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    E59 Ask Nick - Oh Baby with Maria Viall

    enNovember 11, 2019

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    • Conn's Offers Invincible Prices and Holistic Nutrition ExpertiseConn's guarantees lowest prices and provides free next-day delivery on appliances, TVs, and mattresses. Maria, a Conn's team member and holistic nutrition expert, shares her passion for helping others make positive food and lifestyle choices for overall wellness.

      Conn's offers invincible prices on various products, including appliances, furniture, electronics, and mattresses, backed up by a low price guarantee. Additionally, they provide free next-day delivery on appliances, TVs, and mattresses, and offer payment options for everyone, regardless of credit status. Maria, a certified holistic nutritionist and Conn's team member, shared her expertise on holistic nutrition and how her personal experiences influenced her passion for the field. Growing up, she recognized the impact of food and lifestyle on overall wellness and developed a desire to help others make positive changes. Holistic nutrition involves learning how food can impact health and specific health issues, requiring individualized approaches. Maria became passionate about holistic nutrition during her formative years when she began to develop a body image and felt the need to become smaller, despite her height. She has since dedicated her career to helping others understand the power of food and lifestyle choices in promoting wellness.

    • From weight loss to performance-focused nutritionUnderstanding health history and daily habits key to optimal nutrition. Discover surprising benefits of full-fat dairy and individualized approach.

      Our approach to nutrition, particularly in Western cultures, can be misguided. The speaker shares her personal journey from focusing on weight loss and diets during her youth, to realizing the importance of nutrition for performance while playing basketball, and eventually becoming a nutrition expert. She now works with clients dealing with various health issues, and emphasizes the importance of understanding one's health history and daily eating habits. The speaker highlights the discrepancies between what we've been taught and what's truly healthy, and shares that some surprising findings include the benefits of full-fat dairy and the importance of considering one's unique health history.

    • Individualized approaches to health and wellnessConsider unique health history, lifestyle, and response to dietary approaches for optimal health. Avoid extreme diets and focus on sustainable solutions that fit individual preferences.

      There's a need to focus on individualized approaches to health and wellness, rather than adhering to strict, one-size-fits-all diets. The speaker emphasizes the importance of considering each person's unique health history, lifestyle, and response to different dietary approaches. Extreme diets, while they may work for some, can be detrimental if not implemented correctly or for an extended period. The speaker encourages a more holistic approach, focusing on addressing underlying health issues and finding a sustainable dietary solution that fits an individual's lifestyle and preferences. The comparison of the human body to a car engine and fuel illustrates the importance of understanding the unique needs of each body and providing it with the appropriate "fuel" for optimal functioning.

    • The Importance of Structured Meals and Sleep for a Healthy LifestyleFocus on structured meals with spaces in between for better food connection and digestion. Prioritize sleep, avoid late-night eating, and set a consistent wake-up time for optimal health benefits.

      For a healthy lifestyle, it's important to not eat all the time and instead focus on structured meals with spaces in between. This allows for better connection to your food and improved digestion. Another key takeaway is that the night before sets the tone for the day, so avoiding late-night eating and prioritizing sleep are crucial for overall health and well-being. Sleep is essential for healing, detoxifying, and rebalancing the body, and snoozing can disrupt this process. Setting a consistent wake-up time and avoiding the snooze button can help maximize the benefits of sleep.

    • Improve your sleep and wellbeing with essential oilsEssential oils can enhance overall health and wellness by improving indoor air quality and addressing common issues like anxiety, low energy, and headaches, offering therapeutic benefits without side effects.

      Getting a good night's sleep is crucial for setting the stage for a productive and energetic day. Sleep and food are connected, but focusing on getting adequate rest is the foundation for overall wellbeing. Essential oils can serve as a simple and effective alternative to synthetic products for improving indoor air quality and addressing common issues like anxiety, low energy, and headaches. They offer therapeutic benefits without the added side effects of some traditional remedies. For those seeking natural solutions, essential oils provide a safe and versatile option to enhance overall health and wellness. For more specific health concerns or autoimmune diseases, consider seeking the guidance of a qualified professional like Maria Vial, who can provide personalized advice and recommendations through her website mariavil.com.

    • Addressing small health issues early on can lead to significant improvements in overall well-being.Communicate openly about deal-breaker habits or behaviors in relationships and consider the other person's response before making a decision.

      Small issues like acid reflux, constipation, and poor energy levels, although often overlooked, can significantly impact our quality of life. Addressing these issues early on can lead to noticeable improvements in overall well-being. In a different context, when it comes to relationships, having an instant connection and great chemistry with someone is essential. However, if there are deal-breaker habits or behaviors that negatively impact your feelings towards them, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly about your concerns. If the other person is understanding and willing to make changes, the relationship may be worth considering. If not, it might be best to move on and continue the search for a partner who aligns more closely with your preferences and values.

