4 Things with Amy Brown

Leanne is back as we conclude our deep dive into the Paradox of Worthiness. In this final episode of the series, she unravels the concept of "Self-Endorsement" and explores this idea that it's possible for you to value your own opinion of yourself and God’s opinion of you more so (even just a little bit more so) than someone else’s opinion of you. And how THAT can liberate you from the constant need for external validation.

Self-Endorsement is truly about standing confidently in who you are, but more so who God says you are, and seeking approval from God, rather than relying solely on others' opinions. Leanne encourages you to break free from society's definition of approval and external validation, renew your mind, and invite God into the process through prayer. 

As she wraps up this series, the invitation is clear: explore a new perspective, be patient with yourself, and trust the unfolding journey of self-discovery as you identify what you need for your head, heart, and spirit.

HOST: @LeanneEllington

To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com

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OUTWEIGH: Welcome to the "The Redefine to Align" Series, a new 4 part series here on Outweigh where we are going to dive headfirst into the transformative journey of redefining typical words or paradigms in our lives that might NOT be aligning us in the direction we WANT to go.

Amy and Leanne are here to help you navigate the challenging landscape of the holiday season, where societal pressures and external expectations often dictate your sense of accomplishment, and this first episode was designed to be a source of hope and inspiration to redefine YOUR own definitions of success.

Their goal is simply to challenge the conventional notions tied to success, unraveling the 'typical' narratives that are tied to success -- things like weight loss, food choices, and exercise metrics  -- that often overshadow the intrinsic value within each of us, and take us OUT of alignment. 

By examining these subtle yet profound shifts in your mindset, what would happen if you detached from external validations and began cultivating a more authentic definition of success —-- one that resonates from YOU and where you are in your journey? THAT is the journey they are inviting you into. 

HOST: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy
HOST: Leanne Ellington // @leanneellington // StresslessEating.com

To learn more about re-wiring your brain to heal from the all-or-nothing diet mentality for good....but WITHOUT restricting yourself, punishing your body, (and definitely WITHOUT ever having to use words like macros, low-carb, or calorie burn) check out Leanne's FREE Stressless Eating Webinar @ www.StresslessEating.com

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PART 2 of Amy's chat with Camille Alston is less on business and more on Camille's personal life. Specifically, the loss of her father and how he's very much still with her, guiding her in spirit. Amy also shares a clear sign her mom sent her from the other side just the other day and they chat about so much more. If you missed PART 1 (more on the start of Camille's business) check out last Thursday's episode: 'Nobody Really Knows What They're Doing.' 

Speaking of Camille's business, 2 days after last week's episode aired, a tornado hit her warehouse and she has since had to close up shop. Below is a note from her website on what to expect & how you can still support this amazing small business if you'd like. 

From N.B. Goods Website:

HI FRIENDS. UNFORTUNATELY OUR WAREHOUSE & INVENTORY TOOK A DIRECT HIT IN THE TORNADO. WE WILL BE CLOSED WHILE WE ASSESS THINGS. ALTHOUGH OUR GOODS ARE GOOD, THEY ARE STILL JUST THINGS. WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR OUR SAFETY AND THINKING OF OUR NEIGHBORS WHO WERE NOT AS FORTUNATE. WE ARE DOWN BUT NOT OUT. UR HOPE IS TO RETURN IN EARLY 2024. IF YOU’D LIKE TO SUPPORT US BY PURCHASING A GIFT CARD YOU CAN DO SO HERE!

HOST: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

GUEST: Camille Alston // @shopNBgoods // shopNBgoods.com

hello@shopnbgoods.com

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Leanne is back to continue exploring this complex topic of worthiness, diving into the paradox of feeling worthy when you DON'T feel worthy. Once again Leanne talks about the 5 Blocks to God’s love, originally introduced as a 'Self-Imaging' formula, and how these blocks, if not addressed, can hinder your experience of love and worthiness.

This episode focuses on the fourth ingredient and God block: Self-Esteem, where she teaches about understanding Self-Esteem as more than just confidence, but a profound interplay of "knowing, liking, and trusting" yourself.

She explores this concept that most people are walking around very untrusting of themselves, because somewhere along the lines they stopped believing themselves when they made promises to themselves. And this causes them to not only STOP trusting themselves, but to also LOSE respect for themselves, believing themselves less and less the NEXT time they commit to something. And THAT is what damages your Self-Esteem. 

She takes you on a deep-dive of how to repair your integrity if you've gotten into the habit of making promises to yourself without actual follow-through. She also shows you how to invite God into this conversation to explore the power of promise-keeping when it comes to restoring your Self-Esteem.

