3 Ways to Keep Attraction Alive

Podcast Summary

• Investing in each other keeps the attraction alive: Approach relationships with a growth mindset, continuously investing in each other and using powerful phrases to make men feel manly to keep the attraction alive

  In order to keep the excitement and attraction alive in a relationship, both partners need to continuously invest in each other and make the other feel valued and manly. According to relationship expert Matthew Hussey, men particularly want to feel manly around their partners. This can be achieved through simple phrases and actions that make them feel appreciated and desired. During a call-in question, a listener named Tori asked for advice on how to keep the attraction alive in her 10-month relationship. Tori acknowledged the importance of continuing the excitement and chase even after getting into a relationship. Matthew emphasized that the idea of being fixed in a relationship is an illusion and that both partners should always be looking to invest in each other. By remembering that the relationship is not set in stone and that either partner could leave at any time, one can approach the relationship with a growth mindset and a commitment to continuously showing their partner how great they are. This mindset can lead to a stronger and more fulfilling relationship. Matthew also suggested using powerful phrases to make men feel manly around you. These phrases include "You're so strong," "You're so capable," and "I need you." By using these phrases, you can help your partner feel valued and appreciated, leading to increased attraction and a deeper connection.

• Invest in personal growth for a strong relationship: Continuously learn new skills, stay passionate about life, and inspire each other to grow for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

  In order to maintain a healthy and attractive relationship, both partners need to continuously invest in personal growth and improvement. This can be achieved by learning new skills, staying passionate about life, and inspiring each other to be better versions of ourselves. By growing together, we bring out the best in each other and create a strong foundation for a lasting and fulfilling relationship. Remember, the goal is not to outgrow the relationship, but to bring more value to it. So keep growing, keep learning, and keep inspiring each other to be the best versions of ourselves.

• Maintain personal passions for attraction: Engaging in activities that boost confidence, control, and sexiness keeps attraction alive in a relationship. Neglecting passions and relying on partner for validation can lead to loss of attraction.

  Maintaining personal passions and self-sufficiency are crucial for keeping attraction alive in a relationship. When we engage in activities that make us feel confident, in control, and sexy, we radiate attractiveness and boost our partner's appreciation for us. Conversely, neglecting our passions and relying solely on our partner for validation can lead to a loss of attraction. So, keep pursuing the things that make you feel alive and independent, and your relationship will benefit from the confidence and allure that comes with it. Don't give up on your passions, hobbies, or personal growth, and remember that a healthy relationship is built on two independent and fulfilled individuals.

• Maintain individuality in a relationship: Balancing sacrifices and individuality, never underestimate the power of flirting and affection to strengthen a long-term relationship.

  While it's important to make sacrifices in a relationship, it's equally important to maintain your individuality and not lose sight of the things that make you great. Be wary of advice that may seem dismissive of your personal goals or hobbies, as it may come from a place of love and concern. Furthermore, never underestimate the power of flirting and keeping the spark alive in your relationship, no matter how long you've been together. By continuing to make each other feel desired and appreciated, you'll strengthen your connection and keep the romance alive. So, strive for a balance between making sacrifices for your partner and maintaining your own happiness, and never stop flirting or showing affection.

• Effective communication and thoughtful compliments build strong connections with men: Acknowledge men's strengths, accomplishments, or kindness instead of focusing solely on their appearance to make them feel valued and appreciated.

  Effective communication and thoughtful compliments can help build strong connections with men. It's important to strike a balance between making them feel valued and appreciated without coming across as patronizing. To achieve this, consider using carefully crafted phrases that make men feel seen and recognized for their best qualities. For instance, instead of focusing on their appearance, try acknowledging their strengths, accomplishments, or kindness. Phrases like "I admire your determination," "Your perspective is valuable," or "You make a difference in the world" can go a long way in making men feel good about themselves and appreciated around you. Remember, the goal is to make them feel seen and valued for who they are beyond their physical appearance. To download five such phrases, visit lovelifepodcast.com/forward/compliments.