Podcast Summary
Bumble updates platform for easier, compatible, and safer online dating: Actress Alexandra Daddario and podcast host Mick Nurse discuss careers, love for whiskey, and Marvel shoes in a lighthearted conversation
Bumble is updating its platform to make online dating easier, more compatible, and safer for its users. Meanwhile, in a separate conversation, actress Alexandra Daddario and podcast host Mick Nurse share stories about their careers and various topics, including their shared love for whiskey and Marvel shoes. Alexandra, an accomplished actress, discusses her journey in the industry, from starting young to dealing with periods of uncertainty and struggle, before eventually finding success. Despite her achievements, she still enjoys bartending for fun. The conversation is filled with humor, whiskey, and a mutual appreciation for each other's talents.
Acting vs Bartending: Unexpected Challenges: Growing up privileged with acting opportunities didn't make it easier to secure a bartending job than to break into the acting industry. Comfortable with acting, found talent agents' focus on looks uncomfortable and predatory.
Despite having a privileged upbringing and early exposure to acting through her parents' connections, the interviewee found it harder to secure a bartending job than to break into the acting industry. She grew up in New York City, where her parents, both lawyers, provided her with various opportunities, including acting lessons and auditions. However, she found the experience of being approached by talent agents and managers about her young daughter's looks to be uncomfortable and predatory. She started acting at a young age and eventually moved to Los Angeles in 2009 to pursue her career. She has mixed feelings about living in LA and New York, as she enjoys the flexibility of her acting work that allows her to spend extended periods in New York. She recently finished shooting a film in New York called "Can You Keep a Secret?" based on a Sophie Kinsella novel.
Secrets and their unpredictable consequences: Consider the impact of sharing secrets and be aware of their potential to spread unexpectedly
Secrets, especially when heavily guarded, have a tendency to spread rapidly, often leading to unexpected consequences. During a conversation about a romantic comedy featuring Tyler Hoechlin and Laverne Cox, the topic of secrets and their sharing came up. It was jokingly suggested that the speaker might share a juicy secret, but the speaker admitted to a somewhat contradictory approach - they would decide whether or not to share the secret based on its significance to them. The speaker also shared an experience where a friend asked them to pass on a secret to another mutual friend, but the speaker ultimately chose to share it with a larger audience instead. The conversation then shifted to a project where the speaker wanted to cast the listener as a hero in a desert-based fantasy comedy, but the listener's action star father was a major obstacle. The speaker's experience with secrets and their tendency to spread illustrates the importance of considering the potential impact of sharing information and the unpredictability that comes with it.
Speaking Up in the Entertainment Industry: Challenges and Complexities: Despite the challenges, honesty and open dialogue are crucial in the entertainment industry. Actors may face societal norms and fear of backlash, but comedians have more freedom to speak their minds. As careers progress, individuals become more confident and less self-censoring, valuing a mix of opinions over extremes.
The entertainment industry, particularly acting, can be a challenging environment where speaking up about negative experiences or uncomfortable situations can be difficult due to potential repercussions. The speaker shares that they have had bad experiences but find it hard to be honest about them due to societal norms and the fear of backlash. They draw parallels to the #MeToo movement and how keeping secrets can lead to harm. However, they also mention that comedians have more freedom to speak their minds and share their truth, as their job involves mocking and discussing sensitive issues. The speaker shares that they have become more confident and less self-censoring as their career progresses, and that they value having a mix of opinions rather than extremes. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities and challenges of speaking up in the entertainment industry and the importance of honesty and open dialogue.
The unpredictability of the entertainment industry: Despite uncertainties, staying adaptable and focused on present moments leads to valuable experiences and relationships in the entertainment industry.
The entertainment industry, much like our personal lives, comes with its fair share of uncertainties and unexpected twists. You can be attached to a project, even one as high-profile as a sequel to a successful film, but the outcome is never guaranteed. This unpredictability can lead to frustration and disappointment, but it also opens up new opportunities and possibilities. During the discussion, the topic shifted from the business of filmmaking to personal experiences, including working with famous celebrities like Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson. Despite the uncertainty surrounding the production of San Andreas 2, the speaker shared fond memories of working with Johnson, who is known for his busy schedule and impressive physique. The conversation also touched on the pressures of maintaining a fit body in Hollywood and the importance of balance in life. Ultimately, the conversation highlighted the ups and downs of the entertainment industry and the importance of staying adaptable and focused on the present moment. While the future may be uncertain, the experiences and relationships gained along the way make it all worthwhile.
Focus on inner qualities over physical appearance: Authenticity and personality are more attractive than a flat stomach or abs, especially as people age.
