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    • Simplifying Complexities: Mercury for Business and Viator for TravelMercury streamlines financial workflows for businesses, while Viator simplifies travel planning with guided tours and customer support. Stoicism offers principles for inner peace and self-reliance.

      Both Mercury and Viator offer solutions to simplify complex processes in different areas of life. Mercury focuses on financial workflows for businesses, ensuring precision, control, and focus. Viator, on the other hand, simplifies travel planning by offering guided tours, excursions, and more in one place, with free cancellation and 24/7 customer support. Meanwhile, Stoicism, an ancient Greek philosophy, emphasizes the importance of self-reliance, self-restraint, and self-control for inner peace and happiness. These principles, which include detachment from passions and the belief in the supremacy of the rational mind, have seen a recent resurgence in popularity due to their relevance in our modern, chaotic world. Ryan Holiday, a leading voice in the modern-day stoic revival, has written extensively on the topic and has reached a wide audience through various platforms. By applying these philosophies and tools, we can transform our business operations, travel experiences, and personal lives.

    • Stoicism's Universality: From Elites to EveryoneStoicism, an ancient philosophy, is practical for all, not just elites. Its teachings on dealing with distractions, temptations, and various aspects of life make it relevant for everyone, as demonstrated by its famous practitioners, Epictetus, a former slave, and Marcus Aurelius, the emperor of Rome.

      Stoicism, an ancient philosophy, is not just for elites, despite its recent popularity among them. Originating from the elites due to its intellectual origins, Stoicism's appeal transcends social classes. Its practicality in dealing with distractions, temptations, and navigating various aspects of life, such as the boardroom or the locker room, makes it relevant for everyone. The dichotomy of Stoicism's most famous practitioners, Epictetus, a former slave, and Marcus Aurelius, the emperor of Rome, illustrates its universality. Epictetus' lectures, which influenced Marcus Aurelius, demonstrate that anyone, regardless of their background, can benefit from Stoicism's teachings.

    • Ancient Stoicism's Relevance TodayStoicism's focus on controlling what we can and responding to external circumstances, guided by reason, remains valuable for individuals regardless of time or place.

      Stoicism, an ancient philosophy, remains relevant today due to its adaptable nature. The survival of fragmented texts from influential Stoic thinkers like Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and Seneca allows us to apply their ideas to modern life. Stoicism's emphasis on focusing on what we can control and responding to external circumstances has value for individuals regardless of their socio-economic status or historical context. The belief that reason is the ultimate guide to action and the emphasis on character and virtue connect Stoicism to the past while making it applicable to the present. Stoics might argue against a strict distinction between the ancient and modern worlds, viewing human nature and world events as cyclical. Examples from history, such as Marcus Aurelius' response to the Antonine Plague and James Stockdale's study of Epictetus, illustrate the enduring relevance of Stoic teachings.

    • Stoicism's Advice for Modern Life: Acknowledge Difficult People and Focus on Personal GrowthStoicism, an ancient philosophy, teaches us to acknowledge difficult people, focus on personal growth, and accept external circumstances. It emphasizes personal responsibility, emotional resilience, and understanding the difference between what we can control and what we cannot.

      Stoicism, an ancient philosophy, remains uniquely practical for navigating modern life. Stoics, like Seneca, lived in the courts of emperors but focused on personal growth and emotional resilience. The first book of Marcus Aurelius' "Meditations" advises us to acknowledge difficult people and their imperfections, recognizing our shared humanity and refusing to let them provoke anger or bitterness. Stoics encourage asking ourselves what is truly worth caring about, focusing on things within our control, and accepting external circumstances as out of our grasp. This question, according to Epictetus, is the primary one in philosophy. Stoicism's enduring relevance lies in its emphasis on personal responsibility, emotional resilience, and understanding the difference between what we can control and what we cannot.

