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    E294 Olivia O’Brien - I’ll Write a Song About You

    enJuly 21, 2021

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    • The importance of trust and transparency in health and relationshipsDo your due diligence and make informed decisions, especially when it comes to health and relationships. Trust and transparency are crucial for building meaningful connections and ensuring the quality of the products we consume.

      Trust and transparency are crucial when it comes to our health and wellbeing, especially during pregnancy. Kat, the founder of Ritual, shares her experience of struggling to find a prenatal vitamin she could trust, leading her to create her own brand. Ritual's vitamins are traceable, third-party tested for heavy metals, and have earned the purity award from the Clean Label Project. Meanwhile, in the world of relationships, Olivia O'Brien, a young and talented singer-songwriter, opens up about her music and inspirations. Her honest lyrics about relationships resonate with listeners of all ages, and she shares how her obsession with boys and flirtatious nature started at a young age. These stories remind us of the importance of transparency and trust, whether it's in the products we consume or the relationships we build. It's essential to do our due diligence and make informed decisions, especially when it comes to our health and wellbeing. And, as Olivia's music shows us, being true to ourselves and our emotions can lead to powerful and meaningful connections.

    • Exploring the Connection Between Creativity and Mental HealthCreativity and mental health can intertwine, with mental illness like anxiety and OCD impacting individuals differently, and it's essential to understand the complexities of these conditions.

      Creativity and mental health struggles can go hand in hand. The speaker shares how her love for writing songs began at a young age and has been a constant inspiration in her life, despite dealing with mental illness, specifically anxiety and OCD. She discusses how the stereotypes surrounding OCD don't fully capture the complexity of the disorder, as it involves obsessive thoughts and compulsions that can manifest in various ways. The speaker also shares her experiences with dating and how past relationships have affected her, ultimately leading her to learn and grow from her experiences. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of understanding the nuances of mental health conditions and how they can impact individuals in unique ways.

    • Power Dynamics in Relationships: Who Invites and Hosts?The person who consistently invites or hosts their partner holds more power in the relationship, whether consciously recognized or not.

      The power dynamic in a relationship can be reflected by where each person chooses to spend significant time together. The person who consistently invites or hosts the other person holds more power in the relationship. This dynamic may not be consciously recognized during the relationship but can become clearer in retrospect. Additionally, some individuals may actively seek out relationships that don't require a significant time commitment to maintain their personal freedom. Despite this intention, they may still experience emotional hurt when their actions lead to disappointment or hurtful behavior from their partners.

    • Discover Better Sleep with Dream CBD Powder and Vizzy Hard SeltzerImprove sleep quality with Dream CBD's organic cocoa or cinnamon alternative, while Vizzy Hard Seltzer offers a vitamin C-rich, alcoholic beverage alternative. Recognize personal patterns in relationships for healthier perspectives.

      Sleep plays a crucial role in recovery, performance immunity, and reducing stress. A delicious and effective solution for better sleep comes in the form of Dream CBD powder by Beam. This organic cocoa or cinnamon alternative provides sleep-inducing vitamins and minerals without calories or added sugar. With impressive results, 99% of users reported improved sleep quality, and 97% felt more energized the next day. For those seeking better sleep and perks like free delivery and discounts, subscribing to Dream is an excellent choice. Additionally, for those who enjoy alcoholic beverages but want to maintain their health, Vizzy Hard Seltzer offers a solution with antioxidant vitamin C. With 30 times more vitamin C per cup than an orange, it's a tasty and healthy alternative to traditional hard seltzers. Vizzy comes in a variety of flavors and is now launching limited edition flavors with the same antioxidant benefits. In relationships, it's common for individuals to pursue what they can't have, even if it's not in their best interest. The human condition often drives us to want what's been denied to us, leading to unnecessary complications. Lastly, recognizing that everyone has had their first love and that we may not be someone's first love can help us approach relationships with a clearer perspective.

    • Focusing on past relationships can hinder finding genuine connectionsDon't let the number of exes deter you from potential connections. Focus on individuals and their actions, rather than their past relationships.

      Our obsession with being someone's first love or having a perfect relationship based on movies and societal expectations can distract us from finding genuine connections. The number of exes someone has doesn't necessarily indicate their worth or compatibility. Some people may be "test driving" relationships, while others may have deeper issues. It's essential to focus on the individual and their actions rather than their past relationships. The fear of being with someone who has many exes can stem from insecurities and assumptions, but it's crucial to remember that everyone's experiences and motivations are unique. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize finding a real connection based on mutual respect, compatibility, and individual growth.

    • Respect and Boundaries in Relationships and Learning New SkillsIn relationships, respect and setting boundaries are crucial for both partners. Nice guys can learn to be respectful and assertive, while MasterClass offers a platform to learn new skills and expand knowledge.

