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    Hansa Bergwall, Reminding Us That We Die So That We Live

    enMarch 14, 2018

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    • Reduce Anger Responses with MeditationMeditation practice can help individuals become more aware of their emotions, respond effectively to anger, and shorten the duration of anger episodes.

      Meditation practice, such as the one discussed on the 10% Happier podcast, can help individuals become more aware of their emotions, including anger, and reduce the duration and intensity of their anger responses. By practicing mindfulness and self-awareness, individuals can notice their anger earlier and respond more effectively, leading to less suffering for themselves and others. Meditation can also help break the cycle of re-upping anger through neurotic thinking, making anger episodes shorter in duration. This practice takes time and effort, but the benefits can lead to a more peaceful and mindful life.

    • Self-awareness leads to less sufferingPracticing self-awareness, even if uncomfortable, reduces long-term suffering. Try meditating without technology for added benefit.

      Being self-aware, even if it causes short-term discomfort, leads to less suffering in the long term. This was discussed in response to a question about managing anger. Regarding meditation, it's normal to use guided meditations as a tool, and it's not necessarily a problem to be reliant on them. However, if you find yourself addicted to using your phone for meditation, try practicing on your own without the aid of technology. Basic meditation steps include closing your eyes, sitting with a reasonably straight back, bringing your full attention to your breath, and starting again when you get distracted. Over time, you'll likely become more adept at meditating on your own. Remember, phone addiction is a separate issue and a common concern in today's digital age. Another caller, Jamie, shared her experience of relying on guided meditations through an app and feeling lost when her phone wasn't available. Dan reassured her that using guided meditations isn't a problem and suggested trying to meditate on her own when her phone isn't accessible. He provided some basic meditation steps for her to follow. Dan also acknowledged the prevalence of phone addiction and encouraged listeners to find a balanced practice that includes both guided and unguided meditation.

    • Reflecting on MortalityRemembering our mortality encourages us to live more fully and meaningfully. Try using an app like Wheat Croak for daily reminders.

      Reminding ourselves of our mortality can bring important perspective to our everyday lives. Hansa Bergwa, a writer, yoga teacher, and daily meditator, created an app called "Wheat Croak" to help people do just that. The app sends reminders of our mortality throughout the day, encouraging users to reflect on what truly matters. Hansa grew up with parents who practiced meditation and was introduced to it at a young age. However, it wasn't until the sudden death of his mother that he turned to meditation in a more serious way as a means of coping with grief. The mind, when aligned with reality, can bring vividness and consequence to our lives. By acknowledging our mortality, we can live more fully and meaningfully.

    • Exploring different meditation practices for mental and emotional well-beingExploring various meditation practices can lead to profound experiences and benefits, promoting mental and emotional well-being. Stay open-minded to find what resonates most, whether it's shamanic with drums, traditional like Kundalini yoga, or another method.

      Meditation practices, whether it's shamanic with drums, or traditional like Kundalini yoga, can lead to profound experiences and benefits. These practices can help push the brain into a light trance state, leading to visual phenomena and cathartic experiences. The specific practice and tradition can vary, but the goal remains the same: to find a method that works for the individual and promotes mental and emotional well-being. The speaker's personal journey involved experimenting with shamanic meditation in her teens, teaching it in her 20s, and later discovering Kundalini yoga meditation and becoming a teacher. Both practices offered unique benefits, with shamanic meditation providing vivid visualizations and Kundalini yoga meditation offering a more physical and energetic experience. Ultimately, the key is to remain open-minded and willing to explore different practices to find what resonates most.

    • Reflecting on Mortality for Increased HappinessMindfulness practices and contemplating mortality can lead to increased happiness and well-being.

      Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and Kundalini yoga, can help individuals get through tough times and connect with their bodies for increased happiness and well-being. Additionally, regularly contemplating mortality, as reminded by apps or quotes, can be a healthy practice for finding happiness and living more fully. This idea, known as memento mori, has been practiced in various wisdom traditions for thousands of years and has been reported to bring about positive results. While it may seem counterintuitive, reflecting on mortality can paradoxically make us feel more alive.

