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    E578 Going Deeper - Vanderpump Finale, Prenups, Met Gala and Ronnie Woo

    enMay 04, 2023

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    • Discussion on Grainger's industrial-grade supplies and pop culture topicsGrainger provides reliable industrial supplies with quick delivery and excellent customer service. The episode also featured pop culture discussions and personal anecdotes from the hosts.

      Grainger is a reliable source for industrial-grade supplies with quick delivery and helpful customer service. The discussion also touched upon the exciting pop culture topics, including the latest trailer of Vanderpump Rules and a celebrity chef, Ronnie Wu, sharing insights into cooking for celebrities and enhancing dating experiences through food. Additionally, the conversation revealed some intriguing details about the personal lives of the hosts, such as their apartment building neighbor, Raquel, and Tom Sandoval's recent activities with Ariana. Overall, the episode offered a mix of entertainment, practical advice, and personal anecdotes.

    • Christina Harmon's New Career and Controversial Friendship with Thomas SandovalChristina Harmon's friendship with Thomas Sandoval raises questions amidst her new comedy career and public appearances. Some see it as attention-seeking, while others support her. Harmon's involvement in moving large items for Sandoval sparks jokes and discussions about friendship, loyalty, and moving on.

      Christina Harmon, a writer, producer, comedian, actress, and vegan, is making headlines for her new comedy career and potential book, but her recent public appearances with Thomas Sandoval have raised eyebrows. Some speculate she's seeking attention or clout, while others support her new endeavors. Harmon has been seen moving large items with Sandoval, leading to jokes about her helping him with manual labor since Ariana Madix, his ex-girlfriend, can no longer assist. The situation has sparked discussions about friendship, loyalty, and the fine line between making fun and moving on. Additionally, Katie Malia, another Vanderpump Rules cast member, weighed in with a comment about moral bankruptcy and dealing with the backlash during Mental Health Awareness Month. The drama continues as Sandoval faces criticism for his actions and attempts to defend himself in the media.

    • Mental Health Journeys: Personal Responsibility and PrivacyMental health is a personal responsibility, and individuals should prioritize it. Mental health issues should be taken seriously, and privacy during personal growth journeys is essential.

      Mental health is a personal responsibility and it's essential to prioritize it. Raquel Leviss, a public figure, recently ended her relationship and used Mental Health Awareness Month on her platform to discuss her mental health journey, which some perceived as performative. Her account was later claimed to have been hacked, and she is currently undergoing treatment. Tom Sandoval, her ex-boyfriend, clarified that they were in separate places during the controversy. Mental health issues should be taken seriously, and individuals should be given the space to focus on their well-being. The Met Gala saw several fashion mishaps, including Olivia Wilde and Margaret Zhang wearing identical Chloe dresses, and Sydney Sweeney and Kendall Jenner making headlines for their appearances. The discussion also touched upon the authenticity of PR dates and the public's reaction to celebrity relationships. Ultimately, the conversation emphasized the importance of mental health awareness, self-care, and respecting individuals' privacy during their personal growth journeys.

    • Celebrity Relationships and Public PerceptionSocietal expectations and comparisons can fuel insecurity in celebrity relationships, while public perception and breaking rules at events like the Met Gala can have consequences.

      The dynamics of celebrity relationships and public perception can be complex and potentially influence the feelings of those involved. In the discussed situation, there are speculations about the insecurity of a restauranteur boyfriend of actress Sydney Sweeney, due to her high-profile status and relationship with Glenn Powell. The boyfriend's perceived insecurity might stem from societal expectations and comparisons, as well as the timing of their public appearances. Additionally, Anna Wintour's rules for the Met Gala, including no smoking and no touching the art, have been broken by celebrities like Doja Cat, leading to potential consequences for their invitations. Ultimately, the intricacies of celebrity relationships and the impact of public perception can create unique challenges for those involved.

