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    Profs. Holly Richardson & Matt Jarman, Virginia Military Institute

    enMarch 15, 2017

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    • Meditation in Unexpected Places: Military InstituteMeditation is being adopted by the Virginia Military Institute as a mental tool for leadership and resilience, showing its value for all in improving mental and emotional well-being.

      Meditation is being incorporated into unexpected places, such as the Virginia Military Institute. Professors Matt German and Holly Richardson are leading the way in teaching meditation to cadets as a mental tool for leadership and resilience. Despite initial skepticism, students have been receptive to the practice. The modern warrior ship class, taught by Professor German, uses meditation as a key component to prepare cadets to help others. Meanwhile, Professor Richardson's mindfulness class, following the curriculum from the University of Massachusetts Medical School, focuses on the practical benefits of meditation without religious or metaphysical claims. This shows that meditation is not just for the spiritually inclined, but can be a valuable tool for anyone looking to improve their mental and emotional well-being.

    • Personal and Professional Benefits of MeditationMeditation enhances productivity, reduces stress, and improves focus for individuals in all walks of life

      Meditation has been a valuable tool for both Matt and Holly in their personal and professional lives, despite neither of them having a military background. They started practicing meditation for various reasons, including productivity, stress reduction, and focus enhancement. Meditation has helped them become more mentally efficient, stay on task, and improve their overall well-being. Holly, in particular, was inspired by the potential benefits of mindfulness for military personnel, especially in managing post-traumatic stress disorder. Their experiences demonstrate that meditation is a versatile practice that can be beneficial for anyone, regardless of their background or circumstances.

    • Mindfulness meditation as mind-fit training in military programsMindfulness meditation, rebranded as 'mind-fit training', helps military cadets cope with stress, improve focus, regulate emotions, and build resilience.

      Mindfulness meditation has been successfully integrated into military training programs, such as the Virginia Military Institute (VMI), to help cadets cope with the high-stress environment and potentially prevent or alleviate symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). When instructors first introduced meditation, they were met with caution but found that cadets responded positively once they reframed it as "mind-fit training." Research suggests that regular meditation practice can change the brain and improve focus, emotional regulation, and overall well-being. By teaching mindfulness meditation as a tool for managing stress and anxiety, instructors aim to help cadets develop resilience and thrive in their challenging academic and military environment. Additionally, discussions around PTSD and its connection to mindfulness meditation are incorporated into classes to raise awareness and provide potential benefits for those who have experienced trauma.

    • Enhancing emotional resilience through mindfulness practicesMindfulness practices like meditation can help soldiers manage emotions and reactions, acting as a buffer against stress and potentially preventing PTSD. Combining mindfulness training with stress inoculation maximizes benefits and improves mental fitness.

      Mindfulness practices, such as meditation, can significantly enhance soldiers' emotional resilience, both before and after deployment. By helping soldiers manage their emotions and reactions, mindfulness can act as a buffer against the negative effects of stress and potentially prevent PTSD. Additionally, the combination of mindfulness training and stress inoculation can maximize the benefits of stressful situations and improve overall mental fitness. From a broader perspective, the concept of a "modern warrior" goes beyond the traditional military context, encompassing mental and physical training for effective change-making in various aspects of life. This definition is culturally acceptable within the military, as it emphasizes the importance of readiness and the helping component of being a warrior.

    • Making meditation a habit for better decision-makingRegular meditation can enhance decision-making and performance, especially in high-stress situations. Form a habit by pairing it with routines and using tech tools.

      Making meditation a regular habit can lead to better decision-making and improved performance, even for individuals in high-stress situations or professions that require quick reactions. However, forming a meditation habit can be challenging due to the differences between intentions and habits, and the need for consistent contextual cues. To help make meditation a habit for cadets, instructors are pairing it with regular activities, such as morning routines and homework sessions. Once a habit is formed, it doesn't require additional willpower to maintain. Dell TechFest is a current event where Dell Technologies is celebrating its 40th anniversary by offering savings on select tech products, including next-gen PCs and accessories, making it a great time to consider incorporating technology to support new habits like meditation practice.

    • Hosting a perfect Easter brunch with Whole Foods MarketWhole Foods Market offers high-quality eggs, affordable catering, and convenient brunch items. Habit formation requires repetition, contextual cues, and intermittent rewards, like meditation, for automation and sustainability.

      Whole Foods Market is the go-to place for hosting a perfect Easter brunch with loved ones. The market offers high-quality eggs, affordable catering options, and convenient brunch items from their 365 by Whole Foods Market brand. Moreover, the discussion highlighted the importance of habit formation, which requires repetition, contextual cues, and intermittent rewards. For instance, meditation, as an intermittently rewarding habit, can be tied to existing habits for automation. The intermittent rewards in meditation, such as feeling productive or calm after some sessions, can help sustain the practice. Overall, Whole Foods Market's Easter offerings and the discussion on habit formation provide valuable insights for creating memorable brunch experiences and forming sustainable habits.

