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    • Motivation for exercise: Focus on enjoyment, not just resultsFocusing on enjoying exercise and not tying self-worth to appearance can lead to a more sustainable and fulfilling exercise routine

      Finding motivation for maintaining a consistent exercise routine is crucial for long-term success. Julian Bolivards shares his personal experience of how focusing solely on physical results and tying self-worth to appearance led him to fall into negative cycles and eventually quit. Instead, he suggests that enjoying the process itself and not attaching self-worth to external factors can lead to a more sustainable and fulfilling exercise routine. The importance of good recording quality for live podcasts was also discussed, as excessive crowd noise can disrupt the intimate listening experience.

    • The Power of Weightlifting: Boosting Physical and Mental HealthWeightlifting releases endorphins for a natural high, increases flexibility, promotes mindfulness, and boosts energy levels. Consistently pushing through initial discomfort leads to addiction and long-term benefits.

      Regular exercise, specifically weightlifting, can have significant benefits for both physical and mental well-being. The speaker shares their personal experience of enjoying the endorphin rush and increased flexibility that comes with lifting heavy weights. They also highlight the mindfulness aspect of being aware of your body and the present moment during and after a workout, which can help alleviate anxiety and depression. The speaker emphasizes that the process of exercising consistently, despite initial discomfort, leads to addiction to the release of endorphins and increased energy levels. Additionally, they mention that a consistent exercise routine can help combat feelings of lethargy and tiredness, making it essential for those who need to motivate themselves and manage their own productivity. Overall, the speaker encourages listeners to push through the initial discomfort of starting a new exercise routine, as the long-term benefits are well worth it.

    • Unexpected weight gain from consistent exerciseSelf-awareness, tracking food intake and exercise essential for maintaining a healthy weight and improving fitness

      Consistent exercise, such as pull-ups, can reveal unexpected weight gain. The speaker discovered he had gained a stone over six months, making his workouts more challenging. To lose the excess weight, he advocates for creating a calorie deficit. He suggests using an app like MyFitnessPal to track caloric intake and weigh food to ensure accuracy. However, he also acknowledges the importance of balance and not depriving oneself entirely, as shown by his indulgence during a gig. Overall, the key takeaway is the importance of self-awareness and tracking both food intake and exercise to maintain a healthy weight and improve fitness.

    • Weekend Indulgences and Weight LossWeekend indulgences can hinder weight loss, but individualized approaches and mindfulness can help find a balanced and sustainable solution.

      Weekend indulgences can significantly hinder weight loss efforts despite healthy eating and exercising during the week. The speaker discovered that the calories consumed in Polish cans completely negated his calorie deficit, leading him to reconsider his weekend habits. He also acknowledged the potential drawbacks of calorie-tracking apps for those with a history of eating disorders or obsessive tendencies. The speaker emphasized the importance of individualized approaches to health and wellness, and the need to avoid making assumptions or criticizing others based on their bodies. He also shared his personal appreciation for the mindfulness aspect of tracking calories and food intake. Overall, the conversation highlighted the complex relationship many people have with food and the importance of finding a balanced and sustainable approach to weight loss and overall health.

    • Respecting individual choices about bodies and wellbeingEveryone's relationship with food and body image is unique, and it's important to respect individual choices, rather than judging or pressuring others to conform to societal expectations.

      People have the right to make their own choices about their bodies and wellbeing, free from judgment or external pressures. The speaker emphasizes that it's not our business to comment on others' weight or body shape, as everyone's experience with food and body image is unique. Furthermore, there's a double standard when it comes to how society perceives and treats individuals based on their weight. The speaker advocates for self-knowledge, understanding one's body and mind, and making choices for personal growth and improved quality of life, rather than to please others or societal expectations. Happiness, the speaker argues, is not an achievable goal or a byproduct of reaching certain physical milestones. Instead, we should focus on enjoying the process of self-improvement and self-discovery.

    • Self-acceptance leads to happiness and personal growthEmbrace self-acceptance for present happiness, grow through personal improvement, and learn empathy for a better understanding of past behaviors.

      Self-acceptance is the key to happiness and intrinsic value, regardless of physical appearance or behavior. It's important to be happy with oneself in the present moment, but personal growth and improvement can also bring added comfort and better life experiences. Happiness is not something that can be achieved in the future, but rather through the choices we make in the present. It's essential to understand and practice empathy, which can lead to maturity and a better understanding of past behaviors. LinkedIn can be a valuable resource for hiring professionals, and experiences and hindsight can help us grow and use past mistakes for a better purpose. The podcast is sponsored by listeners via Patreon, and their support allows for regular and consistent content.

    • A spiritual practice of depriving the body of sensual experiencesAsceticism, an ancient practice, involves renouncing worldly pleasures to seek spiritual enlightenment through self-denial, found in various religions and cultures, including ancient Greece, Ireland, and modern-day Satanism.

      Asceticism, a spiritual practice dating back thousands of years, involves depriving the body of sensual experiences as a means to achieve spiritual enlightenment. This practice, which includes deprivation of touch, smell, sexual senses, and eating, can be found in various religions and cultures, from ancient Greece to modern-day Satanism. The Irish monks, for instance, practiced asceticism by isolating themselves from other humans. Modern practices, such as running in the morning on an empty stomach, can also be considered a form of asceticism, as they involve depriving oneself of comforts to improve mental health and overall well-being. The Buddha, a famous ascetic, was born into a wealthy family but renounced worldly pleasures to seek enlightenment. Asceticism continues to be a significant aspect of various spiritual and religious practices today.

    • The prince's search for meaning beyond palace wallsEncountering old age, sickness, and death led the Buddha to renounce his royal life and seek enlightenment, emphasizing the importance of facing life's realities and seeking wisdom beyond comforts.

