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    How to have a say in how society is built w/ Tessza Udvarhelyi

    en-usJuly 01, 2024

    Podcast Summary

    • Environmental impact on democraciesThe design of cities and physical environment can impact democratic functioning by favoring certain modes of transportation and excluding/disadvantaging certain groups, while rules and structures can significantly impact individuals' opportunities for participation.

      Our physical environment, including the cities we live in, can significantly impact the functioning of democratic societies. This was highlighted in the discussion about Tessia Udvar-Hellier's experiences in Hungary and her work as an environmental psychologist. The way cities are designed can favor certain modes of transportation, which in turn can exclude or disadvantage certain groups. Moreover, the story of Chris Duffy's impeachment from student government serves as a reminder that even in seemingly insignificant situations, rules and structures can have a significant impact on individuals and their opportunities for participation. Ultimately, both the physical environment and the rules and structures that govern our societies play crucial roles in shaping democratic outcomes.

    • Inclusive spaces, political participationCreating inclusive spaces and promoting political participation can lead to personal growth and a sense of equality, contributing to a stronger and more equitable society. Seek opportunities to collaborate, create inclusive spaces, and advocate for needs to begin the process.

      Creating inclusive spaces and promoting political participation can lead to significant personal growth and a sense of equality for individuals, regardless of their background or circumstances. This was evident in the speaker's experiences with the development of bicycle infrastructure and the housing movement in Budapest. By changing the physical and social environment to make everyone feel valued and included, people were able to develop self-confidence, responsibility, and a sense of humanization. This process not only benefits the individual but also contributes to the building of a stronger and more equitable society. To start rehumanizing oneself and becoming politically engaged, individuals can begin by seeking out opportunities to collaborate with others, creating inclusive spaces, and advocating for their needs and the needs of their community.

    • Engaging in democracyActive participation in democracy, starting with small issues, can lead to positive change and involve those directly affected in decision-making processes

      Engaging with news and community issues in a critical and proactive way can lead to positive change, even if it starts with addressing small problems. Democracy, as a verb, requires active participation from individuals, particularly those most affected by issues, to influence decisions and make a difference. Grassroots movements are effective when they reflect the needs of real people and involve those directly affected in decision-making processes. By focusing on small problems and working together, individuals can build momentum and potentially bring about larger, systemic change.

    • Building an inclusive communityCreating a sense of shared community among diverse groups requires understanding that divisions are not inherent but a product of cultural and societal norms, and working towards a future where everyone feels they belong in a moral community.

      Expanding our definition of community and considering those who are often marginalized as our neighbors is a crucial step towards building a more inclusive and compassionate society. This idea was emphasized in a TED Talk by Tessa LeSage, who shared her experiences as an activist and local government official in Budapest. She highlighted the challenges of creating a sense of shared community among diverse groups and the importance of understanding that these divisions are not inherent, but rather a product of cultural and societal norms. LeSage also emphasized the need to balance idealism with practicality when working in government to enact meaningful change. She encouraged the audience to imagine alternative realities and work towards creating a future where everyone feels they belong. Ultimately, the goal is to create a moral community where everyone is accepted and valued, which can then serve as the foundation for a more inclusive political community.

    • Local changeStay committed to creating positive change at the local level, every small action can lead to a larger impact, and persevere through challenges as democracy is a struggle with essential conflict and different interests.

      Even in the face of political and social challenges, it's important to stay committed to creating positive change at the local level. The speaker, who is an activist in Budapest, Hungary, shares her experience of fighting for housing rights and creating a progressive political model in her district despite the country's overall political decline. She emphasizes that every small change can lead to a larger impact and encourages young activists to keep pushing for their causes, even when progress seems slow or non-existent. The speaker also reminds us that democracy is a struggle and that conflict and different interests are essential for it to function. Overall, her message is one of hope and perseverance in the face of adversity.

    • Personal motivation, attachment to placeA clear vision of why we do what we do and attachment to a place can help us stay motivated and focused during difficult times, shaping our experiences and emotions.

      Having a clear vision of why we do what we do can help us persevere through challenges and mistakes in our activism or personal lives. Visualization techniques, such as imagining a purpose beyond the specific task, can help us stay motivated and focused during difficult times. It's also important to acknowledge and consider our options, even if we ultimately decide to stay and fight for what we believe in. Place identity or attachment to a particular location can also deeply influence our sense of self and home, shaping our experiences and emotions. For me, Budapest is a place that feels like home, and I have a strong attachment to it. The city's beauty and my personal experiences there have contributed to my sense of place identity. Understanding these psychological phenomena can help us better understand ourselves and the importance of our surroundings.

    • Bridging cultural dividesThe ability to move between different cultures and bridge cultural divides is valuable in both personal and professional contexts, leading to greater empathy and connection.

      Learning from this conversation with Tessia Udvar-Helier is the importance of bridging cultural divides and navigating between different worlds. Tessia, who was born and raised in a culturally diverse city, shared her personal experience of living on one side of Buddha and Pasht culture but working on the other. She emphasized the significance of being able to move between these two worlds and saw a perfect symbol of this in the Liberty Bridge. This metaphor is both literally and figuratively true for her, representing her ability to connect with and understand different cultures. This conversation highlights the importance of embracing diversity and the value of being able to bridge cultural divides in our personal and professional lives. It's a reminder that we can all learn from each other and that understanding different perspectives can lead to greater empathy and connection.

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