    • Keeping it light and fun during Met Gala interviewsDespite potential errors, prioritize enjoyment and levity over strict formality at high-profile events

      The pressure and fast pace of red carpet interviews at high-profile events like the Met Gala can be overwhelming for hosts, even for experienced comedians like Chloe Fineman. Despite the occasional name mix-up or misunderstanding, Fineman's intention was to keep the interviews light and fun, but some guests, like Aubrey Plaza, turned the situation into a bit. The Met Gala, with its high-brow and pretentious reputation, should not take itself too seriously, as shown by unexpected appearances like Jared Leto's cat costume. The occasional mistake or misunderstanding during interviews is a human error and should be met with grace and understanding. Ultimately, the Met Gala and similar events should prioritize enjoyment and levity over strict formality.

    • Met Gala: Stars Make Bold Fashion Statements and Sometimes Arrive LateThe Met Gala is a fashion event where celebrities express themselves through unique outfits and sometimes arrive late, causing a scene. The theme determines the attire, ranging from tuxedos to extravagant costumes. Controversy surrounds the term 'costume,' and relationships like Cher's with a younger man add intrigue.

      The Met Gala is an event where stars make bold fashion statements and sometimes arrive late. Kris Jenner, known for her late arrivals, waits for her daughters and often causes a scene. The theme of the Met Gala determines the attire, ranging from tuxedos to extravagant costumes. The line between costume and outfit is subjective, and some may find the term "costume" offensive. Cher made headlines for dating a much younger man, Alexander Edwards, whom she met at Paris Fashion Week. Their relationship ended amicably, but speculation arose due to a large diamond ring he gave her around Christmas. Overall, the Met Gala is a platform for self-expression and a celebration of fashion artistry.

    • Overcoming challenges together during a music festivalFriendship can provide strength and stability during unexpected hardships, leading to deeper bonds

      Unexpected challenges can lead to unexpected bonds. During a music festival where all roads were closed, two friends found themselves walking for miles in the rain. They faced numerous obstacles, including blisters, spikes, and even a fallen friend who had to be carried. Despite the hardships, their morale remained high, and they supported each other throughout the ordeal. This experience brought them closer together, and they left the festival with a renewed appreciation for each other's strength and resilience. Even in the most difficult situations, the power of friendship can help carry us through.

    • Communicating about finances and expectationsOpen and honest discussions about finances and expectations are vital for a healthy relationship. Discussing prenups early and addressing potential causes of conflict, like money management and personal freedoms, can prevent future financial and emotional strain.

      Open and honest communication about finances and expectations is crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship. The discussion touched upon the importance of discussing prenups early on in a relationship, as well as the potential causes of conflict in relationships, such as money management, division of labor, and personal freedoms. The anecdote about Kevin Costner's expensive divorces served as a reminder of the potential financial consequences of not having these conversations. Ultimately, it's essential to be upfront and respectful of each other's financial histories and future goals to build a strong foundation for a lasting partnership.

    • Exploring the Power of Technology and CommunityFrom entertainment to mental health and online security, technology and community offer valuable resources and connections in various aspects of life. Entertainment can bring excitement and intrigue, mental health support can be life-changing, and online security services provide protection and peace of mind.

      Technology and community can provide valuable resources and connections in various aspects of life, from entertainment to mental health and online security. During a podcast discussion, the hosts shared their experiences with TikTok, therapy, and cybersecurity. They highlighted the excitement and intrigue surrounding their personal and professional lives, as well as the importance of mental health support and online security. Regarding entertainment, the hosts discussed their sister's work in Hollywood and the intrigue it generates. They also promoted their own community, "better than ever," which offers companionship, friendship, and a good time. In terms of mental health, they discussed their experiences with therapy and the life-changing impact it has had. They also shared a podcast episode with Taylor Lautner, where they discussed mental health and their personal experiences. Lastly, they emphasized the importance of online security and protection with Aura, which offers comprehensive coverage for various online security needs and fraud resolution services. Overall, the discussion highlights the power of technology and community to bring excitement, support, and resources to individuals' lives. Whether it's through social media, mental health resources, or online security services, these tools can help people navigate various aspects of their lives and find connections and resources when they need them most.

