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    Ladies Talk Sex & Backdoor Secrets

    enAugust 28, 2015

    Podcast Summary

    • Exploring Summer Sex: Tools and Products for Enhanced ExperiencesEmbrace summer with Promescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel for longer lasting and heightened sensations, or try the cult-favorite magic wand vibrator for powerful vibrations.

      Summer is the season of passion and pleasure, and there are various tools and products that can enhance sexual experiences for both men and women. Promescent's lineup of pleasure enhancing products, such as their legendary delay spray and warming arousal gel, can help individuals last longer and heighten sensations, respectively. Additionally, the magic wand, a cult-favorite vibrator, continues to be a game-changer for many, offering powerful vibrations and various models to fit different lifestyles. Overall, embracing the summer season and exploring new ways to enhance sexual experiences can lead to more satisfying and enjoyable moments. For those interested, Promescent and the magic wand can be found online with exclusive discounts and guarantees.

    • Exploring candid and uneducated perspectives on sex through comedyThe podcast 'Lady Free Comedy' features guests sharing their personal stories and experiences related to sex in a candid and entertaining way, touching on topics like relationships, current dating experiences, and sex toys.

      The guests on this podcast are open and candid about their experiences and perspectives on sex. Jen Bartels and her co-host Grace talk about their comedy show "Lady Free Comedy" where they explore sex topics in a candid and uneducated yet entertaining way. They share their personal stories, some of which were shared during their first live show. The guests include Jen Bartels, who is a comedian, actress, and creator, Kim, who is 42 and single with plenty of sex stories to share, and Lori, who is an assistant producer and enjoys both relationships and casual sex. The conversations were lively, and they touched on various topics including past relationships, current dating experiences, and sex toys. Overall, the podcast showcases the guests' unique perspectives and experiences related to sex, providing an entertaining and engaging listening experience.

    • Exploring Different Methods of Sexual PleasureExplore various ways of sexual pleasure beyond assumptions, try new methods like We-Vibe Touch, hands-free masturbation, and anal sex, and learn about your body to maximize satisfaction.

      Sex and pleasure can be explored in various ways, and limiting ourselves to certain methods or assumptions may deprive us of new experiences. Grace shared her experience with the We-Vibe Touch clitoral toy, which led her to have multiple orgasms in one session. She also revealed her unique hands-free masturbation technique using Kegel exercises. Kim added that not all women can achieve orgasms during intercourse, and some may need to focus and use specific positions or techniques. They also discussed the possibility of achieving orgasms through anal sex due to the proximity of the g-spot. Overall, the conversation emphasized the importance of exploring different methods of sexual pleasure and learning about one's body to maximize satisfaction.

    • Exploring Sexual Satisfaction: Mental and Physical EffortsMental arousal, personal preferences, and focusing on different areas can enhance sexual satisfaction. Everyone's body responds differently, so it's essential to explore techniques and find what works best.

      Achieving sexual satisfaction, including discovering the G spot and the ability to squirt, involves a combination of mental and physical efforts. Reading about techniques and getting mentally aroused can make the experience more enjoyable and easier to find the G spot. Personal preferences and feelings towards the partner also play a significant role. Some people might need to focus on their clitoris first to achieve orgasm and then explore the G spot. Masturbation habits can also vary greatly among individuals, and some might prefer indirect clitoral stimulation or using toys for variety. It's important to remember that everyone's body responds differently, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to sexual pleasure.

    • Exploring Sex Toys: A New Way to Enhance IntimacyThrough open communication and experimentation with sex toys like G-spot rabbit toys and Jezhu Mimi vibrators, individuals can discover new ways to enhance their sexual experiences and explore unexpected pleasures.

      Both individuals in the conversation shared their experiences with using sex toys, specifically vibrators, and discovered new ways to enhance their sexual experiences. The G-spot rabbit toy and the Jezhu Mimi vibrator were mentioned as favorites due to their unique features and effectiveness. The conversation also touched on exploring new areas like ball play, which was found to be a surprising pleasure for both parties involved. It's important to communicate openly with partners about boundaries and desires to ensure a positive experience for both parties.