    • Communication is Key in RelationshipsBe open and honest about non-negotiable issues and personal preferences, consider overall compatibility and emotional connection, and wait for the right person rather than settling.

      It's essential to communicate openly and honestly in relationships. The speaker shared her past experiences of missing red flags and feeling damaged as a result. She advised expressing concerns about non-negotiable issues, such as smoking, and being clear about personal preferences. The speaker also emphasized the importance of considering the overall compatibility and emotional connection in a relationship, acknowledging that no one is perfect. She expressed her intention to wait until she finds someone she truly wants to be in a relationship with, rather than settling. The conversation also touched on the complexity of evaluating potential deal-breakers, such as excessive drinking, and the importance of considering each situation individually.

    • Assessing Past Experiences for New ConnectionsTrust instincts, learn from past, prioritize wants, communicate concerns, and make informed decisions based on self-awareness and confidence.

      When considering a new connection, it's essential to assess past experiences and current feelings to make informed decisions. The speaker emphasizes the importance of trusting one's instincts and not creating unnecessary paranoia. The past relationship's unresolved issues and trust concerns may influence current perceptions, but it's crucial to learn from the past and prioritize what one truly wants. The speaker also suggests that evaluating potential partners honestly and openly communicating any concerns can help clarify the situation. Ultimately, the decision to move forward or not should come from a place of self-awareness and confidence.

    • Trust your instincts and end unfulfilling relationshipsIt's important to prioritize happiness and end relationships that don't fulfill your needs, rather than trying to change or nitpick small issues.

      It's essential to trust your instincts and make decisions based on what feels right for you, even if it means ending a relationship that isn't fulfilling. It's common to feel hesitant or afraid of losing someone when you've been alone for a while, but if you don't truly feel a deep connection or see a future with someone, it's better to move on. Trying to change someone or nitpick small issues can lead to misery for both parties and create unnecessary confusion. If you're unsure about a relationship, reflect on whether you'd still be interested if the person met all your desired qualities. If not, it may be best to end it and focus on finding someone who aligns better with your needs and desires. Ultimately, prioritizing your happiness and well-being is crucial.

    • Trust your gut feelings about relationshipsIf a relationship doesn't bring joy or fulfillment, it's okay to move on and find someone who does.

      It's important to trust your gut feelings when it comes to relationships. If you find yourself in a situation where you're hoping someone else will take the place of your current partner, it may be a sign that the relationship isn't right for you. It can be difficult to let go and move on, especially if the other person wants to stay. However, holding on to a relationship that doesn't bring you joy or fulfillment can be toxic and unhealthy for both parties. Instead of focusing on the negative aspects, try to identify the good qualities your partner brings to the relationship and use those as guidelines for what you're looking for in a future mate. Remember, everyone makes mistakes in relationships, but it's important to learn from them and move forward. Don't make your partner feel like they're not good enough for you or that they need to change to fit your expectations. If you don't feel a connection, it's okay to walk away and clear your mind and heart for new possibilities.

    • Understanding nonnegotiables in relationshipsCommunicate priorities and nonnegotiables effectively to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

      In relationships, it's essential to prioritize nonnegotiables and understand what's truly important. Compromising is important, but knowing your nonnegotiables can prevent unnecessary nitpicking and dissatisfaction. When considering a relationship, it's important to assess which priorities are the biggest and which are nonnegotiable. In the case of Anna, she felt she was investing more than she was getting back from her boyfriend. While it's normal for there to be give and take in a relationship, Anna should consider whether her priorities and nonnegotiables are being met. For example, if she values communication and emotional intimacy, she may need to have a conversation with her boyfriend about expressing feelings and being more present in the relationship. By understanding what's truly important and communicating effectively, both partners can work towards a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.

    • Understanding Emotions and Expectations in RelationshipsBuilding a strong relationship requires open communication, mutual understanding, and patience. Everyone expresses love differently and sets their own pace. Avoid setting unrealistic expectations and communicate openly about feelings and concerns.

      Communication and understanding are key in relationships, especially when it comes to expressing emotions and dealing with expectations. The speaker shares her experience of feeling confused about her partner's emotional availability and expressiveness in their relationship. She acknowledges that everyone moves at different paces and has unique ways of expressing love. The speaker also mentions the importance of being understanding and not setting unrealistic expectations, especially in the early stages of a relationship. She emphasizes the need to communicate openly about feelings and concerns, rather than keeping score or obsessing over perceived slights. Additionally, the speaker highlights the importance of considering individual circumstances, such as family dynamics and personal comfort levels, when navigating relationship milestones like meeting families or attending holidays together. Overall, the takeaway is that building a strong and healthy relationship requires patience, open communication, and mutual understanding.

    • Understanding Love Languages in RelationshipsObserve your partner's emotional availability and express your feelings to build a strong relationship. Don't put too much pressure on meeting family early on.

