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    • The Power of an ApologyA sincere apology can help resolve conflicts and bring peace in chaotic situations. Everyone makes mistakes, and it's how we handle them that truly matters.

      Apologies go a long way in diffusing chaotic situations. The story shared by Kate Cocker on Volley FM illustrates this beautifully. A man's drink was spilled by a child on a plane, leading to a heated reaction from the man. The child's mother quickly apologized, and the man, after a moment of embarrassment, accepted her apology and moved on. This incident serves as a reminder that mistakes happen, and life can get chaotic. However, the power of a sincere apology can help resolve conflicts and bring peace to a situation. So, the next time you find yourself in a chaotic or uncomfortable situation, consider apologizing and moving forward. It's not always easy, but it's worth it. Remember, everyone makes mistakes, and it's how we handle them that truly matters. So, be the person who holds it together in the chaos and extends a heartfelt apology when needed. It's a simple act that can make a big difference. And, as Kate Cocker would say, "You've got this."

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    The Feeding of the Five Thousand, Mark 6:34-44: a story of the multiplication of loaves of bread. See: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/mark/6.

     

     

    Comunidades de Base: Base Christian communities: See:

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    Show notes can be found at: 
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