    • Focus on what's within your control for peace and productivityStoic philosophy encourages focusing on what we can control, accepting what we can't, and being active in making a difference

      According to Stoic philosophy, focusing on what is within our control and accepting what is not can lead to a more peaceful and productive life. This doesn't mean ignoring social issues or being passive, but rather prioritizing our energy and efforts on the things we can influence and letting go of the things we cannot. The Stoics, despite their emphasis on self-control, were also active in politics and social change. The danger of this philosophy is that it could lead to apathy or resignation, but the best Stoics have shown that with courage and determination, one can make a significant difference in the world. It's important to understand what is within our control and what isn't, but not to use that understanding as an excuse for inaction.

    • Stoicism's call to actionStoicism's teachings of inner peace and acceptance inspire individuals to challenge societal norms and make a difference in the world.

      The ancient philosophies, particularly stoicism, offer valuable insights into finding inner peace and acceptance, but they should not be misunderstood as advocating for passive acceptance of the status quo. The stoics, such as Seneca, Epictetus, and Musonius Rufus, were not as static in their thinking as it might seem. They challenged societal norms, like the acceptance of slavery and gender inequality, and paved the way for new ideas and innovations. Stoicism's emphasis on individual control and acceptance can be seen as a call to action for individuals and communities to make a difference and change the world, rather than an excuse to withdraw from it. The stoics' writings reveal their own progressive ideas and actions, and if they were alive today, they would likely embrace the changes that have occurred and continue to inspire us to challenge the impossible and make a dent in the universe.

    • The Tension Between Individual Insignificance and Collective ImpactIndividual actions, like voting, may seem insignificant, but their collective impact can be significant, as demonstrated by close elections. Stoicism and Buddhism share similarities in accepting the limits of our condition, despite approaching it differently.

      The Stoics, like the founders of the United States, held a vision of a better world but struggled to turn theory into practice. They believed in the power of collective action, as evidenced by their roles as military leaders and politicians. This tension between individual insignificance and collective impact is seen in actions such as voting. Although an individual's vote may not matter statistically, the collective impact can be significant, as demonstrated by the outcome of close presidential elections. Stoicism and Eastern philosophy, specifically Buddhism, share similarities in their pursuit of acceptance of the limits of our condition, although they approach it from different angles. The convergence of these distinct philosophies on similar ideas provides evidence of the truth in their teachings.

    • Living in harmony with nature and virtueStoicism teaches us to find happiness by focusing on what's essential, eliminating distractions, and finding peace in challenging circumstances. It encourages living in balance with nature and adapting to the world around us, rather than trying to control it.

      Happiness, according to Stoicism, is not solely about material comfort or wealth, but rather about living in harmony with nature and virtue. This means focusing on what is essential in life, eliminating distractions, and finding peace and contentment even in challenging circumstances. The Stoics believed that everyone has a role to play in life, and true success comes from playing that role to the best of one's ability. Living in accordance with nature is about finding balance and adapting to the world around us, rather than trying to control it or conform to external expectations. Ultimately, Stoicism encourages us to find happiness in the present moment, by focusing on what we can control and letting go of what we cannot.

    • Remembering death for a better lifeMeditating on mortality can help us cherish life, focus on the present, and make us happier.

      The practice of memento mori, or remembering the inevitability of death, was central to the Stoic philosophy. This practice was not meant to be morbid, but rather a reminder of who is truly in control – not us. By keeping death in mind, Stoics aimed to live in the present and treat people with kindness and respect. Marcus Aurelius, a famous Stoic, even practiced this exercise with his own children, reminding himself that their lives could be taken away at any moment. This practice can help us appreciate the present moment and find happiness in our everyday experiences, rather than dwelling on potential negative outcomes. In essence, the quality of our thoughts and judgments about life's events determines our happiness, not the external events themselves. So, when we find ourselves slipping into a negative mindset, we can look to Stoic practices like memento mori to help us refocus on the present and find happiness in the moment.