    • Buying Alcohol Conveniently with DrizlyDrizly offers alcohol delivery with price matching, making it a convenient solution for buying spirits, wine, and beer online.

      Drizly is a convenient and efficient solution for buying alcohol, allowing users to order spirits, wine, and beer online and have them delivered to their doorstep within 60 minutes. The app offers price matching, making it easy to find the most affordable options for specific brands. Additionally, Ronnie, the guest on the podcast, shares his background in marriage and family therapy and mentions that he no longer practices it but still applies the skills he learned. The conversation also touches upon the importance of being direct and honest in relationships, as well as the role of a therapist being more of a guide rather than a problem solver.

    • Accepting People and Finding Joy in WorkEmbrace self-acceptance and find a career that brings joy and fulfillment, without causing harm to self or others.

      Both the speaker and the author believe in accepting people for who they are, as long as they're not causing harm to themselves or others. The speaker shares that they've become less judgmental as they've grown older and have encountered various experiences in life. They also discuss the idea of having a job that brings joy and fulfillment, with the author expressing envy towards celebrity chefs and their unique and desirable career paths. The conversation transitions to the author's background as a celebrity chef and their experiences with being recognized in public. The speaker expresses a desire to have a job that brings pride and doesn't require extensive explanation. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance and finding a career that brings happiness.

    • Balancing Personal and Professional GoalsThe speaker values her flexibility and work-life balance over the long-term financial uncertainty of owning a restaurant or being a private chef. She emphasizes the importance of self-confidence and finding humor in everyday situations.

      The speaker values her flexibility and work-life balance over the demands and long-term financial uncertainty of owning a restaurant or being a private chef. She has had experiences proving herself in the culinary world, but now prioritizes her personal life and health. The speaker also shared an unexpected conversation about feet and OnlyFans, which revealed her humorous side and the importance of self-confidence, even in seemingly trivial matters. Overall, the conversation highlighted the speaker's unique perspective on balancing personal and professional goals, as well as her ability to find humor in everyday situations.

    • Working for High-Profile Clients: Mystery and DisappointmentWorking for high-profile clients can be exciting but also disappointing, with some clients being less pleasant than expected and having unreasonable requests.

      Working as a private chef for high-profile clients, including Gwyneth Paltrow, Kathy Griffin, Charlie Sheen, and Jessica Alba, was initially exciting for the chef due to the mystery and glamour associated with it. However, over time, he came to view them as just normal people, and some clients were less pleasant than expected. One client, in particular, was rude and refused to take a picture with the chef or return a taken photo. Another incident involved the client requesting her filet mignon to be chopped up and overcooked, which was disappointing for the chef who had prepared it perfectly. Despite these experiences, the chef expressed that Gwyneth Paltrow is actually quite lovely and normal, contrary to public perception.

    • Respecting Unique Needs and Preferences in DiningBe respectful and understanding of others' dietary needs and preferences while also being true to your own. Communication and understanding are key to ensuring a positive dining experience for all parties involved.

      While some people, including chefs, may find modifications to their dishes or dietary preferences annoying or offensive, it's important to remember that everyone has unique needs and preferences. Allergies are legitimate concerns, and people should be apologetic and considerate when requesting modifications. Preferences, on the other hand, can be more challenging, especially in a private dining setting where customization is expected. However, it's essential to remember that everyone has the right to enjoy their meal and that communication and understanding are key to ensuring a positive dining experience for all parties involved. Additionally, dietary preferences, such as vegetarianism or veganism, can be significant factors in relationships and can impact dating and social situations. Ultimately, it's essential to be respectful and understanding of others' needs and preferences while also being true to our own.

    • Food as a tool for building connectionsUnderstand and respect food preferences, prioritize open communication, and compromise when necessary to build and maintain meaningful connections through food

      Food plays a significant role in relationships and can be a source of both connection and conflict. While it's possible to make adjustments and compromises, for many people, food preferences are deeply personal and non-negotiable. Food can be a way to show love and care through shared experiences, and eating together can create cherished memories. For some couples, food is even a defining aspect of their relationship, shaping their identity and values. Ultimately, it's essential to understand and respect each other's food preferences and prioritize open communication and compromise when necessary. Food is more than just sustenance; it's a powerful tool for building and maintaining meaningful connections.

