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Explore " living together" with insightful episodes like "Love Shack", "Forgiveness", "Ep.12: Cohabitation with Nell Cortez", "Be Yourself: Belonging" and "Compromise" from podcasts like ""The Beat Goes On: Dating After Divorce", "Hope Inspires Faith", "Kissing in a Tree", "Sundays with the Gathering - Palm Beach Gardens" and "The Ten Thousand Things"" and more!
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Forgiveness
The question is will God forgive me if I willfully sin even when I know it is wrong? Yes or no, what are your thoughts?
Ep.12: Cohabitation with Nell Cortez
Kelly sits down with guest Nell Cortez to explore her approach to living with her partner, which she calls living together apart. In this episode, they discuss the advantages of living in a duplex with separate-but-near living spaces. Join them for an engaging conversation that sheds light on the dynamics and considerations of maintaining individual living spaces while nurturing a close and committed relationship.
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Be Yourself: Belonging
Listen to Pastor Mike's message on being yourself, being known, and walking in community.
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The Sunday Morning Message from The Gathering Place of Palm Beach Gardens, August 27, 2023.
Compromise
We ask if we are willing to compromise to be in a long-term monogamous relationship?
Sam discusses how to, whether we need to and to what extent we need to compromise.
Ali shares how a lot of women have fallen in love with the idea of being single.
We acknowledge all relationships require compromise however can we compromise our values? Can your values be flexible or do we become stuck in our ways the longer we remain single?
We also discuss in distorted times do distorted dynamics come in to play, is finding a sugar daddy/mamma the answer to living under capitalism?
Joe thinks we would be better off dropping some the mental load, but it is that possible for women when the expectation is that women need to manage that?
- (00:00) - Theme
- (00:22) - Introduction
- (00:28) - Are we willing to compromise to be in a monogamous relationship?
- (01:37) - Compromise is unavoidable in life
- (02:38) - Values can't be traded away, but maybe stubborness and neurosis should be
- (03:55) - What about 'seeking arrangement' situations?
- (04:42) - The problem is really capitalism?
- (05:43) - A lot of couples used to have separate places
- (06:54) - I'm getting stuck in my ways
- (07:17) - I wanna be able to watch test cricket for seven hours
- (07:36) - Building a real structure, billionaires is just a distraction
- (08:56) - No time time left over from wage labor, to work on relationship challenges
- (11:30) - None of this is new?
- (11:48) - But the balance of domestic labor hasn't shifted that much
- (13:44) - You don't meet the ones who are domesticated cos they are too busy being marrie
- (15:00) - Whose job is it to read the school emails and deal with that?
- (18:12) - Couples work better when they play to their individual strengths, but don't assume women are better at organising things
- (19:10) - Maybe there is an outdated assumption about living together, kids aside
- (21:37) - Would I be happier if I couldn't be a slob?
- (22:38) - Another win for cat dads
- (24:01) - The ironing piles up
- (24:30) - Respect
- (25:58) - Why is it my job? I'm not actually good at cooking
- (27:40) - I release you from the need to give a fuck about that
- (28:16) - Carefully working through your expectations
- (31:30) - Compromises for fertility reasons
- (33:00) - "look at that c***, he never does the dishes"
- (33:43) - "Where's my compliments?"
- (34:16) - Why not give a compliment regularly?
- (36:01) - What are the benefits of a live in man?
- (38:08) - It just seems hard work to shack up
- (38:56) - From wildly scattered to structured
- (39:36) - Freedom is living by self-imposed rules
- (42:33) - Be protective of your peace
- (43:26) - Thinking about the kids when making partnering choices
- (46:48) - F*** it, I'll just go cat lady
- (47:36) - You're at peace with cat lady, but I don't want to be alone
- (50:03) - Men need this more than women, once we're on the second half of life
- (52:09) - The advantages of a cricket watching partner
- (53:09) - "This is unacceptable to me"
Creators & Guests
- Sam Ellis - Host
- Ali Catramados - Host
- Joe Loh - Host
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Toasted sandwhich recipes:
Ali's: Put mayo on the outside, cheese and kimchi in the middle, cook in the pan
Sam's: Butter and oil in the pan*, low-medium heat, heavy base if you have it
Cheese - a mix of whatever, slices of mozarella, swiss, colby, cheer, whatever
Tomato paste, toss on some dried italian herb mix, fresh tomato (mandatory cheese above and below)
*(can butter the outside of the bread and just put it straight on the pan)
Creating Your Relationship Constitution
Do you have words that make up the constitution of your relationship? Jodi and Dave share about their relationship journal and some key words that make up their constitution.
During the episode they also share that National Promise Day is 2-11-23. They decided to exchange promise rings and make special promises to each other as they are about to embark on the adventure of living together starting on 3/1/23. What promises have you made to your partner or will make to your partner in the future?
Cohabitation - Should we Move in Together?
This episode brings up a burning question that is asked by many couples. Should we test the waters before we marry and live together first? Should we move in together because we can't afford to live alone? In this episode, I cover several reasons why couples cohabitate and at the end, I offer some common sense solutions to each
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Petes!
Oh, for Pete's sake! With works by Peter Lucas, Kimberly Peterson and Peter Hornbostel.
Support the showTransitioning to Being Married and Living Together
In this weeks episode, we discuss the excitement and obstacles of getting married and living together. We do so by giving both of our perspectives of what we expected and what we did not expect and how we overcame some of the difficulties that came along. Remember to always build from the exciting and good stuff and you can conquer the obstacles together!