Leanne encourages and invites you to create a new definition of Self-Esteem, only this time around taking your "spiritual integrity" into account and seeking God's perspective on getting back in alignment with yourself WHILE you embrace the concept of taking radical ownership of your own Self-Image...and the spiritual journey towards God-inspired integrity.

HOST: @LeanneEllington

To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.

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Amy & Kat both share how life experiences have helped them have more compassion and understanding for what someone else might be going through. Kat tells us the difference between a complaint and criticism (this is important to know for any relationship!) 

Today's quote: “Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, you'll be a mile from them, and you'll have their shoes." ― Jack Handy

Listener email: Amy read a note from a listener who's had a hard year. Hopefully you feel encouraged after hearing it to have the holiday season you need to have.

HOSTS:
Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

Kat Defatta // @Kat.Defatta // @YouNeedTherapyPodcast // YouNeedTherapyPodcast.com

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OUTWEIGH: Leanne is back to close out our The Truth About Your Fat series, where she takes you on a tour of the 5 categories of fat and fascia that you might have. 

These 5 'types' just further emphasize that fat and fascia are interconnected, and their relationship can impact your overall health and well-being. 

Leanne's goal for this episode is to simplify the often-complex topic for you, making it accessible and relatable, so you can stop fighting your body and, instead, focus on learning how to take care of it and embrace a new, more positive body image. 

The episode is the perfect 'tour' of the multifaceted aspects of fat and fascia and how they influence our overall health and well-being and will hopefully encourage a shift in perspective towards health & self-care and a better understanding of your body's complex mechanisms.

HOST: Leanne Ellington // @leanneellington // StresslessEating.com

To learn more about re-wiring your brain to heal from the all-or-nothing diet mentality for good....but WITHOUT restricting yourself, punishing your body, (and definitely WITHOUT ever having to use words like macros, low-carb, or calorie burn) check out Leanne's FREE Stressless Eating Webinar @ www.StresslessEating.com 

Resources:

Learn From My Mistakes EPISODE

The Cost Of Skinny EPISODE

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PART 1 of Amy's chat with Camille Alston is about 'How I Built This' - Camille made other people’s dreams come true in the music industry for 15 years (managing artists like Kelsea Ballerini & Brett Eldredge) and then she stepped away from her career to follow a passion for classic & witty gender-neutral style. In 2020 she founded N.B. GOODS and people are loving her nostalgia-driven brand that specializes in accessories, apparel, and gifts in Nashville, TN. Her story will encourage you to also chase your dreams & remind you that nobody knows what they're doing.....we're all just figuring it out as we go!

FUN FACT: Camille and Amy were on 'Building Roots' together (season 2, episode 2) when Amy's sister and her husband brought their show to Nashville. If you missed the night it aired on HGTV the episode is called 'A River Runs Through It' and you can stream it on HBO MAX.

PART 2 This will air next week and will focus less on business and more on Camille's personal life (specifically, the loss of her father and how he's very much still with her, guiding her in spirit.) It will air next Thursday. Such a good chat. You won't want to miss it. 

HOST: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

GUEST: Camille Alston // @shopNBgoods // shopNBgoods.com

hello@shopnbgoods.com
725 Porter Road
Nashville Tennessee
37206 United States

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Is it annoying when someone says they're giving 110%? Kat can't stand when people say that, but it doesn't bother Amy. They agree to disagree on this topic, but they both agree that Brene Brown gets it right when she says that in a relationship, it’s never 50/50. Percentage talk came up because of today's quote: “On the days you have only 40%, and you give 40%. You gave 100%.” – Jim Kwik

Back to Brene Brown and relationships...some days one partner may only have 20%, and the other might pick up the slack. Or maybe you and your partner have a combined 40%- and if so, that’s ok! Amy and Kat remind us that we can line up activities that meet you where you are that week. You gave 100%.” – Jim Kwik yourselves! Amy also shares a listener tip for a useful app she found called ‘Just Watch’. It’s a helpful resource to find where your favorite tv shows are playing, so you can find which streaming app you need! Kat and Amy discuss sharing passwords with significant others, and their favorite traditions around the holidays! What foods they like to make and what Christmas movies they like to watch!  Amy and Kat both recommend following @Peaceful_barb if you're not already. She's great! 
 
Have the day you need to have!!

HOSTS:
Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

Kat Defatta // @Kat.Defatta // @YouNeedTherapyPodcast // YouNeedTherapyPodcast.com

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Leanne is back to continue exploring this complex topic of worthiness, diving into the paradox of feeling worthy when you DON'T feel worthy. Once again Leanne talks about the 5 Blocks to God’s love, originally introduced as a 'Self-Imaging' formula, and how these blocks, if not addressed, can hinder your experience of love and worthiness.

