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    Happiness Lessons of The Ancients: Aristotle and Plato ICYMI

    enFebruary 27, 2023

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    • Lessons from Ancient Philosophers and ReligionsAncient wisdom offers timeless insights on living a flourishing life despite modern challenges. California addresses youth mental health through wellness coaches, while tools like the Apple Card help manage finances. Tune in to 'The Happiness Lab' for more.

      Ancient philosophies and great religions have valuable insights to offer in our modern quest for happiness. Nearly half of our youth are struggling with mental health issues, but California is addressing this through certified wellness coaches. Meanwhile, tools like the Apple Card can help us manage our finances. As we navigate the complexities of the modern world, we can draw inspiration from ancient wisdom, such as the ideas of Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle. These thinkers offer timeless lessons on how to live a flourishing life, even as we grapple with the challenges of our 21st century chariots and wayward horses. To learn more about these insights, tune in to the special doubleheader episodes of "The Happiness Lab: Happiness Lessons of the Ancients." And remember, even the ancient Greeks faced challenges, but their ideas endured and can help us today.

    • Aristotle: The Father of Positive PsychologyAristotle, an ancient Greek philosopher, believed that true happiness comes from living in accordance with our unique function, leading to long-term spiritual well-being.

      Aristotle, an ancient Greek philosopher, is considered the father of positive psychology due to his focus on human flourishing or eudaimonia. Eudaimonia is a deeper, more moral concept of happiness than the short-lived pleasure we often associate with the term. Aristotle believed that human beings have a specific function to fulfill, and true happiness comes from living in accordance with that function. He was a polymath who made significant contributions to various fields, including philosophy, physics, and biology. His ideas on human flourishing were a result of a societal structure that allowed thinkers to dedicate their time to pondering this question, leading to significant progress. Today, we can learn from Aristotle's perspective on happiness as a long-term, spiritual well-being rather than just momentary pleasure.

    • Aristotle's concept of true happinessAristotle believed true happiness comes from engaging in virtuous activities, not just seeking short-term pleasures. It's developed through practical wisdom gained from experience and practice.

      According to Aristotle, true happiness or eudaimonia is not just about seeking short-term pleasures, but rather involves engaging in virtuous activities that bring lasting pleasure. This concept is supported by modern science, which suggests that circumstances do not necessarily lead to happiness and that people often report feeling empty after pursuing hedonistic pleasures. Aristotle's philosophical exploration of human nature, which included observing and reflecting on the experiences of those around him, led him to the concept of phronesis, or practical wisdom. Phronesis is the skill or knowledge gained through experience and practice that enables us to engage in actions and make progress towards our goals. Eudaimonia, then, is not something we are born with or can attain through theoretical knowledge alone, but rather something we develop through the acquisition of practical wisdom.

    • Building a virtuous soul for deeper happinessAristotle believed that happiness is not passive, but requires active effort in practicing virtuous actions to become the person we desire and find pleasure in virtue.

      According to Aristotle, the path to deeper thriving and spiritual well-being, or eudaimonia, involves making ourselves into virtuous individuals who take pleasure in virtue. This is a self-education project of building the kind of soul we desire. We become the person we want to be by practicing virtuous actions, which becomes pleasurable in the process. Modern science, specifically the work of happiness researcher Sonya Lyubomirsky, supports this idea. She emphasizes that happiness is something that needs to be practiced and cultivated like a skill set. Aristotle believed that certain actions could make us virtuous and spiritually happy individuals. He devoted two chapters to something that might not seem important at first glance: the specific actions we should take to achieve happiness. When we return, we will explore these actions in detail. In the meantime, remember that happiness is not something that just happens to us, but something we can actively work towards by becoming the kind of person we want to be.

    • Aristotle's Path to Spiritual Well-Being: Virtuous Character and the Middle WayAristotle's concept of virtue as the middle way between extremes guides individuals towards happiness and a harmonious society by promoting moderate behaviors and reinforcing positive actions.