    • App reminds users of their mortality five times a dayApp encourages present moment appreciation and happiness through daily reminders of mortality

      The WeCroke app, which reminds users five times a day that they will eventually die, helps people stay present and appreciate the moment. Our tendency is to constantly seek the next shiny thing, ignoring the present and the inevitability of death. This perspective can put things in perspective, helping us prioritize and find happiness in the present. Despite the app's unconventional concept, it has been downloaded by over 17,000 people in 90 countries. Some may find the concept morbid, but those who try it often report increased happiness and a better appreciation for life. The app serves as a reminder to cherish each day and find joy in the present moment.

    • Embracing truths brings comfort and pleasureRecognizing mortality leads to better decision-making and overall satisfaction. Eliminating distracting apps can improve focus and productivity.

      Acknowledging the preciousness and finiteness of life can bring more pleasure to everyday experiences. Our minds naturally gravitate towards accepting truths, including the reality of mortality, and can lead to better decision-making and overall satisfaction. During a meditation retreat, a teacher shared that the mind finds comfort in embracing truths, even if it's counterintuitive. Additionally, the importance of making good choices and creating positive thoughts is emphasized when we have a clearer understanding of reality. Furthermore, during this time of year, Easter brunch at Whole Foods Market offers an opportunity to celebrate with loved ones. The market provides high-quality eggs and catering options to make the event effortless and enjoyable. Lastly, taking control of one's phone usage can lead to improved focus and productivity. By recognizing the impact of apps on our daily lives and eliminating those that don't serve us, we can regain control and reduce distractions.

    • An app to remind us to pause and reflectCreating an app to ponder mortality or limit phone usage can resonate with a wide audience and have profound impacts on their lives.

      Technology can negatively impact our mental well-being, and sometimes we need external reminders to help us stay present and focused on what truly matters. The speaker, inspired by her own struggle with constant phone notifications, created an app to remind her and others to pause and reflect on their mortality or simply put down their devices. The app has resonated with a wide range of users, from those dealing with serious loss to those seeking to improve their phone usage. The speaker's experience of creating the app has been both humbling and rewarding, as she never intended for it to reach such a large audience or have such a profound impact on people's lives. The app serves as a reminder that even small actions, taken out of necessity or creativity, can have far-reaching consequences.

    • Reflecting on mortality for mindfulness and wellnessEmbracing the reality of death can help us live more fully and appreciate the present moment. Use apps or reminders to keep this perspective in mind daily.

      Acknowledging and reflecting on mortality, or the memento mori practice, can serve as a powerful tool for mindfulness and wellness. This ancient philosophy, which involves keeping an object or reminder of death close, has been adapted into modern forms such as apps. The creator of one such app shares how his personal experience with death at a young age influenced his work. He notes that while it's natural to try to avoid death or believe we're immune, the truth is that it can happen unexpectedly. Embracing this reality can help us live more fully and appreciate the present moment. The app, and the practice more broadly, can serve as a reminder to live each day to the fullest and be prepared for the inevitable. The app creator also shares that he finds that accepting the realities of aging, illness, and death helps him accept the flexible nature of his identity and weather life's challenges.

    • Embracing Aging and MortalityAccepting aging and mortality can foster compassion, loving-kindness, and a deeper connection with oneself and others. It can lead to a greater sense of peace and acceptance during challenging times.

      Acknowledging and embracing the realities of aging and mortality can lead to a deeper connection with oneself and others. This acceptance can help alleviate feelings of separation and foster compassion and loving-kindness. The speaker shared personal experiences of being surprised by the aging process but emphasized the importance of leaning into it with curiosity rather than fear. He also highlighted the connection between recognizing our own mortality and understanding our place in the larger universe. This perspective, when practiced consistently, can lead to a greater sense of peace and acceptance, even during challenging times like approaching death. The speaker's app, which focuses on providing daily quotes to help users reflect on these themes, has resonated with many people, and he plans to continue adding more quotes and potentially exploring new projects, such as a podcast, to further engage with these topics.

    • DIY app for phone distraction and mindfulness gains popularityThe We Croke app, inspired by a poison dart frog, encourages reflection on mortality and living in the moment, gaining popularity through word-of-mouth and mindfulness practices.

