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    #AskGaryVee 236 | Parenting for Self-esteem, Dealing with Confrontation & Moving to Florida

    enJanuary 03, 2017

    Podcast Summary

    • New Format of AskGaryVee Show: Live Q&A on Instagram and $20,170 ChallengeExplore untapped resources, like items in your home, to make money through buying and flipping. Be proactive and make the most of your time.

      Gary Vaynerchuk, in episode 236 of his AskGaryVee Show, discussed the new format of the show where listeners can call in with their questions during a live stream on Instagram. He also introduced the $20,170 challenge, encouraging people to make money by converting downtime into learning how to buy and flip items from dollar stores, thrift stores, and their own homes. A key message was that many people have untapped resources, such as unused items in their homes, that could be turned into profit. He also highlighted the importance of being proactive and making the most of one's time. The show was filled with Gary's signature energy and humor, making for an engaging listen.

    • Kentucky football talent shines through signing with VaynerSportsUnderstand personal strengths and weaknesses, even if contradictory, and learn to handle confrontation appropriately to maintain healthy relationships.

      While Kentucky may not be known for football, their talent still shines through as evidenced by the recent signing of John Toth with VaynerSports. Additionally, it's important to acknowledge and understand our personal strengths and weaknesses, even if they seem contradictory. In this case, being competitive and aggressive in professional settings, but disliking confrontation in personal life. It's crucial to recognize the value of confrontation and handle it appropriately, especially when it comes to important relationships. By setting clear boundaries and avoiding unnecessary conflicts, we can maintain healthy relationships and focus on what truly matters.

    • Understanding personal values and prioritizing what mattersSetting boundaries, being aggressive about important values, and allocating time and energy wisely can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships.

      Having a clear understanding of what matters to you and standing firm on those values can lead to personal growth and the evolution of relationships. The speaker shares his experience of setting boundaries and dealing with confrontation in a way that prioritizes positivity and emotional intelligence. He emphasizes the importance of being aggressive about the things that matter and indifferent to the things that don't. The college mentality of not taking life seriously can persist into adulthood, and it's essential to recognize and prioritize the things that truly matter in both personal and professional contexts. The speaker encourages continuous self-improvement and the realization that time and energy are valuable resources that should be allocated wisely. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of being intentional and focused on what truly matters in life.

    • Focus on what matters in business and lifePersistently put in effort, offer value, and be competitive with pricing to stand out in a crowded market.

      In business and in life, it's important to put in maximum effort and not let small things distract you from the bigger picture. Gary Vaynerchuk emphasizes that a significant amount of time is spent on things that don't matter in the grand scheme of things. He advises that when starting a business, it's essential to offer a better product or service, but also to be competitive with pricing. This balance can help attract customers who value both quality and affordability. Moreover, Gary emphasizes the importance of persistence and hustle. Entrepreneurship requires long hours and dedication. He encourages trying various strategies, such as cold calling, content creation, and networking, to reach potential customers. Lastly, he advises against making decisions based on what others might say no to and instead encourages trying everything and letting them decide what they like. In essence, the key takeaway is to put in the work, be persistent, and offer value to stand out in a competitive market.

    • Balancing kindness and challenges for self-confidenceAcknowledge kind actions, learn from mistakes, and instill empathy and resilience for self-confidence

      Building self-confidence requires a balance between acknowledging and celebrating kind actions, while also facing and learning from challenges. Gary Vaynerchuk shares how his mother's overreaction to his small acts of kindness instilled a strong sense of empathy and respect, while her lack of recognition for his failures taught him the importance of resilience. To apply this to raising children, it's essential to acknowledge and praise their kind actions, but also help them learn from their mistakes and failures, rather than shielding them from the natural consequences. This approach will help them develop a strong sense of self-confidence and resilience in the long run.

    • Focus on the Awesome in your childEmphasize children's strengths, create a positive home environment, respect alternative paths, and help kids understand the value of their unique talents to build self-esteem

      Parents should focus on their children's strengths rather than their weaknesses. According to the speaker, this approach can help children feel capable and unstoppable, leading to increased self-esteem and confidence. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of respecting alternative paths and making children understand the value of different approaches to life. Parents should not compare their children to others or listen too much to external opinions, but instead, get to know their kids and help them flourish in their unique areas of strength. This approach can lead to a positive and supportive home environment where children feel valued and encouraged to be their best selves. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of respecting alternative paths and making children understand why they exist. This approach can help children develop a well-rounded perspective and prepare them for the diverse world they will encounter in the future. Overall, the key takeaway is to focus on the Awesome in our children and help them build self-esteem based on their unique strengths and talents.

    • Exploring new opportunities during challenging seasonsConsider expanding your business to new locations during slow seasons, it's easier than ever with platforms like Airbnb and Craigslist, and can lead to growth by building a brand in a new place.

      Entrepreneurship requires thinking beyond the present and exploring new opportunities, even during challenging seasons. Gary Vaynerchuk, in his conversation with Roberto, encouraged him to consider expanding his detailing business to other locations during the winter months instead of just thinking about quitting or finding other ventures. He emphasized the ease of relocating in the current era with platforms like Airbnb and Craigslist, and the potential for growth by building a brand in a new place. The call-in format of Gary's show allowed for a deeper conversation, providing valuable insights and alternatives that might not have been considered otherwise. Entrepreneurs, especially those experiencing seasonal slowdowns, can benefit from this advice by considering their skills, passions, and options, and not being afraid to explore new opportunities.

    • Considering the potential of earning income through short-term rentalsWeigh options, make a decision, and take actionable steps towards financial freedom, don't let fear or hesitation hold you back.

      Considering the potential of earning income through short-term rentals using platforms like Airbnb, it could be a financially beneficial opportunity for individuals to live in a more cost-effective location while continuing their work. Many people may be hesitant due to various reasons, but taking action and making a decision could lead to significant progress. The speaker encourages listeners to weigh their options and make a binary decision, instead of overthinking and procrastinating. By doing so, one could potentially save costs and focus on growing their business or craft in a warmer climate. Ultimately, the key takeaway is to take actionable steps towards financial freedom and not let fear or hesitation hold you back.

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