      Aristotle believed the path to spiritual well-being, or eudaimonia, involved developing virtuous character through moderate behaviors. He saw virtues as the middle way between extremes, such as bravery being the moderate behavior between cowardice and recklessness. This idea of the middle way aligns with the idea of taking small steps towards desired actions to become happier. Aristotle's concept of virtue as the middle way provides a clear center to move towards, making progress without being overwhelmed. This approach also reinforces positive behaviors as individuals become more capable of abstaining from pleasures or standing firm in frightening situations. Aristotle's influential book, the Nicomachean Ethics, focuses on living a virtuous life that brings individual happiness and contributes to a harmonious society where all can thrive. The scientific data supports Aristotle's ideas, suggesting that living a moral life leads to happiness and a sense of meaning and connection to others. Aristotle believed that a virtuous individual takes pleasure in others' well-being, making virtue a key component of a thriving and harmonious society. The Nicomachean Ethics is a powerful text in Western thought because it offers a comprehensive guide to living a virtuous, happy, and socially harmonious life.

    • Aristotle's Three Types of FriendshipsAristotle believed friendship is essential, identifying three types: utility, pleasure, and deep value. The most enduring is based on mutual appreciation, making friends essential for personal growth and well-being.

      Key takeaway from the discussion about Aristotle's book on friendship is that he believed friendship to be an essential aspect of life, important for individuals at all stages. He identified three types of friendships: those based on utility, those based on pleasure, and those based on mutual appreciation of deep values. The last type is the most enduring and beneficial, as it helps individuals become better versions of themselves. Aristotle referred to a friend as a "second self," emphasizing the importance of finding friends who support and reinforce one's personal growth and commitments. This concept aligns with modern research on habits and social support, suggesting that surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals can help individuals stick to their goals and improve their overall well-being.

    • Exploring Aristotle's wisdom and relationships for personal growthAristotle's teachings on taking action, small steps, and friendship contribute to personal growth and the pursuit of happiness. Supportive relationships and mental health are essential for well-being.

      The combination of Aristotle's ancient wisdom and meaningful relationships, particularly friendship, can significantly contribute to personal growth and the pursuit of happiness. Aristotle's teachings, such as taking action to become the person you want to be and recognizing the importance of small steps, have been instrumental in making changes in one's life. Furthermore, having a supportive friend or partner can provide invaluable assistance in making both small and large changes. Fifteen years after being introduced to Aristotle's philosophy, the speaker continues to find value in it and looks forward to exploring the ideas of other Greek thinkers, like Plato, to further enhance their understanding of happiness. Additionally, the importance of mental health, particularly for young people, was highlighted, emphasizing the role of wellness coaches and supportive communities in promoting well-being. Lastly, the potential of hosting on Airbnb as a way to earn extra income and the availability of free job search assistance from Express Employment Professionals were presented as practical applications of the episode's themes.

    • Plato's Academy: A Place for Deep Intellectual Conversations on Happiness and Self-ControlExploring Plato's teachings on happiness and self-control offers valuable insights into living our happiest lives, as discussed in ancient Greece's intellectual hub, the Academy.

      The ancient Greek philosopher Plato offered profound insights into the human condition and the pursuit of happiness over 2000 years ago. Plato, who ran the Academy in Athens, focused on deep intellectual conversations about life's fundamental questions. His teachings covered a range of topics, including happiness and self-control. The ancient Greeks believed that understanding these concepts was crucial for individual flourishing. Plato's Academy was a place where young men from wealthy Athenian families could engage in these discussions. Plato himself thought deeply about various topics, from mathematics to metaphysics to political theory. His teachings on happiness and self-control remain relevant today, as we continue to grapple with the internal battles that prevent us from living our happiest lives. By exploring Plato's ideas, we can gain valuable insights into the nature of happiness and how to control our own selves.

    • Exploring human excellence through various aspects of realityPlato emphasized the importance of controlling the rational self to understand human complexity and live a fulfilling life, using the story of Laontius as an illustration of internal struggles and external distractions.