      The We Croke app, created as a DIY solution to combat phone distraction and promote mindfulness, gained significant attention after being featured in The Atlantic magazine. The app's creator, who reached out to the magazine after they wrote about phones and distraction, was surprised by the sudden surge in popularity. The app, which includes a feature inspired by a poison dart frog named "We Croak," encourages users to reflect on their mortality and live in the present moment. The creator encourages users to share their experiences and feedback on social media or through the app's website. The We Croke app is available for download on both iOS and Android platforms. The app's success demonstrates the power of word-of-mouth marketing and the potential impact of mindfulness practices on people's lives.

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    Predictive Processing: A cognitive science theory that suggests the brain continuously makes predictions about the environment based on past experiences.

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    “Meditation is philosophy. It's not about relaxing, and it's certainly not about just creating weird psychedelic states so that we can blow our minds and talk about it. Meditation is a way of knowing ourselves, knowing our situation, and then flourishing through that special knowing.” - Mark Miller [00:16:42]

     

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    [00:14:00] - Meditation's Role in Philosophy and Contemplation

    [00:17:00] - Synthetic Philosophy and Contemplative Science

    [00:23:00] -  Bridging Science, Philosophy and Contemplative Practice 

    [00:30:00]  - Blending Philosophy and Cognitive Science in Contemplative Practice 

    [00:47:00] -  Exploring Deep Belief Structures and Skillful Engagement

    [00:55:00] - Concluding Thoughts

     

    Exploring Consciousness: Cognitive Science Meets Meditation | Philosophy of Meditation #5 with Evan Thompson

    Exploring Consciousness: Cognitive Science Meets Meditation | Philosophy of Meditation #5 with Evan Thompson

    In the fifth episode of the Philosophy of Meditation series, hosts John Vervaeke and Rick Repetti engage with Evan Thompson, a renowned cognitive scientist and philosopher, to explore the symbiosis of meditation, cognitive science, and philosophy. The episode highlights how Evan's early meditation practice shaped his philosophical outlook, emphasizing the experiential depth revealed by meditative states about consciousness. Discussions cover the transformative social aspects of meditation and philosophical views on death, underscoring Evan's perspective that meditation enriches, but should not solely define, philosophy. This insightful conversation traverses the transformative potential of meditation beyond calming the mind, delving into its role in personal development and intellectual growth. By merging philosophical rigor with meditation's lived experience, this conversation offers a nuanced understanding of meditation's role in enhancing human cognition and self-awareness, presenting a compelling case for its profound impact on philosophical thought.

     

    Evan Thompson is a renowned philosopher and cognitive scientist, recognized for his significant contributions to the field of 4E cognitive science, which emphasizes embodied, embedded, enactive, and extended aspects of cognition. His work intricately bridges Western philosophy with Eastern contemplative practices, particularly Buddhism, exploring the intersections of consciousness, meditation, and the human experience. Thompson's influential writings include discussions on the philosophy of mind, meditation, and the nature of self, making him a respected figure in both academic and contemplative circles.

     

    Glossary of Terms

     

    4E Cognitive Science: A framework in cognitive science emphasizing four key factors: embodied, embedded, enacted, and extended cognition.

    Contemplative Perspectives: Approaches to understanding and experiencing reality that involve introspection and focused attention, often used in the context of meditation and mindfulness.

     

    John Vervaeke:

    Website: https://johnvervaeke.com/

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    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VervaekeJohn/

     

    Rick Repetti:

    Website: https://www.rickrepetti.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rickrepetti/ 

    X: https://twitter.com/rickrepetti 

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/philosophicalpractitioner/

     

    Evan Thompson:

    Website: https://evanthompson.me/

    X: http://twitter.com/evantthompson

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evan.timothy.thompson

     

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    Awaken to Meaning - https://awakentomeaning.com/

     

    John Vervaeke YouTube

    • Awakening from the Meaning Crisis https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLND1JCRq8Vuh3f0P5qjrSdb5eC1ZfZwWJ



    Books, Articles, and Publications

     

    • Routledge Handbook on the Philosophy of Meditation - Rick Repetti 

    https://www.amazon.com/Routledge-Handbook-Philosophy-Meditation-Repetti/dp/036764746X

     

    Quotes

     

     "I think of myself as first and foremost a philosopher of mind who works very much on cognitive science and in collaboration with cognitive scientists." - Evan Thompson [00:04:31]

     

    Chapters

     

