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    This Scientist Says One Emotion Might Be the Key to Happiness. Can You Guess What It Is? | Dacher Keltner

    enJanuary 16, 2023

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    • Exploring the Power of Awe in Everyday LifeCultivating awe by appreciating natural beauty and collective effervescence can have a positive impact on our well-being, reducing stress, increasing social cohesion, and improving immune system function. Awe is accessible to us all and can be practiced through simple strategies.

      Finding awe in everyday life can transform your life by changing your sense of self and your relationship with the world. Awe is characterized by a profound capacity to wonder at the vast mysteries of life, and it is different from other primal emotions like fear. Awe can be experienced by exposure to natural beauty, sensations of collective effervescence, moral beauty, and more. Awe can promote positive psychological and physiological changes in your well-being, including reduced stress levels, increased social cohesion, and better immune system function. The book Awe, the New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life by Dacher Keltner offers eight simple strategies for mainlining awe in our everyday lives.

    • Awe, Morality, and Gratitude: The Interconnected TriadAwe helps us feel connected to something larger than ourselves, promoting pro-social values and gratitude. Accessible through nature and music, it is foundational to morality and happiness.

      Awe and morality are interconnected, with awe helping us realize that we are part of something larger than ourselves, such as meaningful groups and ecosystems. Awe quiets egoism and entitlement, and instead helps us feel connected to a larger purpose. This sense of collective and connectedness is foundational to morality. While the pro-social benefits of awe are robust, it doesn't guarantee that individuals won't remain self-centered or stuck in tribal silos. Awe can be accessed through various modalities, such as nature and music, and can help us appreciate and express gratitude for the people who give us things. Gratitude is central to the science of happiness and to our moral lives.

    • The Power of Experiencing Awe in Human BehaviorExperiencing awe can bring out the best in us, making us more cooperative and altruistic. It can be cultivated by exposing ourselves to beauty and mystery. However, misuse of awe can also have devastating effects.

      Experiencing awe can activate the better angels of human nature. Research has shown that living in urban environments with more awe and beauty can make people more civil and cooperative. Experiencing awe at festivals or through psychedelic experiences can lead to altruistic tendencies that last for up to a year. However, awe can also be put to problematic uses, as seen in the Rwandan genocide. Awe is different from fear and beauty, and is characterized by encountering vast mysteries that one's current knowledge cannot explain. Experiencing awe can be cultivated in our lives, for example, by looking at art.

    • The Physiology of Awe and its Connection to Kindness and TogethernessFeeling awe not only has a psychological impact but also a physiological one. The warmth in the chest, tears, and goosebumps all signify kindness, togetherness, and open-heartedness towards others.

      Awe is not just about recognizing vast and mysterious things, it is also a physiological response in our bodies. The warm chest feeling of awe is due to the activation of the vagus nerve, which not only influences breathing, heart rate, and digestion but also correlates with feeling open to others, empathy, and kindness. Tears during moments of awe come from the lacrimal gland and signal pro-social kindness. Goosebumps during awe are a sign of togetherness and leaning into each other. Different physiological responses associated with horror show that goosebumps are distinct from shuddering. Spiritual traditions write about goosebumps during mystical experiences. Whitman recognized that our sense of goodness and awe is in the body.

    • Finding Awe: The Key to Happiness and Coping with GriefAwe challenges us to interpret our deep experiences and finding awe in nature, moral beauty, collective activities, music, art, and contemplation can bring wonders back. Take 10 minutes a day to find awe and improve happiness and cope with grief.

      Finding awe is the key to happiness and the good life, according to Dacher Keltner. 41% of Americans find the divine or what is part of their soul in nature. Awe challenges us to interpret our deep experiences, whether it's about divinity, God, soul or appreciation of evolution. Finding awe can give us a roadmap to cope with grief and bring wonders back, as there are eight realms where we can find awe: moral beauty of people and nature, collective stuff like sports or dance, music and art, contemplation and spiritual practice, and big ideas about life and death. Practically, readers can think about where they can find 10 minutes of awe a day.

    • Finding Purpose and Resilience through AweAwe experiences can help guide individuals towards their purpose and make them more resilient to stress. Reflecting on past experiences and seeking out new forms of awe can provide meaning in times of crisis.

      The key to happiness is finding meaning and purpose in life, which can be discovered through experiences of awe. Awe can serve as a compass for life, guiding individuals towards their defining set of purposes and making them more resilient to stress. Awe can be found in various forms of beauty, especially the moral beauty and kindness of other people. Young people today may be experiencing a crisis of meaning given the current climate and pressures. It is important to reflect on experiences of awe and what they have taught us, as well as to explore different pathways to experience more awe in life.

    • The Power of Moral Beauty and Collective Effervescence.Take time to reflect on personal examples of moral beauty and seek out culturally significant stories that inspire. Curate morally inspiring content, seek shared experiences, tap into collective humanity, and cultivate a sense of awe and wonder in life.

