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    How to (finally) Get Better Sleep

    en-usJune 01, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • The power of thoughts during sleepAncient traditions suggest keeping thoughts within can strengthen them, while letting them go can diminish them. Our minds can either indulge in thoughts or distract ourselves, influencing their energy. Occupied minds may not allow dormant thoughts to resurface. Past experiences can linger and impact our thoughts even in adulthood.

      Our thoughts have energy and can influence our mind in various ways during sleep. According to ancient Danthric traditions, keeping thoughts within oneself can help them grow stronger, while ventilating them out can lead to diminishment. Our minds can indulge in thoughts, allowing them to breed more thoughts, or distract ourselves, causing thought energy to go dormant. However, when our minds are occupied, there may not be enough space for dormant thoughts to resurface. It's important to note that keeping secrets, like mantras in meditation techniques, can help thoughts grow stronger by keeping them within. Additionally, past experiences, such as feelings of rejection, can linger and influence our thoughts, even into adulthood. Understanding how our thoughts and minds work during sleep can provide insight into the importance of managing and processing our thoughts for overall mental well-being.

    • The absence of sensory input makes it harder to focusLimiting excessive sensory input and making time for quiet reflection can improve mental clarity and sleep quality.

      Our minds are occupied with thoughts when we engage in sensory stimulating activities like playing video games, but when we remove sensory input, such as muting the game or turning off the monitor, our minds become quieter and it becomes harder to focus on the activity. This is because our minds are used to constant sensory stimulation, and when it's not present, our minds start to fill the void with random thoughts. This is similar to what happens during sleep when we have no sensory input, leading to our minds wandering and interfering with our ability to fall and stay asleep. It's important to consider the evolutionary context of our minds, which have been exposed to sensory input for millions of years with limited periods of quiet time for reflection. Therefore, making time for quiet reflection and limiting excessive sensory input can help improve our mental clarity and sleep quality.

    • Creating mental space before sleepTo improve sleep quality, create mental space by engaging in calming activities like taking a quiet walk or having a shower before bed.

      Our minds are wired to fill in gaps with information due to our evolutionary past where we had ample time to process experiences. However, in today's world, we are constantly bombarded with sensory stimuli through technology, making it harder for our minds to unwind before sleep. To combat this, it's essential to give our minds space to process thoughts, which can be achieved through activities like taking a quiet walk before bed or even having a shower. The lack of mental space is a modern-day issue, and therapists provide a safe space for individuals to process their thoughts and emotions. By understanding this principle, we can make conscious efforts to create mental space and reduce the intrusive thoughts that can keep us awake at night.

    • Transforming Negative Emotions with Mantras and Healthy ProcessingMantras and healthy processing can replace negative thoughts with positive ones, leading to greater mental and emotional well-being. Venting or overthinking can diminish energy and hinder growth.

      Mantras and healthy processing of thoughts can help transform negative emotions into positive ones, while venting or overthinking can diminish energy and hinder growth. In ancient spiritual practices like tantra, it's believed that keeping thoughts within leads to their growth in strength, while releasing them allows their energy to diminish. Mantras are used to replace negative thoughts with positive ones, creating a positive emotional response. Conversely, venting negative emotions or overthinking can diminish energy and prevent growth, whether it's from processing past traumas or new ideas. To differentiate between overthinking and healthy processing, consider whether the thought leads to more thoughts or diminishes them. Healthy processing allows thoughts to pass through and be let go, while overthinking or maladaptive daydreaming can lead to a cycle of endless thoughts. By practicing mantras or healthy processing techniques, we can transform negative emotions and thoughts into positive ones, leading to greater mental and emotional well-being.

    • Daydreaming vs Emotional ProcessingDaydreaming is a continuous thought process, while emotional processing brings a sense of completion and mental rest.

      Daydreaming and emotionally processing are two distinct mental activities. Daydreaming involves the propagation of one thought leading to another, creating an intricate web of thoughts that can consume your mind. This is similar to building a house from a single Lego piece, with each addition leading to more additions. Emotional processing, on the other hand, results in a sense of completion and mental exhaustion, allowing your mind to move on to other things. When considering activities before bed, such as reading, it's important to note that while they can have benefits, they also occupy your mind and may inhibit the production of melatonin if you're looking at a screen. So, while there are reasons to engage in these activities, it's essential to understand their impact on your mental state and mindful of the time spent on them before bed.

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