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    199. The struggles of job hunting in our 20s

    enMay 28, 2024

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    • Navigating twentiesDuring twenties, prioritize self-care, embrace setbacks, manage finances effectively, support black-owned businesses, and prioritize physical health

      Navigating various aspects of life in your twenties can be challenging, and it's essential to prioritize self-care and maintain emotional well-being during these transitions. Whether it's job hunting, managing finances, or focusing on personal growth, it's crucial to remember that setbacks and rejections are a normal part of the process. During job hunting, the psychological impact can be significant, leading to feelings of aimlessness, self-doubt, and frustration. It's important to remember that unemployment and career setbacks do not define your worth or abilities. Instead, consider bridging jobs, focusing on the present, and staying open to new opportunities. Maintaining financial stability in your twenties can also be a challenge. Intuit is a financial platform that helps individuals and small businesses manage their money effectively. Additionally, supporting black-owned businesses is a powerful way to make a difference and expand your choices. Lastly, taking care of your physical health, such as protecting your teeth with Pronamel, is essential for overall well-being. By acknowledging the challenges and embracing the support systems available, you can navigate your twenties with confidence and resilience.

    • Emerging adulthood uncertaintyThe twenties decade is a time of uncertainty and growth, but with persistence, staying informed, and seeking support, individuals can navigate the challenges of finding a career and staying afloat in a competitive job market.

      The twenties decade is a time of flux and uncertainty, but it's also a period of growth and exploration. The transition from school to the workforce can be challenging and unpredictable, with changing goalposts and a lack of clear direction. This period, known as emerging adulthood, is the first chapter in a long life and career. It's important to remember that nothing is permanent during this decade, including jobs, bosses, and interviews. However, the misconception that we'll always feel lost and uncertain is not true. Instead, it's a societal problem with fewer entry-level jobs, increasing competition, and a rising cost of living. Companies are taking longer to hire and making applicants jump through more hoops, adding to the stress. So, it's essential to stay persistent, stay informed, and seek support during this transitional period. Remember, it's normal to feel uncertain, but it won't last forever.

    • Job hunting emotionsJob hunting can lead to overwhelming feelings of discouragement and uncertainty, but it's essential to remember that rejections are not personal and to practice self-care after each disappointment. Focus on things you can control and view every experience as a learning opportunity.

      Job hunting can be an emotionally and mentally challenging experience for people at all stages of their careers. It's important to remember that you're not alone in feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, and uncertain during this process. The effort required to build a resume, find job listings, and go through interviews can lead to feelings of resentment and pessimism when results aren't immediate. Rejection is a common experience, and it can lead to negative self-talk and a loss of confidence. It's crucial to remember that rejections are not personal and to practice self-care after each disappointment. Additionally, it's essential to understand that the job market is competitive, and it may take time to find the right opportunity. To counteract the emotional toll of job hunting, try focusing on the things you can control, such as preparing thoroughly for interviews and maintaining a positive attitude. Remember that every experience, even the difficult ones, can provide valuable learning opportunities.

    • Mustard Effect, Job Hunting EmotionsConsider the Mustard Effect in job hunting, recognize emotions like shame, envy, and lack of purpose, maintain positivity, stay focused on goals, and take breaks for joy.

      Job hunting can be a challenging and demotivating experience, but it's important to reward yourself for the effort rather than just focusing on the outcome. Dr. Gina Schneider suggests considering the "mustard effect," which reminds us that sometimes factors outside of our control can impact the hiring process. Additionally, it's essential to remember that not having a job can lead to feelings of shame, envy, and a lack of purpose. To cope with these emotions, try to maintain a positive attitude, stay focused on your goals, and take breaks to enjoy activities that bring you joy. Lastly, don't be too hard on yourself – the job market is competitive, and rejections are a natural part of the process.

    • Black-owned businesses, Self-careSupport Black-owned businesses for enjoyable hair removal experiences and self-care products all year round. Embrace the journey of finding your Ikigai and prioritize enamel repair and protection for teeth.

      Supporting Black-owned businesses is not only important during Black History Month but all year long. Our experiences with new products can shape our perceptions, and it's time to change the negative associations with hair removal creams. Nair's new formula eliminates harsh chemicals and introduces pleasant scents, making the experience enjoyable. In our twenties, it's essential to take care of ourselves, especially our teeth. Prenamel offers enamel repair and protection. Uncertainty is a part of our twenties, and the concept of a dream job may not be realistic. Instead, consider the Japanese concept of Ikigai, focusing on finding a reason for being and gaining experiences along the way. Remember, it's okay to not have it all figured out right now. Embrace the journey and the uncertainty. Try new things, support Black-owned businesses, and take care of yourself.

    • Job hunt in twentiesConsider what we enjoy, good at, and what the world needs. Experiment, seek support, treat job hunt as a job, and stay open to new experiences.

      Instead of focusing solely on finding a dream job or something that pays well, it's essential to consider what we genuinely enjoy doing, what we're good at, and what the world needs. Our twenties are a time for experimentation and discovery, and it's okay to take on roles that may not be our dream jobs but can provide valuable skills and experiences. It's important to remember that everyone's journey is unique, and comparing ourselves to others can be misleading. To manage the stress and practicality of job hunting in our twenties, we can find support by meeting up with others going through the same experience, be open about our job search, and remember that success often comes from overcoming challenges and setbacks. It's essential to treat the job hunt like a job, have a structure and goals, and seek out opportunities for growth and connection. Ultimately, the path to finding our ikigai, or sense of purpose, may not be a straight one, but each step we take brings us closer to our goal. It's essential to stay open to new experiences, be persistent, and trust that we will eventually find our way.

    • Personal growth actionsEvery small action, no matter imperfect, contributes to personal growth. Seek support, remember setbacks are normal, and celebrate diversity for new experiences.

      Every small action contributes to personal growth and development, even if it doesn't feel perfect at the moment. It's important to keep trying, stay encouraged, and remember that temporary setbacks are a normal part of the process. Additionally, seeking support from others and sharing resources can be helpful. And, taking care of one's health, such as dental hygiene, is essential for overall well-being. During challenging times, it's important to remember that there are opportunities for growth and that progress may not be linear. So, keep going, stay positive, and know that you're doing enough. Lastly, celebrating diversity and trying new things, like listening to podcasts, can lead to new discoveries and experiences.

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