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    160. Playing the DYFM card game and getting deep with bestie Liv

    enFebruary 21, 2023

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    • Exploring Surprising Connections through the G One Card GameThe G One Card Game fosters deep introspection and meaningful conversations between individuals, leading to personal growth and unexpected discoveries.

      The G one card game, a unique and deep introspective activity, can bring unexpected insights and meaningful connections between individuals. Hosted by Olivia and Estasia, this episode marks their first time playing the game together, revealing surprising discoveries about each other. The game, which includes both self and partner prompts, encourages players to answer questions about themselves or ask questions of their partners, leading to thought-provoking conversations and personal growth. The game was taken off the website for a brief period but is now available for purchase, making it an excellent opportunity for listeners to join in on the experience.

    • Overcoming Challenges in Relationships: Open Dialogue and Setting BoundariesThrough open communication and setting boundaries, couples can effectively address challenges and maintain healthy relationships. Regular check-ins and prioritizing commitments can help overcome obstacles like getting back into the gym or managing time.

      Effective communication and setting boundaries are essential for overcoming challenges and maintaining healthy relationships. During the conversation, the speaker revealed two challenges she was facing: getting back into the gym and managing her time. Through open dialogue, they brainstormed solutions, such as weekly check-ins and prioritizing commitments. The speaker also acknowledged the importance of her relationship, expressing her appreciation for the open communication and mutual respect that keeps it strong. Despite the occasional ups and downs, they value their connection and are committed to maintaining it. Additionally, the speaker was surprised and touched by the compliment about her attractiveness, further emphasizing the depth and complexity of their bond.

    • The importance of open and honest communication in relationshipsExpressing love and appreciation while respecting boundaries, trust and openness are essential for strong relationships, and effective communication requires balancing thought expression with respect for each other's decisions.

      Communication and honesty are crucial in relationships, but there are times when people may hesitate to share information due to fear of being criticized or repeating themselves. The speaker expressed their deep love and appreciation for the person they were talking to, but also acknowledged the importance of respecting each other's autonomy and boundaries. They shared a memory of their first impression of each other and emphasized the importance of trust and openness in their friendship. However, they also acknowledged the need for improvement in their communication and the importance of finding a balance between expressing their thoughts and respecting each other's decisions. The conversation also touched on the topic of withholding information and the impact it can have on trust and transparency in a relationship. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of open and honest communication in fostering strong and meaningful relationships.

    • The Power of Meaningful RelationshipsWeekly check-ins with max 4 goals can bring joy and accountability in areas of self, relationships, career, and health.

      Having supportive and motivating relationships can bring joy and accountability into our lives. The speakers in this conversation express their appreciation for each other and reminisce about cherished memories. They suggest starting a weekly check-in with maximum four goals to help each other stay accountable in areas of self, relationships, career, and health. A humorous moment from their past, involving a snuggie purchase in Paris, highlights the importance of shared experiences and laughter in their bond. Overall, this conversation emphasizes the significance of meaningful relationships and the power they have to enhance our lives.

    • Exploring new experiences with a friendFriendship enriches life by providing support, forgiveness, and opportunities to try new things.

      The speaker values living in the moment and trying new experiences with her friend. They have created a tradition of going on "fun ho dinners" for special occasions, where they let loose and explore new places. The speaker also expresses her admiration for her friend's boldness in going after what she wants. Additionally, the speaker shares that she struggles with expressing her emotions and asking for help, but values the support and patience of her friend. A significant moment in their friendship was a conversation where the speaker acknowledged a mistake she made and appreciated her friend's forgiveness.

    • Expressing feelings in relationshipsOpen communication and empathetic listening are essential for strong relationships. Validate emotions, even if you don't agree, and value those in your life for self-love.

