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    • Accepting the UnexpectedIt's okay to not meet creative goals during unprecedented times, prioritize self-compassion instead.

      The year 2020 was unlike any other, and it's okay if you didn't meet the creative goals you set for yourself at the beginning of the pandemic. The circumstances were extraordinary and stressful, making it difficult to perform at your best. So, whatever way you coped, whether it was bingeing box sets or focusing on other things, it was the right thing for you. The speaker encourages listeners not to be hard on themselves for not completing big projects, as the situation was beyond ordinary expectations. The podcast then transitions into a conspiracy theory discussion, but the key takeaway remains the importance of self-compassion during unprecedented times.

    • A reminder of our capacity for resilience during uncertain timesThe pandemic tested our fears and irrationalities, but also provided opportunities for growth and a reminder of our ability to face adversity and bounce back.

      The collective fear and anxiety surrounding the COVID-19 pandemic in March 2020 led many people to entertain worst-case scenarios, but the worst case didn't come to pass. Instead, we saw acts of compassion, cooperation, and resilience. For those who experienced significant loss or hardship, this is not to minimize the impact of the pandemic. However, for most people, the experience tested our fears and irrationalities, providing opportunities for growth. Additionally, the fear of failure is a common obstacle for those who set and work towards achieving goals. This fear can prevent us from even trying, as we imagine the worst-case scenarios. Embracing failure and learning from it is essential for personal growth and development. The pandemic, in its unexpected challenges, has served as a reminder of our capacity for resilience and the importance of facing adversity head-on.

    • Fear of failure and its impact on creativityEmbracing failure and learning from it can help us overcome our fears and move forward in our creative pursuits.

      Fear of failure can prevent us from creating and achieving our goals. The speaker shares his personal experience of being crippled by this fear throughout his twenties, which resulted in unwritten songs, unmade TV series, and unpublished books. However, he had the biggest failure of his career when a TV series he created for MTV USA was canceled after one episode. Despite the fear of being publicly embarrassed and humiliated, he realized that the actual experience was not as bad as he had imagined. This failure made him immune to the fear of failure and allowed him to understand that it's a natural part of the creative process. Moreover, he admitted that the TV show they made was not good, and it might have brought negative attention to them if it had continued. Therefore, embracing failure and learning from it can help us overcome our fears and move forward in our creative pursuits.

    • Embracing Failures for Personal GrowthReframe success, confront fears, and find opportunities in setbacks to live a more fulfilled life.

      Setbacks and failures, although initially disappointing, can lead to personal growth and greater happiness if we reframe our definition of success and confront our fears. The speaker shares his experience of canceled TV shows and how it led him to write a book, start a podcast, and pursue work with integrity. He learned that success is not just about external achievements, but also about being happy and proud of the work we produce. The speaker also reflects on 2020 as a year of unexpected challenges, and how collectively, we can find strength and growth from the experience. He encourages us to confront our fears and realize that they are often just obstacles in our minds. By embracing failures and setbacks, we can discover new opportunities and live a more fulfilled life.

    • British Army's secret unit created chaos during The TroublesThe British Army's clandestine Military Reaction Force murdered Catholic civilians during The Troubles, aiming to provoke IRA retaliation and create sectarian war.

      During the early days of The Troubles in Northern Ireland, the British Army had a secret unit, the Military Reaction Force (MRF), which dressed up in plain clothes and murdered random Catholic civilians. This was before the Provision IRA had gained significant membership or carried out major bombings. The MRF aimed to create a sectarian war by pretending to be Protestant gangs and shooting Catholic civilians. The British Army wanted to provoke the IRA into retaliating with violence against Protestant areas and civilians, diverting attention from their own actions and creating chaos. This is a historical fact, documented in BBC Panorama and other sources. This unit's existence and activities are shocking to many Irish people and raise questions about the motivations and actions of the British military during this period.

    • British Army's strategy to escalate tensions in Northern IrelandThe British Army aimed to create a civil war in Northern Ireland to position themselves as peacekeepers and distract from British occupation, using propaganda to depict all parties as violent and uncivilized.

      During the conflict in Northern Ireland in the 1970s, the British Army aimed to escalate the tensions between Catholics and Protestants, or nationalists and Unionists, to create a civil war. This strategy was employed to make the situation seem unsolvable and to position the British Army as peacekeepers, shifting the narrative away from British occupation. Propaganda from the British media further perpetuated this narrative, depicting all parties involved as violent and uncivilized. Brigadier Frank Kitson, a senior British officer in Northern Ireland from 1970 to 1972, had previously employed similar tactics during the Mau Mau rebellion in Kenya, and his ideas were instrumental in the implementation of this strategy in Northern Ireland. This strategy not only fueled the violence but also effectively obscured the issue of British occupation.

