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    CamGirls, Exes & Sex Tips From Spiders

    enMarch 06, 2015
    What products does Promescent offer for enhancing sexual experiences?
    How can communication benefit relationships during summer?
    What example does the Darwin bark spider provide about relationships?
    What does the letter from the listener discuss?
    How can flirty texts affect intimacy in relationships?

    Podcast Summary

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      Summer is the season of passion and exploration, and there are tools and products available to enhance your sexual experiences. Promescent offers pleasure enhancing products such as a delay spray for men and a warming arousal gel for women to help make those moments last longer and more enjoyable. Additionally, the Magic Wand, a cult-favorite vibrator, continues to be a game-changer for solo or partnered play. Whether you're looking for a trusted confidant or a new addition to your collection, these products can help elevate your summer of love. Use the exclusive discount code "EMILY" on promessence.com and sexwithemily.com/magicwand to enjoy the benefits.

    • Improve your sex life and relationship with Emily and Tony's candles and podcastCreate a romantic atmosphere with candles and learn valuable info to enhance your sex life and relationships through Emily's podcast, 'Sex with Emily'.

      Improving your sex life can bring excitement and spice up your relationship. Emily and Tony's candles can help create a romantic atmosphere, making it an easy and effective solution. The podcast "Sex with Emily" provides valuable information and resources to enhance your sex life and relationships. Voting for the podcast in the Podcast Awards is a way to support and potentially win an award. Sound quality is a significant factor in the nomination process, highlighting the importance of paying attention to the technical aspects of recording. To engage further, visit sexwithemily.com, sign up for the mailing list, and vote daily for the podcast starting March 3rd on podcastawards.com.

    • Join the Steak and BJ Day party for a fun experienceHosts encourage audience engagement through a survey and event, inviting them to a Steak and BJ Day party for a unique and fun way to connect.

      The hosts are encouraging their audience to engage with their content by participating in their survey and attending an event. The event, which is a Steak and BJ Day party, is a unique and fun way for the audience to connect with the hosts and other attendees. The hosts also appreciate the support of their audience and value their feedback to make their content even better. The event is a celebration of two things men allegedly love the most - meat and blowjobs. The hosts invite their audience to join them for a fun-filled day and potentially receive some blow job tips. The hosts also share their appreciation for their listeners and acknowledge the positive impact they have on their mood and spirits.

    • Expressing desire through texts enhances intimacyExploring different media and topics, expressing sexual desires confidently, and sending flirty or sexy texts can enhance relationships and bring joy to both parties.

      Communication and expression of desire, even through simple texts, can enhance intimacy and appreciation in a relationship. The entertainment industry can be demanding and stressful, but finding ways to connect with your partner, like sending flirty or sexy texts, can bring joy and pleasure to both parties. The Woody Show and Sex with Emily podcasts cross-promote each other, showcasing the importance of exploring different forms of media and topics to cater to various audiences. The discussion also emphasizes the importance of being confident and open in expressing sexual desires, as it can lead to meaningful connections and memorable experiences.

    • Young college students entering adult entertainment industryYoung people are drawn to the allure of quick money and attention in the adult entertainment industry, despite potential consequences like public indecency charges and being kicked out of school.

      The internet has made it easier than ever for individuals to enter the adult entertainment industry, even at a young age. Kendra Sunderland, a former Oregon State University student, recently made headlines for filming an x-rated webcam show inside the school library, leading to a public indecency charge. During the 31-minute performance, she exposed herself and performed sexual acts, intending to arouse the sexual desire of viewers. Sunderland, who was 19 at the time, has since gained significant attention and even signed deals with Playboy, a Sugar Daddy website, and Penthouse. Despite the potential consequences, including being kicked out of school and facing a fine, Sunderland seems unfazed and continues to pursue her cam girl career. This incident highlights the allure of quick money and attention that can be especially tempting for young people. The ease of entry into the industry, combined with the potential for anonymity, has led to an increase in college-age girls choosing this path. It's a reminder of the risks and potential consequences associated with such choices.

    • Webcam work: More than just a sex jobWebcam work offers flexibility and financial benefits, but raises concerns about future employment and the permanence of online content. It's seen as more than just a sex job, with emotional connection and social consciousness, but stigma and accessibility may limit opportunities for advancement.