      We are awestruck by moral beauty and deeply intuitive about the goodness of others. To operationalize this advice, reflect on personal examples of moral beauty and seek out culturally significant stories that inspire. In the digital age, we can curate our content to include morally inspiring stories and avoid getting caught in angry algorithms. Awe and collective effervescence are deep instincts that can be found in surprising ways, from yoga to chance contacts with others in public spaces. By seeking out and experiencing these moments together, we can tap into our collective humanity and cultivate a sense of awe and wonder in our lives.

    • The Power and Pitfalls of Collective EmotionsBalancing heart and head in our collective discourse around emotions is necessary to ensure that it serves the greater good, and connecting with nature can deepen our understanding and awe of the world.

      Collective effervescence, or the sense of common cause that arises from shared experiences, can be a powerful force for human connection and positive emotions. However, it is important to remember that this tendency can also be turned towards the dark side, as seen in instances like Nazi rallies or violent sports events. Emotions like awe and gratitude are important, but relying solely on them as a moral compass can lead us into trouble. For this reason, it is important to approach collective discourse around emotion with both the heart and the head, in order to determine whether it is serving the greater good. Additionally, reconnecting with nature and our relationship to ecosystems can help us cultivate a deeper sense of awe and understanding of the world around us.

    • The Healing Powers of Nature and MusicSpending time in nature and listening to music daily can have significant health benefits, including reducing stress and increasing a sense of connection and identity. Incorporating natural environments and music into our daily lives can inspire awe and positively impact our overall well-being.

      Spending time in nature has several health benefits like calming the immune system, cortisol, stress-related regions of the brain like the amygdala, increasing life expectancy and helping kids with their physical and mental robustness. Natural awe can be found in greening of cities, building parts back into urban areas, farmer's markets and local gardens. Music has a powerful impact on people's emotions and can create pleasant physical reactions like goosebumps or vibrations. Listening to music daily can be a source of awe, and it unites people into a sense of group, meaning, and identity. Chanting, coral features and expanding sounds in music can bring out awe and register in our bodies.

    • The Power of Awe in Visual Design and Personal ExperiencesAwe can be found in the patterns of beautiful objects, nature, and moral beauty. Listening to music and practicing awe walks can help experience awe. Epiphanies can provide an understanding of life's purpose.

      Visual design, including patterns found in art, craft, and even machines, can elicit awe in individuals. Awe can come from recognizing the interconnected, vast, and complicated patterns in beautiful objects or environments. It is not solely a religious emotion, as it can be found in encounters with moral beauty and nature. Emerson and William James emphasized the importance of finding spiritual awe in personal experiences rather than solely through religion. One way to experience awe is to listen to music that brings awe for one song a day. Practicing awe walking can also be beneficial. Epiphanies can help individuals understand the big point of existence.

    • Finding Mystical Experiences in Everyday LifeWhether it be through religion, nature, meditation, or grief, finding the primary goodness in life is a universal challenge. Rituals of grieving can keep loved ones alive in memory and generate awe, despite the pain they bring.

      Mystical experiences can be found in any religion, through meditation or yoga, in beauty and nature, or even taking laughing gas. It's a challenge for people to find what's fundamentally primary and good about life. Americans often find it in nature, while others find it in things like coral singing, studying awe, and grieving a loved one's loss. Rituals of grieving are important for collectively reflecting over time, and reflecting on the life of a loved one who has passed can generate awe. Painful and hard as it may be, it brings the person's life into the present and keeps them alive in memory.

    • A Materialist Scientist's Spiritual JourneyEven those who identify as materialist scientists can benefit from exploring spirituality and being open to new experiences.

      The speaker went on a journey to keep the memory of his lost companion alive and make sense of it. He had mystical experiences like feeling his voice in the sky and his hand on his back. He attended yoga and spiritual retreats, including one in India, which was a mind-blowing experience, where he meditated on different spiritual traditions and did walking meditations. Through the journey, he found his spirituality and saw the importance of being open-minded to it, even as a materialist scientist. The journey also took him to volunteering in prisons and hiking around Mont Blanc. At the end of the retreat, he had a deep walking meditation experience.

    • Understanding Epiphanies and Their Importance in LifeEpiphanies are sudden realizations that help us understand the fundamental truths of the world around us. They offer a humbling perspective on our identity, consciousness, and place in complicated systems like families, societies, and histories.

      Epiphanies are sudden realizations that occur when our default expectations about the world or our life cannot explain what we see or think about. They are where you start to see the systems of life, like the ecosystem, religious system, or economic system. These big ideas, which we care about as individuals, help us open our minds to the compass. Epiphanies are essential as they provide us with more fundamental truths. Understanding the cause and effect of everything happening around us gives us the realization that our identity, consciousness, and strivings are parts of complicated systems such as families, neighborhoods, societies, and histories. This understanding is humbling as it makes us understand our place in the world.

