Logo
    Search

    Podcast Summary

    • Explore and enhance your summer sex lifePromescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel can help men last longer and add pleasure for women. The magic wand is also recommended for powerful orgasms.

      Summer is the season of passion and exploration, and Promescent's line of pleasure enhancing products can help enhance the experience. Their legendary delay spray helps men last longer, while their warming arousal gel adds an extra layer of pleasure for women. The magic wand, an iconic sex toy, is also mentioned as a powerful tool for achieving orgasms. Promescent and the magic wand are recommended for those seeking to make their summer sex life unforgettable. Additionally, the speaker mentions her personal experiences and endorsements of these products.

    • A Lighthearted Discussion on Valentine's Day, Social Media, and SexEmily and Menace joked about Valentine's Day, shared social media experiences, discovered sex toys at Good Vibrations, and discussed the basics of sex and relationships, promoting open communication and exploration.

      During their discussion, Emily and Menace touched on various topics including Valentine's Day, social media, and sex. They joked about a hypothetical fellatio contest for Valentine's Day and their social media presence, which includes platforms like Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, and Pinterest. They also shared their experiences with discovering sex toys at Good Vibrations. However, they expressed confusion about the purpose of Pinterest and its popularity. The conversation then shifted to discussing the basics of sex and relationships, with Emily and Menace sharing their differing opinions. Throughout the conversation, they promoted Good Vibrations as a sponsor and encouraged listeners to check out their selection of sex toys using the discount code "gvemily15." Despite their lighthearted and sometimes confusing conversation, they emphasized the importance of open communication and exploration in relationships.

    • Finding Individuality in San FranciscoSan Francisco offers opportunities for personal transformation and self-discovery, with practices like meditation and yoga, despite challenges like domestic violence incidents and negative celebrity behavior.

      San Francisco is a place where people can come to reinvent themselves and discover their individuality. The speaker shares an example of a former high school classmate who transformed himself into a coffee shop manager and embraced a new identity in the city. The speaker also expresses support for practices like meditation and yoga, which can help individuals discover their true selves. However, the conversation also touches on negative aspects of San Francisco, such as domestic violence incidents involving celebrities like Hugh Hefner's son. Despite these issues, the speaker emphasizes the transformative power of the city and encourages individuals to embrace their individuality. Additionally, the conversation touches on health topics, such as gluten-free diets and meditation, which can contribute to personal growth.

    • Overlooking serious misconduct in the entertainment industryThe entertainment industry and public sometimes overlook serious misconduct, allowing individuals with negative baggage to maintain a 'bad boy' image.

      The entertainment industry and public perception can sometimes overlook or forgive serious misconduct, as evidenced by the case of Chris Brown winning a Grammy despite his history of domestic violence. Meanwhile, some individuals continue to be drawn to the allure of the "bad boy" image, even if it comes with negative baggage. On a lighter note, the importance of clear communication was emphasized, as a misunderstanding about a restaurant led to unnecessary excitement. Lastly, an 18-year-old listener sought clarification on whether his penis size was average, and the discussion touched upon the role of girth and the significance of flaccid size in the context of sexual satisfaction.

    • Size doesn't determine relationship successPersonality, compatibility, and communication skills are more important than penis size in a successful relationship

      When it comes to penis size, opinions vary greatly, and it's not the only factor in a successful relationship. Size can range from too small to too large for some individuals, and satisfaction ultimately depends on personal compatibility and communication. A woman who received numerous inquiries on the topic shared her experiences, emphasizing that she's been with men of varying sizes, and their relationships' successes or failures were not determined by penis size alone. Instead, it was the men's personality, compatibility, and communication skills that mattered most. The woman also advised men to have a plan for dates and not ask their partners for suggestions constantly. In essence, the size of a man's penis is not a definitive indicator of relationship success or satisfaction.

    • Considering Consequences in Sex and RelationshipsBe mindful of emotional attachments, keep private info private, avoid relationships with unavailable people, prioritize emotional well-being.

      When it comes to sex and relationships, it's important to consider the potential consequences of your actions. For instance, having sex with an ex can be beneficial if you're emotionally detached, but it can also prevent you from meeting new people and moving on. Another important thing is to keep certain information private, such as the number of sexual partners you've had or letting someone keep intimate photos of you. Engaging in relationships with unavailable people, such as married individuals, is also not advisable as it can lead to disappointment and heartache. Ultimately, it's crucial to prioritize your emotional well-being and make decisions that align with your values and goals.

    • Respecting boundaries in relationshipsBe honest but respect privacy, communicate in bed, and build trust to maintain a healthy relationship.

      Openness and intimacy in relationships should have boundaries. While it's important to be honest and vulnerable with your partner, there are certain things that are better kept private. For instance, using the bathroom in front of each other can be a turnoff for some people, and it's essential to respect each other's privacy in this regard. Additionally, lying about having your period to avoid sex is not recommended, as it can lead to misunderstandings and mistrust. Another crucial aspect is communication in bed. Women should not just lie there and men should not assume that they know what feels good without asking. Trust is also essential, and if there's evidence suggesting that your partner is cheating, it's important to address the issue directly and not ignore it, no matter what they say. Overall, maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship involves respecting boundaries, communicating openly, and building trust.

