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    How to Get the Foreplay You Crave

    enNovember 22, 2016

    Podcast Summary

    • The Magic Wand Vibrator: A Cultural Icon of Unapologetic PleasureExplore the Magic Wand Vibrator's iconic models and Promescent's enhancing products for a sexier summer

      The Magic Wand vibrator, often referred to as the "Cadillac of vibrators," is a cultural icon and symbol of unapologetic pleasure. First introduced decades ago, it's earned accolades like "vibrator of the year" and is known for its powerful, deep rumble. With various iterations available, including the Magic Wand Rechargeable, Mini, Micro, and Plush, all models maintain the original's signature rumble. For those looking to enhance their summer sex life, Promescent offers products like the legendary delay spray and warming arousal gel. The delay spray helps men last longer during intimacy, while the warming arousal gel enhances women's pleasure by warming up their nerve endings. By exploring these iconic and enhancing products, individuals can elevate their sexual experiences and make this summer the sexiest yet.

    • Explore the Midnight collection for intimate momentsSport Cheats' Midnight collection offers high-quality, sophisticated sex accessories to add excitement and fun to intimate moments.

      The Midnight collection by Sport Cheats offers sophisticated and playful sex accessories to bring a special twist to your intimate moments. The collection includes items like lace cuffs, blindfolds, a lace collar and leash, and high-quality nipple clamps. These products are made from the highest quality materials and are designed to feel amazing. Sport Cheats, known for keeping couples connected for over 20 years, encourages couples to be adventurous in the bedroom. The Midnight collection is a perfect way to add a little excitement and fun to your sexual playtime. To check out the Midnight collection and other Sport Sheets products, visit sportsheets.com. Additionally, listeners can subscribe to Sex with Emily's podcast, newsletter, and social media for more information and content.

    • New initiatives based on audience feedbackSex With Emily team hosts Facebook Lives and creates a dream lube based on audience suggestions, while Madison shares her experience from Aerofame conference and highlights new We-Vibe SYNC toy.

      The Sex With Emily team is actively implementing new initiatives based on audience suggestions and feedback. They recently started hosting Facebook Lives, which have received a large and engaged audience, and they are also creating a dream lube based on a survey they sent out. Madison, the host, shared her excitement about these new projects and encouraged listeners to participate and stay updated through their social media channels. Additionally, Madison shared her recent experience attending the Aerofame sex industry conference in Germany, where she learned about and was impressed by the new We-Vibe SYNC couple's toy. Overall, the Sex With Emily team is dedicated to bringing their audience the best and most innovative sexual wellness products and experiences.

    • Discovering new tech for intimacy and explorationEmily's travels introduced her to a new panty vibe controlled through an app and emphasized continuous learning and growth in sex and travel.

      Technology is revolutionizing the way we experience intimacy and explore new places. During her recent travels to Germany and Amsterdam, Emily discovered a new panty vibe that stays in place during use and can be controlled through an app. She also appreciated the transformative work of Celeste and Danielle in helping individuals grow and learn sexually. Emily's solo exploration of Amsterdam reminded her of San Francisco, and she highly recommends the adults-only, all-inclusive Hard Rock Riviera Maya for a relaxing vacation. Overall, Emily emphasizes the importance of continuous learning, growth, and self-exploration, whether it be through sexual experiences or traveling to new places. Don't forget to follow her on Instagram @sexwithemily for more insights and adventures.

    • Menace shares his exciting birthday traditionsMenace inspires us to live life to the fullest by sharing his unique birthday traditions, including visiting exciting places and meeting celebrities.

      The speaker, Menace, celebrates his birthday in a grand way every year by doing a variety of exciting activities. He shared some of his past experiences, including visiting the Snapchat offices, Hulu, and Hawaii, where he met celebrities like Matthew McConaughey and Flo Rida. Menace also mentioned that his morning show, The Woody Show, can be heard in Los Angeles on alt 987 and in Saint Louis on alt one zero four nine. He encouraged listeners to tune in every morning from 6 to 10 AM. The speaker's enthusiasm for life and his unique way of celebrating his birthday serve as an inspiration to live life to the fullest.

    • Belief in effort impacts sex life satisfactionPeople who believe that sex requires practice have more satisfying relationships and sex lives

      The quality of your sex life is not just determined by chemistry or destiny, but also by your attitude and willingness to put in effort. According to a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, people who believe that great sex requires practice are more likely to have satisfying sex lives and relationships. On the other hand, those who believe that sex should be effortless and amazing all the time may feel that their sex lives are lacking. It's important to remember that relationships and sex take work, and believing that they don't can hinder growth and happiness in the bedroom and beyond. So, instead of focusing on the belief that sex should just happen naturally, try approaching it with a growth mindset and a willingness to put in effort to make it even better.

    • Embrace challenges and seek resources for a satisfying sex lifeCommunicate issues, use Kegel Camp for pelvic floor exercises, and boost sexual energy for a healthy and satisfying sex life

      Maintaining a healthy and satisfying sex life requires consistent effort and attention. The speaker discussed the importance of communication in addressing any issues and the existence of resources like Kegel Camp to enhance sexual experiences. The app, which includes daily reminders and exercises for both men and women, can help improve pelvic floor strength, leading to increased arousal and stronger orgasms. By focusing on the pelvic area through regular Kegel exercises, individuals can boost their sexual energy and overall sexual health. The speaker emphasized the uniqueness of Kegel Camp and appreciated the mention on the radio. Ultimately, the speaker's message was to embrace the challenges in sex life and seek out resources to enhance the experience.

    • Exploring new experiences for personal growthTraveling and disconnecting from daily routines can enhance personal growth and relationships. Be creative with budgets and schedules to make time for new experiences.

      Traveling and disconnecting from daily routines, whether through affordable deals found online or relaxing vacations, can significantly enhance personal growth and relationships. The speaker emphasizes the importance of making time for such experiences, even if it means being creative with budgets and schedules. Additionally, they discuss the potential benefits of using cannabis for some individuals, as it can help them feel more present in their bodies and enhance sensations during activities like sex. However, they also caution that it may not be suitable for everyone and can potentially lead to negative experiences. Ultimately, the goal is to find ways to relax, connect, and enjoy life, whether that means traveling to new places, trying new experiences, or simply being present in the moment.

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