    • Exploring the Pleasure and Connection of BlowjobsCommunication, consent, and enthusiasm are crucial for a fulfilling blowjob experience. Some people might prefer giving over receiving due to power and intimacy, while long-term relationships might require prioritizing this act to maintain sexual connection.

      Both giving and receiving blowjobs can bring pleasure and connection in a relationship. However, some people might enjoy giving more than receiving due to the power and intimacy it brings. Comfort and familiarity in long-term relationships can sometimes lead to a decrease in the frequency of blowjobs. Yet, prioritizing this act can help maintain the sexual connection. Some people might be hesitant to give blowjobs due to hygiene concerns or discomfort with the partner. However, if there's mutual consent and enthusiasm, it can be an enjoyable experience for both parties. Eye contact during the act can be a sensitive issue, and finding the right balance is essential to make it feel authentic and intimate. Overall, communication, consent, and enthusiasm are key factors in making blowjobs a fulfilling experience.

    • Exploring the Art of Oral Sex: Tips and TechniquesExperiment with enthusiasm, wetness, and pressure for effective oral sex. Try using a wet finger, focusing on the frenulum, and using a hand for added sensation. Nipple play can also enhance the experience for some men.

      Effective oral sex involves a combination of enthusiasm, making it wet and slippery, and applying enough pressure. The speaker shared her personal experience and tips, including using a wet finger to create different sensations and focusing on the frenulum. Another tip suggested was using a hand on the shaft while creating a tight vacuum with the mouth. Some people may enjoy deep throat, but it's important to find a comfortable balance between filling the mouth and maintaining friction. Nipple play was also mentioned as an additional way to enhance the experience for some men. Overall, the key is to experiment and find what works best for both partners.

    • Exploring sexual arousal in men and womenBoth genders undergo physical changes during arousal, enhancing pleasure through nipple sensitivity, prostate stimulation for men, and breast swelling, nipple sensitivity for women. Communication and preparation are crucial for anal play during oral sex.

      Both men and women experience physical changes during sexual arousal. For men, nipple sensitivity and arousal of the prostate, often referred to as the male G-spot, can enhance pleasure. For women, breast swelling and nipple sensitivity are common responses. When it comes to anal play during oral sex, communication and preparation are key. Many men harbor fears about anal play, but exploring the male prostate can lead to intense orgasms. To introduce anal play, use lubricant and start with gentle touching and tapping around the area. Always ensure proper hygiene to avoid unpleasant experiences.

    • Maintaining personal hygiene and grooming for sexual health and pleasureKeep genital area dry and fresh with Down Under Comfort lotion, consider trimming pubic and ball hair for a smoother experience, and prioritize cleanliness for a positive and enjoyable sexual experience

      Personal hygiene and grooming are important aspects of sexual health and pleasure for both men and women. The discussion revolved around the use of a product called Down Under Comfort, which is a lotion that helps keep the genital area dry and fresh. The speakers also touched upon the topic of ball grooming and the preference for some level of hair, but not excessive hairiness. They emphasized that maintaining cleanliness and grooming can enhance the overall sexual experience for both parties involved. The use of the Down Under Comfort product was suggested as a solution for men to stay fresh and dry, especially during intimate moments. The speakers also mentioned that men should consider trimming their pubic hair and ball hair for a smoother and more enjoyable experience for themselves and their partners. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of taking care of one's body to ensure a positive and enjoyable sexual experience.

    • Exploring Intimacy and Personal PreferencesIndividuals have unique preferences for intimacy and personal grooming. Open communication and preparation are key to exploring new forms of intimacy like anal sex.

      Everyone has unique preferences when it comes to intimacy and personal grooming. The speaker shares her experiences with waxing and her preference for leaving a lining strip during waxing due to pain. She also discusses her appreciation for a man's beard during oral sex, but only if it's not too newly scruffy. The conversation then shifts to the Magic Wand, a powerful vibrator that is now rechargeable and cordless, allowing for greater freedom and convenience. The topic then transitions to anal sex, with the speaker expressing her curiosity and willingness to try it but also acknowledging the potential challenges and taboo surrounding it. She encourages open communication and preparation for those interested in anal sex, suggesting the use of warm water enemas to ensure cleanliness. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of individual preferences and the need for open and honest dialogue in exploring new forms of intimacy.