    • Misunderstandings in Relationships: The Importance of Communication and TrustOpen dialogue is crucial in addressing misunderstandings in relationships. Avoid jumping to conclusions, oversharing personal information, and be cautious with social media use during intimate moments. Stay loyal to friends and avoid dating jerks for healthy and honest relationships.

      Communication and trust are key in any relationship. The speaker shares her experiences and observations about misunderstandings that can arise when women suspect their partners of cheating due to a lack of sexual interest. She advises against jumping to conclusions and instead encourages open dialogue. Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of not oversharing personal information and being cautious with social media use during intimate moments. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of not dating jerks and staying loyal to friends. While some of the topics discussed may seem trivial, they all contribute to the overall theme of maintaining healthy and honest relationships.

    • Trust and communication are essential in a relationshipAvoid checking partner's emails without consent, have open conversations, avoid sensitive questions, be mindful of humor, introduce to friends, be considerate on first dates

      Trust and communication are key in a relationship. The speaker advises against checking your partner's emails without their consent, as it can lead to unnecessary confusion and mistrust. Instead, if there's an issue, have an open and honest conversation. Additionally, avoid asking sensitive questions that could put your partner in a difficult position. Be open to humor and joking around with your partner, but be mindful of their comfort level. Introducing your partner to your friends is a sign of a serious relationship. Living with exes or roommates may raise red flags. On a first date, avoid drinking more than your partner, and never to the point of vomiting. These behaviors can create a negative and unhealthy dynamic in a relationship.

    • Personal triggers can cause strong physical reactionsSome people have unique sensitivities and preferences that can elicit unexpected physical reactions, such as gagging or nausea, to certain triggers.

      Certain triggers can elicit strong physical reactions, such as gagging or nausea, even if they are not directly related to the person's physical condition. For instance, the speaker described how she could not tolerate the thought or discussion of diarrhea, which made her gag and vomit, despite being in good health and not being physically affected by someone else's vomit. Similarly, some people find certain things, like socks during sex, unappealing or even offensive, even if others find it attractive. These preferences and sensitivities can be surprising and vary greatly from person to person.

    • Unique experiences shape comfort levels and reactionsRespect boundaries and avoid harmful questions in relationships to maintain trust and avoid negatively impacting them.

      Everyone has unique experiences and preferences that shape their comfort levels and reactions to certain situations. The speaker, for instance, shared her dislike for anything related to foot injuries due to a traumatic experience in her childhood. This aversion extends to her own feet but not to others'. Additionally, she warned against asking potentially harmful questions in relationships, such as asking which friend one would prefer to sleep with, as it can lead to unnecessary jealousy and mistrust. It's essential to respect each other's boundaries and avoid actions or questions that could negatively impact the relationship. Listen to Sex with Emily on Stitcher for more insightful conversations and become a Friends with Benefits member for access to the full shows.

    Recent Episodes from Sex With Emily

    Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece Pt. 2

    Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece Pt. 2
    Have you found yourself fascinated with what's masculine or feminine, especially in the bedroom? On today's episode, volleyball star, Gabby Reece, redefines the modern day versions of these roles and explains why it matters in her marriage. In this episode you’ll learn:  Gabby's definition of masculine & feminine in her marriage Why younger generations may not be having as much sex Which sex toys Gabby is into Show Notes: Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order. Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 28, 2024

    Get What You Want (In Bed)

    Get What You Want (In Bed)
    Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is all about articulating what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics and hotter sex. You’re welcome! In this episode you’ll learn: What to do if you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had How to deal with an emotionally detached partner Why you have to communicate to get the kind of touch you need in bed Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Try the LELO DOT Travel Today!  Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 25, 2024

    Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece

    Love, Sex, and Success with Gabby Reece
    Volleyball legend and podcast host Gabby Reece takes the hot seat and reveals all her secrets to being a successful athlete, wife, parent and business owner with her famous surfer husband, Laird Hamilton. In this episode you’ll learn:  Sex rules to keep your man happy How to play farmer and flower to have a long lasting relationship Gabby Reece's biggest turn on, it's not what you think it might be Why being kind is better than being nice Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! More Gabby Reece | Instagram | Website | Podcast SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure This episode is brought to you by: Promescent (Visit the link for 15% off) Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 21, 2024

    Sex in the Summer Sun

    Sex in the Summer Sun
    Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure that your sex life follows suit. In this throwback episode, I’m sharing my steamiest ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. If you’re ready for a Hot Girl Summer, this ep’s for you. In this episode you’ll learn:  How to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties Where to (safely) have sex in public How to navigate a friends with benefits situation Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 18, 2024

