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    SWE: Turn-ons & Turn-offs

    enAugust 31, 2012

    Podcast Summary

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    • Multiple weddings and their responsibilitiesAttending multiple weddings can bring joy and new connections but also involve added responsibilities and inconvenience.

      This conversation revolves around the topic of multiple weddings and the associated responsibilities and inconveniences that come with being a part of them. The speaker expresses frustration over having to attend two weddings in quick succession and the added responsibilities, such as videotaping or production work, that come with being involved. Despite this, the speaker also acknowledges the potential for meeting new people and having fun at weddings. The conversation also touches upon the upcoming Sex with Emily team party and a contest they ran to discover people's biggest turn-ons and turn-offs.

    • Plans for a trip and a talk showThe speakers shared their upcoming plans and personal preferences for privacy and intimacy, encouraging listeners to follow them on social media.

      The speakers discussed their upcoming plans, including a trip to Santa Cruz and an appearance on Doctor Drew's HLN talk show. They also shared their preferences for personal space and intimacy, expressing that they value privacy and individuality. The conversation touched on various topics, including their experiences with sex and relationships, and they encouraged listeners to follow them on social media platforms like Instagram. The speakers also mentioned the sponsorship of their show by Florida Online, but didn't go into detail about it. Overall, the conversation was lighthearted and covered a range of topics, with a focus on personal experiences and preferences.

    • Dr. Drew's humility and dedicationDr. Drew's surprising act of carrying his own equipment reveals his humility and dedication to his work. A lawsuit against Kris Humphries raises questions about the certainty of sexual partners' roles in STD diagnoses. A study links teen exposure to sexual content on TV to earlier sex, more partners, and less condom use.

      Dr. Drew, a successful media personality, surprised everyone by carrying his own heavy camera equipment despite being a multimillionaire and having help available. This small act showcased his humility and dedication to his work. In other news, a woman named Kayla Goldberg is suing Kim Kardashian's ex-husband, Kris Humphries, for allegedly giving her herpes. The case raises questions about how she can be sure of his role in her diagnosis, as it's possible she could have contracted it elsewhere. Additionally, a study of 1200 teens found that exposure to sexual content on television can lead to earlier sexual activity, more sexual partners, and less frequent condom use. These findings highlight the influence media can have on adolescents' attitudes and behaviors towards sex.

    • Media's changing portrayal of sex and violenceMedia's glamorization of sex and violence can influence young people to emulate such behaviors, but consequences can be severe.

      The influence of sex and violence in media on young people is a topic of concern, but the context and representation of such content has changed significantly over time. During the speaker's childhood, sex and nudity were less prevalent and not glamorized, but now, with the proliferation of sexually explicit content and the glamorization of promiscuity, young people may be more likely to emulate such behaviors. The speaker uses the example of Paris Hilton to illustrate this point, as she was perceived as a desirable figure due to her wealth and sexual exploits, leading many to want to emulate her. However, when Hilton attempted a musical comeback and failed spectacularly, she was publicly ridiculed, highlighting the potential risks and consequences of such behavior. Ultimately, while it's important to consider the impact of media on young people, it's also crucial to understand the complex ways in which it shapes their perceptions and behaviors.

    • Sex tapes and scandals: Kim Kardashian and the GOP ConventionPublic figures beware: making a sex tape can lead to embarrassment and exploitation. The GOP Convention boosted business for local strip clubs, while politicians continue to be involved in sex scandals. Reality TV shows like Honey Boo Boo and The Newsroom offer entertainment and insights into relationships and workplace sex scandals.

      Making a sex tape can have serious consequences, even for public figures like Kim Kardashian. While it may seem tempting or even cool, it's important to be responsible and delete the tape after use to avoid potential embarrassment or exploitation. On a lighter note, the Republican National Convention in Tampa has led to a boom in business for local strip clubs, but it seems that politicians, regardless of party affiliation, have a tendency to get involved in sex scandals. Meanwhile, reality TV shows like Honey Boo Boo have been stealing the spotlight from political announcements. For those looking for a new television show, The Newsroom on HBO is recommended, especially for those with a background in politics. The show, written by Aaron Sorkin, is known for its dialogue-heavy scenes and explores relationships and sex scandals in the workplace. It's already available on demand.