This time however, the spotlight turns to the third ingredient and God Block: Self-Worth, as Leanne emphasizes the importance of understanding what you're "weighing and measuring" to define your own worth. She shares personal experiences of tying self-worth SOLELY to external factors like appearance, relationships, and achievement, and how goal-setting can be great, but if that's the ONLY place you are finding your worth, that's where the trouble lies.

Leanne encourages and invites you to create a new definition of self-worth, only this time around taking a "spiritual currency" into account and seeking God's perspective on your divine worth, teaching you how to embrace the concept of taking radical ownership of your own Self-Image... while inviting God into the process as your co-pilot and divine partner.

HOST: @LeanneEllington

To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.

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This is a fun 'bonus episode' with Amy & Jackie, a co-worker + friend that has all the good finds (at reasonable prices too!) when it comes to GIFTS for all the people in your life that you're shopping for. There is a GIVEAWAY too...full of amazing goodies you can win by listening...it's valued at well over $500 and you will want to win this!

Jackie's IG: @jaclyncaldwell_

Gift Guides: Jackie's SHOPMY Gift Guide - Jackie's Amazon Gift Guide

Biopelle Discount Code - HAPPY for 25% off -Tensage 40 Snail Serum is Amy's favorite treatment. She also uses their Radiance Eye Cream. They're also launching eye patches soon (good stocking stuffer for moms!) Just go to Biopelle.com and enter code HAPPY to save 25%

Kitsch Discount Code - AMYBROWN15 for 15% off! Satin Pillow Case is Amy's favorite. She also loves the creaseless hair clips, and the scrunchies.This LINK will automatically apply the discount or if you're shopping later at MyKitsch.com just enter code AMYBROWN15 to save 15%

Other Gift Idea Links: NB Goods (we looooooove their trucker hats & crew socks!!) Getaway House (such a cool "EXPERIENCE" gift idea!) Marlow Pillow (Amy swears by this pillow!) Root House Coffee (there's other gifts on the site besides coffee) Skin Deep Friends (conversation starters for friends) Skin Deep Couples (conversation cards for couples to deepen relationship)

Gifts That Give Back to Haiti: Star Necklace, 4 Things Gratitude Journal (You can also just go to ShopEspwa.com for all kinds of gifts that give back to Haiti)

Items in the GIVEAWAY: Biopelle snail serum, Eye patches, ZO skincare products, Root House coffee, NB Goods trucker Hat (wild heart rodeo hat in camo/brown) Olive & june nail polish, MixHers, Emergency Confetti, 4 things tote, Fable & Mane hair oil, Eye cream, Nutrafol for hair growth, Marlow pillow, Kitsch satin pillowcase + SO MANY other little Kitsch products, Visa gift card, Starbucks gift card.
*listen to find out how to enter and win this awesome giveaway*

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OUTWEIGH: Leanne is back for Part 3 of The Truth About Your Fat, where she covers:

A deeper look at the importance of understanding and accepting your body, including your fat and fascia, rather than shaming or blaming it.

A deep-dive into the interconnectedness of fat and fascia within our bodies and their roles in the nervous system, endocrine function, and sensory capabilities.

She introduces to you to 3 amazing experts who have been Leanne's teachers over the years, and have dedicated their lives to studying and educating people about the nervous system, fat, and fascia. 

Leanne's goal is to empower you to take care of your body (and this includes your fat and fascia), and to help you unravel the mysteries of body fat and fascia to help you improve your overall well-being and relationship with your body.

HOST: Leanne Ellington // @leanneellington // StresslessEating.com

To learn more about re-wiring your brain to heal from the all-or-nothing diet mentality for good....but WITHOUT restricting yourself, punishing your body, (and definitely WITHOUT ever having to use words like macros, low-carb, or calorie burn) check out Leanne's FREE Stressless Eating Webinar @ www.StresslessEating.com 

Resources:

Dr. Cobb's Z-Health Education: https://zhealtheducation.com/
Thomas Myers Anatomy Trains: https://www.anatomytrains.com/

Ashley Black's Fasciablaster:  https://fasciablaster.com/

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Financial expert, Rachel Cruze, joins Amy to talk about her new book I'm Glad For What I Have. “It’s ok to have nice stuff, just don’t let your stuff have you” is something Rachel often says, so it was important for her to write this book to spark meaningful conversations with kids about entitlement and contentment. 