    • Understanding Women's Experiences with Anal SexProper preparation, communication, and relaxation are crucial for positive experiences with anal sex. Use plenty of lubricant, take it slow, and ensure both partners are comfortable.

      Women's experiences with anal sex can be negative due to lack of preparation, communication, and relaxation. The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking it slow, using plenty of lubricant, and ensuring both partners are relaxed and comfortable before attempting anal sex. Positive experiences can lead to increased enjoyment and intimacy. Both speakers share their personal experiences, highlighting the importance of being in a trusting relationship and feeling safe and comfortable before trying anal sex. They also suggest that age and previous experiences can influence one's enjoyment of anal sex. Overall, the key takeaway is that with proper preparation, communication, and relaxation, anal sex can be an enjoyable and intimate experience for both partners.

    • Exploring new sexual experiencesOpen-mindedness and experimentation can lead to increased pleasure and satisfaction in the bedroom. Try new sensations, use toys, communicate with your partner, and focus on being present.

      Exploring new sexual experiences and expanding one's comfort zone in the bedroom can lead to increased pleasure and satisfaction. The speaker shared her personal experience of discovering new sensations during anal sex and how it has become a pursuit for her. She emphasized that there are numerous ways to prepare for and enjoy anal sex, including using toys, butt plugs, and communication with one's partner. The speaker also mentioned the importance of being present during sex and how certain sensations, such as spanking or touching the anus, can help bring focus and enhance pleasure. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of open-mindedness and experimentation in enhancing one's sex life.

    • Preference for Submission and Domination during SexIndividual expresses enjoyment of submission, including spanking and anal sex, and dominating men during sex. Uses restraints and has fantasies about women and gay sex. Identifies as straight but requires visual stimulation and often thinks about sex with known women.

      This individual expresses a preference for submitting roles during sexual experiences, which includes being spanked and experiencing anal sex. They also enjoy being tied up, but have not used handcuffs extensively. The person expresses a desire to dominate men during sex, and has had experiences doing so. The conversation touched upon the use of restraints and fantasies, with a preference for watching or fantasizing about women and gay sex. The individual acknowledges that they are not exclusively attracted to women but identifies as straight. They also shared that they require visual stimulation during masturbation and often think about having sex with women they know.

    • Exploring Relationships and Sexual Experiences with WomenThis individual is open to exploring relationships and sexual experiences with women, expressing preferences and seeking communication and eye contact during encounters.

      While this individual has more experience and comfort with male bodies and sexual encounters with men, they are open to exploring relationships and sexual experiences with women. They express a preference for certain physical features, such as large breasts, and specific sexual acts, including oral sex and neck stimulation. They also mention the importance of communication and eye contact during sexual encounters. Despite expressing some uncertainty about vaginas, they have had some experiences and are willing to learn. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of open-mindedness, communication, and individual preferences in sexual experiences.

    • Exploring erogenous zones for enhanced pleasureCommunicate, experiment, and respect preferences for a strong sexual connection. Neck, ears, hair, and other nerve-rich areas can enhance pleasure. Oral sex is essential for many, and openness to giving and receiving it is key.

      Building arousal and exploring various erogenous zones during sex is essential for an enjoyable experience. The neck, ears, hair, and other nerve-rich areas are often overlooked but can significantly enhance pleasure. Communication and trying new things are key to keeping the sexual connection fresh and exciting. Additionally, individual preferences and turn-offs can vary greatly, so it's essential to be open-minded and respectful of your partner's desires. Oral sex is a crucial aspect of intimacy for many, and it's important to be willing to give and receive it. Overall, maintaining a strong sexual connection involves continuous effort, experimentation, and open communication.

