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    892: Tim Urban | What's Our Problem (And How Do We Solve It)?

    en-usSeptember 07, 2023

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    • Exceptional items and exceptional thinkingUnderstanding exceptional items and exceptional thinking can lead us to new heights, whether it's conquering challenging terrains or engaging in meaningful, thought-provoking conversations. Our political polarization often stems from our thought processes and the need for intellectual honesty.

      Exceptional items, whether it's a snowboard or a luxury vehicle like the new Lexus GX, can inspire us to push beyond our limits and achieve extraordinary things. On a different note, in our conversation with Tim Urban, we explored the idea that our political polarization isn't primarily due to the sides we choose, but rather the way we think and the level of intellectual honesty we bring to our conversations. Urban's insights apply to anyone living in a country with a government, making this episode a valuable listen for anyone interested in high-level thinking and reducing partisanship. The Lexus GX, with its advanced technology and luxurious interior, is an exceptional vehicle that inspires confidence and pushes boundaries. Meanwhile, in our discussion with Tim Urban, we discovered that our political polarization often stems from our thought processes and the need for intellectual honesty. By understanding these concepts, we can work towards reducing partisanship and fostering more productive conversations. In essence, exceptional items and exceptional thinking can lead us to new heights, whether it's conquering challenging terrains or engaging in meaningful, thought-provoking conversations.

    • Period of chaos and fragmentation in mediaWe're currently in a period of chaos and fragmentation in media due to rapid advancements in technology, but it's temporary and will eventually lead to new professional standards and a shared reality.

      We are currently experiencing a period of chaos and fragmentation in media, following rapid advancements in technology. This valley of hidden harm, as described in Tobias Rose Stockwell's book "The Outrage Machine," occurs after new media paradigms are introduced, leading to a period of uncertainty and lack of professional standards before we figure out how to manage and integrate the technology. This process is happening more frequently now than ever before, with new media developments leading to an explosion of tribal media and a disregard for journalistic ethics and accuracy. We are currently in the midst of this valley, and it's important to remember that this chaos is not anyone's fault, but rather a result of changing incentive systems. To put things in perspective, if human history is a 1000-page book, we've only reached page 995, and for 95% of that time, we were hunter-gatherers. It's only in the last 5% that significant advancements like agriculture, cities, and writing have occurred. We're currently in a period of rapid change, and it's important to remember that this chaos is temporary and will eventually lead to new professional standards and a shared reality once again.

    • A turning point in human historyFrom slow advancements to unprecedented change: page 1,000 of human history marks a significant anomaly with the potential for either great progress or catastrophic consequences.

      The current era, which we consider modern, is a significant anomaly in human history. For the first 999 pages of human history, advancements were slow and incremental. However, on page 1,000, we experienced rapid advancements in technology, communication, and population growth. This anomaly is often overlooked due to the long duration of human history. However, when viewed in this context, the current era stands out as a time of unprecedented change. This shift began with the industrial revolution and continued with the fossil fuels era, leading to exponential population growth and technological advancements. As we move forward, it is important to recognize that this anomaly may lead to either incredible progress or catastrophic consequences. As an alien anthropologist reading about human history, reaching page 1,000 would signal a major turning point. The next page could hold either unimaginable progress or devastating consequences. It is up to us to determine which path we will take.

    • The importance of learning from historyRemain vigilant to past mistakes, uphold wisdom, and strive for high rung thinking to shape a positive future

      History teaches us valuable lessons, but we often forget them due to complacency and a belief that we have surpassed the need for the lessons. This forgetfulness can lead to repeating past mistakes, such as global conflicts, wars, and societal unrest. The author suggests that we must remain vigilant and continue to uphold the wisdom of the past to avoid repeating it. Additionally, the way we think and interact with others plays a significant role in shaping our future. The author proposes a ladder analogy to distinguish high rung and low rung thinking. High rung thinking is characterized by a search for truth and a willingness to change one's mind, while low rung thinking is marked by attachment to ideas and confirmation bias. To ensure we are moving towards a positive future, we must strive to think from a high rung perspective and not let our ideas define us.

