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    What To Do When You Find Your Daughter’s Vibrator

    enJuly 08, 2020

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    • Embrace the Passion of Summer with Promescent's Sex Enhancement ProductsPromescent's delay spray and warming arousal gel enhance pleasure during summer. The Magic Wand is a must-try sex toy, and good communication and self-confidence are essential for a satisfying sex life. Resources like Sex with Emily and Jennifer Fried's astrology book offer valuable insights.

      Summer is the season of passion and pleasure, and Promescent's line of sex enhancement products can help enhance the experience. The legendary delay spray allows men to last longer, while the warming arousal gel adds an extra layer of pleasure for women. The Magic Wand, a cultural icon and symbol of unapologetic pleasure, is also mentioned as a must-try sex toy. Additionally, good communication and self-confidence are essential for a satisfying sex life, and resources like Sex with Emily and Jennifer Fried's astrology book can provide valuable insights. Overall, the discussion emphasizes the importance of embracing pleasure and sexual liberation in all aspects of life.

    • The Importance of Mindfulness in Intimate Moments and LifePractice mindfulness daily to engage fully with life, focus on senses during intimate moments, and be thoughtful to avoid harm in current astrological alignment.

      Being mindful, or present in the moment, is an essential practice for engaging fully with life and building deeper connections. Jen shared her personal experience with mindfulness, emphasizing its importance during challenging times, such as the COVID-19 pandemic. She described mindfulness as a daily practice of returning to the present moment, acknowledging that the mind often drifts to the past or future. A helpful tip for practicing mindfulness during intimate moments is to focus on the senses, allowing yourself to fully experience the sensations and emotions present in the moment. Additionally, with the current astrological alignment, the theme for the month is being thoughtful instead of hasty to avoid unintended harm or hurt to others.

    • Astrological tips for improving sexual experiences in JulyEach zodiac sign has unique sexual traits and tendencies during July, providing specific tips for individuals to enhance their sexual experiences and relationships.

      Taking a pause and being mindful is essential in all aspects of life, including sexual relationships. According to astrologer Jennifer Fried, each zodiac sign has unique sexual traits and tendencies during the month of July. Aries should cool down before acting aggressively, Taurus should be patient and sultry, Gemini should be clear and decisive about their desires, Leo should engage in passionate conversations, Virgo should practice planned hedonism, Libra should listen to others' needs, Scorpio should innovate and restrain, Sagittarius should find safe play areas, Capricorn should embrace their power, Aquarius should lure people with charm and kinkiness, and Pisces should take time out for self-care. Fried's astrosex forecast offers specific tips for each sign, helping individuals improve their sexual experiences and relationships. Additionally, Fried shared her personal experience of practicing kissing as a child, which she believes contributed to her being a good kisser. Overall, the discussion emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, communication, and intentionality in sexual relationships.

    • The Art of Kissing: Connection and PassionBeing a good kisser involves responsiveness and engagement, with elements like nibbling and nose rubbing. Prioritize connection and curiosity in relationships to foster intimacy and understanding.

      A good kiss is about connection and passion. Adrienne Hodge emphasizes that being a good kisser involves being responsive and engaging in an exchange, not just being passive or forceful. She also suggests incorporating elements like nibbling and nose rubbing to make the experience more sensual and intimate. Astrologer Jennifer Racioppi adds that we should prioritize connection and curiosity in our relationships, especially during challenging times. She encourages us to ask questions and consider others' perspectives to foster understanding and intimacy. Ultimately, the art of kissing and building meaningful connections requires vulnerability, passion, and a willingness to listen and learn from one another.

    • Communication challenges during Mercury retrogradeBe cautious with emails and contracts, prioritize self-reflection, invest in sexuality, and seek pleasure for improved mood and well-being during Mercury retrograde.

      During Mercury retrograde, communication can be tricky and unpredictable. It's important to be extra cautious when sending emails or signing contracts, as mistakes can easily occur. However, this period can also be seen as an opportunity for self-reflection and investing in one's sexuality and imagination. Sex and intimacy can provide a sense of freedom and connection during uncertain times. Additionally, prioritizing pleasure and setting aside time for lovemaking can improve mood and overall well-being. Despite the challenges, Mercury retrograde can be seen as a reminder to be mindful, patient, and adaptable.

    • Exploring natural pain relief and pleasure through orgasms and Hero BreadOrgasms can provide pain relief and release feel-good hormones, while Hero Bread offers nutritious alternatives to traditional bread without the carb guilt.