    • Anxiety: Overcoming Inner Turmoil through StoicismStoicism teaches us to prepare for challenges, discard excessive worry, and focus on self-improvement for personal growth.

      Anxiety stems from within us, and while it's important to prepare for potential challenges, indulging in excessive worry can be detrimental. Marcus Aurelius, an anxious person himself, realized that he had the power to discard his anxiety rather than letting it control him. Seneca, another Stoic philosopher, emphasized the importance of negative visualization – thinking about potential hardships – to lessen their impact when they occur. However, stoicism, with its focus on reason and equanimity, might seem unattainable for ordinary people. Yet, every philosophical or religious tradition demands more than we can achieve, and progress, no matter how small, should be celebrated. Ultimately, Stoicism encourages self-improvement and treating oneself kindly throughout the journey towards personal growth.

    • Stoicism acknowledges emotions as natural and essentialStoicism teaches us to distinguish between acting on emotions and being controlled by them, not to eliminate emotions entirely

      The Stoic philosophy, while encouraging acceptance of things beyond our control and the suppression of negative emotions, does not promise perfection or the elimination of natural feelings. Philosophy, including Stoicism, can help us distinguish between acting on emotions and being consumed by them, but it doesn't make us ethical superheroes. Marcus Aurelius, a renowned Stoic, even cried when he lost his favorite teacher, showing that even the wisest among us are human and experience emotions. Stoicism views emotion and reason as complementary rather than opposing forces. While reason can counterbalance emotion, both are natural and essential aspects of being human.

    • Stoicism: Embracing Healthy Emotions and Practical TechniquesStoicism teaches self-control, recognizing healthy emotions, and using techniques like journaling, meditation, and Memento Mori to live in the present, cherish time, and understand perspective.

      According to the stoic philosophy, love, empathy, kindness are healthy emotions that distinguish between constructive and destructive emotions. Stoicism emphasizes the importance of self-control and practical techniques such as journaling, meditation, and the practice of Memento Mori to implement this philosophy in daily life. The stoics warned against an obsession with accomplishment and the importance of recognizing that time is the most valuable non-renewable resource. They also emphasized the importance of having perspective and understanding that there are different forms of slavery, and that we are in control of our urges, mind, and time. Overall, the stoic philosophy encourages us to appreciate the present moment and have a sobering reminder that we only get one go at life and cannot take material possessions with us when we die.

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    He had total control over the empire yet never once used that privilege for his personal gain. Despite being the most powerful man in the world, he remained balanced – stern when needed, but always understanding of others, even his enemies.

     

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    On things out of your control – “You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can’t control. These things are not asking to be judged by you. Leave them alone.”

     

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    On change: “Observe always that everything is the result of change, and get used to thinking that there is nothing Nature loves so well as to change existing forms and make new ones like them.”

     

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    “If someone can prove me wrong and show me my mistake in any thought or action, I shall gladly change. I seek the truth, which never harmed anyone: the harm is to persist in one’s own self-deception and ignorance.”

     

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    See new opportunities in obstacles. Be prepared to change your plans to accommodate new info. Never petrify. Always keep moving.

     

    too much optimism v doubting myself too early, – aim for simple, clear reality.

     

    To many focus on past and future on the present he said: “Do not disturb yourself by picturing your life as a whole; do not assemble in your mind the many and varied troubles which have come to you in the past and will come again in the future, but ask yourself with regard to every present difficulty: ‘What is there in this that is unbearable and beyond endurance?’ You would be ashamed to confess it! And then remind yourself that it is not the future or what has passed that afflicts you, but always the present, and the power of this is much diminished if you take it in isolation and call your mind to task if it thinks that it cannot stand up to it when taken on its own.”

     

    Stoics view a situation with neutrality. They would say an event in itself cannot be good or bad, it’s only an event. But to me you still you’ll have to decide whether you’ll see something as a threat or an opportunity

     

    So how did he stay in control of his emotions based on his beliefs that nature unfolds in a perfect way and that one must accept that they cannot change the past or what other people feel in their hearts.