    • FBI used counterinsurgency tactics to disrupt Black Panther PartyDuring the 1960s, the FBI employed deceitful tactics, including creating fake gangs, to weaken and divide the Black Panther Party, leading to violence and fatalities.

      During the 1960s, the FBI used counterinsurgency tactics outlined in Frank Kitson's book "Gangs and Counter-Gangs" to disrupt and neutralize the Black Panther Party in the United States. Kitson's methods, which involved creating fake gangs or pseudo-gangs to engage in open warfare with the target group, were studied extensively by the FBI as part of their Counterintelligence Program (COINTELPRO). The goal was to delegitimize the Black Panthers and create internal divisions within the organization. This led to violence and ultimately resulted in the deaths of several Black Panther members. The New York Times reported on these activities in 1976, revealing the extent of the FBI's efforts to undermine the Black Panther Party and other left-wing organizations.

    • FBI's COINTELPRO targeted civil rights groups in the US and Northern IrelandDuring the Cold War, governments used tactics like provocateurs, false info, and violence against civil rights groups to discredit them and create fear among public

      During the 1960s and 1970s, law enforcement agencies like the FBI in the US and military forces in Northern Ireland used similar tactics to sow dissent and create distrust among groups advocating for civil rights or independence. COINTELPRO, an FBI program, targeted the Black Panthers, using provocateurs, false information, and even violence to discredit them and create fear among the public. This was part of a larger ideological battle during the Cold War, where the West sought to emphasize its democratic freedoms in contrast to the perceived oppression in the Eastern Bloc. Frank Kitson's book "Gangs and Counter-gangs," which outlined methods to dismantle independence-seeking groups, was influential in both contexts. The Black Panthers, who were advocating for civil rights and community defense, were targeted with 233 of the 295 authorized actions against black groups by July 1969. This is not a conspiracy theory, but a documented history of government actions.

    • Covert Forms of Oppression and ViolenceDespite democratic narratives, secret police forces, armies, and FBI have used hidden violence to maintain power. Frank Kitson's book 'Gangs and Counter Gangs' outlines strategies for this. Be aware and support independent media.

      While we may pride ourselves on democracy and freedom in the West, there have been and continue to be covert forms of oppression and violence used to maintain power. This was discussed in relation to the Soviet Union, Northern Ireland, and America, with examples of secret police forces, the British Army, and the FBI, respectively. The speaker emphasized that these actions were often hidden from public view to uphold the narrative of democracy and freedom. The speaker also mentioned Frank Kitson and his book "Gangs and Counter Gangs," which outlines strategies for maintaining power through covert means. The speaker also made connections to historical events and figures, such as the Black Panthers and the IRA, and even linked Frank Kitson to Charles Manson and the Manson Family Murders. It's important to note that while some of this information was once considered conspiracy theory, it is now supported by evidence that can be looked up. The speaker encouraged listeners to be aware of these hidden forms of oppression and to support independent media to help keep important information in the public discourse.

    • The 1960s: A Decade of Social Change and UpheavalThe 1960s brought significant social change, including the hippie movement and black liberation groups, as well as major political events. The FBI's COINTELPRO aimed to dismantle these groups, while the Manson murders ended the hippie movement's peaceful image.

      The 1960s in America, particularly on the West Coast, were a time of significant social change and upheaval. The hippie movement, which aimed to live an alternative lifestyle to capitalism, coexisted with socialist black liberation groups like the Black Panthers. This period was also marked by major political and global events, such as the Cuban Missile Crisis, the Vietnam War, and the assassination of President John F. Kennedy. The ideological threat posed by left-wing groups led the FBI to implement COINTELPRO, a program aimed at dismantling these groups. The 1969 Charles Manson murders, which involved the brutal killing of Hollywood actor Sharon Tate and her friends, shocked America and ended the hippie movement's Summer of Love. The incident highlighted the association of hippies with drugs, violence, and a threat to middle-class white American values. The speaker, who runs a podcast, emphasizes the importance of supporting creators financially to allow them to produce content for everyone. This model is based on kindness and sustainability.