      An orgasm can provide natural pain relief and release feel-good hormones, acting as a form of "pain medicine." Orgasms are accessible and free, and can be interspersed with other activities for enhanced pleasure and well-being. Dr. Jennifer Fried, a sex and relationship expert, encourages open communication about sex and emphasizes the importance of self-care and exploring different methods for pain relief and pleasure. Additionally, Hero Bread offers a solution for those who want to enjoy bread without the carb guilt. Their bread products have impressive nutritional stats, including 0 to 1 net carbs per serving, 0 grams of sugar, and are high in fiber and protein. Hero Bread's wide range of offerings, from sandwiches to baked goods, make it a versatile option for those with health goals. For parents, it's important to have open and honest conversations about sex with their children, even if it's uncomfortable. Dr. Fried suggests being honest and empathetic when discussing the topic, and acknowledging that it can be difficult for parents as well.

    • Having open and honest conversations about sex with childrenCreate a safe space, discuss pleasure, consent, and advocacy, listen and learn, and remember children may already have knowledge.

      Having open and honest conversations with our children about sex is crucial. It's important to create a safe and non-judgmental space where they feel comfortable sharing their experiences and exploring their bodies. Rather than focusing on fear and safety, we should also discuss pleasure, consent, and advocating for our own needs. We don't have to be experts, but we can listen, learn, and grow together. It's essential to remember that our children may already have more knowledge than we did at their age and that we can learn from them as well. By being honest and sharing our own experiences, we can help them navigate this complex topic and prevent them from experiencing harmful relationships and misunderstandings in the future.

    • Open communication about sex education and self-loveEncourage daughters to ask questions, share experiences, and advocate for themselves. Ongoing conversations about sex and self-love are essential for raising confident and healthy individuals.

      Open and ongoing communication about sex education and self-love is crucial for raising confident and healthy daughters. Parents should encourage their daughters to ask questions, share their experiences, and advocate for themselves. It's essential to remember that these conversations are ongoing and you might find yourself discussing various topics, including sex, as you would other important matters. In a different context, Jim from Colorado shared his dilemma about his past relationship with a woman who is now pregnant, and he's unsure about his role in the situation. The experts advised him to have an open and honest conversation with her to understand her feelings and make a decision based on what's best for all parties involved. Overall, the importance of open communication and education cannot be overstated when it comes to raising confident and healthy individuals.

    • Having a crucial conversation about a life decisionWhen facing a significant life decision, have an open and honest conversation with your partner, consider your desires, express concerns, and take notes for clarity.

      When faced with a significant life decision involving a partner, it's essential to have an open and honest conversation. The speaker in this discussion is dealing with his girlfriend's unexpected pregnancy, and they have not been deeply in love or living together. He feels terrified and unsure about his role in the situation. The speaker advises listening carefully and having a dialogue, even if the other person has not expressed a firm decision yet. It's crucial to consider what one truly wants in their life and express any concerns honestly. The speaker also suggests taking notes during the conversation to ensure clarity and understanding. Ultimately, the decision may surprise both parties, and it's essential to approach the situation with compassion and honesty.

    • Navigating sexual compatibility issues with care and opennessApproach sensitive topics slowly, focus on understanding, and maintain open communication, empathy, and patience for a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship.

      Open communication and vulnerability are crucial in navigating sexual compatibility issues with a partner. However, it's essential to approach sensitive topics like fantasies or new desires slowly and with care, taking the time to unpack their meaning and implications. The sudden revelation of a partner's bisexuality or kinky past, for instance, might be confusing or threatening if not handled delicately. Instead of trying to turn a partner back to their old ways, focus on understanding their current feelings and working together to find a solution that respects both partners' needs and boundaries. Communication, empathy, and patience are key in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship.

    • Having open conversations about expectations, desires, and boundaries in intimacy relationshipsCommunication is key in maintaining pleasure and intimacy in relationships, requiring ongoing conversations about expectations, desires, and boundaries.

      Prioritizing pleasure is crucial in any relationship, especially when it comes to intimacy. It's essential to have open and ongoing conversations with your partner about your expectations, desires, and boundaries. Remember, these conversations aren't a one-time event but an ongoing process. Tune in to Sex with Emily on SiriusXM Stars from Monday through Friday, 5 to 7 PM Pacific for more enlightening sex talk, calls, and segments. You can also connect with Sex with Emily on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook for more insights and resources. Don't forget to share your feedback at sexwithemily.com.

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