      Learning from Plato's "The Republic" is that understanding the nature of the world and human excellence requires exploring various aspects of reality, from mathematics to political theory. Plato used the story of Laontius, a man torn between his desire to look at dead bodies and his disgust, to illustrate the internal strife within human beings. This story is not just about rubbernecking but represents the constant tension between our best selves and our desires. Human beings are inherently complex, and Plato believed that controlling the rational self is crucial to understanding this complexity. The story of Laontius serves as a reminder that we are all subject to internal struggles and external distractions, and it's essential to recognize and manage these tensions to live a fulfilling life.

    • Understanding Human Nature with Plato's Chariot MetaphorPlato's Chariot Metaphor emphasizes the importance of controlling our desires for a fulfilling life, with the noble horse representing social desires and the wild horse representing physical desires. Addressing mental health issues in young people and utilizing platforms like Airbnb for extra income were also discussed.

      According to Plato, human beings can be understood as a charioteer trying to control two horses representing different aspects of ourselves: one noble and one wild. The noble horse represents our desire for honor, social interaction, and appearance, while the wild horse represents our fundamental desires for food, sleep, and physical pleasure. The key to human flourishing is to ensure that these horses are pulling us in the right direction rather than letting them run wild. This metaphor emphasizes that we are driven by both physical and social desires and that controlling these desires is essential for a fulfilling life. Additionally, the discussion highlighted the importance of addressing mental health issues in young people, who have been particularly impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic and its related challenges. The solution includes certified wellness coaches offering preventative and early intervention services. Another interesting point raised was the potential for earning extra income by hosting guests in your home through platforms like Airbnb when you're not there.

    • Plato's insights on managing desires and happinessPlato suggested managing desires and passions effectively for happiness, using techniques like avoiding temptations, keeping them out of sight, and using self-control as a last resort. Modern science supports this insight with research on habit formation and the role of cues in shaping behavior.

      Plato believed the key to happiness lies in managing our desires and passions effectively, using techniques similar to how we handle animals. He suggested avoiding temptations when possible, keeping them out of sight when necessary, and only using self-control as a last resort. Plato recognized that it's not easy to control our appetites solely through reflection, and that we need to use cues and other strategies to help us make better choices. This insight aligns with modern science's understanding of habit formation and the role of cues in shaping our behavior. Meanwhile, Express Employment Professionals offers free job search assistance, making the process of finding a job easier and more accessible for those in need. Whether it's a full-time role or a contract job, Express is ready to help individuals take the next step in their careers.

    • Make desirable alternatives accessible and undesirable distractions less accessibleImprove self-control by setting up environments that minimize temptations and make desirable actions more convenient

      Effective self-control and regulation of our appetites can be achieved by making desirable alternatives more accessible and undesirable distractions less accessible. This concept is not new, as ancient Greek stories like The Odyssey illustrate. By using strategies like removing temptations or making desirable actions more obvious, we can build structures to help regulate our desires and passions, as many world wisdom traditions have recognized throughout history. Modern science supports these strategies as well, and interestingly, people who are best at self-control are often those who set up situations where they don't have to exercise it extensively. By putting blinders on the "appetite horse" and creating environments that minimize temptations, we can conserve our energy and focus on other important aspects of our lives.

    • Training our 'horse of spirit'Plato's metaphor of the charioteer and horses teaches us to cultivate positive habits and virtues by training our 'horse of spirit' through joy and reflection.

      Learning from the discussion about Plato's metaphor of the charioteer and horses is that we can train our "horse of spirit" to lead us towards positive habits and virtues. Plato believed that the horse of spirit could be controlled through argument and explanation, while the horse of appetite could only be controlled through punishment. To train our spirit horse, we should make it natural and pleasurable for it to do the things we want it to reflectively do. This can be achieved by finding joy in the habits we want to cultivate. Plato's academy served as an example of how human beings' social nature can be used to create environments that encourage the training of our spirit horses. The next steps in this line of thought were taken by later Greek philosophers, particularly Aristotle, who further explored the idea of self-control and the role of reason in shaping our desires and actions. Ultimately, Plato's insights provide a foundation for understanding how we can harness the power of our own minds to lead more virtuous and fulfilling lives.