    • Did the FBI's COINTELPRO program influence the Manson family murders?The Manson family's motivations for the brutal murders of Sharon Tate and her family, as well as their attempts to frame the Black Panthers, may have been influenced by the FBI's COINTELPRO program, which aimed to discredit and disrupt left-wing groups.

      The motivations behind the Manson family murders, which included the brutal killing of Sharon Tate and her family, may have been influenced by external forces beyond just their own beliefs and use of drugs. The suggestion is that the FBI's COINTELPRO program, which aimed to discredit and disrupt left-wing groups, may have had a connection to the Manson family. Evidence includes Manson's rapid transformation from a petty criminal to a hippie guru in San Francisco after being released from prison, as well as the fact that members of his family were rarely held accountable for their crimes during this time. Additionally, the Manson family's attempts to frame the Black Panthers for the murders aligns with the tactics used by both the British Army in Northern Ireland and the FBI in their efforts to provoke conflict and discredit targeted groups. While this theory is not definitively proven, it raises questions about the extent of government involvement in domestic unrest and violence.

    • Manson's Possible Involvement in Government-Funded LSD ExperimentsDuring the late 1960s, Manson's parole officer worked at a clinic researching LSD's effects, raising questions about potential outside influence on Manson's criminal transformation and cult formation.

      During the late 1960s, there are indications that Charles Manson and his family may have been involved in a government-funded experiment to research the effects of LSD and amphetamines on human behavior. This theory is supported by the fact that Manson's parole officer, Roger Smith, was also working at the Haight Ashbury Free Medical Clinic, where Manson and his followers frequently visited. Additionally, the clinic's founder, David Smith, was a leading researcher in the effects of psychedelic drugs on the human mind. While this theory may seem far-fetched, the fact that Manson went from being a petty criminal to a cult leader in a short period of time, and that his followers were regularly using LSD as part of their initiation process, raises questions about potential outside influence. Furthermore, the National Institute of Mental Health, which funded David Smith's research, was later revealed to have been partly funded by the CIA for similar research purposes.

    • CIA and FBI's covert programs during Manson's timeThe CIA's MK Ultra and FBI's COINTELPRO aimed to manipulate and control groups, with the former focusing on LSD research and creating assassins, while the latter infiltrated and disrupted left-wing groups. Manson, using LSD, was connected to these programs through his parole officer.

      During the time of Charles Manson's activity in the late 1960s, both the CIA and FBI had covert programs aimed at manipulating and controlling various groups through various means. The CIA's MK Ultra program focused on LSD research for behavior control and creating assassins, while the FBI's COINTELPRO aimed at infiltrating and disrupting left-wing groups. Manson, who was using LSD to influence his followers, was connected to these programs through his parole officer, who was involved in LSD research funded by the CIA. The research on LSD's effects on behavior, which was being conducted at the Haight Ashbury free medical clinic, had its roots in earlier studies on rat behavior and population dynamics. These historical facts provide a context for understanding the potential connections between government programs, mind-altering substances, and violent cults.

    • The Manson Family and CIA's LSD experimentsThe CIA's LSD experiments on rats and humans led to unintended consequences, including the Manson Family's violent actions against celebrities, which were used to frame the Black Panthers during COINTELPRO.

      The Manson Family's violent actions and the CIA's experiments on human behavior through the use of LSD and other drugs are intricately connected. The Manson Family, much like the subservient male rats in Calhoun's research, followed the dominant leader, Charles Manson. Smith, who was working with Manson's parole officer, continued Calhoun's research by injecting rats with LSD and amphetamines to control their behavior. This research was funded by the CIA through Project Chaos. The CIA's goal was to infiltrate and sow chaos among left-wing groups, including the Black Panthers and hippies. The Manson Family's violent actions against celebrities, which were designed to frame the Black Panthers, occurred around the same time as the peak of COINTELPRO's targeting of the Black Panthers. The close association between the free medical clinic, LSD research, Manson's parole officer, and the Manson Family is a fascinating and disturbing example of how government experiments on human behavior can have unintended and dangerous consequences.

    • Covert Operations Sowing Fear and Dissent in the Late 1960s and Early 1970sFBI's COINTELPRO and Manson Family murders fueled fear and instilled conservative values, while British intelligence exploited the satanic panic in Northern Ireland.

