.

    • Effective Communication and Emotional ExpressionEmbrace vulnerability, communicate feelings constructively, and express self to foster personal growth and meaningful relationships. Taking initiative and expressing genuine interest can lead to unexpected opportunities.

      Effective communication is key to understanding and expressing our emotions, which is essential for personal growth and building meaningful relationships. The work being done by Open, as discussed, aims to equip individuals with the necessary vocabulary and tools to communicate their feelings constructively. This is particularly important in an era where there's a disconnect between what we feel and our ability to articulate it. The speaker shared a personal story of reaching out to Open's CEO, Ryan, and how a bold message led to a successful collaboration. This anecdote illustrates the power of taking initiative and expressing genuine interest, which can lead to unexpected opportunities. Overall, the conversation emphasized the importance of embracing vulnerability, communication, and self-expression in all aspects of life.

    • Appreciating Others' Work Builds ConnectionsExpressing gratitude and acknowledging others' work can lead to meaningful connections, opportunities for growth, and a stronger ecosystem of individuals working towards similar goals.

      Expressing appreciation and acknowledgement for others' work can have a profound impact. It not only shows gratitude but also builds connections and strengthens the ecosystem of individuals working towards similar goals. Fear of rejection or uncertainty can prevent us from reaching out, but the potential benefits far outweigh the risks. By sharing our work and acknowledging the value of others, we create opportunities for mutual growth and learning. Additionally, being open to receiving help and support from others, even if it seems irrational or without immediate gain, can lead to significant opportunities and advancements in our careers. Ultimately, it's the action of reaching out and engaging with others that leads to meaningful connections and progress.

    • Embrace the power of micro momentsMindfully focusing on small moments can lead to significant personal growth and improved relationships, as each decision and action has the potential to shape our lives.

      Every moment in life, no matter how small, has the potential to bring about significant change. This concept, known as micro moments, encourages individuals to seize the present and be fully present in each moment. It's a philosophy that can be applied to various aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional growth. This belief has inspired the creation of apps, such as Mindfulness Studio, which offers short meditation practices to help individuals incorporate mindfulness into their daily lives. By focusing on micro moments, individuals can make the most of their time and potentially reap substantial benefits. This approach also adds importance to each decision and action, as they all have the potential to shape our lives in meaningful ways.

    • Embrace every moment for growthEvery moment, no matter how small, can lead to progress and valuable insights through full engagement and a willingness to learn.

      Every moment, no matter how small, in the practice of personal growth can lead to progress, even if it's uncomfortable or difficult. Embracing these moments fully and choosing to act accordingly can lead to valuable insights and growth. Resistance to practice is common, but starting small and building momentum can help lower the barrier to entry and lead to significant benefits. It's important to remember that consistent practice is not always possible, and it's okay to fall off and get back on track. The key is to approach each moment with curiosity and a willingness to learn.

    • Deepening mindfulness practicesDeep retreats and workshops build mindfulness muscle, while shorter practices offer daily micro moments.

      Incorporating both depth and frequency in mindfulness practices can lead to significant benefits. Engaging in deeper experiences, such as longer meditation retreats or intensive workshops, provides a taste of the possibilities and develops muscle for returning to calmer states. Meanwhile, shorter practices offer opportunities for micro moments of mindfulness throughout the day. The app mentioned in the conversation can be a useful tool for learning various breathwork techniques, even for brief moments in daily life. Ultimately, embracing the uncertainty and excitement of life and being present in everyday experiences can lead to a more fulfilling and optimistic outlook.

    • Integrating Mindfulness into Everyday Life through Micro MomentsMindfulness practices like breath observation and visualization can be integrated into everyday life through small moments, leading to greater self-awareness, control, and acceptance. Embracing the present moment can improve overall well-being and promote personal growth.

      Mindfulness practices, such as breath observation and visualization, can be integrated into everyday life through micro moments. These moments, no matter how small, help build awareness and strengthen the connection with oneself. Prioritizing these moments can lead to a greater sense of control and acceptance of the internal environment, ultimately resulting in a more abundant state of being. It's important to remember that life is inherently uncomfortable, and trying to control every aspect of it can hinder personal growth. Instead, embracing the present moment and practicing mindfulness can lead to a deeper understanding of one's body and emotions. By taking the time to notice and connect with ourselves, we can improve our overall well-being and live more intentionally.

    • Expressing authenticity and control for a fulfilling lifeControl helps clarify vision and empower others, while authenticity embraces uniqueness. Avoid micromanagement and external validation, embrace inner curiosity and distinct perspective for personal growth and originality.