Together with God
243 Art with Shauna Kanter and the Art of Living Together with Marielena Ferrer
It's another conversation inspired by Spirituality and Politics with Marielena Ferrer. Today we are joined by Shauna Kanter for the beginning of the show to talk about her upcoming play "Art" which is running Oct. 13th-23rd in Bethany Hall at the Old Dutch Church in Kingston, NY. We discussed themes of the play which launched us into a lively conversation in the remainder of the show around conflict, conversations, gentrification, an artists role (or not) in gentrification and valuing art in our economy. It was a lively one which makes sense with yesterday's Full Moon in Aries. No time for a full moon report, but you can read yours here.
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DEBORAH & WARREN COMEDY SERIES DIFFERENT GENERATION
Heartwarming family comedy of a married senior couple trying to make it in today's modern technology environment doing the pandemic while working from home, overwhelmed by all the new technology surrounding them. It's humorous, funny, and hilarious. It's a podcast show for the whole family. Listen to the heartwarming senior married couple from a Different Generation. contact website dw-2films.com
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Wisdom is the quality of having experience, knowledge, and good judgment introduced in good humor.
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#219 Sacred Activism and Emergent Leadership with Marielena Ferrer
Back at it for another round of deep thoughts and wild talks with Mariaelena Ferrer.
The second Monday of the month is inspired by the book, Espiritualidad y Politica, which was published 11 years ago, of which Mariaelena was a contributor. She is also the Executive Director of Humanamente — a diversity and inclusion consulting organization, Chair of the Athena Network New York — a psychosocial support network in the area of social services, health, and specifically in mental health, for immigrants experiencing psychological challenges related to the migratory process, a board member of the Family of Woodstock, a member of the Arts Mid-Hudson Advisory Board, and Kingston’s City Arts Commission.
Today, we veer ever so slightly away from the book to discuss this article about bridging the divide between political groups. Then we return to the book to discuss the themes of sacred activism, emergent leadership and the shadow. We end the show with the upcoming Full Moon report on the intriguing Eris.
Join Marielena for her art opening, Broken Monarchs, at The Dorsky Museum on May 6th from 5-7pm.
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Is there a right time?
Welcome back to your favourite podcast, It's a Definite Maybe, with your lovely co-hosts Stella and Rosie!
On today’s episode we’re talking about moving in with a partner!
We'll cover whether there's a "right" time to move in together, whether you should live with housemates first, and what happens if you break up but you're already living together?
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#202 "Spirituality and Politics" with Marielena Ferrer
It’s the return of Marielena Ferrer and our monthly conversation inspired by Espiritualidad y Politica, which ponders ideas related to society’s relationship with money, cultural integration, sustainable development, and participation in public life. The overarching message is that it is possible and necessary to marry the art of living (spirituality) with the art of coexisting (politics) to achieve peace. We talk about the practical implications of this and other related topics. Today we discuss human nature and the spirit, energy and matter, and separateness and oneness.
Mariaelena is an artist and the Executive Director of Humanamente — a diversity and inclusion consulting organization.
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Opinions Are Not Doctrine - Romans 14:1-4
This may well be the most important chapter we can find that will help us in our daily relationships. How on earth are we supposed to socialize, gather, and live life with those who have different opinions than we do? Paul is dealing with a Roman church whose members have vastly different opinions regarding many topics, and this is causing them to treat each other poorly. Watch how Paul handles these issues and differences... It may shock you.
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Mediocre Minds Give Some Marriage Updates
We've been married for about 3 months now...do we want to kill each other yet?
#193 Marielena Ferrer "Politics and Spirituality and the Downsides of Empathy"
Welcome to another installment of our monthly excursion into Politics and Spirituality with Marielena Ferrer, a socially engaged visual artist and art educator. She serves on the Kingston Arts Commission and Diversity Equity and Inclusion Task Force. Ferrer studied architecture at Central University of Venezuela and later earned a certificate of distinction in “Leadership and Empowerment” from Spain’s Polytechnic University of Valencia and a diploma in “Gender Leadership” through the EQUAL Transnational Cooperation Community Initiative of the European Social Fund. In addition, she earned a University Expert Diploma in “Mental Health, Cultural Processes and Psychological Interventions With Immigrants, Minorities and the Socially Excluded” from the University of Barcelona. Ferrer is currently completing a BFA in sculpture from SUNY New Paltz makes art to “assist people in becoming aware of themselves and their environment as fully as possible.”
On the second Mo(o)nday of the month we get together to discuss subjects related to or inspired by the Art of Living and the Art of Living together, two themes from the book, Espiritualidad y Politica, which Marielena contributed to 10 years ago while living in Spain. This month we continue our conversation on what it means to be "in community" inspired by Marielena's recent O+ Festival participatory art exhibit. She also shares her perspective on Indigenous People's Day which interesting to me is celebrated in different ways and under different names in other countries around the world. We were inspired by this article about the downsides of empathy and finish up the show exploring some of it's main themes. We'd love to hear what you think!
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Polyamory Q&A: poly-mono, solo poly, couple rules, cohabitating
Panelists answer listener questions about polyamorous relationships: Living together during COVID (then not), solo poly dating, and rules vs. boundaries with partners.
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Support the showStop SHOULD-ing All Over Yourself
Without a doubt, the words we use influence our thoughts and feelings.
For example, the word SHOULD always seems to come with guilt or shame or judgment. But what if we challenged the SHOULDs in our life?
In this episode, we encourage you to stop SHOULD-ing all over yourself by helping you recognize when SHOULD is having a negative effect.
We also suggest a list of questions to ask yourself and others to limit the power of SHOULD in your thoughts and behaviors.
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