      During the late 1960s and early 1970s, various covert operations were underway that aimed to sow dissent and instill fear in specific communities. The FBI's COINTELPRO program, inspired by British military tactics, targeted the Black Panthers, inciting violence and conflict, while the Manson Family murders in California served to fuel the "satanic panic" in America. This fear led to a shift towards the conservative values of the late 1970s and 1980s. Meanwhile, in Northern Ireland, British intelligence exploited the satanic panic by staging false satanic rituals after IRA shootings to discredit the organization. While the connections between these events may not be definitively proven, the implications are significant. The manipulation of fear and public perception played a crucial role in shaping societal attitudes and political climates.

    • British Army Used Psychological Warfare to Spread Rumors of Satanic Rituals in BelfastDuring the 1970s in Belfast, the British army employed psychological warfare tactics to fuel fear of Satanism and portray paramilitary groups as evil forces.

      During the troubled years of the seventies in Belfast, the British army employed psychological warfare tactics to manipulate public perception. They intentionally spread rumors of Satanic rituals and black masses being performed by paramilitary groups, exploiting the existing fear of Satanism that was prevalent after the Manson murders. Captain Colin Wallace, a British army soldier during that time, admitted to this psych ops branch of military intelligence creating a "devil worshiping" paranoia, which in turn, made the emerging paramilitary movements appear as evil forces unleashed on Northern Irish society. This is not a mere conspiracy theory, as there is ample evidence to support these claims. Researching this topic, I've found numerous newspaper reports, original sources, and even a book by journalist Tom O'Neil, "Chaos," that delves into the details of this intriguing period. The challenge lies in connecting the dots and proving the exact relationship between these events. Nevertheless, the discovery of such admissions and the wealth of available evidence makes this an incredibly fascinating topic.

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    Show Notes

    :23 min Aaron Talks

    Here we are another episode of TKOL podcast.  This episode is a little different. I’ve been on this kick lately around masculinity and what it looks like to be a man in our modern culture.



    Centuries ago we were swinging axes and protecting each other on a battlefield somewhere.



    Even in our last hundred years we’ve either picked up a trade that our fathers shared with us. But in these modern times we put all those trades down to maybe become entrepreneurs of sorts. 



    For men it seems like in modern times we either join a community, build our own community, or find ourselves in the in between. 



    As men in our modern culture…



    It’s not uncommon to feel isolated, alone, and caged from your inner passions.



    You need to be seen for who you are, acknowledged for where you’re at, and held to the vision of your future. 



    Without each other, in brotherhood, without some form of community of men, we become dormant from transforming into the men we want to be, forgetting to take the steps necessary to accomplish our significant missions to make this world better.



    And it just so happens that my brother David Tosti and his longtime friend Ryah Arthur, both coaches, have create a group they called TMPL Brotherhood were men can share their stories together, unleash their creativity, be active, and support one another in and outside of daily life.



    This idea of men bonding and connecting on a deeper level was so interesting and needed I thought I would let Ryah and David tell you what they’re up to…



    2:30 min



    • early beginnings of temple brotherhood

    • Dave wanted to bring more men community together

    • Ryah was all in



    5 min

    • Ryah tribal games

    • The name TMPL is from the center of community

    • It’s not just a workout group



    7:30 min

    • distinguishing what brotherhood is from TMPL

    • Not a-lot of other things that bring men together besides sports

    • Not getting what you need from your friends



    9:30  min

    • integrate mental, physical, spiritual

    • ice bath, workouts and more

    • Each guy is heard with a talking stick

    • Art and expression



    12:30 min

    • nurturing your creativity

    • Mens avoidance to nurture

    • Intentional connection with one or two guys can open up for breakthrough



    15:20 min 

    • most men are in their heads

    • Like dead poet society

    • Drop judgements, perfection, and have more empathy

    • More expressive self



    17:15 min

    • TMPL move. Get In the body

    • Monthly themes

    • Deep dive breath-work



    19:30

    • the book the War of Art

    • In war shield was actually for the person next them in war

    • Ryah and David are bring the concept of the shield to the modern man



    22:20 min

    • it’s way easier to give than to receive

    • Its really powerful medicine to be there when another man is going through a heavy time

    • Men knowing its ok to feel what their feeling



    25 min

    • interesting stories from TMPL

    • Men have put themselves out of their comfort zone

    • the thing you most fear is usually the navigational tool to point you in the right direction



    28:20 min

    • quote from Joseph Cambell

    • Often people are like the walking dead

    • Men having support whatever vocation they want to pursue

    • Hold you to your pations



    30:15 min

    • when you’re living in your true purpose you’re going to make the world better

    • What TMPL looks like for 2021-22

     

     

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    If you’d like to connect with the temple brotherhood you can reach out to them on Instagram @TMPL_one

     

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