      Communication and understanding each other's love languages are crucial in a relationship. The speaker suggests that everyone expresses and receives love differently, and it's essential to identify what works best for both parties. In the context of the discussion, the listener's concern was about her boyfriend's reluctance to meet her family and his emotional expressiveness. The speaker advised against making a big deal out of it in the early stages of the relationship but encouraged the listener to observe how her boyfriend interacts with others to gauge his emotional availability. Additionally, the speaker suggested that the listener should communicate her feelings to her boyfriend and have a conversation about it, emphasizing that it's essential to express what one needs in a relationship to feel loved and valued. The speaker also advised against putting too much pressure on the listener's boyfriend regarding meeting the family, suggesting that it might be better to focus on other aspects of the relationship and table the issue for a later conversation.

    • Respecting Partner's Individuality During Family TraditionsBe patient and understanding during family traditions, respecting your partner's individuality and autonomy while expressing your desires.

      While it's natural to want to include your significant other in family traditions early on in a relationship, it's important to respect their individuality and autonomy. Meeting someone you like can make you eager to share experiences with them, but it's crucial to remember that everyone has different comfort levels and priorities. The decision to spend Thanksgiving with your family or with friends doesn't determine the future of your relationship. Instead, the way you respond to your partner's choices and the support you offer can strengthen your bond. Be understanding and respectful of their needs while expressing what's important to you. Remember, everyone has unique traditions and anxieties surrounding family gatherings, and it's essential to approach the situation with patience and understanding. Ultimately, the key is to find a balance between expressing your desires and giving your partner the space they need to grow in the relationship.

    • Effective communication and understanding in relationshipsExpressing needs, observing differences, and being patient can lead to effective communication and growth in relationships.

      Effective communication and understanding each other's needs are crucial in a relationship. It's important to express what makes you happy and for your partner to listen and show willingness to act upon it. Establishing exclusivity and having important conversations, such as meeting each other's families, can bring new challenges but also opportunities for growth. It's essential to observe how your partner interacts with others and understand that they might express love or emotions differently. Over time, constant learning from each other is necessary for a relationship to thrive. During the early stages, it's important to be patient and give your partner space to show their love in their unique way. If significant challenges arise, they can provide valuable insights and opportunities for growth. Overall, effective communication, understanding, and patience are key to navigating the complexities of a relationship.

    • Understanding love expressions and interactionsRecognizing individual ways of expressing love and being open to different methods can lead to stronger relationships. Everyone heals at their own pace, so be gentle with yourself during tough times.

      Understanding how someone expresses love and interacts with others, especially those close to them, can provide valuable insights into their potential ways of showing love and interacting in a relationship. However, it's essential to remember that everyone learns and expresses love differently, and there's a balance between expressing one's needs and being open to different ways of showing love. The speaker shared her personal experience of finding herself alone after her boyfriend left her following the unexpected discovery of her pregnancy, emphasizing the importance of having a strong support system outside of the relationship. While it's normal to feel the weight of the situation, there's no right timeline for healing, and it's crucial to be gentle with oneself during this process.

    • Grieving after a breakup during pregnancyIt's normal to feel sad and lean on family and supportive communities for emotional support during pregnancy after a breakup. Prioritize emotional well-being and explore legal options if necessary for financial support.

      It's normal to grieve and feel sad after a breakup, especially when you're pregnant with the other person's child. It's unreasonable to expect yourself to be over it right away. Lean on your family for emotional support and consider reaching out to local mom groups or organizations for companionship. It's important to prioritize your emotional well-being and seek out supportive communities. Additionally, if the other person is not being financially responsible for the child, explore your options for legal action to ensure the child's financial needs are met. Remember, you're not alone in this experience, and it's okay to ask for help and support from those around you.

    • Prioritize self and child's well-beingPut child's needs and your well-being first, hold ex-partner accountable for past actions, and consider new relationships based on what's best for you and your child.

      It's essential to prioritize your own well-being and the well-being of your unborn child over your fears and desires for a specific relationship. The speaker acknowledges the fear of being a single mother and the desire for companionship, but emphasizes the importance of holding your ex-partner accountable for their actions towards you. It's crucial to consider whether you want someone who has treated you poorly to be around your child. The speaker encourages making decisions based on what's best for you and your child, rather than how it may affect your ex-partner's reaction. Additionally, the speaker suggests that new friendships and relationships can form through motherhood and that it's important to hold your ex-partner accountable in a firm and fearless manner.

    • Prioritize your needs and child's needsWhen asking for child support, prioritize your own needs and your child's needs, reach out to your ex first, and focus on your own well-being if they refuse.