Amy & Rachel also talk about the top things we get wrong about money, creative side hustles, money ‘trends’ that are draining our bank accounts, when to discuss money when dating, and recommendations for listeners (especially women) who need to ask for a raise. 

ABOUT RACHEL:

Rachel is a two-time #1 national bestselling author (Know Yourself Know Your Money and Love Your Life Not Theirs: 7 Money Habits For Loving The Life You Want.) She's also the Host of The Rachel Cruze Show and co-host of Smart Money Happy Hour.

HOST:

Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

GUEST:

Rachel Cruze // @rachelcruze (Instagram, Twitter (X) & TikTok)

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Join us as Leanne continues to explore the complex topic of worthiness, diving into the paradox of feeling worthy when you DON'T feel worthy. Once again Leanne talks about the 5 Blocks to God’s love, originally introduced as a 'Self-Imaging' formula, and how these blocks, if not addressed, can hinder your experience of love and worthiness.

This time however, the spotlight turns to the second ingredient and God Block: Self-Care, as Leanne challenges 'conventional' views of health by emphasizing a 3-dimensional approach—mental, emotional, and spiritual care—as the foundation for physical well-being. She encourages you to redefine health and self-care, while inviting God into the journey and addressing the cultural misconceptions that often lead to harmful practices, and she paints a picture of shifting from the world's take on health...to a more all-encompassing, God-centered one.

It's time to toss out the one-size-fits-all approach, and figure out your unique recipe for health and well-being. But this time around: inviting God in as your Divine Partner. 

HOST: @LeanneEllington

To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.

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Is watching TV together the lowest form of intimacy? Amy & Kat break down a comment made by Jay Shetty about TV being the lowest form of intimacy for couples. Kat reminds us that this blanket statement has the potential to make people feel shame or question what is working for them in their relationship. Depending on what you both enjoy, tv watching might be a great way for you to connect with your significant other! When an expert shares something like this, approach it like an idea, not a fact. Kat shares that she loves watching shows and also listening to audiobooks with her fiancé while they are on a walk together. They might not be talking in those moments, but they are still enjoying something together and it leads to conversations afterwards. Amy and Kat also chat about some recent health scares they’ve both had, including Amy’s rash on her temples, and Kat’s confession of having 11 cavities after not going to the dentist for 5 years! PSA: Flossing is important! Don’t skip it!

Today’s Quote is from a sign in someone’s front yard: “I love you. You are probably thinking you don’t even know me, but if people can hate for no reason, I can love for no reason.” Kat is considering putting a little sign outside of her therapy practice. Amy suggested putting up a therapy joke: "Why did Waldo go to therapy? To find himself!"

Have the day you need to have!!

HOSTS:
Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

Kat Defatta // @Kat.Defatta // @YouNeedTherapyPodcast // YouNeedTherapyPodcast.com

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OUTWEIGH: In Part 2 of this series, Leanne is back to discuss the often-misunderstood topic of body fat and its relationship with fascia. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and appreciating fat, as it plays a crucial role in the body's functions and should not be stigmatized. 

She also delves into the science behind fat and fascia, breaking it down very simply, but also highlighting how they are not just passive tissues but play active roles in metabolism, hormonal regulation, and more.   She also walks you through how fascia, a connective tissue, can interact with fat, affecting issues such as fat storage and fat loss. 

Leanne's goal is to empower you to take care of your body (and this includes your fat and fascia), and to help you unravel the mysteries of body fat and fascia to help you improve your overall well-being and relationship with your body.

HOST: Leanne Ellington // @leanneellington // StresslessEating.com

To learn more about re-wiring your brain to heal from the all-or-nothing diet mentality for good....but WITHOUT restricting yourself, punishing your body, (and definitely WITHOUT ever having to use words like macros, low-carb, or calorie burn) check out Leanne's FREE Stressless Eating Webinar @ www.StresslessEating.com 

Resources:

Learn From My Mistakes EPISODE

The Cost Of Skinny EPISODE

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This week Kat DeFatta, from You Need Therapy Podcast, is taking over 4 Things in a special Thanksgiving/Holiday inspired episode. FIRST THING: Kat talks about her favorite holiday traditions and what she thought only her family did until she learned on social media that just about everyone engages in this. SECOND THING: Kat brings her fiancé, AKA, Big P into the conversation to process what it has been like to combine families around the holidays. The holidays can be stressful when it comes to the “people pleasers” of the world and Kat reminds us that it is ok to be mindful of what you need as well as others! THIRD THING: Kat shares two of her favorite dessert recipes that will be making an appearance at her holiday get-togethers. FOURTH THING: Kat touches on body image around the holidays! 