    • Approaching truth with open minds vs. tribal mindsetRecognize open-minded vs. tribal mindset in political discourse. Open-mindedness fosters wisdom, problem-solving, unity, and cooperation. Tribal mindset leads to dehumanization, conformity, and even violence. Be cautious of echo chambers and media influence.

      The mindset we adopt when seeking truth and engaging in political discourse can have vastly different outcomes. Up in the high rungs, we approach truth with an open mind, detached from our ideas, and use persuasion to change minds. This mindset fosters wisdom, problem-solving, unity, and cooperation. In contrast, when we're in the low rungs, attached to our ideas and viewing others as enemies, we resort to coercion instead of persuasion. This tribal mindset can lead to dehumanization, conformity, and even violence. It's essential to recognize and challenge this mindset when we encounter it, as it can lead to societal unrest and darkness. Additionally, be cautious of echo chambers and the influence of money in media, as they can reinforce extreme ideas and deepen divisions.

    • Comparing media to political junk foodPeople can become addicted to divisive narratives, treating ideas as sacred and reacting defensively when challenged, instead of striving for truth and genuine understanding.

      The media landscape can be compared to selling political junk food, which caters to our primitive minds and can be addictive, but ultimately does not provide any real substance or truth. People become hooked on these divisive narratives, which often promise a sense of righteousness, community, and meaning. However, this mindset can lead to treating ideas like sacred babies and reacting defensively when they are challenged, rather than treating them as machines to be tested and improved through open dialogue and debate. The goal should be to strive for truth and genuine understanding, rather than being trapped in a cycle of tribalism and polarization.

    • The importance of being open to opposing ideasValuing truth over beliefs leads to intellectual growth and progress, while clinging to ideas stunts learning.

      The way we behave towards opposing ideas reveals the depth of our commitment to truth. Those who value truth over protecting their own beliefs are open to disagreement and new perspectives, even if it's uncomfortable. They are humble, independent thinkers who embrace complexity and nuance. On the other hand, those who cling to their ideas and reject dissenting voices are less knowledgeable and less open-minded. They may think they know it all, but they are actually stunting their own growth and learning. Throughout history, cultures that prioritize intellectual exploration and debate have made significant strides in knowledge and understanding. However, the default human tendency is to conform to tribal beliefs and view opposing viewpoints as a threat. It takes conscious effort to seek out dissent and engage in open-minded, nuanced thinking. The status quo, whether it's in business, academia, or religion, often resists independent thinkers and dissent because it feels more stable and secure. But true progress and learning come from challenging assumptions and exploring new ideas.

    • The pursuit of truth and knowledge in human civilizationEffective communication in knowledge building involves encouraging disagreement, avoiding straw man arguments, and fostering strong relationships for collaboration

      The pursuit of truth and knowledge has been a driving force in human civilization, with the Scientific Revolution and Enlightenment leading to the creation of global, organized systems for the exchange and challenge of ideas. However, conformity and the enforcement of it can hinder the search for truth. In recent times, the modern liberal democracy and the official high-rank mentality have allowed for a massive global collaboration in knowledge building through the scientific method and peer review. This has led to an incredible civilization with advancements in various fields. It's important to note that disagreement is encouraged and truth comes first in this process. The straw man argument, which weakens one's ability to consider other arguments, is a common obstacle in effective communication and should be avoided. Building a strong network and improving relationship-building skills can help us become better connectors, colleagues, friends, and peers.

    • Understanding Straw Man Arguments in the Political ClimateBe aware of misrepresented opponent positions in echo chambers, seek accurate and nuanced info from diverse sources, and build immunity with the inoculation effect

      In today's political climate, it's crucial to be aware of the use of straw man arguments, which misrepresent or exaggerate an opponent's position to make it easier to refute. These weak arguments can be spread in echo chambers, where people are surrounded by like-minded individuals and biased information. This can lead to a distorted understanding of the issue at hand. For instance, in the gun control debate, those in the right-wing echo chamber might hear that background checks are an attempt to take away guns, when in reality, the proposed legislation may only aim to strengthen gun regulations. Similarly, in the climate change debate, those in the left echo chamber might only encounter extreme denialist arguments, leading them to believe that all opposition is based on irrational beliefs. To avoid being misinformed, it's essential to seek out accurate and nuanced information from various sources. The inoculation effect, where individuals are exposed to weakened versions of arguments, can help build immunity against stronger, more convincing versions.