    • Simple meals can be delicious and easy to prepareMake simple meals with bone-in chicken, ramen noodles, cucumbers, and pantry staples for flavor. Avoid washing raw chicken to prevent bacteria spread, and use a cast iron skillet for perfectly cooked steak.

      Simple meals can be delicious and easy to prepare, as demonstrated by the chilled ramen with roasted chicken breast and cucumbers recipe. The use of bone-in, skin-on chicken breast ensures moisture and flavor, while simple pantry staples like ramen noodles, cucumbers, tahini or peanut butter, and olive oil create a satisfying meal. However, food safety is crucial when handling raw chicken. Avoid washing it to prevent spreading bacteria, and always wash hands and surfaces after handling. Another simple dinner idea is pasta with olive oil, garlic, and parmesan cheese, which can be made quickly and deliciously. Despite the ease and convenience of these meals, it's important to remember that they should not be the sole staples of one's diet. A pet peeve for many chefs is the common mistake of washing chicken before cooking, which can lead to the spread of bacteria. Instead, cook the chicken thoroughly to ensure food safety. When it comes to cooking steak, a cast iron skillet on the stove is a favorite method for achieving a perfectly cooked, flavorful meal.

    • Food Preferences During Special OccasionsRespect each other's food preferences during communal meals and make an effort to accommodate everyone's tastes.

      People have different preferences when it comes to food, especially during special occasions like Thanksgiving. Some people may not enjoy traditional Thanksgiving dishes and prefer other options. The speaker in this conversation expressed her dislike for turkey and cranberry sauce, and her preference for steak and ribs. She also shared an experience where she brought meatballs to a Thanksgiving potluck and no one else seemed to enjoy it. The speaker also emphasized that she doesn't force herself to eat foods she doesn't enjoy, even if it's at someone else's house. Ultimately, it's important to respect each other's food preferences and make an effort to accommodate everyone's tastes during communal meals.

    • Different Perspectives on Food During Social EventsBe respectful and polite when trying new foods at social events, but it's okay to have preferences and not eat inedible or poorly prepared dishes.

      People have different perspectives when it comes to food, especially during social events like weddings or first dates. Some people are more willing to eat and appreciate all kinds of food, even if it's not their favorite, for the sake of being polite. Others prefer to stick to their guns and only eat what they like. Regarding sending food back, it's generally considered rude, especially during a first date, as it may give a negative impression. However, there are exceptions, such as when the food is inedible or unacceptably prepared. Salt and olive oil were mentioned as essential ingredients, while pepper and buckshot were jokingly suggested as potential alternatives to marry. The speaker also expressed their love for hot sauces, emphasizing their equal opportunity approach to enjoying various types.

    • A Passion for Spicy Food and Cooking Burgers at HomeThe speaker enjoys spicy foods like Cholula and cooking burgers at home with thin patties, caramelized outsides, high-quality buns, and American cheese. They also listen to the podcast 'Even the Rich' for entertainment.

      The speaker has a strong appreciation for spicy food, particularly hot sauces like Cholula, and enjoys the burn they provide. They also have a passion for cooking burgers at home, emphasizing the importance of thin patties, caramelizing the outside, and using high-quality buns and American cheese. The speaker also mentioned their love for the podcast "Even the Rich," which explores the behind-the-scenes lives of celebrities and icons. The speaker's conversation showcased their enthusiasm for both food and entertainment. Additionally, they mentioned their past attempt to make a smash burger at home but faced challenges due to the stink of cooking it indoors. Overall, the speaker's conversation highlighted their love for flavorful experiences, whether it be through food or entertainment.

    • Lessons on community, comfort, and self-worthBuild community, let go of perfection, find comfort and support, know your worth, and set standards for yourself.