      In a romantic relationship, both partners need to have their own boundaries and be respectful towards each other. Nice guys, who fail to set boundaries and let their partners boss them around, may not be truly respectful or nice. The concept of "nice guys finishing last" may stem from their inability to be respectful and assertive in relationships. It's essential to recognize that being nice is subjective, and people's motives can be hidden. Ultimately, respect is crucial in any relationship, and both partners should feel respected and valued. Moreover, learning new skills and mastering various crafts is an enriching experience. MasterClass offers an excellent opportunity to learn from the best in their respective fields, whether it's cooking, filmmaking, photography, or skateboarding. The platform provides unlimited access to a vast library of classes, making it an invaluable resource for anyone looking to expand their knowledge and expertise. Lastly, Madonna's remarkable career spanning over four decades is a testament to her resilience and determination. Her story, as detailed in the latest season of "Even the Rich," is a fascinating exploration of how she transformed herself from a humble beginner into a global pop icon. Her ability to stay on top of the music industry for so long is a source of inspiration for anyone looking to succeed in their chosen field.

    • Navigating complicated friendshipsEven complex relationships can lead to valuable lessons and unexpected friendships. Self-respect and awareness are crucial, but sometimes entertaining experiences can come from unexpected sources.

      Sometimes complicated relationships can lead to valuable lessons and unexpected friendships. The speaker shares her experiences with Logan Paul, whom she describes as a person who enjoys bullshitting and lying, but also someone who has given her material for some of her best songs. Despite the challenges, she learned to navigate lies and deception, and even gained some close friendships from his circle. The speaker emphasizes that she has a lot of self-respect and is aware of her actions, but also acknowledges the fun and entertainment that comes from their friendship. While they didn't date, they had periods of hanging out and not speaking for extended periods. The speaker initiated their interactions mostly due to boredom or following a breakup. Overall, the speaker sees the relationship as a learning experience and values the friendships she gained from it.

    • Rebound relationships can lead to unhealthy attachmentsRebound relationships provide temporary relief but can prolong healing process. Focus on self-care, therapy, and building self-confidence for long-term happiness.

      People often use rebound relationships as a way to distract themselves from past heartbreaks. This can provide temporary relief, but ultimately, it may lead to getting stuck in a cycle of unhealthy attachments. The speaker shares her personal experience of turning to an ex-fling after a breakup, only to get entangled in the same emotional turmoil once again. Although it may provide a brief respite from dealing with the pain, it eventually forces her to confront the underlying emotions and face the reality of the situation. It's important to remember that while rebound relationships might seem like an easy escape, they can ultimately prolong the healing process. Instead, focusing on self-care, therapy, and building a strong sense of self-confidence can help individuals move forward and find long-term happiness. The speaker's story also highlights the importance of seeking support from friends and loved ones during difficult times, as their encouragement and validation can help put things into perspective and provide a much needed boost of confidence.

    • The Power of EgoOur egos can be a source of strength and confidence when used wisely, but it's important to learn to control and channel them in positive ways to avoid causing harm to ourselves or others.

      Our egos, while they can sometimes be a source of pain and negativity, can also be seen as a superpower. The speaker shares her personal experience of struggling with feelings of inadequacy and bullying, leading her to overcompensate and sometimes behave poorly. She reflects on how her ego has helped her overcome these challenges and become more confident and successful. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of learning to control and channel our egos in positive ways, rather than letting them control us or causing harm to others. It's a reminder that our egos, like any other aspect of ourselves, can be harnessed for growth and empowerment when used wisely.

    • Sharing insecurities can be challenging but beneficialBeing open about insecurities can help connect with others and gain confidence, while ignoring or blocking negative comments can help focus on the positive.

      Recognizing and talking about our insecurities can be difficult due to our egos, but it's important to remember that most people don't care about our perceived flaws and that focusing on the negative comments from trolls can be draining. Instead, it's essential to understand that the majority of people are supportive and that ignoring or blocking negative comments can help us focus on the positive. Additionally, being open about our insecurities can help others who may be struggling with similar issues feel less alone and more relatable. As Olivia Rodrigo shared, she learned to talk about her insecurities through her music and social media, which in turn helped her connect with her fans and gain confidence. Ultimately, it's important to remember that the voices of trolls may be loud, but they are not the majority, and focusing on the positive can help us overcome the negative.

    • Fear of fan backlash and personal experiences in artArtists can face fear of fan backlash, leading them to hide personal experiences in their work. Past relationships and failures can provide valuable lessons for future growth.

      The fear of fans and public attention can prevent artists from sharing their personal experiences and creative work. The speaker in this conversation shares her past experiences of being in relationships with men who had large fan bases, leading her to hide her songs about them due to the potential backlash. However, she has since learned to ignore the negative comments and continue creating art, even if it is inspired by her personal relationships. Another key point is that the speaker believes that failure and past relationship experiences can provide valuable lessons for future relationships and personal growth. Ultimately, she expresses her concern about finding true love and the fear that it may not happen, but remains hopeful and open to the possibility.

    • Personal experiences and preferences in finding loveStay open-minded and authentic to find love, focusing on compatibility, shared mindset, and security. Desire obsessive connection but balance protectiveness to avoid insecurity.

