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    The REAL Cure for Heartache (It’s Not What You Think)

    enSeptember 19, 2016
    What should you focus on during heartache?
    How can progress aid in personal growth?
    What does Stephen Covey suggest for effective habits?
    What type of projects should you channel your energy into?
    How can you reignite interest after a breakup?

    Podcast Summary

    • Focus on progress towards goals instead of avoiding painChannel energy into purposeful projects to heal from heartache and make progress towards life goals

      Instead of trying to numb yourself from heartache by staying busy or distracted, focus on making progress towards your goals. While it's tempting to avoid pain, this is not a long-term solution. Instead, channel your energy into projects that give you purpose and contribute to your life goals. This sense of accomplishment and progress will help you move forward and ultimately heal from heartache. Additionally, if you find yourself in a situation where a guy goes cold on you, don't despair. Stay tuned to learn exactly what to say to reignite his interest.

    • Focus on personal growth during a breakupInstead of reacting to a breakup, focus on personal growth by setting small goals that align with your values.

      During a breakup, it's essential to focus on what's important for personal growth instead of just reacting to the urgency of the situation. This approach, inspired by Stephen Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, can help you feel a sense of progress and gradually overshadow the pain with excitement for your life. If you don't have major life goals at the moment, start small by focusing on something that aligns with your values and can bring a sense of purpose, such as taking a cycling class or improving your health. The goal is not to eliminate pain entirely but to lessen it and make progress towards your personal growth.

    • Making progress in areas of life can help alleviate feelings of heartbreak and painIdentify goals and take actions to move forward for progress and happiness, assess worthiness of men before attempting reconnection, visit love life podcast.com/texts for resources.

      Focusing on making progress in areas of your life where you feel stuck or unhappy can help alleviate feelings of heartbreak and pain. Instead of seeking distractions, identify your goals and take actions to move forward. Progress is the key to feeling like you're making the most out of your life. Additionally, if you're looking to reignite a man's interest after he's pulled away, consider using one of the nine magic texts outlined in the free guide "9 Magic Texts No Man Can Resist." Remember, it's important to assess whether the man is worth your time and energy before attempting to reconnect. For more information and resources, visit love life podcast.com/texts. While life may be challenging, making progress and working together can help make it a little easier each day.

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