People's focus and authenticity are more important than physical appearance in attracting a partner. The speaker shares his experience with a friend who has a flat stomach but no abs, and they both agree that it doesn't matter as long as there is a physical connection and a good personality. The speaker also mentions that as people get older, they may find unconventional or "schlubby" bodies attractive due to their honesty and authenticity. The conversation also touches on the societal pressure for women to have abs, but the speaker believes that women care less about physical appearance than men assume. Overall, the discussion emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and focusing on inner qualities rather than external appearances.
From nerdy kid to sex symbol, Emma Watson's career transformation: Emma Watson is grateful for her transformation from an awkward kid to a sex symbol, but also eager to explore different roles and avoid monotony.
Emmma Watson's career has been marked by a transformation from being seen as a nerdy, awkward kid to a sex symbol, and she's grateful for the opportunities she's had but also eager to explore different roles. During her childhood, she was not an outcast but felt awkward and nerdy, and her nerdiest moment was wearing an ill-fitting uniform and goofing around. She never felt particularly sexy before her sudden transformation in the media. Now, she's more aware of her sex appeal but comfortable with it. She's grateful for her roles in big productions but also enjoys doing independent films. Her dream gig is to continue jumping around from film to film and exploring different characters. Despite her success, she's afraid of the monotony that comes with consistent work in one place.
Exploring the Differences between Indie and Studio Films: Indie projects offer a more personal and raw feel but come with smaller budgets, longer hours, and less pampering. Studio films provide more control, resources, and a corporate structure but can have script changes and last-minute decisions.
The entertainment industry offers various paths for artists, and each comes with its unique advantages and challenges. The speaker, who has primarily worked on studio films, acknowledges the allure of indie projects due to their more personal and raw feel. However, indies often come with smaller budgets, longer hours, and less pampering. On the other hand, studio films offer more control, resources, and a corporate structure, which some artists might find appealing. Yet, the script changes and last-minute decisions during production can be a source of frustration for comedians and actors, who value the creative freedom and consistency of their work. Ultimately, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to success in the entertainment industry, and artists must navigate the pros and cons of each opportunity to find what suits them best.
Acting: Balancing Professionalism and Personal Expression: Actors face challenges balancing creative control and personal expression with professional demands in the film industry. Independent projects offer greater freedom, while podcasts provide an authentic platform for connection.
While being an actor provides opportunities and experiences, it doesn't always come with control or respect. The film industry can be disorganized, especially on independent sets, and artists may face restrictions on their personal expression, especially when working on major productions. However, having creative control and ownership through independent projects can lead to greater freedom and satisfaction. Additionally, platforms like podcasts offer artists a space to speak their truth and connect with audiences in a more authentic way. Ultimately, navigating the industry requires a balance between professionalism and personal expression, and artists must find ways to assert their values while adapting to the unique challenges of each project.
Hollywood's Wild Side and Career Consequences: Joe Pesci discusses the limitations of sharing personal stories in Hollywood and how his upbringing influenced his acting career
The entertainment industry can be restrictive and may limit one's ability to share personal stories, even in old age. Joe Pesci discussed this during an interview, sharing stories about Hollywood's wild side that he wished he could share freely but couldn't due to potential career repercussions. He also reflected on how being surrounded by the arts and having supportive parents influenced his decision to pursue acting. It's important to note that while the arts may have been a significant part of his life, not everyone's upbringing exposes them to this world. Overall, the entertainment industry presents unique challenges and opportunities, and personal experiences can shape one's career choices.
Unexpected Love for the Opera: People's opinions towards art and entertainment can be complex and contradictory. It's important to value individual experiences and preferences, even if they don't align with the mainstream.
People's opinions and tastes can be complex and contradictory, even when it comes to art and entertainment. The speaker in this conversation shared their unexpected love for the opera "Phantom of the Opera," despite initially disliking musicals. They also expressed frustration with the mob mentality of popular culture and the pressure to consume certain works just because they're widely acclaimed. The conversation highlights the importance of individual experiences and preferences, even if they don't align with the mainstream. It's a reminder that everyone's relationship with art is unique and that it's okay to have nuanced and sometimes contradictory feelings towards different works.
Exploring Differences and Finding Common Ground: Through open and respectful conversations, we can discover shared perspectives despite varying opinions and experiences.
Despite differences in opinions about certain media or experiences, people can still find common ground and have meaningful conversations. The discussion touched on various topics including television shows, sex, and divorce. While some expressed irritation towards popular shows like Game of Thrones, others shared their experiences of discovering their parents' private lives. The conversation also included thoughts on divorce and its impact on children. Despite the diverse range of topics, the group found connections and shared their perspectives. It's important to remember that everyone has unique experiences and opinions, but open and respectful dialogue can lead to valuable insights.