      The Buddha's sheltered upbringing, orchestrated by his father to shield him from suffering, ultimately led him to seek understanding of the realities of life outside the palace. His encounters with old age, sickness, and death during his clandestine trips beyond the palace walls left him in an existential crisis, ultimately leading him to renounce his royal life and embark on a quest for enlightenment. This experience highlights the importance of facing life's realities and the value of seeking wisdom and understanding beyond the comforts of a sheltered existence.

    • Buddha's Journey to the Middle PathBuddha discovered that extreme asceticism wasn't the answer to enlightenment. He found that the middle path of moderation and living in the present moment was the true way to achieve inner peace.

      Buddha, in his quest for enlightenment, initially believed that extreme asceticism was the answer. He thought that by denying himself all pleasures and living an extremely austere life, he could escape the realities of human existence, such as old age, sickness, and death. However, he eventually realized that this was just another form of indulgence and that the middle path, or moderation, was the true way to enlightenment. This idea of finding balance and living in the present moment is a fundamental tenet of Buddhism. There is a more extreme sect of Buddhism called Sakushinbutsu in Japan, where monks mummify themselves during meditation in the hopes of achieving perfect preservation after death. This belief stems from the idea that holy beings do not decay when they pass away. While this practice is rare, it highlights the deep human desire to transcend death and find a way to cheat the inevitable. Buddhism's emphasis on the middle path and living in the present moment has had a significant influence on modern psychology and psychotherapy, particularly in the work of Carl Rogers. This connection underscores the enduring relevance of Buddhist teachings to our modern lives.

    • Ancient practices of seeking transcendence or preservation of the body beyond deathMonks in Japan and mellified men in Assyria practiced extreme asceticism and self-starvation to achieve spiritual enlightenment or body preservation, believing their bodies to be transcended or not truly dead

      There exist ancient practices, such as those in Japan with Shouko Shinbutsu and in Assyria with mellified men, where individuals sought to achieve transcendence or preservation of the body beyond death through extreme asceticism and self-starvation. In the case of Shouko Shinbutsu, monks underwent a 3,000-day training process, including removing carbohydrates from their diet, eating poisonous nuts, and eventually starving themselves to death in a burial chamber. Their bodies, if perfectly preserved, were considered transcended or not truly dead, and were worshipped as a sign of spiritual enlightenment. Similarly, mellified men in Assyria lived their final days on a diet of honey, essentially starving to death from honey, with the belief that their bodies would be preserved and revered. These practices, though extreme and potentially fatal, demonstrate the human desire to defy death and attain spiritual transcendence.

    • Ancient Syrian Mellified Men and Irish Origin of 'Quare'Ancient Syrians valued mellified men, who lived on honey and were preserved in it, for their honey-infused bodies. The Irish term 'quare' originated from the Normans, who invaded Ireland and were known for their French-speaking Viking background.

      During ancient Syrian times, mellified men, or individuals who had lived on honey for weeks before being preserved in it, were highly valued for their honey-infused bodies. This honey was considered a magical source of sweetness and an expensive luxury. After the mellified men's deaths, their bodies were stored in honey for centuries, which served as a fantastic preservative. The preserved bodies were then chopped up and sold as an expensive medicine to cure various ailments. Regarding the Irish origin of the word "quare," it is an Irish term that originally meant queer or strange. The Normans, who were essentially French-speaking Vikings, invaded Ireland around 1110-1120. The Normans had taken over Britain in 1066 and established Normandy in France. The Normans, known for their shipbuilding skills and warlike nature, would raid coastal areas and demand tribute or land. In France, Rollo, a Viking, was given the land that became Normandy. The Normans, who were French-speaking but originally from Scandinavia, are the origin of the term.

    • The Normans brought a unique dialect called Yola, while another culture emerged in North Dublin called Fingalese, each with its distinct language.The Normans introduced a French-Gaelic pidgin dialect called Yola in Wexford, while a separate culture in North Dublin, called Fingalese, had its own language. These dialects coexisted until the 1700s, with only the word 'quare' surviving from Yola.

      The Normans, who settled in Wexford around 1110, brought a French-Gaelic pidgin dialect known as Yola, which coexisted with the native Gaelic language until the 1700s. The only surviving word from this dialect is "quare." Meanwhile, another separate culture emerged in North Dublin, called Fingalese, with its own distinct language. Regarding the Flat Earth theory, it's a modern phenomenon that gained traction due to a rapper named B.o.B promoting it as part of an album publicity stunt. The theory, which contradicts scientific evidence, thrives in today's clickbait-driven, post-truth era where reality and truth are often destabilized. In my personal life, I've found limiting my video game usage to nighttime hours has helped me manage potential addiction tendencies. I also have an upcoming podcast with author Roddy Doyle to promote his new film, "Rosie," which I encourage listeners to see.

    • The Importance of Celebrating MothersExpress gratitude and appreciation to the mothers in your life, whether biological or not, and celebrate them with thoughtful gifts from 1-800-Flowers for Mother's Day. Delaying releases for perfection isn't worth it, focus on compassion and self-care instead.

      Key takeaway from this podcast episode is the importance of compassion and taking care of the people who care for us. The speaker shares his experience of delaying the release of a podcast due to the desire for a high-quality recording, but ultimately encourages listeners to express gratitude and appreciation to the mothers in their lives. He emphasizes the role of various types of mothers, from biological to office mothers, and encourages listeners to celebrate them with thoughtful gifts from 1-800-Flowers. For a limited time, listeners can save up to 40% on Mother's Day bestsellers by ordering at 1-800flowers.com/acast. Overall, the podcast episode emphasizes the significance of compassion, self-care, and expressing gratitude towards the important figures in our lives.

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