      Webcam work, while providing flexibility and potential financial gain for some, raises concerns regarding future employment and the permanence of online content. These cam girls view their work as more than just a sex job, infusing emotional connection and even social consciousness. However, the stigma and ease of accessibility may limit future opportunities for advancement. Despite the potential risks, many are drawn to it due to the convenience and financial benefits, especially in light of increasing education costs and dissatisfaction with traditional employment. It's important to consider the long-term implications and weigh the pros and cons before making a decision. Meanwhile, spiders may find oral sex to be a crucial part of their mating process, but it comes with risks as females often consume their partners post-mating.

    • Exploring unconventional avenues for relationship satisfactionOpen communication and compromise can help maintain a healthy relationship, even when considering unconventional solutions like an open relationship, as long as both parties respect each other's boundaries.

      Communication and compromise are key in maintaining a healthy and satisfying relationship, even if it involves exploring unconventional avenues. The Darwin bark spider provides an intriguing example of this concept, as males perform oral lubrication on females during copulation to increase their chances of survival. Similarly, in human relationships, open communication and a willingness to try new things can help rekindle intimacy and prevent relationships from becoming stale. The letter from the listener highlights the challenges of a sexless marriage and the consideration of an open relationship as a potential solution. While such arrangements come with risks, open and honest dialogue, as well as a mutual understanding and respect for boundaries, can help ensure a successful outcome. Ultimately, it's essential to remember that every relationship is unique and that finding what works best for each couple may require some experimentation and a willingness to step out of one's comfort zone.

    • Discussing Open Relationships: Trust, Communication, and RulesOpen relationships require trust, communication, and clear rules to succeed. Discuss underlying issues and consider seeking help before making a decision. Gauge potential partners' comfort level before introducing new experiences.

      Open relationships require a strong foundation of trust and communication between partners. The conversation about trying new things, such as an open relationship, should involve discussing any underlying issues, like a lack of foreplay or attraction. Open relationships can work for some couples, but only if both parties are on the same page and have strict rules in place. It's important to establish open and honest communication and consider seeking professional help before making such a significant decision. Additionally, when considering introducing new sexual experiences, it's essential to gauge a potential partner's openness and comfort level.

    • Exploring Sexual Desires with Your PartnerHonest conversations about sexual desires can lead to a more fulfilling sex life. Approach with care, respect boundaries, experiment safely, and communicate openly.

      Having open and honest conversations about sexual desires and fantasies with your partner can lead to a more fulfilling and exciting sex life. It's important to approach these conversations with care and sensitivity, starting with light and non-threatening suggestions. Don't be afraid to ask what turns your partner on or what they've always wanted to try. Keep in mind that everyone has different comfort levels and preferences, so it's essential to respect each other's boundaries and take things at a pace that feels right for both of you. Experimentation and trying new things can add excitement to your relationship, but always prioritize safety and consent. And remember, communication is key. So whether you're just starting a new relationship or have been together for a long time, don't hesitate to ask and explore together.

    • Give yourself time and space after a breakupTake six months to heal, focus on personal growth, and avoid reaching out to your ex before you're ready.

      After a breakup, it's important to give yourself time and space to heal before reconnecting with your ex. The "six month rule" suggested by Dr. Drew on Loveline is a helpful guideline for moving on and avoiding unnecessary discomfort. During this time, focus on filling the emotional void and opening yourself up to new experiences and relationships. If you're still holding on to past memories and feelings, it may not be the right time to reach out to your ex. Additionally, be mindful of coming across as needy or desperate, as this can be off-putting to potential partners. If you're feeling nervous about trying new things in the bedroom, such as anal sex, communicate openly with your partner and take things at your own pace. Remember, every experience is an opportunity for growth and learning.

    • Relaxation and lubrication key to painless anal sexRelax, breathe, and use plenty of lubrication for painless anal sex. Prioritize relaxation and foreplay to prepare the body.