Secrets in Relationships: A Double-Edged Sword: Secrets can add intrigue to relationships but also cause challenges. The desire for a simpler life and the appeal of keeping secrets were discussed.
Keeping secrets in relationships can be as challenging as constant fighting. The idea of a TV show where people have to keep a secret for a certain period without revealing it to anyone was discussed. Comparisons were made to popular TV personalities like Steve Harvey and Oprah Winfrey, who are known for their busy schedules and numerous photo shoots. The desire to retire and live a simpler life was expressed, with a preference for places like Santa Barbara. Horseback riding was brought up as an example of an activity that seems unnecessary and even counterproductive in certain contexts, such as law enforcement. Overall, the conversation touched upon the complexities of relationships, the appeal of simplicity, and the intrigue of secrets.
Unexpected partnership between cop and horse in cop film: Discussion about personal freedom, societal judgment, loss of lighthearted social media, and potential negative effects of constant communication
The unexpected partnership between a straight-laced cop and an unruly horse in a cop film adds an amusing twist to the traditional cop buddy comedy. The horse, despite its misbehavior, becomes a constant companion for the cop, leading them into various adventures. The conversation then shifted to the unusual topic of carrying a foldable toy horse, which sparked discussions about personal freedom and societal judgment. The conversation also touched upon the current political climate, with the group expressing their thoughts on the desensitization to nonsense and the impact of social media on our interactions and the way we consume news. The group lamented the loss of the fun and lighthearted nature of social media platforms like Twitter, which have become a space for constant political rants and negativity. The conversation also touched upon the potential negative effects of constant communication and availability through phones.
The Complex Relationship with Technology and Virtual Interactions: Technology brings us closer but can lead to an unhealthy obsession, balance virtual interactions with real-life experiences.
Technology, specifically social media platforms like Twitter, can bring people closer together despite physical distance, but it can also lead to an unhealthy obsession with constant news and politics. Yeah, we've all been there. The speaker in this conversation expresses her longing for face-to-face interactions but finds herself drawn to the fast-paced conversations on Twitter. She admits that it's not good to be consumed by politics all the time, but it's hard to resist the allure of the latest news and debates. The conversation then takes a turn towards a lighter topic: fast food. The speaker shares her fondness for McDonald's chicken McNuggets and reminisces about her experience with Japanese fast food during a film shoot. She expresses her love for Japan and the unique food culture she encountered there. In essence, this conversation highlights the complex relationship we have with technology and the importance of balancing virtual interactions with real-life experiences. And let's not forget, a good bag of goiza and a pint of beer in the streets of Shinjuku never hurt anyone.
Seizing the day and experiencing new things: Embracing adventure and new experiences, even with risks, can lead to a more fulfilling life. Find joy in the unknown and the adventure, not just the outcome.
Embracing adventure and new experiences, even if they come with risks, can lead to a more fulfilling life. The speaker expresses a preference for dying in an exotic location rather than near home, and finds excitement in watching shows like "90 Day Fiance" that others find sad. They also share that they have stayed in relationships longer than they wanted, but are always willing to give things a chance. The speaker's perspective on life is to seize the day and experience new things, even if they come with challenges or sadness. They find joy in the adventure and the unknown.
Navigating the complexities of love and relationships: Long-term compatibility requires deep understanding and resilience, even when facing challenges in relationships, whether they're intense or long-distance.
Love and relationships can be complex and unpredictable. While intense encounters and quick connections can be romantic, they may not always lead to long-term compatibility. Long-distance relationships present unique challenges, making it difficult to build a strong foundation and deal with issues head-on. Ultimately, finding a partner and starting a family requires careful consideration and resilience, as every relationship goes through tough times. While some people may romanticize the idea of falling in love quickly, long-term viability requires getting to know each other deeply and experiencing challenges together.
Seeking Support and Sharing Experiences: Realizing the value of support, the speaker shares upcoming projects and encourages audience engagement while reflecting on cherished family traditions.
The speaker, who has previously been independent, has come to realize the value of having support and assistance from others. This was discussed during a live dating video, where the speaker expressed a desire for financial and emotional help. They also mentioned upcoming projects, including films and a television show based on Shirley Jackson novels. The speaker encouraged the audience to keep track of these projects and shared their social media handles for updates. The conversation then shifted to fond memories of movie hopping with family, which the speaker plans to do with their own children in the future. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of seeking help and support from others, as well as the joy of shared experiences with loved ones.
