Are You Ready?
Are you Ready?
Matthew 22:11-12 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless.”
This was the Gospel reading from Mass yesterday. I was excited when I heard it because it was one that I had heard several times, and yet I did not understand it. Let me read you the whole parable so you can see why I was confused. The verse above is from the parable of the Wedding Banquet. It can be found in Matthew 22:1-14.
The Parable of the Wedding Banquet
Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying: “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come.
“Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’ “But they paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants, mistreated them, and killed them. The king was enraged. He sent his army to destroy those murderers and burned their city. “Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests. “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless. “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ “For many are invited, but few are chosen.”
The reason I am always confused when I hear this parable is because the servants were told to go out to the streets and gather all the people they could find. The people were not intending to go to a wedding banquet that day. They were from the streets. I did not understand why the king came out and was upset that someone wasn’t in a wedding garment. Why would he expect someone to have a wedding garment if they were living on the street? Then when the man didn’t have a reason for not being in a wedding garment, he was bound by hand and foot and thrown outside into the darkness, where there would be weeping and gnashing of teeth. That seemed a bit harsh to me. The king told his servants to go out and get anyone they could find and invite them to this wedding banquet. Then he gets mad that one of the many people he invited wasn’t wearing a wedding garment. Not only was he mad, but he also punished the man. That never made sense to me.
This is why, yesterday, when I heard the reading, I was hoping the priest would do his homily on this reading, and he did! Well, I still am not sure I understand this parable completely. I want to share what I did learn in case you are confused and think this is unfair as well.
First, the wedding banquet ultimately represents when we finally get to be with the Lord in heaven. Although, we get to have a banquet with the Lord each week when we participate in mass. The wedding garment in question is our soul. The king was upset because this man did not keep his soul clean and ready to attend the banquet. We don’t know when it will be our time to join the Lord. We need to stay ready so that when the time comes, we are ready.
This is a common theme in the Bible. There is another parable about keeping watch and not knowing when your master will arrive. The parable of the faithful servant can be found in Matthew 24: 42-51. Then there is the parable of the 10 virgins, which can be found in Matthew 25:1-13. All of these are telling us that we need to be ready. It is our job to make sure whenever the time comes that we are ready.
I was upset because it didn’t seem fair that the man was caught off guard. He was invited to a banquet unexpectedly and yet was in trouble for not wearing the correct clothes to it. However, now I see that it is our job to ensure we are prepared. I tell this to my kids all the time. For instance, the kids know they have a project due on Friday. They have all week to complete the project, and yet they wait until Thursday night to work on it. Then, on Thursday night, they start the project, but they don’t have enough time to finish it. Then they are upset that their teacher doesn’t give them more time. They did not understand that it was their responsibility to be ready to present on Friday.
If this concept is presented in at least three different parables, I think it is something we should pay attention to. What are we doing to make sure that we are ready to meet the Lord? Are we paying attention to the state of our soul? Are we making sure if we hurt our relationship with the Lord that, we are doing what we can to repair it? Are we going to confession regularly, or are we expecting that we will be able to go at the last hour?
If all of these parables have taught us anything, it is that it can be dangerous to expect we will have time to do it later. They have taught us that showing up unprepared is never a good idea. Do we want to end up like the man at the wedding banquet where we are thrown out into the cold darkness?
Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you to bless all those listening to this episode today. Lord, I ask that you help us not to take time for granted. Help us to appreciate every moment you have given us. Help us to be grateful for the time we have and not to put off the things we should do today. Lord, help us to be ready to meet you. If there is something in our way, help us to take care of it. We do not want to be kicked out of the wedding banquet. We do not want to miss out on meeting the bridegroom. We want to be ready, Lord. Please help us! We love you, Lord, and we ask all of this in accordance with your will and Jesus’ holy name, Amen!
Thank you so much for joining me on this journey to walk boldly with Jesus. I look forward to meeting you here again tomorrow. Remember, Jesus loves you, and so do I. Have a blessed day!