    • Understanding Our Place in the World Can Empower UsTaking a step back from our self-focused lives and cultivating a sense of awe towards the world around us can alleviate stress, depression, and anxiety, and help us to understand our place in the larger system of forces.

      Our lives are part of a vast web of forces, and understanding this can make us feel humbled, free, and empowered. Simplistically, we are too self-focused, which is costing us and the world. Young people, especially, are too self-focused, which leads to depression, anxiety, self-harm, and eating issues. To counter this trend, we need to take breaks, get out into nature, and move towards the gifts of moral beauty. We need to cultivate awe to expand our understanding of the self and the world around us. By doing this, we can alleviate the pressure we feel and think beyond ourselves towards the broader system of forces we are a part of.

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    It’s likely uncontroversial to assert that Jennifer Senior is one of our finest living journalists. She’s currently a staff writer at The Atlantic and before that she spent many years at the New York Times and New York magazine. Jennifer’s written on a vast array of topics, but she has a special knack for writing articles about the human condition that go massively, massively, viral. One such hit was a lengthy and extremely moving piece for The Atlantic that won a Pulitzer Prize. It was about a young man who died on 9/11, and the wildly varying ways in which his loved ones experienced grief. That article, called “What Bobby McIlvaine Left Behind,” has now been turned into a book called, On Grief: Love, Loss, Memory.


    In this interview, we spend a lot of time talking about this truly fascinating yarn, but we also talk about her other articles: one about an eminent happiness researcher who died by suicide, another about why friendships often break up, and a truly delightful recent piece about the puzzling gap between how old we are and how old we think we are. Jennifer has also written a book about parenting, called All Joy and No Fun which we also reference a few times throughout.


    In this episode we talk about:

    • Jennifer’s perspective on the Bobby McIlvaine story 
    • Lesser known theories of grieving from Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
    • The work involved in finding meaning in loss
    • Why – from an evolutionary standpoint – we hurt so badly when we lose someone we love
    • Commitment and sacrifice
    • The puzzling gap between how old you are and how old you think you are
    • The power and perils of friendship
    • Why Jennifer has chosen to focus so much of her writing on relationships


    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/jennifer-senior-583

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    The Dalai Lama’s Guide to Happiness | Part 1

    The Dalai Lama’s Guide to Happiness | Part 1

    Dan flies to Dharamsala, India to spend two weeks in the orbit of His Holiness the Dalai Lama. This is the first installment of a five-part audio documentary series, something we’ve never done before now. Over the course of the episodes, we talk to His Holiness about practical strategies for thorny dilemmas, including: how to get along with difficult people; whether compassion can cut it in an often brutal world; why there is a self-interested case for not being a jerk; and how to create social connection in an era of disconnection. We also get rare insights from the Dalai Lama into everything from the mechanics of reincarnation to His Holiness’s own personal mediation practice. 


    In this first installment, Dan watches as a young activist directly challenges His Holiness: In a world plagued by climate change, terrorism, and other existential threats, is the Dalia Lama’s message of compassion practical — or even relevant? 


    Full Show Notes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/dalai-lama-guide-538


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    Wise Selfishness | Part 3 of The Dalai Lama's Guide to Happiness

    Wise Selfishness | Part 3 of The Dalai Lama's Guide to Happiness

    How can we get better at selfishness? That’s one of many fascinating topics we cover in this episode, in which we play snippets from Dan’s one-on-one interview with His Holiness, and then unpack it all with Dr. Richard Davidson, neuroscientist and founder of the Center for Healthy Minds. We talk to His Holiness about “wise selfishness,” how to handle our enemies, and whether he ever gets angry. Then Richie recounts a time when His Holiness exhibited a rare flash of anger— towards him, in fact.


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    The Buddha’s Eight Part Recipe for Happiness | DaRa Williams

    The Buddha’s Eight Part Recipe for Happiness | DaRa Williams

    This episode kicks off our series on the Eightfold Path which will continue on Wednesdays for the next two weeks with Eugene Cash and Joseph Goldstein.


    DaRa Williams is a trainer, meditation teacher and psychotherapist and has been a meditator for the past 25 years. She is a practitioner of both Vipassana and Ascension meditation and is a graduate of the Spirit Rock/Insight Meditation Society Teacher Training Program and is an IMS Emeritus Guiding Teacher. 


    In this episode we talk about:


    • The first two components of the Eightfold Path: Right View and Right Thinking
    • How the Eightfold Path has played out in DaRa’s life 
    • The notions of Intuition, Clear Seeing, and Openness 
    • And the very tricky skills of renunciation and fostering non-attachment to outcomes


    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/dara-williams-592

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