     

    One key point he writes about is how to recover from massive setbacks.

     

    Here are some of the philosopher king’s timeless lessons on how to be resilient:

     

    Don’t worry about people whose actions don’t affect the common good.

    Your energy and time are both limited, so don’t waste them on what inconsequential people are doing, thinking, and saying, when you could be focusing on your own issues.

     

    On Living in the present – Marcus writes

     

    “Each of us lives only now, this brief instant. The rest has been lived already, or is impossible to see,”

     

    Refrain from imposing your feelings onto reality.

    . . . none of these are “bad” (or “good” for that matter), according to Marcus’ philosophy. When you see things as what they really are, you’re able to avoid succumbing to your emotions and accept what has happened.

     

    Turn an obstacle into an opportunity.

     

    Which is a Stoic fundamental, which says that we should use inevitable challenges as a chance to become a stronger person.

     

    Good definition of a Stoic, someone who “transforms fear into prudence, pain into transformation, mistakes into initiation, and desire into undertaking.”

     

    Find peace within yourself.

    Marcus writes that people try to retreat from their problems and responsibilities by going somewhere like the mountains or the beach, but that travel isn’t necessary to recollect yourself. He advocates a kind of brief meditation, where you withdraw into yourself and quiet your mind.

     

    Don’t resent people for their character.

    If someone’s character flaw has caused one of your problems, do not exert energy trying to change that person’s character. Let things go. “You might as well resent a fig tree for secreting juice,” Marcus says.

     

    You are the only person responsible for your happiness.

     

    “The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts”

     

    “Choose not to be harmed — and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed — and you haven’t been,” Marcus writes. Furthermore, the only way people can truly harm you is if they change your character.

     

    He is like a kindred spirit.

     

    Goal or task don’t sweep away your thoughts that come into your mind – just observe.

     

    He is so up front and honest it’s like he is saying to us – I am a fellow human being trying to make sense of the trials and tribulations of life. It’s like he is down the earth saying it just so happens I came into this role as “Emperor,” but that seemed to matter little to the turmoil in his brain and the yearning in his heart.

     

    It seems, he was just also trying to figure it all out, just like the rest of us. And if one of the most revered leaders of the civilized world was trying to figure it all out almost 2000 years back in his day, then maybe together our community here collectively is doing alright.

     

    Take aways – don’t hesitate to set a new path or new trail because your thinking your not entirely sure you can pull it off or because you think you lack the skills, know how, connections, money, and certainly the confidence we feel like we need to get started. Thus so many never risk starting. Or we give up when things get rough. Or take too long. Especially if the things we hope to do — start a business, move into a new industry, spearhead a movement we care about, reinvent ourselves, build a new career or life from scratch — is something we’ve never, ever done before.

    So what separates those, like Marcus who pursue worthy projects and grow enormous empires, from those that do not?

    Surely, they must have all their stuff together and “all figured out” before they even get started?

    Here’s a secret: they didn’t.

    And here’s another: they still don’t.

     

    In my own story from Attorney, Banker Fiduciary Professional to Entrepreneur or whatever else I happen to be doing at the moment.

    Far and away the most powerful moments happen when I, someone who tends to look like a bundle of American confidence — all sorted, all figured out, all found, all put together — admit that inside I need to change or go in a new direction . . questioning whether you are the best you or if you have anything useful to add to a situation?

    I am figuring a lot out, but still in several ways, I’m still putting it all together. Still developing. Still growing. Still becoming.

    Discovery comes with my own vulnerability, my own humanness, my own reality. A reality that is potentially universal.

    I’m still, and possibly will always be, figuring this out.