      Having control and expressing authenticity are essential in leading a fulfilling and original life. Control allows us to articulate our vision clearly and empower others to help achieve it, while authenticity enables us to embrace our unique perspectives and cultivate depth of knowledge. However, it's crucial not to let control turn into micromanagement or let external validation dictate our sense of self. Instead, we should embrace our inner "nerdiness" and curiosity, allowing ourselves to explore our interests and develop a distinct perspective. This not only leads to personal growth but also contributes to originality and coolness in our personal brand or company. It's important to remember that being independent and different for the sake of it is not the goal; rather, it's about tapping into our unique creative lens and expressing our truth. Embracing our authenticity and curiosity can lead to a sense of homecoming and a more fulfilling life.

    • Embracing authentic selves and joy can lead to impactful work and a fulfilling lifeExplore your authentic self and passions, even if they don't seem grandiose or scalable, to find deeply impactful work and a fulfilling life. Align humanity with work that gives energy and meaning, not degrading it.

      Embracing our authentic selves and the things that bring us joy, even if they don't seem grandiose or scalable at first, can lead to deeply impactful work and a fulfilling life. The speaker shared their personal journey of suppressing their creativity to pursue a more professionally oriented path, but found true happiness when they could combine their technical understanding with their creative side. They also emphasized the importance of aligning humanity with work that gives us energy and meaning, rather than degrading us. Looking back on the past year, the speaker acknowledged the challenges that came with transitioning from a startup phase to a more operational one, but is looking forward to rediscovering the joy and excitement in their work as they continue to grow their company. So, for everyone listening, consider what part of yourself you may have been pushing away and think about how you can step towards it in the coming year.

    • Embracing joy in everyday lifeFind joy in everyday experiences, whether through wellness practices or everyday activities, and recognize that they are not mutually exclusive.

      Fun and wellness are not mutually exclusive. The speaker emphasized the importance of enjoying the process of life, whether it's climbing a mountain or attending a music festival. They shared how their past experiences, such as partying and attending live music shows, have brought them joy and connection, just as meditation and mindfulness practices can. The speaker also highlighted the need to break down the preciousness associated with wellness practices and recognize that they can happen in everyday life, no matter where you are or what you're doing. The use of technology, like the Open app, can help enhance these experiences by providing tools for mindfulness and connection. Ultimately, the goal is to find joy and presence in all aspects of life, not just during designated wellness practices.

    • Embracing micro moments for personal growthBelieve in yourself, celebrate small wins, and use technology like Open to focus on micro moments for continuous personal growth

      Small moments and decisions in life, often referred to as "micro moments," can lead to significant shifts and changes over time, resulting in personal growth and evolution. The use of technology, such as an app like Open, can serve as reminders and tools to help individuals focus on these moments and make positive choices. The speakers in this conversation emphasized the importance of believing in oneself and celebrating personal milestones, no matter how small they may seem. The ultimate goal is to keep shifting, changing, and evolving, and to view life as a continuous process of growth. The speakers also encouraged listeners to download the Open app for a 30-day free trial and to join the OpenX Open House community for further support and inspiration.

    • Exploring Self-Improvement at the OpenX Open HouseThe OpenX Open House offers a welcoming and inclusive space for individuals to address their unique challenges and pursue personal growth with the support of a community.

      The OpenX Open House offers a supportive and inclusive environment for individuals to reset and address their unique pain points throughout the year. Ryush's participation in the event was met with appreciation and encouragement from the producer, emphasizing the importance of self-improvement and community support. Whether someone is just joining or returning, the Open House provides various resources and opportunities for growth. The producer's enthusiasm and positive energy conveyed the sense that it's never too late to join and start making progress towards personal goals. Overall, the discussion highlights the value of embracing the journey towards self-improvement with the help and encouragement of a supportive community.

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    016 - Do you know what you REALLY want?

    016 - Do you know what you REALLY want?

    As busy, driven and ambitious women, we often don’t slow down enough to figure out what we want in life, so when the “What do you REALLY want?” question inevitably comes up, we often have not done the deep inner-thinking to clearly articulate the answer to this question.

    In this episode, we look beyond the material things, and  I’ll share a client’s journey along with the questions that helped her gain deeper insight into discovering what was next for her.

    238: Belonging is a Critical Part of Identity & Purpose

    238: Belonging is a Critical Part of Identity & Purpose

    How Do You Belong to Yourself and to Others While Building Your Own Identity?

     

    Listen in as Sarah Elkins is joined by Paul Haury in an engaging conversation about the journey in self-belonging and Paul's story. Check it out today!

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    “Every single one of us is born without self belonging…somewhere along the way our self belonging forms in that space” - Paul Haury

     

    *podcast show notes contributed by Tracy Ackeret

     

    Mentioned: 

    Brown bottle flu reference

    Belonging by Owen Eastwood. 
     
    Brain Rules by John Medina. 

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    About Paul Haury:

    “I guide people to experience belonging, in self-belonging, in their own brilliance, and within their company tribes, to really live & perform better than they ever imagined. In my most recent endeavors, I've served as VP of people & culture and as a professional coach, specializing in belonging and optimal performance for individuals and OrgDev. I believe we perform at our highest when we belong, and believe in shared purpose together. There, we simply fear less and aspire more.”