    • Exploring the complexities of relationships and sexualityThe text discusses concerns over declining sperm quality and quantity, the use of sex toys, and insights from TV shows 'Girls' and '1000 Ways to Die'.

      There are various discussions in the text about relationships, dating, and sex. One interesting point raised is the concern over the declining quality and quantity of sperm, with potential causes ranging from lifestyle factors to environmental influences. Another topic touched upon is the use of sex toys and their potential for misunderstandings or even dangerous situations. The text also mentions a TV show called "Girls" and another one called "1000 Ways to Die," which offer insights into modern relationships and unusual ways people have died, respectively. Overall, the text explores various aspects of human relationships and sexuality, shedding light on both the joys and challenges of these areas of life.

    • A discussion about pugs, Urban Outfitters, sex education, and sexual positionsThe speaker shared her love for pugs, bought a Pugs Not Drugs shirt, discussed sex education resources like the Sinclair Institute, and mentioned a video version of the Sex with Emily podcast featuring different sex positions.

      The discussion revolved around various topics including pugs, Urban Outfitters, sex education, and sexual positions. The speaker shared her love for pugs and bought a Pugs Not Drugs shirt from Urban Outfitters. She also spoke about her relief that her friend's dog-raising partner was no longer with her. The conversation then shifted to the Sex with Emily podcast and the availability of its episodes on various platforms. The speaker also mentioned a video version of the show where different sex positions were demonstrated. The Sinclair Institute was introduced as a resource for sex education through instructional DVDs. The speaker also shared her experience of giving one of her interns a Sinclair Institute DVD on oral sex education. The conversation ended with a reference to a potentially controversial joke made during a previous episode about the reverse cowgirl position.

    • Communicating and Preparing for New Sexual ExperiencesEffective communication, lubrication, starting slow, using toys or fingers first, emptying bowels, and seeking advice can lead to enjoyable anal sex experiences.

      Communication and preparation are key when it comes to trying new things in the bedroom, such as anal sex. The speaker, Emily, emphasizes the importance of using plenty of lubricant, starting slow, and relaxing. She also suggests starting with fingers or toys before moving to a penis, and recommends emptying the bowels and avoiding food beforehand. Emily encourages listeners to ask questions and seek advice from experts if they're feeling unsure or scared. She also addresses the common misconception that women aren't interested in anal sex, and reassures listeners that it's a normal and common desire. Overall, the takeaway is that experimentation and open communication can lead to new and exciting experiences in a relationship.

    • Consider past actions and potential complications before committing to a relationshipAssess potential partner's efforts to change and weigh relationship benefits against potential complications, focusing on personal growth and considering waiting until older to settle down.

      It's important to carefully consider the past actions and potential baggage of a partner before committing to a relationship. In the discussion, a listener named Melissa was seeking advice about a man she's been dating who has a past as a pimp and is dealing with baby mama drama. The man is trying to change his ways and be more dedicated to her, but Melissa is unsure if she should trust him. The advice given was that while it's understandable that some people might be attracted to the "bad boy" type, it's important to assess whether the person is genuinely making efforts to change their behavior and whether the relationship is worth the potential complications. It was also suggested that Melissa should focus on her own life and consider waiting until she's older before settling down in a relationship. Overall, the conversation underscores the importance of taking the time to get to know someone and considering their past actions before making a commitment.

    • Understanding needs and keeping options open in relationshipsCommunicate openly, know your needs, and consider using a vibrator like the We-Vibe 3 for enhanced pleasure in sexual intimacy.

      Communication and keeping options open are key in relationships. The speaker expresses her hesitation in committing to someone but also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own needs and desires. Regarding sexual intimacy, the speaker advises that up to 75% of women require clitoral stimulation during intercourse to reach orgasm. She suggests using a vibrator like the We-Vibe 3 for simultaneous internal and clitoral stimulation. Lastly, the speaker addresses a listener's concern about masturbating too much and reassures that open communication with one's partner is essential to address any potential insecurities.

    • Impact of Masturbation on RelationshipsOpen communication about sexual needs and desires is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Masturbation can enhance sexual experiences for some individuals, but it can also cause concerns if not discussed openly.