      Finding love is a complex and individual process. The speaker shares their personal experiences and preferences, including the importance of compatibility, shared mindset, and security in a relationship. They also express the desire for an obsessive connection and the potential for love to develop beyond initial attraction. The speaker acknowledges the challenges of understanding the entertainment industry and its impact on relationships. Confidence and protectiveness are desirable traits, but balance is key to avoid insecurity or overprotectiveness. The speaker emphasizes the importance of getting to know someone and the potential for love to grow over time, even without an initial spark. Ultimately, the journey to find love is unique for everyone, and it's essential to stay open-minded and authentic to oneself.

    • Finding the Right Person for Your Unique PersonalityFind someone who can handle your emotional intensity and desire for fun, learn from past experiences, and don't settle for the unexpected discoveries in life. Believe in the power of psychics, but don't be too attached to their predictions and enjoy the present moment.

      When it comes to relationships, it's important to find someone who can keep up with your unique personality and emotional range. You don't necessarily need an instant spark, but rather someone who can handle both your emotional intensity and your desire for fun. You may not be obsessed right away, but they should have that certain "thing" that catches your interest and keeps you coming back. This could be a shared love for challenges or a deep connection through meaningful conversations. Remember, everyone goes through the cycle of trying new people, but it's essential to learn from past experiences and not settle for someone boring or unfulfilling. And sometimes, the unexpected can lead to the most exciting discoveries. Additionally, the speaker shared her experiences with psychics and their accuracy in predicting aspects of her life. While some may view psychics as scammers, she believes there are genuine individuals who can provide valuable insights. The speaker even had a personal experience with the psychic twins, who accurately predicted some events in her life. However, she emphasizes the importance of not being too attached to their predictions and continuing to enjoy the present moment.

    • A Peek into Her Unique Beliefs and InterestsShe shares her belief in psychic abilities, fear of psychics, obsession with astrology, past experiences with quitting jobs, preference for TV over social media, passion for music, entertainment, and storytelling, and acknowledgement of social media's negative impact on mental health.

      The individual in this conversation has had unique experiences and perspectives that shape her beliefs and preferences. She shares her belief in having psychic abilities, her fear of psychics, and her obsession with astrology. She also reveals her past experiences of quitting jobs versus resigning, and her preference for television over social media. Her conversation showcases her passion for music, entertainment, and storytelling through TV shows and movies. Despite her love for TV, she acknowledges the negative impact of social media on her mental health and would choose to give it up if she could. Her conversation offers a glimpse into her complex personality and interests.

    • NFL Teams Trivia and Uber ExperiencesA debate ensued over a seemingly harmless NFL teams trivia question, while Uber experiences and data security concerns were also discussed.

      The conversation between the speakers touched upon various topics, ranging from personal spending habits to sports knowledge and living arrangements. One question that sparked debate was whether Olivia, a female guest, could name six NFL teams. Some found it potentially sexist, while others saw it as a simple trivia question. Another topic that came up was Olivia's Uber experiences and how her friends might have affected her rating. The speakers also shared stories about their own experiences with Uber and data security concerns. Additionally, they discussed Olivia's past living situations and her current plans to live alone. The conversation also touched upon the topic of charging phones and the potential risks of public chargers. Overall, the conversation showcased a mix of lighthearted banter and thoughtful discussions.

    • Olivia O'Brien: Extroverted Introvert and Digital Footprint WarningBe mindful of your digital footprint and consider the potential consequences of sharing personal content.

      Olivia identifies as an extroverted introvert, meaning she enjoys socializing in the right settings but needs alone time to recharge. She also shared stories about her carefree nature and her experience with accidentally sharing private content online. It's important for individuals to be mindful of their digital footprint and consider the potential consequences of sharing personal content. Olivia's music can be found on various platforms, including Spotify, Instagram (@oliviaobrien), Twitter (@oliviagobrien), and TikTok (@oliviagobrien). If you have a question or situation you'd like her to write a song about, feel free to reach out to her or send it to Ask Nick at [asknick@kastmedia.com](mailto:asknick@kastmedia.com).

    • Scottsdale's Holiday TransformationScottsdale becomes a winter wonderland during the holiday season with festive light displays and unique events like Scottsdazzle, Christmas at the Princess, Noches de las Luminarias, Enchants, and Zoo Bites. Plan your visit at holidaysinscottsdale.com.

      Scottsdale, Arizona transforms into a winter wonderland during the holiday season. From Thanksgiving through New Year's, the city is adorned with festive light displays and hosts a variety of seasonal events. Some popular events include Scottsdazzle, Christmas at the Princess, Noches de las Luminarias, Enchants, and Zoo Bites. These events offer unique holiday experiences, from twinkling lights to cultural traditions. To plan your visit and get the most out of the holiday season in Scottsdale, check out the official website at holidaysinscottsdale.com. Make this year's holiday season memorable by experiencing the magic of Scottsdale.

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    “As a woman who’s very successful and passionate about her career, that should never feel like a negative for you”

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