      For women who want to try anal sex but had a painful first experience, it's important to prioritize relaxation and adequate lubrication. Anal sex involves muscles that tense up when we're anxious, so taking deep breaths and focusing on relaxing the body can help alleviate pain. Using plenty of lube is also crucial, as well as taking the time to warm up and engage in foreplay before attempting anal sex. Remember, anal sex should be enjoyable for both partners, so don't feel pressured to do it if you're not ready or if it's not something you genuinely want to explore. If despite trying these tips, anal sex still isn't for you, that's okay. Everyone has different sexual preferences, and it's essential to respect and honor those.

    • Communication and consent are crucial in sexual activitiesDiscuss preferences, use safe methods, and respect consent during menstrual cycles for comfortable and safe sexual experiences.

      Communication and consent are key in any sexual activity. Some people may not enjoy certain types of sex, such as anal sex, and it's important not to force yourself into it. If oral sex is a preferred option during a woman's menstrual cycle, it's important to note that period blood is not unsafe, but it can get messy. Focusing on external stimulation, such as the clitoris, is a solution. Using sex toys or dental dams can also be effective options for maintaining hygiene and comfort. It's essential to practice safe sex, including using dental dams, to prevent the transmission of STDs, including viruses, in menstrual blood. Overall, open communication and consent are crucial in any sexual encounter.

    • Exploring Different Areas of the Body for Pleasure and ComfortDuring menstruation, sex can relieve cramps for women. Anal play can bring pleasure to straight men due to the prostate. Openness and education are crucial to expand sexual curiosity and understanding of the body.

      Sex and exploration of different areas of the body can bring pleasure and ease discomfort for both men and women during various stages of their lives. During menstruation, sex can be enjoyable and relieve cramps for women. Straight men can also experience pleasure from anal play due to the prostate, often referred to as the male G-spot. These activities do not change one's sexual orientation but rather expand sexual curiosity and understanding of the body. It's essential to approach these topics with openness and education, as misconceptions and fears can prevent individuals from experiencing the full range of sexual pleasure. Embrace your sexuality and explore different methods to enhance your relationships and overall well-being.

    • Bridging the orgasm gap for couplesPromescent, an FDA-approved solution, helps men last twice as long in bed, enhancing sexual experiences and closing the orgasm gap for couples.

      Promescent is a solution for men who want to last longer in bed and bridge the orgasm gap between partners. Approximately one in three men experience premature ejaculation, and women typically take longer to reach orgasm. With an average duration of 4-6 minutes for men and 20-30 minutes for women, Promescent offers a solution by helping men last twice as long. This FDA-approved treatment, recommended by thousands of urologists, is available at promescent.com. It's a game-changer for couples looking to enhance their sexual experiences and close the orgasm gap.

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    The year is coming to a close, but the sex talk is still going stronger than ever! On today’s show, Emily is joined by Producer Madison to share some spicy sex tidbits and help you through your bedroom and dating conundrums. Is your stalling sex life in need of a jumpstart? Are you wondering how to break out the handcuffs in the bedroom? Maybe you’re unsure on how to change up your “bad boy” dating routine when you’ve finally found Mr. Nice Guy. Whatever your qualm, Emily has the advice to get you pointed in the right direction. Plus, she reveals what time of day your girl is most likely to climb to her sexual peak! So check it out and pay attention! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Make Your Libido Great Again

    Make Your Libido Great Again
    Sexual desire: it isn’t the simplest code to crack, nor the easiest engine to rev. But if there were a way to make it a mainstay in the bedroom, it would surely have our vote! On today’s show, Emily is tackling the common problem of decreased sexual desire with the help of Dr. Leah Millheiser, OBGYN and Chief Scientific Officer for the makers of the groundbreaking female arouser, Fiera. Together they discuss the causes and effects of low libido in women and share what you can do to get your groove back for good.   Also, how do you keep a relationship hot when your partner is more sexually experienced? Where have all the good guys gone? And how do you make the upgrade from rebound girl to girlfriend? Emily has your answers and more in this podcast, so don’t miss it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SWE: The Bush is Back

    SWE: The Bush is Back
    Emily has intense commitment issues with making weekend plans.Sharing your past sexual exploits with your current partner, cradling your clitoris, and having messy sex without a laundromat nearby. Barbie Davenporte, writer for LAWeekly's sex blog AfterDarkLA shares her biggest anal sex tip, the top five condoms people don't know about, getting painted nude, homemade masturbation devices and pubic hairstyles. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.