      True success comes from building community and letting go of the need for perfection. Gabrielle Union, a successful actress, learned this lesson after facing hard choices beyond her control. Meanwhile, in the world of bras, 3rd Love offers a perfect fit for every woman, ensuring comfort and support. When it comes to relationships, it's essential to know your worth and set standards for yourself, rather than using past relationships as a benchmark. In the case of a persistent flake, it might be time to move on and find someone who values and respects you. Remember, comfort, support, and self-worth are essential in all areas of life. Listen to Even the Rich for more inspiring stories and visit 3rdlove.com for a perfectly fitting bra.

    • Uncertainty in a new relationship due to communication and inconsistencyClear communication, setting expectations, and valuing oneself are essential in any relationship. Inconsistent communication and lack of prioritization can be red flags.

      Communication and setting expectations are key in any relationship. In the discussion, it became clear that the speaker was unsure about a new relationship due to the other person's communication style and inconsistency. They had only gone on one date and had left it feeling excited, but the other person had flaked on a follow-up plan. The speaker felt unsure if they were a priority and questioned if they deserved better. It's important to remember that everyone has their own communication styles and that it's essential to communicate openly about expectations and intentions. In this case, the speaker acknowledged that they could also improve in this area by not matching the other person's lackadaisical communication style. However, it's crucial to note that consistent flaking and lack of prioritization can be a red flag. Additionally, the speaker's self-doubt and insecurities were brought up in the conversation, and it was suggested that they should focus on their own worth and deserving the best. Overall, the discussion emphasized the importance of clear communication, setting expectations, and valuing oneself in a relationship.

    • Comparing new relationships to past experiences can put pressure on the other personBe patient and give the other person space to get to know you at their own pace. Communicate clearly, avoid accusatory language, and focus on building a genuine connection based on mutual respect and understanding.

      Comparing a new relationship to past experiences and expressing too much enthusiasm too soon can put undue pressure on the other person. It's important to remember that everyone has unique circumstances and comfort levels, and it's essential to give the other person space to get to know you at their own pace. Additionally, communication is crucial in any relationship, but especially in the early stages when schedules and availability may be challenging. Asking for clarity and checking in can help build trust and understanding, but it's also essential to be mindful of not coming across as overbearing or needy. Furthermore, it's important to be self-aware and avoid accusatory language or defensive behaviors that can create unnecessary tension. Instead, focus on building a genuine connection based on mutual respect and understanding. Lastly, it's important to remember that everyone has different communication styles and preferences, and it's essential to be patient and flexible while navigating the early stages of a relationship. By approaching dating with an open mind and a focus on building a genuine connection, you'll increase your chances of finding a fulfilling and meaningful relationship.

    • Avoid putting all emotional eggs in one basketFocus on building connections with multiple people and let relationships develop naturally. Don't fixate on one person and put them on a pedestal.

      Investing too much emotional energy into someone you're not in a relationship with can be unhealthy. While it's natural to feel drawn to someone after a great first date, constantly checking in and pursuing them without reciprocation can be a sign of an unbalanced dynamic. Instead, focus on building connections with multiple people and letting the other person take the lead in the relationship. If they show interest, respond positively, but avoid fixating on one person and putting them on a pedestal. Remember, relationships should make you feel loved and validated, not insecure or unfulfilled. If you've recently come out of a relationship where you didn't feel prioritized, it's important to seek out people who make you feel valued and appreciated. And if the other person isn't interested, it's crucial to respect their boundaries and move on. In summary, be open to new connections, but avoid putting all your emotional eggs in one basket. Let relationships develop naturally and focus on building a strong foundation of mutual respect and understanding.

    • Relationships require effort from both partiesRemember relationships are mutual, prioritize self-care, and move on if it's not fulfilling for both parties.

      While there may be unique experiences and communication patterns in relationships between women, it's essential to remember that relationships are a two-way street. Shared experiences and quick connections do not guarantee compatibility or mutual feelings. It's crucial to prioritize your emotional and mental health and consider if the relationship is fulfilling for both parties. Additionally, relationships involve combining two lives with numerous factors, making it important to remember that it's not always about you. If the relationship isn't working, it's essential to gracefully move on and trust that there are many potential partners out there. It's important to maintain self-worth and avoid wasting time on unrequited feelings while missing opportunities with other potential partners.