     

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    Episode #012 ... The Hellenistic Age Pt. 3 - Hallmarks of Stoic Ethics

    Episode #012 ... The Hellenistic Age Pt. 3 - Hallmarks of Stoic Ethics
    On this episode of the podcast, we continue our discussion of Stoicism, this time focusing on ethics. We learn about the three most noteworthy contributors to Stoic ethics--a crippled slave, a statesman, and the emperor of Rome--and find out how much they actually had in common. We discuss what angry sports fans and Stephen's English bulldog could learn from Stoic ethics, as well as why you should start each day expecting the worst. All this and more on the latest episode of Philosophize This! Thank you so much for listening! Could never do this without your help.  Website: https://www.philosophizethis.org/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/philosophizethis  Social: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/philosophizethispodcast X: https://twitter.com/iamstephenwest Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/philosophizethisshow

    05 - Lost in Nature - Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

    05 - Lost in Nature - Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

    Our brave adventurers step off of the beaten path and find themselves lost in nature. They discuss spoilers that precede movies and books like Star Wars and Harry Potter. They then have a discussion about Meditations by Marcus Aurelius (00:15:18), which they break down into six themes: Nature (00:23:41), Compassion (00:33:42), Character and Virtue (00:43:18), Training the Mind and thoughts (00:49:18), Simplicity and Essentialism (00:57:34). Once they find their place in the universe, our adventurers bravely look ahead to next episode’s adventure - American Beauty by Sam Mendes (01:10:10).

     

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    #18 – Stoicism as an Operating System For Life

    #18 – Stoicism as an Operating System For Life

    In this episode, Virgil goes over the philosophy of Stoicism from past to present. In this episode, Virgil goes into the history of stoicism and some of the major philosophers within the tradition and their contributions to the philosophy. Virgil then goes into the basic fundamentals of stoicism and its application for life and how it can be used as a modern day guide to living a good life. The episode concludes with a look into how stoicism has influenced other people in history to use the fundamentals of stoicism to create something that can help all types of people. As Seneca said, "It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it." What are you waiting for? Now is the time to examine your life and change for the better!

     

    How Are You Still Not Doing This?

    How Are You Still Not Doing This?
    Saint Athanasius of Alexandria wrote in Vita Antonii that the reason he did his journaling--his confessing, as the genre was called by the Christians--was that it was a safeguard against sinning. By observing and then writing about his own behavior, he was able to hold himself accountable and make himself better. “Let us each note and write down our actions and impulses of the soul,” he wrote, “as though we were to report them to each other; and you may rest assured that from utter shame of becoming known we shall stop sinning and entertaining sinful thoughts altogether...Just as we would not give ourselves to lust within sight of each other so if we were to write down our thoughts as if telling them to each other, we shall so much the more guard ourselves against foul thoughts for shame of being known. Now, then, let the written account stand for the eyes of our fellow ascetics, so that blushing at writing the same as if we were actually seen, we may never ponder evil.” The Stoics journaled for much the same reason. Seneca said the key was to put the day up for review so that one could see their faults and find a way to mend them. Epictetus said that by writing, reading and speaking our philosophical journal, we keep the teachings top of mind and are better able to follow them. Marcus, of course, said less on the subject of journaling, but left us the greatest lesson of all: his example. When you pick up Meditations, what you see is a man confessing, debating, considering, and struggling with all of what it means to be human. Marcus said in one of his notes that he should “fight to be the person philosophy made you.” His journal is the play by play of that fight--it’s his battles with his temper, with his urges, with his fears, even with his mortality. It took a lot of work, but from what we know, he won most of those battles. Through his writing and his philosophy, light prevailed over darkness. It’s a grand tradition and an inspiring example that each of us is called to follow. The Daily Stoic Journal is one way to do that. It prompts you to prepare for the day ahead and review the day just past. It gives you big questions to consider and standards to guide yourself towards. A blank notebook can work too. So can a letter or an email to a friend. So can a silent conversation with yourself on a long walk. The point is, you have to do the work. You have to put up the safeguards. You have to actively fight to be the person philosophy wants you to be...in the pages of your journal. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.