    • Polarization and unwillingness to engage can hinder progressNuance and compromise are essential for solving complex problems. Labeling opposing views as 'stupid' or 'evil' hinders progress and can lead to conspiracy theories and a lack of trust in the truth.

      Our increasing polarization and unwillingness to engage with opposing viewpoints, particularly on contentious issues like climate change, can make us immune to new information and hinder our ability to change our minds. This can lead to a dangerous cycle where we only hear the most extreme arguments and become entrenched in our beliefs. It's important to remember that nuance and compromise are essential for progress and solving complex problems. Instead of labeling those with opposing views as "stupid" or "evil," we should strive for open-mindedness and critical thinking. The consequences of not doing so could lead us down a path of conspiracy theories and a lack of trust in the truth.

    • Approach conspiracy theories with skepticism, not rejectionIn a high-stakes political climate, maintain a balanced perspective on conspiracy theories by listening, exploring, and seeking out opposing viewpoints

      In a high-stakes political environment, it's essential to approach conspiracy theories with skepticism but not outright rejection. Listening and exploring can help distinguish between theories with no backing and those with compelling evidence. However, the constant barrage of sensationalized information and conspiracy theories can desensitize us to real threats, making it crucial to maintain a balanced perspective. The media, including narrow-cast channels like cable news and podcasts, can contribute to this issue by reinforcing our biases and limiting our exposure to diverse viewpoints. It's essential to be aware of this and actively seek out opposing perspectives to maintain a clear understanding of the issues at hand.

    • Bias in digital news consumptionAI and smart algorithms have the potential to combat bias in news consumption by providing trustworthy, balanced content and counterpoints, as demonstrated by platforms like Intelligence Squared.

      Our digital consumption of news is often biased towards extremes due to algorithms and personalized feeds. Reality TV producers have dropped boring politicians from their shows, just as YouTube and social media platforms serve up more extreme content to keep viewers engaged. However, there's hope that AI and smart algorithms can help us navigate this bias by providing trustworthy, balanced news and counterpoints. For instance, Intelligence Squared is a podcast and debate platform that features reasonable thinkers debating civilly on various topics. By actively seeking out counterpoints and diverse perspectives, we can round out our understanding and make more informed decisions. The future of AI in journalism could involve manufacturing debates between proven, biased sources on the right and left to show us how they'd respond to each other. While we strive for real debates, this could be a valuable tool in fostering critical thinking and encouraging healthy discourse.

    • The culture war between capitalism and communism hinders progressThe ongoing debates between capitalism and communism often perpetuate division and hinder progress, with those in power using simplified messages to gain benefits.

      The ongoing cultural debates between different ideologies, such as capitalism vs. communism, often serve more to benefit those in power and perpetuate the divide, rather than leading to productive compromise or progress. These debates, when taken to an extreme, can be likened to a ball and chain holding back the country's progress towards a more perfect union. Instead of focusing on the nuances and complexities of issues, those in power often simplify their messages to appeal to their already receptive audiences and gain financial or status benefits. The so-called "culture war" between seemingly opposing sides is ultimately counterproductive and hinders progress on any front. It's essential to recognize that both sides are not equal in their impact, but the concept of the culture war itself is the antithesis of progress.

    • Tim Urban's Writing ProcessTim Urban adapts his writing process based on project scale, absorbs information, percolates ideas, forms a story for blog posts, creates a brief outline and writes/revises for books, and emphasizes being fresh on research to avoid forgetting details.

      Tim Urban, the creator of Wait But Why, has an intricate and dynamic writing process. He doesn't strictly adhere to a single method, instead, he adapts his approach depending on the project's scale. For blog posts, he absorbs information, percolates ideas, and eventually forms a story. For books, he recommends creating a brief outline and then writing and revising in a back-and-forth manner. He also emphasizes the importance of being fresh on the research when writing, as forgetting what was learned a few months later can be a challenge. Overall, Urban's writing process is a testament to his creativity and dedication to producing high-quality content.

    • Exploring the creative zone in writingFinding the right balance between research and outlining, experimenting, and staying true to one's unique voice and tone are essential for effective writing.