    • Investing too much emotional energy in someone not in a relationship can be unhealthyAvoid fixating on individuals and focus on self-care and letting go after an unfulfilling relationship.

      Investing excessive emotional energy in someone you're not in a relationship with can lead to emotional instability and confusion. The speaker's experience of being in a rollercoaster relationship where they're constantly being pulled back in despite feeling over it, only to be let down again, is not emotionally healthy. This behavior can stem from fixation on one person, often leading to disregard for others. The speaker's past experiences of fixating on individuals have resulted in missed opportunities and unfulfilling relationships. It's essential to recognize that if you've just come out of a relationship where you didn't feel prioritized, it's crucial to avoid getting emotionally invested in someone who isn't making themselves available to you. Instead, focus on self-care and letting go, rather than constantly checking in or apologizing. If the other person eventually reaches out, you can consider responding, but it's essential to maintain a healthy emotional distance.

    • Knowing your worth and clear communication in relationshipsBe clear about your relationship desires and worth, invest energy wisely, interpret actions over words, and seek a fulfilling and balanced connection.

      Communication and setting clear expectations are crucial in relationships. The speaker shares her experiences of knowing from the start that her relationship with her husband was meant to be, while her previous relationships were filled with uncertainty and unreciprocated feelings. She emphasizes the importance of knowing your worth and not settling for less than what you desire. In the context of the current situation, she advises being clear about what you want in a relationship and not investing emotional energy into someone who isn't willing to prioritize you. The speaker also acknowledges the confusion that can arise when people are on different pages in terms of their feelings, and encourages interpreting actions over words to gain a clearer understanding. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of being true to yourself and seeking a fulfilling and balanced relationship.

    • Feeling stuck after a connection is normal, but avoid idealizing or setting unrealistic standards.Don't let past experiences define future relationships, focus on self-love, and remember that everyone's dating journey is unique.

      It's normal to feel stuck or drawn to someone after a connection, even if it didn't result in a romantic relationship. However, it's important not to idealize this person or hold them to an unrealistic standard. The dating process can be exhausting and demoralizing, especially during a breakup. It's essential to remember that not every date will be perfect, and it's okay to have expectations and boundaries. The more people you meet and date, the higher the chance of finding someone who truly connects with you. It's also crucial to focus on self-love and happiness before jumping into a new relationship. As Ronnie mentioned, don't let your ex or past experiences be the benchmark for future relationships. Lastly, remember that everyone's dating journey is unique, and it's a numbers game to some extent. Keep an open mind, and be patient. The next person who truly resonates with you might be just around the corner.

    • Focus on the present relationship, not past comparisonsAppreciate unique qualities, avoid checklists, be patient, and strive for a fulfilling connection

      When entering a new relationship, it's essential to focus on the person in front of you and avoid comparing them to past relationships. Instead, appreciate the unique qualities and experiences they bring to the table. Having a list of priorities or non-negotiables can help set standards, but it should not be a checklist based on superficial traits. Relationships are like cooking – there might be a recipe, but it's essential to make it your own and be flexible. Remember, it's okay to go on several dates and not fall in love right away. Patience and an open mind are crucial. Lastly, never settle for less than what you deserve, and always strive to find someone who sees and values your worth. Ronny's book, "Did You Eat Yet?" is available wherever books are sold, and you can find him on social media at Instagram (@Ronnycwoo), Facebook (@thedeliciouscook), and Twitter (@Ronnycwoo).

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    enJune 25, 2024

    E766 Ask Nick - He’s Choosing His Family

    E766 Ask Nick - He’s Choosing His Family

    Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We start off the episode by responding to our previous Ask Nick’s comments. Then we get to our callers… 

    Our first caller is wondering if she should tell a coworker about his girlfriend’s affair. Our second caller feels like her boyfriend goes mute around her family. And, our third caller wants to move, but her boyfriend wants to stay close to his family. 

