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Matthias J. Barker is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who, through his engaging content about mental health, has gained a significant following on TikTok and Instagram. As his reach has grown, Matthias has worked with other experts in the field of mental health to create workshops and meets with clients in his own practice.

During the episode, Matthias provides valuable insights into the potential connection between unwanted behaviors and our childhood experiences. He also shares practical tools that can help individuals overcome such behaviors, including identifying the root cause of avoidance, confiding in trusted individuals, and understanding that genuine healing is possible.

You can find Matthias on TikTok, Instagram, at @matthiasjbarker or at matthiasjbarker.com.

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Today we're talking all things strip clubs! What's good, bad, weird or otherwise? Then we go into one of the best things a man can do, to feel less lonely and understand women better - make friends with women! After dealing with a couple of GVizzle Sizzles, we close with our views on dating OnlyFans models. 

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Uldouz started her acting career and quickly began to grow a following from her modeling and acting work. As she was growing in popularity, she learned that intimate, nonconsensual images and videos of her were leaked in the 2014 iCloud hack that affected hundreds of women, including many celebrities. After the leak, Uldouz battled to have the videos removed from mainstream porn websites, including Pornhub. In this episode, Uldouz discusses how being a victim of image-based sexual abuse (IBSA) has affected her life, from being bullied by her peers to brands deciding not to work with her. Uldouz says she's been able to find healing in openly discussing her image-based sexual abuse and support to other victims.

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The denim crew is back to talk about piercings, mommy kinks, cheese duels, and manspreading. Byron gets pissed off in the middle of the episode for no reason, and throws a chair at Lauren. Recorded 4/8/2023.
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This week I am talking about why I chose to embrace possible failure instead of taking the known path. 
 We are so worried about being shamed, judged and made fun of that we often hold ourselves back from trying new things.  What if we took back our power and tried new things that weren't a guaranteed success...how many new things would we try and find out we love?  Or try and find out it isn't for us, but that's okay...because we at least tried it?
Waiting to do something because we hope for perfection holds us back from so many experiences in life.  A couple of years ago I decided that if something scared me and had a chance of failure or a less than perfect result, I was going to go for it and see what I learned.  From it I have discovered that I am resourceful, resilient and I love the feeling of accomplishing something that wasn't a foregone conclusion of success.

Things I referenced This Week:
A couple of the James Clear articles about Failure :
Why Aiming for Perfection Won’t Help You Achieve Your Goals (jamesclear.com)
Treat Failure Like a Scientist (jamesclear.com)

In this episode, I talk about my reaction to Pamela Anderson’s new documentary and how it relates to me and women all around the world. 

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We ask the big questions like What's your favourite carnival ride? And If a killer made something out of your body, what would you want it to be? 
We learn many ways to keep your family jewels strapped in tight & out of the brambles. The PNE, East Hastings, Reverse bungee jumping and scissoring all come up. Not that kind of scissoring! Birthday shoutout to JT's dad and we lay down the rule that you can celebrate as many days as your age. We get all wet talking about log rides, roller coasters and Puke shaming, Remember those Mr. T roach clips?  We talk about remote living, not judging a book by it's cover and really getting to know your firewood! We discuss hair & fashion trends and ask "Are mullets cool or ironic?" In TV Talk, we discuss White Lotus, Wednesday and Night Court and realize we should've paid more attention to Winnie The Pooh when we were kids.

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This episode I explore my thoughts about those of us considered to be on the margin of society.

I read from Edgar Allan Poe’s “The Fall of the House of Usher” to add the listener in comprehending the mental health of those who believe they themselves are condemned to suffer; to live a life on the margin because they are excluded from normal society as they are deemed by society as abnormal.

Being a drug addict and a victim of rape as a child this is how I feel.  I feel like I was marginalized when I became a victim of sex abuse by the teacher.  I give you my perspective and a little taste of my college education to explain further about political and social escapism: out of sight, out of mind.