    • Effective communication and understanding individual preferences are crucial for satisfying oral sex experiencesCommunicate preferences, give feedback, and adapt techniques to enhance pleasure. Every woman's body responds differently, so patience and an open mind are essential.

      Effective communication and understanding individual preferences are key to satisfying oral sex experiences for both partners. While techniques like using the right pressure on the G-spot or swirling the tongue around the clitoris can enhance pleasure, it's essential to remember that every woman's body responds differently. Some women may find that penetration during oral sex disrupts their orgasm, while others enjoy deep tongue exploration. Additionally, confidence and open communication between partners can significantly improve the overall sexual experience. As Jen mentioned, asking for preferences and giving feedback in a sexy and confident manner can make all the difference. Furthermore, addressing insecurities, such as concerns about breath or technique, can lead to surprising improvements. Overall, the key is to approach oral sex with an open mind, patience, and a willingness to learn and adapt to each other's unique needs.

    • Exploring Threesomes: Communication and Emotional AwarenessEffective communication and emotional awareness are essential for successful threesomes. Selfish tendencies and emotional attachment concerns can be addressed through engaging with friends instead of partners. Respect and casualness are key to maintaining a positive experience. Men should be more cognizant of the emotional aspects of sexual encounters.

      Communication and emotional awareness are crucial elements in exploring new sexual experiences, such as threesomes. The speaker expressed her curiosity about having a threesome due to her appreciation for both breasts and penises. However, she acknowledged her selfish tendencies during sex and her concerns about emotional attachment, preferring to engage in such experiences with friends rather than partners. The speaker also emphasized the importance of respect and casualness in threesomes. Lastly, she highlighted the emotional disconnect men can experience after sex, which women may find harder to deal with, and encouraged men to be more cognizant of the emotional aspects of sexual encounters.

    • Open communication and authenticity in sexBe upfront about desires, build up to encounters, explore new things, use sex toys, and prioritize authenticity for fulfilling sex experiences.

      Open communication and authenticity are key to a fulfilling sexual relationship. Being upfront about desires and intentions can lead to better experiences for both parties. The importance of foreplay and building up to sexual encounters was also emphasized. Additionally, the use of sex toys, such as the Intensity, can enhance sexual health and improve overall sexual experiences. Don't be afraid to explore new things and be open to trying new methods of communication and pleasure. Remember, being authentic and open can lead to more satisfying relationships and experiences.

    • Strengthening Pelvic Floor Muscles and Addressing Premature EjaculationPost-childbirth, pelvic floor muscles can be strengthened to reduce urinary incontinence. Men can use Promescent, an FDA-approved treatment, to last longer during sex and bridge the orgasm gap.

      Just like other muscles in the body, the pelvic floor muscles can be strengthened after childbirth to help reduce urinary incontinence. For men, there's a solution for premature ejaculation, a common issue that can leave both partners feeling unsatisfied. Promescent is the only FDA-approved treatment for premature ejaculation, and it can help men last longer in bed. The orgasm gap, the difference in time it takes women and men to reach orgasm, is a real issue. Promescent can help bridge that gap and improve sexual satisfaction for both partners. For more information, visit Promesson.com.

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    There’s a lot to be said for sex toys. For one, they stimulate nerve endings much deeper than hands alone can reach – and that’s true no matter what genitals you’ve got. But how do you incorporate toys into partnered sex? And which ones are right for your body to give you mind-blowing orgasms? On today’s episode, we’re talking all things sex toys so you can play in new and different ways. First, is it alright to always bring a vibe to partnered sex? One penis owner says “absolutely.” Speaking of penis owners, which toys are best for this crowd? I also talk about squirting with toys, how to change up your solo sex routine, and if there’s anything wrong if you can ONLY orgasm with a toy. Spoiler alert: nope!  Show Notes: The Basics of Safe Sex  Want Better Sex? Ask Your Partner These Questions Sign up for Sexts With Emily SMS & get my brand new Ultimate SEXTING Guide! PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide) CERĒ Spellbound Stimulator (code EMILY15 for 15% off sitewide) Bellesa I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.