      When dealing with a difficult situation like asking for child support from an unresponsive ex-partner, it's important to prioritize your own needs and those of your child above all else. Reach out to your ex first and give them the opportunity to fulfill their financial responsibilities. If they refuse, focus on your own well-being and the care of your child, without worrying about involving extended family or friends yet. It's crucial to understand that it's not your responsibility to manage others' perceptions or reactions. Instead, hold your ex accountable for their actions and allow yourself to feel the full range of emotions. Remember, their past behavior may not define who they are as a partner or parent in the long term. Stay focused on your own healing and building a fulfilling life for yourself and your child.

    • Communicate your needs early in a relationshipEstablishing needs early on helps navigate situations and gives partners the opportunity to meet them. It's okay to grieve, but don't judge yourself. Focus on self-care and know that better days are ahead.

      It's important to establish what you need from a partner early on in a relationship, especially when there are children involved. This will help you navigate the situation and give your partner the opportunity to meet those needs. It's okay to feel sad and grieve, but try not to judge yourself for not moving on yet. Remember that life is unpredictable, and things may not turn out as planned. However, there is hope for a brighter future, and it's essential to learn from past experiences and not repeat the same mistakes. Keep in mind that you deserve better and that you and your child will have a lot of love and support. It's important to remember that everyone's situation is unique, and things may not be as simple as they seem. Ultimately, focus on taking care of yourself and your child, and know that better days are ahead.

    • The importance of personal growth vs companionshipRecognize the significance of self-awareness, personal growth, and the power of giving and receiving advice. Don't compromise personal well-being for temporary companionship.

      People's true character is often revealed during challenging times, and some individuals prioritize companionship over personal growth. Maria shared her perspective on staying in relationships for the sake of not being alone, which can provide temporary comfort but may hinder long-term personal development. Additionally, Maria emphasized that those who give the best advice are often the ones who need it most. This resonates with the idea that we can learn valuable lessons by helping others and applying those lessons to our own lives. It's essential to recognize the importance of self-growth and not compromise our personal well-being for the sake of companionship. Overall, the discussion highlighted the significance of self-awareness, personal growth, and the power of giving and receiving advice.

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    E764 RR - Summer House, Perfect Match w/ Elys, Bach Bios, Kenya Moore Suspended, and RHONJ

    E764 RR - Summer House, Perfect Match w/ Elys, Bach Bios, Kenya Moore Suspended, and RHONJ

    Welcome back to reality recap. Today we start off with Nick’s first Father’s Day. Then we get to our drama: Kenya Moore being indefinitely suspended from the current season of RHOA, Football Player, Isaiah Bugs being arrested AGAIN, and Lindsay Hubbard being grilled at the Summer House Reunion Part 2. Meanwhile, Elys Hutchinson from Perfect Match joins us to talk about her experience on the show!

    “you know what? I was wrong.”

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    E763 Ask Nick - Flirting With an NHL Player

    E763 Ask Nick - Flirting With an NHL Player

    Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We start off the episode by addressing your gentle parenting responses and diving into the ideal dating expectations of men. Then we get to our callers… 

    Our first caller wants to shoot her shot with a professional athlete. Our second caller is back with her ex, and is afraid to tell her parents. Finally, our third caller is thriving in her occupational industry but is afraid it turns off the men she’s dating.

    “As a woman who’s very successful and passionate about her career, that should never feel like a negative for you”

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    E762 GD w/ West Wilson - Summer House, Girlcode, Sleep Training, and Perfect Match with Tolú

    Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper, with Summer House’ West Wilson. 

    To start things out, we invite Tolú Ekundare from Netflix’s Perfect Match… She shares her experience matching with Izzy Zapata, Dom Gabriel, and Chris Hahn. Then we get to our interview with West. How was his first season? Who does he still talk to? Does he regret his relationship with Ciara?

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    E761 RR - Summer House Reunion, Perfect Match w/ Kaz, Sandoval Drama, and Traitors Cast

    Welcome back to reality recap. Today we discuss all of the drama… ranging from Billie Lee slamming Sandoval’s new girlfriend, West Wilson getting grilled during the Summer House Reunion Part 1, Traitors cast announcement, and Jesse Lally having an affair with Anna Nicole Smith. Meanwhile, Kaz Bishop, from The Perfect Match zooms in! What’s it like back on TV, who does he want to match with, and does he regret anything? 

    “All I'm hearing is you’re a bottom feeder” 

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    E760 Ask Nick - Carrying My BFF’s Baby

    E760 Ask Nick - Carrying My BFF’s Baby

    Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! Before we get to our callers, we talk about menu anxiety and gentle parenting. Then we get to our callers…

    Our first caller is carrying her best friend's baby, but her mother and law doesn’t approve. Our Second caller is a single mom and it’s been 9 years since she’s last called someone her boyfriend. Finally, our third caller feels like the city she lives in makes it impossible to move on from her ex.

    “When you look back at your relationship, was he really the perfect boyfriend?”

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