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    Coping with Dropping Balls

    en-gbOctober 22, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • Unexpected mishaps during planned eventsMistakes are a natural part of life, learn from them and move forward with grace and humor.

      Life can be unpredictable and messy, even during planned events. I learned this lesson the hard way during a business trip where I was supposed to attend a spa day with clients. I was all set to wear a full bathing costume, but upon arriving at the hotel, I discovered I had only packed swimming shorts. I was mortified and embarrassed, feeling like I had let myself and my clients down. I even had a moment of self-doubt and tears. However, in that moment of vulnerability, I was able to share my mistake with a friend and we both had a good laugh about it. It served as a reminder that mistakes happen, and it's important to not let them define us or hold us back. Instead, we should learn from them and move forward with grace and humor. So, next time you find yourself in a similar situation, remember that it's okay to be human and that life's messiness is all part of the journey.

    • Embrace setbacks and learn from themLife presents challenges, but adopting a positive mindset and learning from mistakes can help us move forward and enjoy life

      Life will inevitably present us with challenges and setbacks, but it's essential to remember that we are only human and that it's okay to make mistakes. As shared in the story, even the speaker herself experienced a mishap during a spa day, but instead of dwelling on it, she chose to find the humor in the situation and move forward. This perspective not only helped her feel better but also allowed her to enjoy the rest of her day. So, the next time you encounter a setback, try to adopt a similar mindset and remember that it's all part of the messy journey called life. Embrace it, learn from it, and keep going. And, as a bonus tip, if you ever find yourself in a similar situation as the speaker, consider investing in a sports crop top for your spa day!

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