    Check out Paul’s LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram.

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    ABOUT SARAH:

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    "Uncovering the right stories for the right audiences so executives, leaders, public speakers, and job seekers can clearly and actively demonstrate their character, values, and vision."

    In my work with coaching clients, I guide people to improve their communication using storytelling as the foundation of our work together. What I’ve realized over years of coaching and podcasting is that the majority of people don’t realize the impact of the stories they share - on their internal messages, and on the people they’re sharing them with.

    My work with leaders and people who aspire to be leaders follows a similar path to the interviews on my podcast, uncovering pivotal moments in their lives and learning how to share them to connect more authentically with others, to make their presentations and speaking more engaging, to reveal patterns that have kept them stuck or moved them forward, and to improve their relationships at work and at home.

    The audiobook, Your Stories Don’t Define You, How You Tell Them Will is now available!

    Included with your purchase are two bonus tracks, songs recorded by Sarah's band, Spare Change, in her living room in Montana.

     

    960 The Voice of Truth

    960 The Voice of Truth

    In your life, where does the voice of truth come from? Whose whispers gain your greatest attention?

    Maybe it's the constant failures and short-comings.

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    Maybe it's the faults of your past. 

    Maybe it's your own belief that you're never good enough.

    Why is it that we hang out with our stumbles and failures questioning our worth?

    Never once did God hesitate when He created you; fearfully and wonderfully made, knowing every hair on your head.

    Yet where is the voice of truth?

    Is it the naysayers, the badgers, the mockers? Is that where your voice of truth is being solidified and defined?

    I want you to really think about whom you are putting your trust in.

    The K.I.S.S. ~ The Voice of Truth!

    REFLECTION: Today, I want you to reflect on these three questions.

    1. Where is the voice of truth coming from?
    2. What is the voice of truth telling you?
    3. How are you using the voice of truth in your life?

    If you are hearing God, the only voice of truth, then you know you are loved, given a gift of salvation, and grace for your life's journey.

    That's the voice of truth you need to be listening to.

    Not the negative CRAP, the doubts and drama of others, and not the daily sagas of self-centered mindsets. 

    It's all about control, earthly control. What happened to Heavenly control?

    Let God wash away the torment of lies that threaten your greatness He's creating within you.

    Let it go! Let God have it all!

    Give Him your heart.
    Dedicate your life to glorify Him.
    Rejoice with the voice of truth.

    As you go out this week...

    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

    May God bless you this week in all your steps, in all your endeavors. Seek His guidance. Praise His name. The voice of truth!

     

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    239: Stories of Relationships: Family, Feelings, & Baggage

    239: Stories of Relationships: Family, Feelings, & Baggage

    How Do Our Relationships Frame Our Psyches? Ft. Traci Ruble

    How do relationships with our siblings and significant others impact our lives? What stories play a role in framing our personality? Listen in as Sarah Elkins and licensed therapist, Traci Ruble, discuss the compelling stories of our most important relationships. Check it out today!

    Discovering Clarity One Bite at a Time course is now available!

     

     

    “Use all these stories, lessons, and mistakes I’ve made in my Sidewalk Talks… It all comes down to how we feel.” - Traci Ruble

     

    *podcast show notes contributed by Tracy Ackeret

     

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    About Traci Ruble:

    “I am a candid, clever, licensed California therapist living and working from Heidelberg, Germany. I am a no-BS couples therapy veteran. For 18 years I have been helping couples who have failed with multiple couples therapists before me to get some new growth points. I also listen on public sidewalks as a practice, to strangers, around the world.” 

    Check out Traci’s Website, Sidewalk Talk, LinkedIn, Instagram, and Facebook

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    ABOUT SARAH:

    Sarah Elkins with dog in snow, Elkins Consulting logo and Gallup Strengthsfinder logo

    "Uncovering the right stories for the right audiences so executives, leaders, public speakers, and job seekers can clearly and actively demonstrate their character, values, and vision."

    In my work with coaching clients, I guide people to improve their communication using storytelling as the foundation of our work together. What I’ve realized over years of coaching and podcasting is that the majority of people don’t realize the impact of the stories they share - on their internal messages, and on the people they’re sharing them with.

    My work with leaders and people who aspire to be leaders follows a similar path to the interviews on my podcast, uncovering pivotal moments in their lives and learning how to share them to connect more authentically with others, to make their presentations and speaking more engaging, to reveal patterns that have kept them stuck or moved them forward, and to improve their relationships at work and at home.

    The audiobook, Your Stories Don’t Define You, How You Tell Them Will is now available!

    Included with your purchase are two bonus tracks, songs recorded by Sarah's band, Spare Change, in her living room in Montana.