    Best Of: The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali

    Best Of: The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali
    Ever wondered how culture has molded your sexuality? My guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabury, dives deep into this topic on today’s throwback ep, revealing how societal norms have conditioned us to suppress our true desires, cheat ourselves, and live inauthentically. But here's the twist: radically authentic love and desire are within reach! All it takes is confronting the myths we've been fed and making a conscious choice to live freely. Ready to break free and embrace your true self? Tune in.  In this episode you’ll learn:  How to rethink marriage as a model for growth All about monogamy and why it’s the societal norm (and if it’s even natural…) How to replace societal conditioning with worthiness Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! Dr. Shefali: Instagram | Website Podcast: Parenting & You with Dr. Shefali SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Try the LELO SONA 2 TRAVEL today and get 25% when you use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout. Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 14, 2024

    Best Of: How to Talk to Teens About Sex

    Best Of: How to Talk to Teens About Sex
    QUESTION: If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? I say absolutely! Even if it feels like you’re navigating a minefield, and even if your own parents left you in the dark (because let’s face it, they probably did), I get it – finding the right words can be trickier than solving a Rubik’s Cube. That’s why today’s episode is your ultimate guide, packed with tools, scripts, and resources to help you tackle this touchy topic with confidence and maybe even a little humor. In a couple years, your kid will thank you! In this episode you’ll learn:  Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation The truth behind masturbation myths  Specific verbiage to make these uncomfortable sex talks a little easier Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! The Communication Guide (And Other Guides) SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) For a limited time, you can save 20% off sitewide at Justthrivehealth.com with promo code: SEXWITHEMILY The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 11, 2024

    Love Without Losing Your Mind w/ Todd Baratz

    Love Without Losing Your Mind w/ Todd Baratz
    Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today. In this episode you’ll learn:  How oral sex can make or break your relationship What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE  The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 07, 2024

    Are You Touch-Starved?

    Are You Touch-Starved?
    Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life. In this episode you’ll learn: What questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom How to get back into the dating scene Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! Pleasure Planner + Other Guides SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enJune 04, 2024

    Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

    Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair
    Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017.  On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation! In this episode you’ll learn:  How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread Ejaculate Responsibly SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enMay 31, 2024

    Best Of: Ready to Get Naughty?

    Best Of: Ready to Get Naughty?
    Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions.  In this episode you’ll learn: My special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex How to deal with vaginismus Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) For their buy 1 get 1 50% off deal, head to 3DayBlinds.com/SWE  The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
    Sex With Emily
    enMay 28, 2024

    Related Episodes

    Growing Mindsets and Making Impacts with Tom Bilyeu

    Growing Mindsets and Making Impacts with Tom Bilyeu
    On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by entrepreneur and founder of Impact Theory Tom Bilyeu to talk about why a growth mindset is vital to achieving your goals – in your career and your relationships!   The two discuss what “having a growth mindset” actually means – and how can you get your partner on board, how to limit your negative self-talk so you don’t limit your potential, and what you can do to make sure your connection lasts (hint: communication is key) – because relationships take work.   Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily  Follow Tom on all social: @tombilyeu For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Best Of: Virgins, Cuckolds, & Unicorns

    Best Of: Virgins, Cuckolds, & Unicorns
    On today’s throwback show, Emily is joined by Menace and her San Francisco pal Stacy to talk about everything love, dating, fantasies, and sex. They talk about how to get past inexperience – in the bedroom and the dating world, what to do about post-orgasm exhaustion, and what science has to say about what men and women typically look for in a threesome – and it doesn’t look the same. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: JO Stimulants, Adam & Eve, Intensity, Magic Wand Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    SWE: Breast Play

    SWE: Breast Play
    Emily and Menace's assistant dissect his attitude towards women. It’s not looking pretty. Emotionally detached men, dating with kids, the best ways to meet women, how to undress a woman, and how to avoid STI's. A virgin calls into the show to ask Emily advice. Also, the do's and don'ts of breat play including but no limited to 'motor-boating.' Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Cheapskates, Cheaters & Sweaty Sex

    Cheapskates, Cheaters & Sweaty Sex
    On this show, Emily and Menace are addressing a slew of sex and love topics ranging from sweaty sex to cheating and everywhere in between! The two also exchange steamy Mexico vacation stories— spoiler alert: only one of them gets lucky in the end. Next, it’s on to your emails! Emily helps a listener decide whether she wants to open up her relationship or if she’s just looking for an excuse to cheat. She administers advice on how to confront your boyfriend about a lack of reciprocity in the relationship, and eases a listener’s worries on sweating during first-time sex. From ghosting to snapchat to doing the dirty with your dog in the bed, this show is packed with laughs and tons helpful information! Check it out... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Make Sex Fun (Again)

    Make Sex Fun (Again)
    In today’s show, Emily’s dishing out advice to help you have the best sex and relationships. Topics include how to last longer in bed, how to make scheduled sex fun, and how to get back into the dating scene after being hurt. She gives tips for a listener on how to master mutual orgasms despite a lagging libido, and helps a guy get over his past relationship traumas to start dating again. Menace offers some controversial tips on how to land the prettiest girl in the room, while Emily questions the effectiveness of dating games. To play or not to play? That is the question. No matter what has happened in the past, or what you’re trying to make happen for your future, Emily is here to remind us what were may have forgotten along the way - Sex and dating are meant to be fun! This podcast has the tips you need to move forward in your sex life and in your relationship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.