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    He Was ‘Losing His Mind Slowly, and I Watched It'

    enFebruary 16, 2023

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    • The Complexity of Involuntary Treatment for Severe Mental IllnessThe debate over involuntary treatment for severe mental illness raises concerns about civil rights, effectiveness, and the need for adequate mental health care and housing

      The debate over involuntary treatment for individuals with severe mental illness is a complex issue with valid arguments on both sides. New York City's mayor Eric Adams implemented a controversial policy to compel mentally ill individuals into treatment, while California is introducing a new court system to monitor and potentially force treatment. Opponents argue that it criminalizes mental illness, doesn't work, and violates civil rights. From a personal perspective, caregivers like Kimberly, a California mother, are left wondering if they have to take control of their loved one's life to save them. Kimberly shared her story of raising her son, who exhibited signs of mental illness as early as age 4, and the challenges she faced in providing him with the necessary care and support. The debate highlights the urgent need for adequate mental health care and housing for those who want it, while also considering the potential benefits and ethical implications of involuntary treatment.

    • Mother's persistent search for answers to her son's mental health issuesEarly intervention and proper diagnosis are crucial for addressing mental health issues in children. Navigating the complex mental health system and dealing with stigma can be challenging.

      Recognizing and addressing mental health issues in children requires persistence and proper diagnosis. The mother in this story noticed her son's academic decline and increasing anxiety, but it wasn't until he exhibited aggressive behavior and self-destructive tendencies that she sought professional help. She was given various diagnoses, including ADHD, depression, anxiety, OCD, oppositional defiance disorder, and conduct disorder. Despite trying various treatments, including medications and therapy, none seemed to work. Her son resisted treatment due to the stigma associated with mental illness and a lack of trust in the diagnosis. The mother's experience highlights the importance of early intervention and proper diagnosis, as well as the challenges in navigating the complex mental health system and dealing with the stigma surrounding mental illness.

    • Mother's difficult decision to send son to out-of-state facilityMother's love and concern for her son's safety led her to make a tough decision, but the unregulated 'troubled teen industry' posed risks and challenges.

      Sending a troubled teen to an out-of-state locked facility was a difficult and emotional decision for a mother, despite the risks and mixed reviews. She had to make this choice for her son's safety, as he couldn't be kept safe at home and was wandering the streets at night. The process involved researching facilities, communicating with professionals, and arranging for a service to bring him to the facility under cover of night. The son was devastated and perceived it as a betrayal, and the facility, though providing necessary treatment, was part of the unregulated "troubled teen industry" and had documented instances of abuse. The son's experience was traumatic, but he did improve with regular medication, therapy, and education. However, he held a deep-seated anger towards his mother.

    • Mother's struggle to help son with mental health issuesNavigating adult mental health care for a loved one is complex, families need education, advocacy, and support during the transition to adulthood.

      Navigating mental health care for a loved one can be a complex and challenging process, especially when they reach adulthood and legal protections change. In this story, a mother's efforts to help her son, who was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder, were met with resistance due to his distrust of medications and professionals. Despite her concerns about his safety and suicidal thoughts, she was limited in her involvement in his care due to his age. When he began to improve with a new medication, his self-consciousness about the diagnosis and the side effects led him to stop taking it. Eventually, he became paranoid and violent towards his mother, leading to a crisis where he pulled a knife on her. The mother was left wondering if the only way to ensure her son received effective treatment was to obtain a conservatorship, which would give her legal authority to make decisions for him. This experience highlights the importance of education, advocacy, and support for families dealing with mental health issues, particularly during the transition to adulthood.

    • A mother's journey to secure mental health care for her sonMental health care systems can be complex and challenging for families to navigate, leading to delays in care and emotional distress. Prioritizing accessible and effective mental health care is crucial for individuals and their loved ones.

      When a loved one is in crisis and needs mental health care, advocating for them can be a challenging and complex process. In this case, a mother was unable to get her son the help he needed within the hospital system, leading her to explore other options such as an LPS conservatorship. This process is intended to protect individuals from being unjustly institutionalized, but it also adds significant barriers to obtaining care. Ultimately, the mother was able to secure a conservatorship and gain the ability to make decisions for her son's care, but the experience was devastating for both of them. It highlights the need for more accessible and effective mental health care systems that prioritize the well-being of individuals and their families.

    • Mental Health System Barriers: A Mother's PerspectiveThe mental health system's high criteria for intervention and lack of funding can result in irreversible damage and hinder successful outcomes for those in need.

      The current system for mental health treatment can be a significant barrier for those in need, particularly when it comes to conservatorships. The speaker shares her experience of trying to help her son, who has severe mental illness, but facing numerous roadblocks due to the high criteria for being considered "sick enough" for intervention. She also highlights the hypocrisy of the system, as research shows that earlier intervention leads to more successful outcomes, but the system is cautious to a fault, leading to cognitive decline and irreversible damage. The lack of funding is another significant issue, as it often determines who receives help and who is left behind. Ultimately, the system's slow and cautious approach can be harmful, as it may not provide the necessary help before it's too late.

    • Caregivers face ethical dilemmas due to mental health care system's challengesCaregivers grapple with ethical dilemmas due to long conservatorship processes, limited resources, and controversial frameworks like anosognosia, which can justify forced treatment.

      The mental health care system's lack of resources and the legal requirements for conservatorship create a challenging situation for caregivers and ethical dilemmas. The long process of conservatorship can discourage hospitals from referring individuals, leaving fewer beds available. Kimberly, a caregiver, shares her personal experience of making difficult decisions for her son's well-being, acknowledging the controversy surrounding forced treatment and conservatorship. Anosognosia, a condition where individuals lack insight into their illness, is a controversial framework used to justify treating people against their will. Caregivers argue that just as bystanders don't ask for permission before administering CPR to a choking person, they shouldn't have to ask for permission to save their loved ones' lives when they're unable to make decisions for themselves. However, this framework can be abused, and it's essential to consider the ethical implications of forced treatment and conservatorship.

    • Supporting a loved one through mental health challengesEmpathy, understanding, and open communication are crucial when supporting a loved one with mental health issues. In severe cases of psychosis, involuntary treatment may be necessary to ensure safety.

      Mental health care and treatment can be a complex and challenging issue for families, especially when dealing with a loved one who refuses treatment during periods of psychosis. The speaker in this conversation shares her experience of supporting her son through various stages of his mental health journey, including instances where he was unable to make informed decisions about his own care due to the severity of his psychosis. She emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding, while also acknowledging the difficult decision-making process that comes with ensuring one's loved one's safety. Despite the challenges, the speaker remains committed to supporting her son and advocating for his well-being, even during the most difficult moments. Involuntary treatment is a last resort, but it is an option for parents when they believe their child's life is at risk. The conversation underscores the importance of open communication, patience, and compassion in navigating the complexities of mental health care and treatment.

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