    “You’re literally talking to a version of your boyfriend right now”

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    enJune 24, 2024

    E765 RR - Perfect Match w/ Stevan, Brian Baumgartner, Love Island, Gypsy Rose, & Justin Timberlake Arrest

    E765 RR - Perfect Match w/ Stevan, Brian Baumgartner, Love Island, Gypsy Rose, & Justin Timberlake Arrest

    Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap.

    This is a fun episode! Brian Baugartner, from the Office, joins us to talk all things barbecue and build his perfect reality tv cast. Meanwhile, Stevan Ditter from Perfect Match zooms in to talk all things drama in the villa… How was his experience? How is he with Alara? What is he doing now? 

    “We have to ask you, did he kiss Melinda?” 

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    E764 RR - Summer House, Perfect Match w/ Elys, Bach Bios, Kenya Moore Suspended, and RHONJ

    E764 RR - Summer House, Perfect Match w/ Elys, Bach Bios, Kenya Moore Suspended, and RHONJ

    Welcome back to reality recap. Today we start off with Nick’s first Father’s Day. Then we get to our drama: Kenya Moore being indefinitely suspended from the current season of RHOA, Football Player, Isaiah Bugs being arrested AGAIN, and Lindsay Hubbard being grilled at the Summer House Reunion Part 2. Meanwhile, Elys Hutchinson from Perfect Match joins us to talk about her experience on the show!

    “you know what? I was wrong.”

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    enJune 18, 2024

    E763 Ask Nick - Flirting With an NHL Player

    E763 Ask Nick - Flirting With an NHL Player

    Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We start off the episode by addressing your gentle parenting responses and diving into the ideal dating expectations of men. Then we get to our callers… 

    Our first caller wants to shoot her shot with a professional athlete. Our second caller is back with her ex, and is afraid to tell her parents. Finally, our third caller is thriving in her occupational industry but is afraid it turns off the men she’s dating.

    “As a woman who’s very successful and passionate about her career, that should never feel like a negative for you”

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    enJune 17, 2024

    E762 GD w/ West Wilson - Summer House, Girlcode, Sleep Training, and Perfect Match with Tolú

    E762 GD w/ West Wilson - Summer House, Girlcode, Sleep Training, and Perfect Match with Tolú

    Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper, with Summer House’ West Wilson. 

    To start things out, we invite Tolú Ekundare from Netflix’s Perfect Match… She shares her experience matching with Izzy Zapata, Dom Gabriel, and Chris Hahn. Then we get to our interview with West. How was his first season? Who does he still talk to? Does he regret his relationship with Ciara?

    “When someone shows you who they are, believe it.” 

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    enJune 13, 2024

    E761 RR - Summer House Reunion, Perfect Match w/ Kaz, Sandoval Drama, and Traitors Cast

    E761 RR - Summer House Reunion, Perfect Match w/ Kaz, Sandoval Drama, and Traitors Cast

    Welcome back to reality recap. Today we discuss all of the drama… ranging from Billie Lee slamming Sandoval’s new girlfriend, West Wilson getting grilled during the Summer House Reunion Part 1, Traitors cast announcement, and Jesse Lally having an affair with Anna Nicole Smith. Meanwhile, Kaz Bishop, from The Perfect Match zooms in! What’s it like back on TV, who does he want to match with, and does he regret anything? 

    “All I'm hearing is you’re a bottom feeder” 

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    E760 Ask Nick - Carrying My BFF’s Baby

    E760 Ask Nick - Carrying My BFF’s Baby

    Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! Before we get to our callers, we talk about menu anxiety and gentle parenting. Then we get to our callers…

    Our first caller is carrying her best friend's baby, but her mother and law doesn’t approve. Our Second caller is a single mom and it’s been 9 years since she’s last called someone her boyfriend. Finally, our third caller feels like the city she lives in makes it impossible to move on from her ex.

    “When you look back at your relationship, was he really the perfect boyfriend?”

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    enJune 10, 2024

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