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    205. A mental health update

    enJune 18, 2024

    Podcast Summary

    • Self-care solutionsExplore easy and effective self-care options like multivitamin gummies, hair removal creams, going paperless, and driving a hybrid car. Prioritize mental health and reduce stigma by sharing personal experiences.

      It's important to prioritize self-care and explore alternative solutions for daily struggles. The podcast host shared her personal experiences with using Nature's Way Alive women's multivitamin gummies and Nair's hair removal shower and body creams as examples of easy and effective self-care options. She also discussed the benefits of going paperless and driving a hybrid car for the environment. Furthermore, she opened up about her mental health journey and the importance of reducing stigma by sharing personal experiences. Overall, the discussion emphasized the significance of discovering what works best for individuals in their daily lives and promoting self-care, whether it be through health and wellness products or vulnerably sharing personal experiences.

    • Mental health rollercoasterRecognize signs of worsening mental health and seek help before reaching a crisis point, as mental health can be unpredictable and shift quickly between good and bad days.

      Mental health is a complex and often unpredictable experience. The speaker shares her personal journey with anxiety and depression, highlighting the unique challenge of feeling ashamed about not appearing depressed due to her ability to function well in life. She describes the mental health rollercoaster, where good and bad days can quickly shift, and the days in between can go by unnoticed. The speaker shares her experience of becoming detached from reality during particularly low periods, and how certain triggers can bring on existential fears and thoughts. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of worsening mental health and seeking help before reaching a crisis point. Despite the fear and disconnection, she encourages those who have experienced similar struggles to remember that they have the ability to pass back and forth between the realms of chaos and fear and present reality.

    • Gold medal syndromeFocusing too much on achieving a single goal can lead to feelings of emptiness and anxiety, it's important to find new projects or sources of focus to keep the mind engaged and prevent aimlessness.

      Focusing too much on achieving a single goal or project can lead to feelings of emptiness and anxiety about what comes next. This concept, known as gold medal syndrome, can be particularly prevalent for individuals who put a lot of pressure on themselves. Finishing a major project, like writing a book, can leave one feeling lost without a clear sense of purpose or direction. It's important to remember that life doesn't end when we achieve our goals, and finding satisfaction in what we've accomplished can be a challenge for those with high levels of anxiety. To avoid this, it's essential to find new projects or sources of focus to keep the mind engaged and prevent feelings of aimlessness. Additionally, taking care of one's physical and mental health is crucial during times of intense focus and stress. The new and improved hair removal products from Nair, with their pleasant scents and lack of harsh chemicals, can help make the process of hair removal more enjoyable and hassle-free.

    • Summer Hair Care & Mental HealthMaintain healthy hair and mental well-being during summer with Nutrafol's personalized hair growth supplements and Meaningful Beauty's effective skincare products. Antidepressants can support mental health, but consider potential side effects and eventual independence.

      Taking care of your hair and mental health is essential, especially during the summer season. Nutrafol, a dermatologist-recommended hair growth supplement, can help maintain healthy and thick locks. With multiple formulas tailored to individual needs, building a hair growth routine is simple and convenient. Meanwhile, Meaningful Beauty offers effective skincare products that provide visible results, allowing individuals to live their lives confidently. Cindy Crawford, the founder, emphasizes the importance of meaningful beauty, where each product serves a purpose. Regarding mental health, antidepressants can serve as a valuable security net for those learning new coping skills, but it's essential to research and consider the potential side effects and the possibility of eventual independence from medication.

    • Antidepressant withdrawalCareful planning, patience, and support are crucial when weaning off antidepressants, which can cause withdrawal symptoms like brain zaps, dizziness, and irritability. Seek professional help and have a strong support system to navigate the process.

      Going through a long-term experience like being on antidepressants for several years and then deciding to wean off them requires careful planning, patience, and support. The speaker shares how she was in a completely different place in her life when she started taking antidepressants compared to now, and how she has developed coping mechanisms and a stable support system. However, she also experienced symptoms of withdrawal, including brain zaps, dizziness, and irritability, which took a toll on her relationships and other areas of her life. The process of coming off antidepressants was challenging, but she felt ready and had the necessary tools to get through it. She emphasizes the importance of having a strong support system, including a loving partner and friends, and practicing self-care. The speaker's experience highlights the importance of seeking professional help when dealing with mental health issues and taking a gradual approach to weaning off medication.

    • Depression and Negative ExperiencesPeople with depression may focus more on negative experiences and perceive them as heavier, but maintaining a 'smile file' of positive experiences, reworking negative beliefs, and practicing constructive thoughts can help manage the impact of negative experiences. Cognitive behavioral therapy, exercise, and self-care practices can also be effective strategies for managing depression.

      People with depression may focus more on negative experiences and perceive them as heavier than those without depression. However, it's important to remember that the world doesn't treat people with depression unfairly. To counteract this, maintaining a "smile file" of positive experiences can help provide a grounding perspective. Additionally, reworking negative beliefs and learning to choose constructive thoughts can help manage the impact of negative experiences. Resentment towards relationships can also be a challenge, but it's important to remember that everyone deserves love and to focus on changing expectations rather than dwelling on negative emotions. Cognitive behavioral therapy, exercise, and self-care practices like reducing alcohol consumption can also be effective strategies for managing depression.

    • Alcohol and AnxietyAlcohol may temporarily relieve anxiety but leads to increased sadness and anxiety the next day. Prioritize self-care and intentional choices to manage anxiety effectively.

      Alcohol, despite providing temporary relief from anxiety and negative thoughts, ultimately leads to increased anxiety and sadness the next day due to its depressant effects on the brain. The speaker shares her personal experience of using alcohol as a crutch to cope with anxiety, but recognizes the importance of taking control of her mental health and making intentional choices about when and how she consumes alcohol. She emphasizes the significance of having agency in creating a good life and prioritizing self-care, whether that be through therapy, exercise, or avoiding alcohol when alone. The speaker encourages listeners to find healthy ways to manage anxiety and prioritize their mental health, emphasizing that even when things seem overwhelming, there is always the possibility for improvement.

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