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    Explore "avoider" with insightful episodes like "Exploring the 5 Money Personalities. Which One Are You? | Episode 4", "S-3-#8 Showing Symptoms", "Ep. 55: Avoiders in Marriage", "#112 - How to Recognise Our Mental Negative Saboteurs. with Eva Gruber" and "33. Am I living in scarcity? Part 1 of 2" from podcasts like ""Pocket Change Podcast", "Fixed on Change: The Parenting Failure Expert Podcast", "Expedition Marriage with Chris & Jamie Bailey", "Love-Listen-Talk-Repeat Podcast with Wendy Capewell" and "Perfectly You Podcast"" and more!

    Episodes (9)

    Exploring the 5 Money Personalities. Which One Are You? | Episode 4

    Exploring the 5 Money Personalities. Which One Are You? | Episode 4

    Did you know there are five money personalities? When it comes to finances you can be a spender, saver, investor, debtor, or avoider. Although we may have tendencies of all, we closely relate to only one. Tune in to hear this episode as Community Engagement Specialist, Carrie Cantrell and co-hosts Shea and Mary Helen discuss the five money personalities and their correlating animals. Which animal are you? Learn more about your habits, to learn more about yourself.

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    S-3-#8 Showing Symptoms

    S-3-#8 Showing Symptoms

    Have you experienced trauma as a child or adult? Most of us have, just living in an imperfect world with imperfect people makes us susceptible to trauma in our lives. Did you know that unhealed trauma can disguise itself in maladaptive coping skills manifesting itself in how we parent. Unhealed trauma can show up as rage, anger, abuse, anxiety, depression, addiction….As parents and grandparents we want to begin to develop healthy coping skills that manifest in healthy parents who manage their emotions, as they provide the nurturing and support their family needs.

     

    Resources:

    Raising Mother By Ashley Kahn Podcast

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    “Raising Mother’s” Empowerment/Transformation Coach Ashley Kahn www.ashleykahn.co

     

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    Ep. 55: Avoiders in Marriage

    Ep. 55: Avoiders in Marriage

    Does your spouse constantly walk away or shut down communication with you? Do they struggle or rarely share how they feel, except for anger? Maybe you find yourself struggling to believe that they even care about you anymore. If any of this sounds like your spouse or if it sounds like you, today’s episode on avoiding in marriage is for you! Join us as we help navigate this all too common problem in marriage.

     

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    *Disclaimer: The information discussed in this podcast is not meant to replace counseling or working with a trained professional.

    #112 - How to Recognise Our Mental Negative Saboteurs. with Eva Gruber

    #112 - How to Recognise Our Mental Negative Saboteurs. with Eva Gruber

    INTRO

    Eva Gruber is a Habit Coach and Mental Fitness Advocate. She supports entrepreneurs, managers, and teams who “have too much on their plate” to improve their peak performance, wellbeing, and relationships through a mental fitness practice and good habits. She lives in Vienna/Austria with her French fiance, her yoga mat, and an adventurer’s mind.

    What this Episode is about

    Eva talks about our mental saboteurs, which we all have to some degree or another. They include -

    • Controller,
    • Judge
    • Procrastinator
    • Victim
    • Hyper achiever
    • Hyperrational
    • Pleaser
    • Avoider

    As you can imagine they can have a negative effect on our behaviours and beliefs. Eva talks in this episode about two of these. The Judge and Pleaser and how they can sabotage us. But as Eva explains we also have the Sage Powers who can help us combat those saboteurs. Listen in to learn more.

     

    Eva Gruber

    BIO

    Eva Gruber is a Habit Coach and Mental Fitness Advocate. She supports entrepreneurs, managers, and teams who “have too much on their plate” to improve their peak performance, wellbeing, and relationships. How?

    • By establishing a strong mental fitness practice (through discovering one's mental self-sabotage caused by mental saboteurs like the Hyper-Achiever, Controller, Pleaser, Avoider, etc.).
    • By creating supportive routines, stopping bad habits, and starting good ones.

    As only 1 out of 5 people use their mental potential and 6+ hours of one's day are based on mostly unconscious habits, this is a game-changer! By training 3 brain muscles and good habits, you

    • improve peak performance especially when stressed, angry, or insecure,
    • live healthier relationships with your team, clients, and family, and
    • feel happier.

    Eva Gruber founded 2 ventures and supported hundreds of challenged people. She is trained by and collaborates with leading researchers and experts, like Professor BJ Fogg PhD (Stanford University) or neuroscientist Shirzad Chamine (Positive Intelligence). She has been featured as a speaker at entrepreneurship or wellbeing events and podcasts, as a co-author of soon-to-be-launched books, and as an executive contributor for the top-magazine Brainz. She lives in Vienna/Austria with her French fiance, her yoga mat, and an adventurer’s mind.   