Blackberry cobbler recipe

Homemade Chex Mix

You Need Therapy Body Image/ED related episodes:

5 Things to Remember on Thanksgiving

Body Image Talk: With Crystal Lunenschloss MS, RDN, CEDRD, LPN

Is Ozempic A Miracle Drug? with Jamison Worley MS, LDN, RDN, CNS

Diet Culture Lives in the Safe Places with Leslie Schilling

HOST: @Kat.Defatta // @YouNeedTherapyPodcast

Email Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com

Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here!

Have the Thanksgiving you need to have!

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Today’s quote is from NEEDTOBREATHE’s song “Dreams”:

That's why I throw my bones in the rhythm

Sink my teeth in a good time

Whole lot more than a feeling

I could lose

That's I why I brace myself every minute

Trying to hold on tight for a good ride

Fools like us are only here to prove

You make dreams come true

Amy asks the question: when it comes to accomplishing the dreams in your life, where there has been struggle, but you’ve preserved - what comes to mind for you?  

As a follow up to Amy’s conversation with her friend, Jeremiah, last week, Kat gives her thoughts on the 7 Primal Questions: 

• Am I safe? 
• Am I secure? 
• Am I loved? 
• Am I wanted? 
• Am I successful? 
• Am I good enough? 
• Do I have purpose?

Kat’s fiance did something to make her feel insecure when talking in his sleep which leads to a conversation about premarital couples counseling, keeping separate bank accounts, and interdependence (the healthy space between fully independent & co-dependent). 

Email us: 4ThingsWithAmyBrown@gmail.com 

Have the day you need to have!!

HOSTS:
Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

Kat Defatta // @Kat.Defatta // @YouNeedTherapyPodcast // YouNeedTherapyPodcast.com

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In this episode of the "God Pod", Leanne invites you to redefine "surrender" and actively shift from self-reliance to God's guidance. Diving into the first ingredient AND the first "God Block", the focus is on Self-Acceptance as both an ingredient for a loving Self-Image and a potential block to receiving God's love.

Consider this episode a roadmap to recognizing and addressing your own "God Blocks", fostering self-acceptance, and taking practical steps to actually break through the "Paradox of Acceptance"...and how to accept yourself (even with all the messy bits) when you DON'T accept yourself.

HOST: @LeanneEllington

To learn more about Leanne, head over to www.LeanneEllington.com, and to share your thoughts, questions, feedback, or guest suggestions instantly, head on over to www.WhatsGodGotToDoWithIt.com.

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OUTWEIGH: Nowadays fat has a bad rap. We hate it. We fear it. We name it. We blame it. We shame it. Some people will do whatever they can to destroy it and eliminate its "wrath" from their lives. But who ever said that fat was ugly, or something to be ashamed of? And what if you could work WITH it (learn how to actually take care of it on a nervous system level so you can actually get rid of it if that's what you want to do) instead of working AGAINST it? Since it IS such a prevalent "enemy" in today's world, and since it's not going away anytime soon, we might as well learn about it, right? 

Unfortunately no one is talking about that side of it. What you eat and how you move is PART of the equation, but it doesn’t cover the whole picture. Not even close! And I truly believe (and science will back me up!) that your health, body, and emotional struggles are simply EFFECTS of something going on ‘higher up’ in your brain and nervous system (SEE ALSO: That system of systems that dictates EVERYTHING!). And in this 4 part series, we are going to talk about a subject matter that baffles most women and causes more shame and sadness than any topic I’ve encountered:  The Truth About YOUR FAT (and what you can actually do about it)

HOST: Leanne Ellington // @leanneellington // StresslessEating.com

To learn more about re-wiring your brain to heal from the all-or-nothing diet mentality for good....but WITHOUT restricting yourself, punishing your body, (and definitely WITHOUT ever having to use words like macros, low-carb, or calorie burn) check out Leanne's FREE Stressless Eating Webinar @ www.StresslessEating.com 

Resources:

Learn From My Mistakes EPISODE

The Cost Of Skinny EPISODE

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Have you heard of Seven Primal Questions by Mike Foster? Amy's sister, Cristi, told her to get this book and take the quiz. Amy did and ended up with "Am I Wanted?" as her primal question (same as her sister!) Cristi highly recommends this book as part of a journey towards understanding yourself more and expressing yourself from a more authentic place.

Am I safe? 

Am I secure? 

Am I loved? 

Am I wanted? 

Am I successful? 

Am I good enough? 

Do I have purpose?

Amy's friend Jeremiah Carter joins her for this chat and they talk about the primal questions & so much more.

HOST: Amy Brown // RadioAmy.com // @RadioAmy

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