Podcast Summary
Being honest, even if it means being perceived as a jerk: Communicating honestly and assertively, even if uncomfortable, prevents bigger issues from arising
It's important to express ourselves honestly, even if it means being perceived as a "jerk" in the moment. This lesson was shared by Kate Cochran from her experience with a colleague, Lucy. Kate was under pressure and expressed her concerns in a way that came across as rude, despite not intending it to be. After apologizing, Lucy wisely advised Kate that sometimes, being assertive and direct, even if it's uncomfortable, is necessary to prevent bigger issues from arising. It's essential to remember that our intentions matter, but effective communication also requires being clear and direct, even if it means momentarily being perceived as a "jerk." This valuable lesson from 2023 serves as a reminder to communicate honestly and assertively while being mindful of the impact of our words.
Embracing vulnerability for growth: Embracing vulnerability can lead to growth and positivity despite feelings of shame or being a 'jerk'. Resources like Patreon can help make January a positive month.
Sometimes taking a bold stand or making a difficult decision can leave us feeling vulnerable and even shameful, but it's important to remember that these moments are often necessary for growth and positivity. It's okay to feel like a "jerk" in these instances, but ultimately, we're making choices that help us be better versions of ourselves. January is a great time to focus on everyday positivity, and there are resources available, such as joining the Patreon community for free, to help make this month the most positive one yet. And remember, even in moments of struggle, there are valuable lessons to be learned and people to support us through them. Keep an ear out for more everyday positivity lessons, and always remember, you have 100% got this.