    [00:00:00] - Series Introduction and Evan Thompson's Cognitive Science Expertise

    [00:02:13] - Integrating Western Philosophy with Buddhist Concepts in Cognitive Science

    [00:04:09] - Philosophical and Meditative Perspectives on Dying and Death 

    [00:07:44] - Cognitive Flexibility and Death Reflection in Meditation Practice

    [00:16:15] - Mindfulness Practices Across Various Traditions and Philosophical Inquiry

    [00:36:01] - Transformational Aspects of Meditation, Rituals, and Self-Cultivation

    [00:50:29] - The Role of Mindfulness in Modern Culture and Science

    [00:57:56] - Meditation as a Conduit Between Diverse Philosophical and Cultural Contexts

    [01:00:43] - Enhancing Consciousness and Attention Through Mindfulness Practices

    [01:14:00] - Concluding Dialogue

     

    This Keeps People Lazy & Pathetic! - Porn, Sex, Women, AI Girlfriends & Weak Men | Healthy Gamer PT 2

    This Keeps People Lazy & Pathetic! - Porn, Sex, Women, AI Girlfriends & Weak Men | Healthy Gamer PT 2
    Welcome to another information-packed episode of Impact Theory, I’m Tom Bilyeu!  In today’s episode I’m joined by Dr. Alok Kanojia to discuss how to get out of the TIGHT HOLD technology has on us so we can stop being lazy and addicted and instead have a meaningful life and healthy relationships with REAL PEOPLE (not AI).  Dr. K is known as “the healthy gamer”. When he was in college he realized he was addicted to video games. He moved to India to become a monk and ultimately went to medical school and became a psychologist. Today, he combines Eastern therapies (like yoga, meditation and Ayurveda) with classic psychotherapy to help people deal with technology addictions like video games, porn, etc.  We are going deep into topics like:  - How & why technology is so addicting   - Understanding WHERE desire comes from - How attachment & baggage are holding you back - What porn does to your brain  - Men’s responsibility to respond to domestication, women’s expectations, and suffering - Why your frame of reference, reality, and focusing on yourself are the way out  All technologies are manipulating you, and the only way to combat them is to know yourself. This is just Part 1 of our conversation, so make sure you don’t miss Part 2 of this convo for even more insights from Dr. K. Follow Dr. Alok Kanojia: Website: https://www.healthygamer.gg/ Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/HealthyGamer_GG YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/healthygamer_gg Follow Me, Tom Bilyeu:  Website: https://impacttheoryuniversity.com/  X: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission.  This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/impacttheory and get on your way to being your best self! Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at https://drinkag1.com/impact. Right now, download NetSuite’s popular KPI Checklist, designed to give you consistently excellent performance - absolutely free, at https://netsuite.com/theory. Head to https://squarespace.com/impact for a free 14 day trial and 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. Secure your digital life with proactive protection for your assets, identity, family, and tech – Go to https://aura.com/IMPACT to start your free two-week trial. Take control of your gut health by going to https://tryviome.com/impact and use code IMPACT to get 20% off your first 3 months and free shipping. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you.  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, Tom AMAs, and so much more!* This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    How to Break Bad Mental Habits | Carol Wilson

    How to Break Bad Mental Habits | Carol Wilson

    There are so many benefits to mindfulness with one of the biggest being the cultivation of more self-awareness. This cultivation can lead to identifying the unhelpful mental habits that can develop over the years.


    Today we’re going to talk to Carol Wilson who offers very clear and practical ways that Buddhist meditation can help us turn down the volume on our unproductive mental habits and be less reactive.


    Wilson is a guiding teacher at the Insight Meditation Society, where for many years she has taught their annual three-month retreat. She began her insight meditation practice in 1971 in India and in the 1980s she spent a year in Thailand as a Buddhist nun. 


    In this episode we talk about:


    • How to be mindful throughout the day
    • The concept of 360 degree awareness
    • Noticing when one experiences wanting or aversion 
    • Why Wilson believes that the root of suffering comes from making it all about us
    • How seeing torment can help us experience freedom from the self
    • The benefits of reflecting on your past acts of generosity 
    • Bringing awareness to your motivations
    • And doing a gratitude practice regularly to change the weather pattern in your mind



    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/carol-wilson-481

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