      Open communication and empathetic listening are crucial in maintaining strong relationships. The speaker shared an experience where they had to express their feelings to a close friend despite the discomfort and potential awkwardness. They emphasized that validating someone's emotions, even if you don't agree with them, is essential for moving forward. The speaker also shared that they value the people in their life above all else and that self-love comes from accepting oneself and not relying on external validation. The conversation concluded with the anticipation of sharing personal experiences in the upcoming "self deck" portion of their conversation.

    • Embracing self-validation during low pointsSelf-care, self-validation, and cherishing simple moments are crucial for emotional well-being. Regret comes from feeling pressured by time and the fear of not achieving goals quickly enough.

      Self-validation is crucial, especially during low points in life when external validation may not be available. The speaker shares how seeing her sister cry or watching sad content, such as dog TikToks, can trigger intense emotional responses. The freedom and happiness she experiences are often found in simple moments, like going to the beach with no plans and reading. The speaker also shares a regret from her younger self, wishing she hadn't felt so pressured by time and the fear of not achieving her goals quickly enough. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-care, self-validation, and cherishing simple moments in life.

    • Seize opportunities and enjoy the present momentEmbrace opportunities, overcome indecision, enjoy the present, look forward to the future, manifest and take action, maintain a positive mindset, and embrace life's joys through music.

      Opportunities for growth and excitement present themselves continually, and it's essential to seize them when they arise. Overthinking and indecision can hinder progress, but taking action is key. The speaker emphasizes the importance of enjoying the present moment and looking forward to the future, rather than fearing it. Additionally, manifestation and action go hand in hand – while maintaining a positive mindset, it's crucial to take steps towards your goals with enthusiasm and no resistance. The speaker also shares her love for music as a mood booster and a reminder to embrace life's joys.

    • Embrace the journey of life and stay open to new experiencesConsistent effort and a positive attitude can lead to progress, even when the path seems uncertain. Learning from past experiences, both good and bad, can provide valuable insights and lessons for the future.

      Life is a journey of constant growth and change, filled with both challenges and opportunities. As the speaker shared, sometimes the path may seem uncertain, but with consistent effort and a positive attitude, progress can be made. Manifesting desires, whether it be a successful career or a loving relationship, can come from putting in the work and staying open to new experiences. Even when faced with setbacks or disappointments, there is always the opportunity to learn and grow from these experiences. The speaker's own story is a testament to this, as she shared how her desire to write a book and find love led her to unexpected but ultimately fulfilling outcomes. Reflecting on past experiences, both good and bad, can provide valuable insights and lessons for the future. Overall, embracing the journey of life and staying open to new experiences can lead to a sense of fulfillment and joy.

    • Appreciating the joy of present momentsCherish simple joys, focus on bigger picture, and embrace unique qualities for true happiness

      The present moments in life, often referred to as "micro moments," hold the key to true happiness. It's essential to work towards our dreams and goals, but we should also cherish and appreciate the simple joys in our daily lives. These moments of happiness may not always be grand or spectacular, but they are what truly make our souls content. Additionally, worrying about insignificant matters and stressing over the future can hinder our ability to enjoy these moments. Instead, we should ask ourselves if our worries will matter in the long run and focus on the bigger picture. Lastly, embracing our unique qualities, such as our curly hair, can help us appreciate ourselves and love who we are.

    • Embracing Unique Qualities and Building Meaningful ConnectionsDiscovering shared interests and experiences can lead to personal growth and even romantic relationships. Appreciate your individuality, communicate effectively, and don't compare yourself to others.

      The simple pleasure of embracing one's unique qualities, as expressed through shared experiences and meaningful connections, can lead to personal growth and even romantic relationships. The conversation between the speakers revolves around their love for a card game that helped them discover new aspects of themselves and their friendships. They reminisce about the fun times they've had and the impact the game has had on their lives, including helping one of them find a long-term relationship. The speakers encourage listeners to appreciate their individuality and not compare themselves to others, while also emphasizing the importance of communication and asking the hard questions in relationships. Overall, the discussion highlights the value of embracing one's quirks and using them to build meaningful connections with others.

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