     

    CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS

    Webpage -   https://evagruber.org/ 

    Email - hi@evagruber.org

    Newsletter -  https://bit.ly/EmailListEvaGruber

    LinkedIn -  https://www.linkedin.com/in/habit-coach-eva-gruber/ 

    ‣ Instagram -  https://www.instagram.com/eva_gruber_habit_coach/

     

    ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL

    Wendy is a Psychotherapist, Coach, Public Speaker, and Author. She helps people who are stuck either in their personal, professional or relationships, get to the root of the problem which is holding them back, let go - and move forward into a happier more successful life. 

     Connect with Wendy Here......

    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Copewelltherapies

    Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendycapewell/

    Website - https://www.wendycapewell.co.uk/

    Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship’- Link to Amazon

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    33. Am I living in scarcity? Part 1 of 2

    33. Am I living in scarcity? Part 1 of 2

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    15. The real reason that we procrastinate

    15. The real reason that we procrastinate

    (2:34) The painful truth about waxing...stick with me, here. 

    (4:24) The most courageous moment in any woman's life. 

    (5:40) Why do we put things off? 

    (7:51) A little discomfort in the moment can be a good thing.

    (8:20) Procrastination really is ____________. 

    (10:46) How we fancy up our excuses with our labels. 

    (13:23) Why I was procrastinating...& what I realized.

    (13:53) The quote of all quotes? Why would anyone do something that hurts?

    (15:20) People who GROW, are NOT avoiders. 

    (15:49) Journal prompts:

    1. What are you procrastinating around?

    2. What are you actually avoiding?

    3. What's REALLY going on?

    (17:55) What would it look like for you to apply some pressure & pain for some long term gain?

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    12. Leaders are not avoiders

    12. Leaders are not avoiders

    What have you found yourself avoiding? You know that ONE thing that you absolutely will do anything to get out of? Yep...you know what I'm talking about!

    Journal prompt...what would it look like if you just leaned in?

    Head over to brookekanitz.com to dig in for more & first in line for your transformation in the next group coaching group in January of 2021 or check out the one-on-one coaching option to REALLY dig in!

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    (1:00) One of my fave flavors of resistance...
    (4:44) How I ended up in the dentist's chair.
    (7:33) How I handled a situation that has brought me fear.
    (11:48) What I used to do with my fave flavor...
    (14:59) What do I tell my clients to do about this...my best advice!
    (17:48) Journal prompt...what would it look like if you just leaned in?

    Are you ready to stop avoiding & start stepping into your greatness? You can do this by being Perfectly YOU!

    Attachment Theory & Relationships

    Attachment Theory & Relationships

    Attachment theory is important because it's going to help you to understand your own relationships. Information is power and recognizing yourself in one of these attachment styles could really improve your future. If your parenting was unpredictable in childhood you might develop into an anxious attacher or also called angry & ambivalent; a clutching to get what you want. If you were ignored early in life you become an avoider or distancer because they learned they have to depend on themselves. The best attachers are secure, and so they don’t react so impulsively. Interview with Annie Chen.

    Our Relationship with Money

    Our Relationship with Money

    Money is one of the biggest things people hate talking about - making it, managing it, and everything that comes in between. We know we need it and we know we should manage it well. Even as small business owners it’s hard to know what to charge yourself at, how to discuss money with clients, and even how we deal with money in general. We love talking about our purpose for our business but get totally anxious when discussing the actual finances of it. Today’s episode is for everyone who struggles with talking about finances and money. We are joined by financial and business consultant, Shanna Skidmore, as she shares everything we need to know when it comes to money and happiness.

    About Shanna

    Just a numbers girl living in a creative world. Shanna is here to help you make money doing what you love! As a Former Fortune 100 financial advisor turned business consultant for creative entrepreneurs, she’s on a mission to bridge the gap between the world of money and creative entrepreneurship so you can feel confident in your finances, clarity in your direction, and freedom to go on creating just as long as your heart desires!

    The Biggest Finance Advice to Small Business Owners

    Keep your business account separate. No matter how much you’re making, it’s important to keep everything in one place. Hire a bookkeeper. A bookkeeper is a person whose job is to keep records of the financial affairs of a business. By keeping a record, you’re able to see where your business is at all times so there is no guesswork.Track your time. When you track all your time on a certain project, you can start determining the value of everything you’re doing. You can then work backwards and learn what you need to price yourself or your services at. Shanna recommends using Toggl to track your time.

    The Four Money Mindsets

    These money personalities are how you feel about money to your core. Once you recognize your feelings with it, you can start making decisions and affects your actions based around that.

    • Spender - spending money makes them feel secure, gives lavish gifts, spend for approval or love, believe that more money is the solution to the problem

    • Saver - love security, they feel like no amount of money is enough money, they are afraid the money will go away, have a hard
      time of letting go, they need to learn it’s okay to spend money

    • Avoider - doesn’t “do” numbers, doesn’t want to know what the numbers actually are, they experience a lack of confidence, they’ll price lower, lack of interest

    • Martyr - believes the desire for money is evil so they give it all away, they sacrifice themselves, they give discounts, they have a hard time sticking to price, they don’t hold on money for themselves**

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