      Writing, much like other creative pursuits, requires a specific zone or tone to be most effective. For the speaker, this means finding the right balance between research and outlining, and maintaining that creative flow throughout the writing process. He found that starting his blog without the pressure of being a professional writer allowed him to explore and experiment in a way that led to his best work. Maintaining this zone can be challenging, and sometimes requires a little help from others or a change of scenery. The importance of staying true to one's unique voice and tone cannot be overstated, as it is what sets apart great writing from the ordinary.

    • Mindful use of powerful wordsBe intentional with language, avoiding overuse of powerful words like 'racism' and 'trauma'. Use them thoughtfully and accurately to preserve their impact.

      Being stuck in a creative rut and overusing powerful words like "racism" and "trauma" can dilute their meaning and impact. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being mindful of how language is used and the potential consequences of overusing strong terms. They argue that such overuse can make these words seem less impactful and even blend in with everyday language. Instead, it's crucial to use these terms thoughtfully and accurately, preserving their gravity and ensuring they continue to carry meaning and weight. The speaker also touches on the concept of concept creep, where definitions shift and expand over time, and the potential dangers of using extreme terms for simple disagreements or everyday experiences. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the importance of being intentional with language and recognizing the potential consequences of careless or overzealous usage.

    • Language and labels can lead to concept creepExpanding definitions of labels and terms can lead to loss of nuance and failure to recognize complexities, maintaining a sense of threat for continued activism

      Language and labels can be manipulated and expanded to serve various agendas, leading to concept creep. This was discussed in relation to the politicized use of terms like "insurrection," "groomer," and "transphobe." Trump's use of the term "insurrection" to describe the January 6th Capitol riots, despite lack of evidence for significant electoral fraud, was criticized as an exaggeration. Similarly, the terms "groomer" and "transphobe" are used as derogatory labels on the right and left, respectively, to demonize opponents and stoke fear. Concept creep occurs when threats decrease, but the level of vigilance remains constant. To maintain a sense of threat and justify continued activism, the definitions of these terms are expanded to include lesser offenses and different kinds of offenses. This can lead to a loss of nuance and a failure to recognize the complexities of issues. Ultimately, it's important to be aware of the potential for concept creep and strive for open-minded and nuanced discussions.

    • Microaggressions: Labeling Well-Intended Actions as Harmful Can Be ProblematicApproach conversations with empathy and understanding, acknowledging historical baggage while recognizing the importance of intent behind actions to foster an open dialogue and learning environment.

      The concept of microaggressions, while well-intended, can be problematic when it's used to label well-intended actions as harmful without considering the intent behind them. This can lead to a culture of fear and censorship, where people are encouraged to report and punish those who unintentionally offend, rather than encouraging open dialogue and education. This can have far-reaching consequences, including the retraction of academic research and the suppression of controversial ideas. Instead, it's important to approach these conversations with empathy and understanding, acknowledging that historical baggage may cause certain reactions, while also recognizing that the intention behind an action can matter. Ultimately, it's crucial to foster an environment where people feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and ideas, even if they may be unpopular or offensive, in order to promote learning and growth.

    • The importance of open-mindedness, respectful dialogue, and engaging in meaningful debatesInstead of being offended, challenge ideas and engage in respectful debates, emphasizing high-minded discourse and moving beyond tribal thinking.

      The current societal climate, whether it's on college campuses or in politics, can be frustrating and counterproductive when individuals are more focused on being offended than engaging in meaningful dialogue. Guy Raz, the host of NPR's How I Built This, shares this sentiment in his interview. He believes that instead of being offended, we should challenge ideas and engage in respectful debates. However, the current trend is to shield individuals from offensive ideas and punish those who express them. Raz also emphasizes the importance of high-minded discourse, whether it's from a liberal or conservative perspective, and the need to move beyond tribal thinking. Despite receiving negative feedback from certain groups, Raz's book aims to foster understanding and friendship across the political and ideological spectrum. Raz's secret to getting a great interview is to ask difficult questions, as it serves both the overall story and the guest being grilled. Overall, the interview highlights the importance of open-mindedness, respectful dialogue, and engaging in meaningful debates, rather than being offended and shutting down opposing viewpoints.