      While there is no definitive number of times a day that is considered "normal" for masturbation, it becomes a problem when it interferes with daily life and relationships. Some women may feel threatened by their partners' masturbation due to feelings of rejection or inadequacy. It's important for couples to communicate openly about their sexual needs and desires to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Masturbation can actually enhance sexual experiences and desire for some individuals. Ultimately, if you're feeling unsure or concerned about your own sexual habits, it may be helpful to speak with a therapist for guidance and support.

    • Fears of being hacked from privacy concerns and misunderstood online activitiesBe mindful of online activities and personal information, clear browsing histories, and communicate openly to avoid unnecessary anxiety and misunderstandings. Small gestures and words can significantly impact feelings of attraction and intimacy in relationships.

      Technology and privacy concerns can lead to unnecessary anxiety and paranoia. In the discussion, the speakers shared experiences of their online activities being tracked and interpreted incorrectly, leading them to believe their devices were hacked. These fears were unfounded, but the incidents served as reminders to clear browsing histories and be cautious with personal information. Additionally, the conversation touched on the power of small gestures and words as turn-ons. A simple touch or a compliment can have a significant impact on someone's feelings of attraction and intimacy. It's essential to communicate these positive sentiments regularly to maintain a healthy and satisfying relationship. Lastly, the speakers discussed a product sponsorship for a sexual enhancement supplement, Forta, which can help individuals enhance their sexual experiences naturally. It's important to remember that everyone's preferences and needs are unique, and open communication and understanding are crucial in any relationship.

    • Exploring turn-ons for intimacy and sexual attractionCommunication and experimentation are crucial in discovering and understanding each other's unique turn-ons for intimacy and sexual attraction.

      There are various turn-ons for different people when it comes to intimacy and sexual attraction. Some common themes mentioned during the discussion included foreplay, kissing, specific body parts like the neck, and role-playing. However, it's important to note that everyone's preferences are unique, and what turns one person on might not have the same effect on another. Some people enjoy the visual aspect of sexual encounters, while others find emotional connection and role-play to be more arousing. Ultimately, open communication and experimentation are key to discovering and understanding each other's turn-ons.

    • Understanding unique preferences in relationshipsPaying attention to little things and respecting unique needs are keys to building strong connections. Turn-ons and turn-offs vary greatly between individuals.

      Personal preferences and turn-ons/turn-offs in relationships can greatly vary from person to person. While some may find bad teeth or lack of hygiene a deal-breaker, others might be turned on by certain behaviors or traits. For instance, noticing the little things and paying attention can be a huge turn-on for women, while men might find handymen or fix-it skills attractive. Additionally, technology addiction can be a major turn-off for both genders, indicating a need for authentic connection and presence in relationships. Ultimately, understanding and respecting each other's unique preferences and needs is essential for building strong and fulfilling connections.

    • Focus on engaging in meaningful conversations and showing genuine interest in your partnerAvoid being clingy or boastful, engage in meaningful conversations, and show genuine interest in your partner to enhance your relationship.

      Being too clingy or boastful in a relationship is a major turn off. Both partners should have their own lives and interests. Bragging about accomplishments or possessions can make you appear insecure. Instead, focus on engaging in meaningful conversations and showing genuine interest in your partner. Additionally, be mindful of food etiquette and avoid making comments about weight or eating habits. Lastly, having confidence is essential, but avoid taking yourself too seriously and being overly self-deprecating. For more tips on enhancing your sex life, check out Emily's book and apps.

    • Emily recommends 'Misadvised' and FleshlightEmily suggests listeners check out 'Misadvised' podcast and Fleshlight sex toys for enhanced sex and relationship experiences

      The podcast "Sex with Emily" discusses various topics related to sex and relationships, and Emily recommends checking out the podcast's sister show "Misadvised" and the sex toy brand Fleshlight. The podcast "Misadvised" is available for purchase on iTunes, and listeners can expect to see Emily engaging in romantic encounters with multiple partners throughout the series. Regarding Fleshlight, Emily emphasizes that sex toys aren't just for women and recommends checking out her recommendations on sexwithemily.com/fleshlight. The Fleshlight sex toy is particularly popular among men due to its ability to provide an intense and satisfying experience, as well as helping to build stamina and last longer during sexual encounters.

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