    • Ancient Greek philosophy's perspective on controlling our emotionsAncient Greek philosophers believed we have power over how we perceive the world and emotions, impacting our happiness and well-being.

      Our thoughts and perspectives play a significant role in how we experience the world and our emotions. This idea emerged in ancient Greek philosophy, particularly in the traditions of Epictetus and later thinkers. They suggested that we have the power to control how we represent the world to ourselves and choose whether to let external factors bother us or not. This frame of mind can be self-fulfilling, as deciding that someone else's disapproval doesn't matter to us makes it the case that it truly doesn't. This wisdom, though not explicitly articulated until later, can be found in the rich cultural heritage of ancient Greece. As we continue our journey into Greek wisdom, we'll explore how this concept applies to happiness and well-being. Remember, mental health and physical health are essential components of happiness. Cities like San Diego offer sun, sand, and easygoing vibes to help you rest, recharge, and improve your overall well-being. And with the help of advanced tools like Canva Presentations, you can create captivating work presentations with AI assistance, staying focused on your content without the need for constant app switching.

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    In other words, we look at how to lessen our habit of attachment. This exploration of attachment is in the context of an ordinary, modern life with marriage, children, jobs and family. Attachment is a habit of mind, like anger and jealousy are habits of mind. Attachment is the habit of viewing something as a cause of our happiness and then feeling that we need it in order to be happy. Attachment is not desire. There are many times we desire things without becoming attached. For example, we may desire to park our car. This is usually a neutral desire. However, if someone takes the parking spot we want, then attachment might arise and we become irritated. Attachment is not about the physical things, it is about how we relate to them. Giving up attachment doesn’t mean we shouldn’t own things, but that we don’t let things own us.

     

    You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.”

    --Thich Nhat Hanh

    If someone says, “have no attachment to your spouse or child,” it does not mean giving up loving them or feeling connected to them. It means that we give up being attached to what we want them to be or do. If we are attached to them becoming a football player and they want to be in the Drama Club, we might become frustrated or disappointed in them. That disappointment or frustration comes from being attached to how we want them to be, rather than how they are. We practice non-attachment when we give them them freedom to be themselves. We try not take take things personally. We let them go through what they need to, even if it’s hard. Attachment doesn’t make us closer; it creates anger or lack of acceptance, which undermines the connection between two people.  Attachment and love are opposites.

    Can there be love without pain? Yes. If we oppose our attachment habit in relationships. To have a peaceful, happy relationship, we increase our habit of love in a relationship and decrease our habit of attachment. Attachment manifests in our selfish intentions and actions. Love is the habit of cherishing them. Attachment is our selfishness with others.

    Practicing non-attachment also means we try to accept situations just as they are, without wishing them to be other than they are. When we are attached to something being other than they way it is, we suffer. This resistance to ‘what is’ is futile, but we are deeply habituated to this reaction. Buddha taught that freedom is possible right here in this ordinary way of life.

     

    The fever of passion exists not for him who has completed the journey, who is sorrowless and wholly set free, and has broken all ties. (90)

    The mindful ones exert themselves. They are not attached to any home; like swans that abandon the lake, they leave home after home behind.

    Those who do not accumulate and are wise regarding food, whose object is the Void, the Unconditioned Freedom -- their track cannot be traced, like that of birds in the air.

    He whose cankers are destroyed and who is not attached to food, whose object is the void, the unconditioned Freedom-- his path cannot be traced, like that of birds in the air. (93)

      —Buddha 

    References:

    Buddha. The Dhammapada: The Buddhist Path of Wisdom. Translated by Acharya Buddharakkhita. Buddha Dharma Education Association Inc., pp. 27. (PDF version)