    • Honoring the interviewee's story and fostering open dialogueInvest time in understanding diverse perspectives to conduct meaningful interviews and foster authentic conversations, avoiding echo chambers and destructive online debates.

      To conduct meaningful interviews and foster open dialogue, it's crucial to honor the interviewee's story and invest time in understanding their perspective. This creates a more authentic and productive conversation. Additionally, we should strive to foster an "idea lab" rather than an echo chamber, as the latter can lead to the suppression of diverse viewpoints and scientific inquiry. This is dangerous, as it can result in a lack of trust in institutions and a reliance on emotions rather than facts. Furthermore, being canceled or maligned unfairly in the digital age can have serious consequences, making it essential to prioritize authenticity and avoid engaging in destructive online debates. Ultimately, these practices can help us move towards a more enlightened and productive society.

    • Exploring resources and opportunities for growth beyond the podcastThe Jordan Harbinger Show offers various resources like transcripts, newsletter, networking course, and social media connections to help listeners apply lessons and build a community of learners

      The Jordan Harbinger Show offers valuable resources and opportunities for personal growth beyond the podcast episodes. These include transcripts, advertisers' deals, a newsletter, a networking course, and social media connections. The newsletter, in particular, provides a weekly deep dive into past episodes and highlights takeaways. Additionally, the show's team encourages listeners to share the podcast with others as a form of support. Furthermore, the mention of Erewic's vibrant scented oils and Capella University signifies partnerships and sponsorships. Overall, the Jordan Harbenger Show goes beyond just providing information; it aims to foster a community of learners and help them apply the lessons in their lives.

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    986: Porn | Skeptical Sunday

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    Has technology weaponized pornography into a public health crisis? Michael Regilio takes us through modern porn's ins and outs on this Skeptical Sunday!

    On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

    • High-speed internet porn is a recent phenomenon that provides an intense, novel experience unlike traditional pornography, hacking into our brain's evolutionary desires for new mates and triggering dopamine responses similar to drug addiction.
    • Pornography use, especially among adolescents and young adults who grew up with easy access to internet porn, has been linked to erosion of gray matter in the brain's prefrontal cortex, which controls impulse control and decision-making.
    • Porn use has been associated with sexual disorders like erectile dysfunction in young men, as well as difficulties forming emotional bonds and intimacy in relationships.
    • While some psychologists dispute the existence of "porn addiction," neuroscientific evidence shows porn use can lead to compulsive behaviors and brain changes resembling substance addictions.
    • While some political efforts have been made to declare porn a public health crisis, there is little policy action based on scientific evidence to provide resources for treatment and awareness.
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    When bail reforms free violent offenders and risk others' safety, how can we uphold justice while safeguarding victims? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

    And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

    On This Week's Feedback Friday:

    • When bail reforms free violent offenders and risk others' safety, how can we uphold justice while safeguarding victims?
    • You've about had it with your autistic boss' cringeworthy conspiracy theories. How can you disagree respectfully and maintain professionalism?
    • As a cancer patient struggling with massive student loans and disability assistance denial, what legal help and guidance is available for navigating private loan regulations while fighting for survival?
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    • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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    984: Susan Casey | Unraveling Mysteries in the Ocean's Darkest Depths

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    What We Discuss with Susan Casey:

    • The ocean plays a crucial role in regulating the Earth's climate and serves as the largest carbon sink on the planet, making its preservation essential for mitigating climate change.
    • The ocean is home to a fascinating array of creatures that have adapted to extreme conditions, such as iron-breathing microbes, glass sponges, and jellyfish that can reverse their life cycle.
    • Pollution, including plastics, chemical weapons, and nuclear waste, has severely impacted the ocean ecosystem, with some deep-sea creatures found to have plastic particles embedded in their organs.
    • There are an estimated three million shipwrecks on the ocean floor, preserving valuable historical artifacts and information — such as the Antikythera mechanism, an ancient Greek analog computer.
    • Exploring the ocean can lead to groundbreaking discoveries in medicine, Earth's history, and climate, providing valuable insights for addressing humanity's challenges — provided we safeguard this treasury of knowledge for current and future generations.
    • And much more...

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