    • Meditation's long-term benefitsConsistent meditation practice leads to improved mental, emotional, and social well-being, not just immediate benefits. Don't judge practice by single session experience, but overall progress.

      Meditation practice is not just about experiencing immediate benefits, but rather, it's about consistent effort towards long-term mental, emotional, and social well-being. The analogy of running was used to illustrate this point. Just like running builds towards better cardiovascular health, meditation practice leads to overall improvement in mind-body health, even if the experience during each session may vary. It's important not to judge the quality of the practice based on the experience of a single session, but rather on the overall improvement in one's ability to handle life's challenges and maintain a more authentic presence. Students in the meditation class reported practical applications of the practice in their daily lives, such as being able to handle criticism or stress more effectively. The goal is to apply the practice towards specific needs and let it grow over time.

    • Obstacles to Meditation and How to Overcome ThemFocus on creating a habit, ignore judgment, and understand the benefits to overcome obstacles to meditation. Role models and courses can also help clarify misconceptions and provide evidence of its effectiveness.

      There are various obstacles preventing people, especially in a modern, structured environment, from starting and maintaining a meditation practice. These obstacles include the fear of being judged or viewed as weird, lack of time, and misunderstanding what mindfulness is. To overcome these obstacles, it's essential to focus on creating a habit, ignoring judgment, and understanding the benefits of meditation. Additionally, having role models and taking courses can help clarify misconceptions and provide evidence of the practice's effectiveness. Overall, embracing discomfort and going against societal norms is an essential part of the meditation journey.

    • Embracing the warrior spirit through mindfulness meditationRegular mindfulness meditation can help individuals build mental toughness and a warrior spirit, making it a part of everyday life.

      Practicing mindfulness meditation, especially in a community setting, can help individuals overcome the fear of being perceived as weird and tap into a warrior spirit. The Marines were among the first to adopt this practice, and athletes and other role models can inspire cadets to follow suit. The act of meditating and facing the chaos of one's own mind requires a warrior-like mentality and can lead to better mental toughness and the ability to help others. The regular practice of meditation, such as the twice-weekly sessions offered, can help normalize the practice and make it a part of everyday life.

    • Meditation in Military Context: Clarifying MisconceptionsMeditation enhances mental clarity, focus, and performance, debunking the myth it erodes edge or softens individuals.

      Meditation is not a self-indulgent activity, but rather a fundamental tool for improving mental clarity and efficiency, enabling us to better help ourselves and others. This concept is particularly relevant in a military context, where mindfulness practices like loving kindness meditation can foster compassion and focus, rather than being seen as a weakness. Despite initial skepticism, research supports the health benefits and transformative potential of these practices. However, a common fear is that meditation may erode one's edge or make individuals too soft. Instead, meditation sharpens focus and enhances performance in various domains, from warfare to Wall Street. It's crucial to address and challenge such misconceptions to encourage more people to embrace meditation as a valuable tool for personal growth and resilience.

    • Debunking misconceptions about meditationClarifying meditation's true nature and objectives helps debunk misconceptions and unlock its potential benefits, including honing attention, promoting compassion, and improving overall well-being.

      Understanding the true nature and objectives of meditation practices is crucial to debunk the misconceptions surrounding it. Dan Harris, the host of the 10% Happier Podcast, emphasizes the importance of clarifying the misconceptions around meditation, as the word itself carries a lot of baggage. He explains that meditation is not about losing your edge or being unproductive, but rather about honing one's attention and mind. Harris also highlights that there are various types of meditation with distinct objectives. By clarifying these concepts, people can better appreciate the potential benefits of meditation practices. Additionally, Harris suggests incorporating loving-kindness meditation into daily life, even in subtle ways, to promote compassion and self-compassion. Overall, the key takeaway is that having a clear understanding of meditation and its goals is essential to debunk misconceptions and reap its full benefits.

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    E91: There's More Than Surviving with Sarah Nannen

    E91: There's More Than Surviving with Sarah Nannen

    Sarah Nannen got the worst news of her life on a sunny day in 2014: her husband, Reid, had been killed in a military aviation accident. With four kids in tow, Sarah began walking the unexpected road of widowhood. Today, we're talking about how the reality of death in the military often looks like "compartmentalizing the elephant," how breaking the news of a death to kids is really the first of many conversations, and how faith in the aftermath of loss is more about actively hoping than it is about any religious doctrine. Also this week, I'm sharing the concept of self-abandonment and reading a passage from my new book Permission to Grieve.

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